The Politics of LGBTQ People: Should We Embrace Caitlyn Jenner Despite Class Differences?

The Politics of LGBTQ People: Should We Embrace Caitlyn Jenner Despite Class Differences?
Should LGBTQ people automatically get along with each other because they are designated as a minority group that has endured decades of oppression and stigmatization? It was exactly a year ago that I decided to pen an article exploring the LGBTQ acronym and why we remain divided when that will only lead to failures in achieving civil rights. And what do you know, last week a preponderance of negativity arose out of Caitlyn Jenner’s posing for Vanity Fair magazine since her conservative politics are disconnected with the presumed LGBTQ’s population’s liberal politics. But let’s delve a little deeper into the situation because what is dividing us aside from various values and ends is class differences. I said it, it is a fight over class, and let me explain how.

Caitlyn Jenner is a white, able-bodied, wealthy celebrity, former athlete, who has decided at the ripe age of 65 to transition from a male to female. According to the comments that have circulated in social media since earlier last week, Caitlyn was formerly embraced by the LGBTQ population for taking this huge step in her life — but when LGBTQ people shed light on the real Caitlyn regarding her conservative politics, we all changed our opinions to abandon her without reservation. Should we ignore her now that we understand what her predominate political views are, or should we give her a chance to see if those views will change over time as a transgendered person? Of course, we should not forget that Caitlyn has a planned show to air soon, so we have to remember what possibly underlies the agenda here: likely, making money!

Turning the conversation back to class, LGBTQ organizations have only hired leaders who are invested in white, privileged, able-bodied, patriarchal politics. Boards of these organizations are privileged and do not have an interest in those in the lower and middle classes who likely have intersecting minority identities. We have witnessed this struggle since the beginning of the LGBTQ movements, in HIV/AIDS activism, among other social movements that have occurred in American history.

I am a working-class man who came from poverty: thinking about class differences will always be part and parcel with anything I do in life. As such, I have felt, noticed, and experienced firsthand accounts of privileged, white, gay men who are oblivious and disinterested in the values of marginalized groups within the LGBTQ population. When I made attempts to discuss why this ignorance occurs, I have been objectified and silenced. The bigger question is why does class not enter the dialogue when so many of us are not privileged? It has been written about extensively that class is an invisible force within our capitalist economy where the hypothesis is the individual can dictate and control the outcomes through their autonomy and self-determination. This is conservative bullshit politics to keep the disempowered enslaved, reinforcing the myth of making ends meet in a deregulated economy that only privileges the one percent. And with this trend of lasting deregulation is the consequence of the 99 percent being in huge debt and barely surviving.

So, what happens to the multiply marginalized LGBTQ people if they cannot fight for their values to be part of the LGBTQ agenda? Common sense would tell you that their voices go unrecognized and the privileged LGBTQ class continues to dictate the how, what, who, why, when, where. Caitlyn Jenner, although a role model in demonstrating self-acceptance, has used all of her one percent status to get surgery, in order to boost her ego and public image. Tell me who has 100 million dollars net worth like Jenner to transition successfully, when I have met personally a number of poor, working and middle-class transgendered people who have endured psychological turmoil before, during, and after the transition process. The transition has taken years, mainly unsuccessful, some even remain with original plumbing, some with scars from bad cosmetic surgery, and some feeling regret from not having the backing of family, friends, and a career to support them. Can we compare the lives of the former and latter? Once again, class is the divide here.

Let’s remember the class politics with Ian Reisner and Mati Weiderpass, both wealthy, Jewish, gay men, who own a number of gay venues and properties and deny that they provided presidential campaign funds for conservative Ted Cruz after, including hosting a party at the hotel they own, The Out Hotel. I am not looking to attack them for their contributions even if I contentiously disagree with them for supporting Cruz, but class is the dividing difference here where the values and allegiance of rich, wealthy LGBTQ are with corporation, for-profit, and deregulated environments. Sexuality in this occurrence obviously sits much further down on the hierarchy of needs (maybe does not make it on the list?) and earning more money despite being millionaires is the top priority.

My recommendation, I reiterate as in the past, is for the 99 percent of LGBTQ population to forget settling our differences with the 1 percent; instead, we are the majority voice and need to exercise that right regularly. Our voices, stories, identities, beliefs, and values deserve the front page of news articles, in social media, in interviews, in books — everywhere! I am not asking for revolution to effect change, but for the acknowledgement that class plays a significant role within LGBTQ politics. And with this acknowledgement will develop a public consciousness in the LGBTQ population on how to level the playing field.

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Amy Schumer Photobombs Gay Couple’s Engagement Photos In Central Park

Amy Schumer Photobombs Gay Couple’s Engagement Photos In Central Park

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Joseph Turnage and Brandon Moore were in the midst of creating the perfect Central Park engagement photos with photographer Alisha Siegel when a voice pierced the serene moment.

“Oh my God! Are you taking engagement photos? Let me get in one!” a woman yelled.

Normally this is where we’d think “damn it New York City, way to ruin the moment,” but then the crazy lady came closer and turned out to be the good kind of crazy lady — the Amy Schumer variety.

“I thought it was a little weird, but I said yes anyways,” Siegel told People. “She took off her sunglasses, we snapped a quick pic, and right after, she says, ‘You guys know I’m like reeeeeeal famous.’ I take another look it hit me that it was Amy Schumer!”

“My face went totally blank and I said, ‘Oh my god! Amy! I love you!’ Needless to say I was pretty excited,” says Siegel, 25.

Is Amy Schumer on track to achieve Bill Murry-style awesomeness? She took a move right out of his playbook:

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Dan Tracer

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Arkansas County Judge: State Must Recognize Over 500 Same-Sex Marriages Performed Last Year

Arkansas County Judge: State Must Recognize Over 500 Same-Sex Marriages Performed Last Year

An Arkansas county judge ruled Tuesday that the state must recognize over 500 same-sex marriages that took place last year after another judge struck down the state’s ban on same-sex marriage. This latest ruling will allow those couples to have access to benefits they’ve previously been denied while the state Supreme Court reviews the lower court’s decision.

The AP reports:

Wendell_Griffen_March_3__2010_filing_photoPulaski County Circuit Judge Wendell Griffen validated marriage licenses that were issued to same-sex couples after another judge struck down the state’s gay marriage ban. The state Supreme Court halted the distribution of marriage licenses to gay couples after a week in May 2014 and is considering the appeal over a voter-approved same-sex marriage ban.

Some of the same-sex couples who married in Arkansas last year filed a lawsuit in February alleging that the state was violating their rights by not recognizing the unions. Griffen’s ruling means the couples can file taxes jointly, appear jointly on a child’s birth certificate, enroll together on state health insurance plans and even file for divorce.

Griffen was among a number of people who presided over same-sex marriage ceremonies in May 2014.

Freedom to Marry congratulated the 500 plus Arkansas couples who are now “getting the respect they deserve” and further “urge[d] the United States Supreme Court to ensure that all loving, committed couples are also afforded this right.” The Supreme Court is expected to decide by the end of the month whether a constitutional right to marriage exists. 


Sean Mandell

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Finding Love After 40

Finding Love After 40
I had given up on love. That’s a cliche and sad thing to say, but I mean it in the least sad (and most cliche) way possible. Rather than end-of-my-rope heartbreak, It simply felt like peaceful acceptance. Now that “daddy” is a common sexually desired type, I was content to spend the remainder of my days going on flirty dates with happy endings. Then I’d gladly go home alone, free of the hassle of commitment.

I wasn’t always this way, but life does its thing to you. After a long run of relationships with narcissists and drunk man-babies, love was burned out of me. That’s what it felt like; it’s as if my heart had been seared. The flame grew too hot then extinguished. The ability to do it again felt like it was just gone. Truly, I had given up on love.

I had turned 40. “Maybe I’ll get a cat,” I thought. “Maybe I’ll get 6 cats.”

Then you came a long. It wasn’t love at first sight. That’s for the young and unscathed. But by the time I was fairly certain I had seen all your colors, I knew that I could never live without you. “I can’t imagine what sort of person with which I could share my space and life with at this point,” I would explain to those who inquired about my singleness. Now I don’t have to imagine. It’s you.

Never in my life have I been treated with so much kindness. And that’s the secret to all those wondering about the element that makes it finally work. I used to cynically say all I needed was someone who I wanted to fuck and that didn’t make me crazy. Now I know there’s one more element, and that is kindness.

It feels now as if a new flame is within. It’s not the same as the one that burned for others when I was a younger man. This one is colored differently. It lights me up differently. It feels like an ancient fire even though it’s new.

That’s a dramatic way of simply saying you make me believe again, but in a new way. In a way that reflects who I am today. Who we are today.

This month the Supreme Court rules on marriage equality nationwide. Naturally, that causes me to ask myself if I could marry you.

I don’t even have to think twice.

Del Ray, will you marry me?

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Power Couple Gandalf & Dumbledore Wed, Wizarding World Rejoices

Power Couple Gandalf & Dumbledore Wed, Wizarding World Rejoices

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Whatever you want to call them, this magical power couple has said “I do” at the altar, thus becoming one of those adorable elderly couples you see holding hands at bus stops.

And better yet, they did it all a stone’s throw (though we hear no stones were actually thrown) from none other than the bumbling antigay idiots of the Westboro Baptist Church.

In case you missed it, Westboro did a little cosplay of their own, to which JK Rowling had the perfect response — ““The sheer awesomeness of such a union (Gandalf and Dumbledore) in such a place (Ireland) would blow your tiny bigoted minds out of your thick sloping skulls,” she Tweeted.

The Equality House, which sits in rainbow-colored defiance across the street from Westboro HQ, decided to up the ante by throwing a gay fan fic wedding for the ages.

Here’s the photo proof:

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Dan Tracer

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Fired Christian Anti-Gay Preschool Worker Wins Discrimination Case: VIDEO

Fired Christian Anti-Gay Preschool Worker Wins Discrimination Case: VIDEO

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A Christian former employee of a London, England preschool has won a discrimination case after she was fired for airing anti-gay views, reports The Guardian.

Christian-PreschoolSarah Mbuyi was dismissed by Newpark Childcare after telling a lesbian colleague that her “lifestyle” was a sin.

Mbuyi – who argued that the firing breached European law on religious freedom – denied harassment, claiming her colleague asked her about same-sex marriage and was angry she had been barred from marrying her partner in a church.

At an employment tribunal, Mbuyi’s beliefs on same-sex marriage were described as “worthy of respect in a democratic society… not incompatible with human dignity and…not in conflict with the fundamental rights of others.”

The tribunal found that Newpark’s ban on employees “expressing adverse views on homosexuality and/or describing homosexuality as a sin” would have a “disparate impact on Christians holding similar views to Miss Mbuyi on the biblical teachings on practicing homosexuality.”

Additionally, it was found that Mbuyi’s colleague had initially brought up the issue of sexual orientation and there was little evidence to suggest she targeted the colleague in an attempt to force her faith on her.

Andrea Minichiello Williams, barrister and chief executive of the Christian Legal Centre, which supported Mbuyi, said:

“This is a brave judgment and comes as a great relief to Miss Mbuyi and to all of us at the Christian Legal Centre. “This judgment is a ‘common sense’ judgment which shows understanding of the Christian faith and Miss Mbuyi’s freedom to live and speak it out in the work place. “We have been in the employment courts for over a decade now and at last we have a sensible decision.”

Mbuyi said:

“I only ever responded to questions that my colleague asked me and wanted the very best for her. I give glory to God for the decision and say ‘well done’ to the Christian Legal Centre. “I hope that my previous employer and colleagues are well and will understand from this that my intention was for their best.”

Voicing her concern at the decision, Tiffany Clutterbuck, a director of Newpark, said:

“We have robust policies and rules to ensure our nursery is inclusive and supportive for our children and staff and we took the decision to dismiss Miss Mbuyi with a view to protecting that culture. “However, the tribunal found Miss Mbuyi’s actions were not harassment of a gay colleague and that she was entitled to express her religious beliefs in the workplace in the context of the conversation which took place. Our priority will always be to provide an environment where every child feels like he or she belongs.”

In an interview with the BBC yesterday, Mbuyi said she had told her colleague that although God doesn’t hate gay people, “he doesn’t like what you do.”

Watch a report on the case, AFTER THE JUMP


Jim Redmond

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