Body language experts decode Donald and Melania Trump’s bizarre behavior

Body language experts decode Donald and Melania Trump’s bizarre behavior

Six days ago, many people’s worst nightmare came true. Donald Trump was sworn in as the 45th President of the United States of America. As that terrifying fact starts to sink in, the analysis can begin.

Susan Constantine is a communication and body language expert who has trained U.S. government departments and top lawyers. She recently spoke with Mic about her observations of Donald and Melania Trump at last week’s inauguration, and what their body language says about the couple.

“If you didn’t know that they were married, you wouldn’t know that they are married,” Constantine says. “I don’t see any warmth or true love and compassion in that relationship whatsoever.”

It’s Constantine’s professional opinion, based on close observations of last week’s inauguration festivities, that Melania is more of “an object” to her husband than a wife or even a human being.

Related: This candid nine second video will actually make your heart break for Melania Trump

Patti Wood, a body language expert and professional speaker, agrees.

Speaking specifically about the moment when the Trumps were greeted by the Obamas at the White House entrance, Wood says, “Not only did he not wait, he went up the stairs and greeted the Obamas. He didn’t even look back to see if she was there or help her up the stairs.”

“He does not, as she comes to his side, hold her, greet her, bring her in close,” she elaborates. “He does a quick glance as if she was anybody and he doesn’t touch her.”

And then there was that super awkward inaugural dance.

Wood points out that Melania leaned away from Donald throughout most of the dance. “That typically says, ‘I don’t want to merge with you as a partner,’” she explains, adding that as the couple uncomfortably rocked back and forth, the First Lady held her fingers out straight, which can be a subtle indicator of a lack of affection. Meanwhile, Donald kept “pulling her in sexually,” touching her pelvis to his.

So what does this all mean exactly?

In a nutshell, Wood says that Donald Trump’s body language rarely changes, regardless of the situation, which, while disturbing, “can also read as authenticity,” she says. “He’s the same wherever he is, in whatever situation he’s in.”

Gotcha. So basically, he’s never not an asshole. And as for Melania, she remains a bit of a mystery.

Related: Trapped in a gilded cage: Does Melania Trump deserve our sympathy?

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Elton John and Paul Rudnick are Adapting ‘The Devil Wears Prada’ as a Broadway Musical

Elton John and Paul Rudnick are Adapting ‘The Devil Wears Prada’ as a Broadway Musical

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The Devil Wears Prada is coming to Broadway, and Elton John and Paul Rudnick are writing the musical adaptation, Deadline reports:

“To bring The Devil Wears Prada to the stage, we knew we needed to find artists as inimitable as the characters in the story,” Bob Cohen of Fox Stage Productions and McCollum said a joint statement. “We needed artists whose work has run the gamut from music and publishing to drama and fashion. We could think of only two names: Elton John and Paul Rudnick. That’s all!”

Composer-lyricist Rudnick’s myriad credits include Broadway’s I Hate Hamlet and such other stage fare as Jeffrey and The New Century, along with the the screenplays for In & Out and Addams Family Values. He also has authored novels and written for The New Yorker, Vanity Fair, Vogue and other magazines.

Kevin McCollum, Fox Stage Productions and John’s Rocket Entertainment are producing.

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These haiku about Grindr hookups will make you laugh… and make you think

These haiku about Grindr hookups will make you laugh… and make you think

Need a distraction from the doom and gloom of our current political landscape? We’ve got just the thing. @grindrhaiku is a new Instagram account dedicated to recording unsatisfying late night encounters with strangers through poetry. Or, as the page describes itself, “hookups in 17 syllables.”

Related: “Haikus on Hotties” 2017 calendar melds poetry with handsome Asian-Americans

In an interview with Buzzfeed, the author, who prefers to remain anonymous, explains how he came up with the idea: “I realized that often my text messages to friends about Grindr hookups took on the form of poetry. These days it’s important to convey your message in a very descriptive way that is also short and to the point. A haiku.”

Related: Here’s Frank Ocean’s Touching ‘Boyfriend’ Poem

The poems range from funny to sad to, yes, even profound. And each one includes a little illustration to go with it.

Read @grindrhaiku‘s work below…

 

He’s got clothes all on the floor; a real cute mess. I won’t stay past morning.

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You were never mine. He had broken you so bad. And you loved him still.

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Tattoo up his sleeve, secrets and lies too. He’s not who he seems to be.

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That boy is a witch. Casts spells and does tricks. Lifts you, leaves you feeling worse.

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The butt is bubble. The abs are six. The brain is nowhere to be found.

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We use poppers to lose our minds because we aren’t that into it. Us.

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Feeling blue today. You and I were one just once. Ships passing at night.

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He is in New York. I am in Los Angeles. This will never work.

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His crack is full of sand. Sex on the beach isn’t easy. But he is.

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We drank sweet white wine, watched Madonna movies, and cuddled ’til morning.

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Wearing jock straps for recreation in bed does not make you a jock.

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Mexican President Enrique Peña Nieto Cancels Meeting with Donald Trump

Mexican President Enrique Peña Nieto Cancels Meeting with Donald Trump

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Mexican President Enrique Peña Nieto has canceled a meeting with Donald Trump following Trump’s executive order to start planning the construction of a border wall.

Tweeted Nieto:

“This morning we informed the White House we would not be attending a meeting scheduled for next Tuesday with the President of the United States. Mexico reiterates its willingness to work with the United States to reach agreements on behalf of both nations.”

Esta mañana hemos informado a la Casa Blanca que no asistiré a la reunión de trabajo programada para el próximo martes con el @POTUS.

— Enrique Peña Nieto (@EPN) January 26, 2017

México reitera su voluntad de trabajar con los Estados Unidos para lograr acuerdos en favor de ambas naciones.

— Enrique Peña Nieto (@EPN) January 26, 2017

Nieto had said yesterday that Mexicans will not pay for the wall but he might still make the trip.

Anderson Cooper spoke last night with former Mexican President Vicente Fox, who again repeated his assertions that Mexicans “will not pay for that f**king wall.”

He added: “Trump is a different thing. He doesn’t seem to be an American. He is a false prophet who is taking that nation into the desert.”

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Trump Supreme Court Prospects Put LGBTQ Americans in Jeopardy

Trump Supreme Court Prospects Put LGBTQ Americans in Jeopardy

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In just one week, LGBTQ Americans have seen the new Trump administration hire the top defender for North Carolina’s HB2 to head up the Civil Rights Division of the Department of Justice. All references and issues important to the LGBTQ community have been left off key Trump Administration websites, including the White House and Department of Education. Finally, President Trump’s top spokesperson said, “he didn’t know” if the president would issue executive orders to peel back important rights for LGBTQ Americans.

But wait, there’s more to come. President Donald Trump has said that next Thursday he will make his U.S. Supreme Court nomination announcement. This is the same Supreme Court vacancy anti-LGBTQ Congressional leaders declined to fill during the last year of President Obama’s presidency.

President Trump has already hinted at which judges made the final cut and his apparent finalists are a clear and present danger to the LGBTQ community. These men either have a history of advocating for anti-LGBTQ rhetoric or supporting candidates that are in favor of open discrimination against people and families who simply want to be treated the same as everyone else.

From William Pryor’s unwillingness to be around LGBTQ families on a Disney vacation to Neil Gorsuch’s opinion that judges should always “focus backward” when issuing their opinions, each potential nominee would be poised to adhere to the anti-LGBTQ rhetoric and record quickly becoming a hallmark of this Trump Administration.

GLAAD’s Trump Accountability Project is tracking the records of the likely nominees to ensure journalists and newsmakers have the tools they need to report the truth. Here’s what we know.
 

Neil Gorsuch – Judge of the United States Court of Appeals for the Tenth Circuit

  • Has argued that certain minority civil rights issues, like marriage equality, should be settled through elections or legislatures, not the courts.
  • In lower court decisions in the famous Hobby Lobby and Little Sisters of the Poor cases, Gorsuch signaled willingness to allow religious employers to use their personal beliefs to sidestep federal law.
  • SCOTUSBlog describes him as “an ardent defender of religious liberties and pluralistic accommodations for religious adherents” and “a natural successor to Scalia in adopting a pro-religion conception of the establishment clause.”
  • As Columbia student in mid ’80s, defended keeping military recruiters on campus despite the military’s discriminatory stance on LGBTQ soldiers.
     

Thomas Hardiman – Judge of the United States Court of Appeals for the Third Circuit

William Pryor – Judge of the United States Court of Appeals for the Eleventh Circuit

  • Filed an amicus brief urging the US Supreme Court to uphold the criminalization of consensual gay sex. In the brief, which he filed in his capacity as Attorney General of Texas, he and fellows argued that a ruling decriminalizing gay sex “must logically extend to activities like prostitution, adultery, necrophilia, bestiality, possession of child pornography, and even incest and pedophilia.”
  • Reportedly decried Romer v. Evans, a holding which merely allowed LGBTQ individuals to seek protection from discrimination, as establishing “new rules for political correctness.”
  • Cast a deciding vote against reviewing Florida’s discriminatory adoption statute.
  • Admitted his family rescheduled a trip to Disney World because the original plans coincided with Gay Days at the park, calling it a “value judgement.”

We are working to protect LGBTQ Americans from discrimination and hate. You can get involved by taking a moment to sign up for the official GLAAD Rapid Response team. We need your eyes and ears on the ground to help us keep our progress toward full equality and acceptance marching forward in these difficult times.

 

January 26, 2017
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One-Man Show is a 2017 Stonewall Honor Book!

One-Man Show is a 2017 Stonewall Honor Book!

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One-Man Show is a 2017 Stonewall Honor Book!

I am so very honored and thrilled to announce that ONE-MAN SHOW: THE LIFE AND ART OF BERNARD PERLIN (amzn.to/1SGirqd) has been named a 2017 Stonewall Honor Book by the American Library Association!

Bernard Perlin was an extraordinary figure in 20th Century American art and gay cultural history, an acclaimed artist and sexual renegade who reveled in pushing social, political, and artistic boundaries.

In ONE-MAN SHOW, Michael Schreiber chronicles the storied life, illustrious friends and lovers, and astounding adventures of Bernard Perlin through no-holds-barred interviews with the artist, candid excerpts from Perlin’s unpublished memoirs, never-before-seen photos, and an extensive selection of Bernard Perlin’s incredible public and private art.

Published by Bruno Gmünder Verlag

Additional information about the extraordinary life and career of Bernard Perlin can be found at:
www.BernardPerlin.com

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Ads featuring men in heels and women kissing received the most complaints in 2016

Ads featuring men in heels and women kissing received the most complaints in 2016

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The Advertising Standards Authority (ASA), the UK’s independent regulator of advertising, is out with their list of 2016’s most complained about ads and the top ten is comprised of only commercials which upset due to causing offense and not over making false claims.

Some of those ads received complaints of a homophobic variety. None of the ads with the most complaints against them were banned.

Related: One Million Moms’ latest antigay boycott backfires, resulting in charity receiving 300% increase in donations

MoneySuperMarket.com landed on the list not once, not twice, but three times, with their series of ads featuring men having a seductive dance-off, including a man in heels and tight shorts.

An ad for Match.com landed in the top ten for including a female couple, who are shown kissing. It received over 800 complaints.

“Deciding whether an ad should be banned for causing offense is a judgement call and decision-making in this area inevitably involves a degree of subjectivity,” the ASA said in a statement. “That’s why, when making our decisions, we take into account the audience that is likely to see the ad, the context in which the ad appears, the product it is promoting and prevailing standards in society. To help judge prevailing standards in society, we commission consumer research to find out what concerns people and where they think the line should be drawn on matters of offense.”

Related: Blink and you’ll miss the gay couple featured in new iPhone 7 commercial

ASA Chief Executive Guy Parker explained further:

The ads that attract the highest number of complaints are often not the ones that need banning.  Our action leads to thousands of ads being amended or withdrawn each year, mostly for being misleading, but there wasn’t one misleading ad in the Top 10.

In the list there are a number of ads, which while advertising their product or service, have also sought to present a positive statement about diversity but were in fact seen by some as doing the opposite.  In all those cases, we thought people generally would see the ads in a positive light and that the boundary between bad taste and serious or widespread offense had been navigated well enough, often through using sensible scheduling restrictions.

Advertising that pushes the boundaries invariably lands better with some people than others.  But last year we thought the ads that attracted the largest number of complaints fell the right side of the line.

Parker also published a follow-up opinion piece on Monday, where he made much the same argument. In that piece, he added:

Last year, a number of the ads that made the Top 10 most complained about ads contained diversity and inclusion related elements. From burly men twerking in denim shorts and heels, to two women kissing, to members of the England Blind Football team allowing themselves to be the butt of a joke, to a wheelchair-using woman alluding to her active sex life.

Whilst many people saw those elements as presenting some positive messages about diversity, for example by helping to normalize characteristics, attitudes and sexual orientations that aren’t the most prevalent in our society, some others saw them as doing precisely the opposite.  For example, we received complaints that one of the Moneysupermarket ads was homophobic and could encourage hate crimes.

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Lily Allen Covers Rufus Wainwright for Anti-Trump Anthem, Gets Caught Up in ‘Fags’ Controversy

Lily Allen Covers Rufus Wainwright for Anti-Trump Anthem, Gets Caught Up in ‘Fags’ Controversy

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Lily Allen covered Rufus Wainwright’s track “Going to a Town” which has been released as an anti-Trump protest and features a video with images of the Women’s March on Washington.

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Allen also got caught up in a Twitter storm after retweeting a collage from the video created by Gay Times magazine that contained an image of her with one of the crowd signs that read “Fags Hate Trump”.

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Allen repeated the sign’s assertion in her tweet which angered some people on Twitter, though a prominent British gay activist came to her defense:

The tweet provoked angry responses from some Twitter users, outraged she would use a word which has historically been used to denigrate gay people.

However leading gay rights activist Peter Tatchell leapt to Lily’s defence, arguing that the use of the term on the placard, which Lily echoed, was an example of it being reclaimed by gay people as an act of defiance.

“The fuss over placard “Fags Hate Trump” is well-intentioned but misguided,” he wrote. “”Fags” is not used with insulting intent. Placard is held by gay person who’s using the word fags in a positive, affirming way, as gesture of pride & defiance. The way fags was used was not derogatory but proud and defiant.”

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