The No. 1 Enemy of the LGBT Movement

The No. 1 Enemy of the LGBT Movement
Pat Robertson? Rick Santorum? The “God Hates Fags” Westboro Baptist Church?

Nope. It’s our own complacency.

We haven’t won yet, not even on marriage, let alone on equal employment, housing and access to public accommodations. Yet most of our leaders and well-meaning allies have proclaimed our “inevitable” victory, turning a blind eye to other LGBTQ issues that would cost real money, like massively funding housing and jobs for queer youth escaping abusive homes.

Even on marriage the unbridled optimism is unwarranted. Reading the Supreme Court’s recent oral arguments on marriage rights for same-sex couples suggests, at best, a narrow 5-4 decision in our favor.

Justice Anthony Kennedy is widely seen as the swing vote, and he had tough questions not only for the lawyers defending anti-LGBT bigotry but for our side as well. And on at least one pivotal issue — whether LGBT rights are too novel and hence better subject to delay — our side totally blew it in their response to the justices.

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Listening to the April 28 oral arguments while at work that day, I had a “screaming at the computer moment” and wrote later that evening:

The anthropological ignorance of the justices talking about marriage today was nothing short of astounding.

As Justice Kennedy said, asking of pro-LGBT attorney Mary Banuto, “How do you account for the fact that, as far as I am aware, until the end of the 20th Century, there never was a nation or a culture that recognized marriage between two people of the same sex?”

So here we have a group of mostly white men, certainly none of them Native American, revealing their abject ignorance about “two spirit” people (otherwise known by the French as “the Berdache”) who inhabited this continent far longer than the couple hundred years of their United States. Same-sex relationships on this continent were not only tolerated, but celebrated for centuries before the slave-holding, misogynist Europeans “civilized it.”

Unfortunately the attorneys on our side totally blew it by failing to point this out. For the vast majority of human existence, as evidenced by anthropological studies of “primitive” peoples around the globe, women and men treated each other, and their same- and differently-sexed relationships, in ways that put our present “civilizations” to shame.

So will a same-sex-marriage victory hinge on the ignorance of our nation’s finest legal minds regarding the many thousands of years of acceptance of same-sex relationships here in North America, and by hunter-gatherer societies around word? These histories, by the way, are many times longer than the histories of Judaism and Christianity, with their centuries of enslavement of wives as literally the property of their husbands.

This is not just an academic argument about anthropology. The justices’ fear about embracing rights for what they see as perhaps an ephemeral group — openly proud gay people — echoes a central theme of the Supreme Court in recent decades. Many on both sides of this debate fear Supreme Court rulings in favor of expanded social rights before much of the country is “ready” for them, or rulings for rights that may enjoy broad support today but not in a few decades’ time.

Many likely pro-gay votes on the Supreme Court are petrified at the prospect of repeating what they see as the “mistake” of the Roe v. Wade decision. In the case of Roe, that meant voting 7-2 in favor of privacy rights and the right to abortion only to see a right-wing, anti-abortion backlash take hold in subsequent years. Speaking of Ruth Bader Ginsburg, a leader of the liberal bloc on the Supreme Court, a 2013 New Yorker magazine profile remarked that for this reason Ginsburg had lectured that “she had substantial misgivings about how the Court decided Roe v. Wade.”

“She’s very cautious, conservative in a Burkean sense, not at all in the mold of William Brennan or Thurgood Marshall,” said Jamal Greene, a professor at Columbia Law School. “She fundamentally does not believe that large-scale social change should come from the courts.”

“She thinks the Court should not go too far in any given case,” said another associate.

So if this is all the pro-equality “fire in the belly” that can be mustered by Ginsburg, described by The New Yorker as “the senior member of the Court’s liberal quartet,” where does that leave this spring’s court ruling on LGBT rights?

We could get a decision narrowly tailored around marriage rights but leaving unanswered such fundamental questions as our 14th Amendment right to equal housing, jobs and access to public accommodations. And even if we do get such a narrow victory, what’s to say it couldn’t be robbed of much of its power by other recent court decisions?

After all, this is the same reactionary body that ruled in Citizens United that corporations are “people” and therefore could spend unlimited sums on political expenditures. Then to cap that idiocy, in Hobby Lobby it apparently decided that corporations could use their “religious beliefs” to deny their women employees access to contraceptives and abortion services under company health insurance plans.

So what’s to say that this court might with one hand give us nice pieces of paper, marriage licenses, and with the other decide that businesses have a “religious” right to refuse us service? That’s certainly the conclusion that bigots lept to following the Hobby Lobby decision. And while popular revulsion pushed back this reactionary law in Indiana, in the Deep South it’s a different matter. A limited decision by the court could force LGBTs born in Mississippi, Texas and Alabama to wait another generation before getting broader rights beyond just marriage.

The problem with saying that “gay marriage is inevitable” goes beyond being factually wrong. It’s a prescription for failure in winning this or any other right.

It means that we don’t have to do anything to win. It means that we should just let the Supreme Court “do its thing” and magically grant us our rights just because we’re so fabulous.

You would think that LGBTs, especially those of us living in Illinois, would have learned differently from our own recent history. In the spring of 2013, the anti-LGBT bigots defeated us in our effort to pass equal marriage rights in this state, despite polls showing Illinoisans favoring our rights by a nearly 2-to-1 margin.

While we had won the popularity contest, the other side out-hussled us that spring, and Mike Madigan’s House supermajority wasn’t willing to step up for a community that wouldn’t step up for itself, so Rep. Greg Harris didn’t call the bill.

Fortunately, late that fall, after an unprecedented LGBT mobilization at the big Springfield march, and many smaller actions besides, we finally brought home the bacon. But it took a fight with the supermajority Democratic Party to win the day. House Speaker Madigan’s party had long said that they were on our side, but they weren’t willing to pay the necessary political capital to win the fight until we forced them to.

Now the venue for the battle for equal marriage rights (and a lot more) has shifted to the U.S. Supreme Court. And here we must confront one of the biggest myths of U.S. politics: that justices ignore popular opinion and attempt to soberly decide cases simply based on the statements and intent of the long-dead Founders and subsequent legislators.

But the real story is that the 7-2 Roe v. Wade decision in 1973 — now derided by justices of the right and left as too far-reaching — was the product of a burgeoning women’s movement and radically changing attitudes about women’s rights to control their own bodies and destinies. The movement itself came on the heels of the civil rights and anti-Vietnam War movements, which introduced what were then radical notions of Black personhood and national self-determination for countries long dominated by the U.S. and other Western powers, respectively.

Sadly, today we live a very different country. About the only bright spot is the dramatic advance of LGBT rights in recent years. Besides that, we live in a country that is now endlessly at war, regularly dropping bombs on a host of Middle Eastern and African countries, “failed nations” and brutal U.S.-backed dictators from one end to the other, not to mention the “boots on the ground” in the U.S.’s longest-ever wars in Afghanistan and Iraq.

We live in a country that has retreated back into a level of school segregation statistically similar to that which preceded the landmark 1954 Brown v. Board of Education of Topeka, Kansas decision. A country that has reached record levels economic inequality, and one where police violence and mass incarceration against Black people are at such levels that activists have to assert the simple notion that “Black lives matter.” In such a country, support for women’s right to choose, while still a majority, is far weaker and less vocal than in 1973 and therefore is under threat.

The decline of the 1960s movements for Blacks and women and against war should hold a warning for LGBTs. The upward trajectory of social justice movements does not last forever, and once that ascent is over, rights can come under savage attacks, and hurtful retreats begin.

That is why our complacency is the biggest enemy of the LGBT movement.

Rather than sit back in self-satisfaction, hoping for whatever incremental gains might be given to us, we should be furiously organizing to take advantage of recent LGBT rights momentum to win as many broad-reaching gains as we can, while we can.

The current pro-LGBT momentum will not last forever. And at that point we’ll be fighting to simply hang on to whatever we still have.

Andy Thayer is a co-founder of the Gay Liberation Network. GLN, along with other groups locally and around the country, are organizing “Day of Decision” rallies and speak-outs in response to the Supreme Court’s forthcoming decision on marriage rights. Chicago’s event will be in front of the Center on Halsted, 3656 N. Halsted Street, at 7 p.m. on whatever night the Supreme Court announces its decision. He can be reached at [email protected].

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NEWS: Lincoln Chafee, North Carolina, Australia, Strawberry Moon

NEWS: Lincoln Chafee, North Carolina, Australia, Strawberry Moon

RoadThe median rent in San Francisco is now $4,225. 

Lincoln RoadFormer Republican Senator and Independent Governor Lincoln Chafee is running for President as a Democrat: “During his speech, Chafee highlighted his strong opposition to military intervention in the Middle East, saying, ‘we have to find a way to wage peace.’ He said drone strikes weren’t working in the region. And he also said, ‘We must deliberately and carefully extricate ourselves from expensive wars,’ Chafee said. ‘Just think of how better this money could be spent.” Chafee stressed using that money for investment within America’s borders. “Education infrastructure, healthcare, environmental stewardship and a strong middle class are Americans’ priorities.'”

RoadGame of Thrones editor mauled to death by a lion: “Kate Chappell, a Hofstra University alumna originally from Rye in Westchester County, died Monday when a lion leapt through an open car window and attacked her as she took photos inside Gauteng Lion Park in Johannesburg.”

RoadKevin Federline and Justin Timberlake are allegedly friends.

RoadBaby goats in pajamas.

RoadCarey Mulligan and Meryl Streep in new trailer for moving period piece Suffragette.

150602channel31206087539_t755_h25798ab99e1ca1321267bfccad83b55d013a6d37 RoadPolitical cartoon takes aim at Chattanooga, Tennessee’s WRCB over their refusal to air an ad depicting a gay Republican soldier advocating for marriage equality.

RoadCameron Crowe sort-of apologizes for casting Emma Stone to play a part Asian American character in Aloha.

RoadDiana Ross is on Twitter now and loving it.

RoadVote on override of North Carolina Governor’s veto of anti-gay marriage recusal bill has been delayed. 

RoadNYT’s Frank Bruni “announces” his bid for the GOP nomination: “I used to think that faintness on voters’ radar was an impediment to running. Hardly. In a recent Quinnipiac poll, 69 percent of respondents said that they didn’t know enough about Fiorina to have any opinion of her, 60 percent said the same about Carson, and 56 percent said that about Graham, even though he’s been in Congress for two decades and had himself surgically conjoined with John McCain. I used to think that a groundswell of support mattered. Not at all. Last I checked, Jindal and George Pataki were both polling below 1.5 percent. That must have them losing to the margin of error.”

RoadDisney is remaking Sister Act.

CGm35kdUgAAEeKc RoadAustralia is getting a lot gayer: “From 2006-2008, one in 42 people said yes, or an average 2.4% of Australians. That number rose to one in 32, or 3.1% from 2009-2011. Between 2012-2014, 3.4% of people said they identified as gay, bringing the number to one in every 29.”

RoadYou can now smell like Johnny Depp.

RoadStar Wars nerds rejoice: an X-Wing model drone that actually flies.

RoadDid you see last night’s strawberry moon?

RoadBryce Dallas Howard thinks Chris Pratt should be President. 

RoadMichelle Duggar tells FOX News’ Megyn Kelly that one of her children made “really bad choices.”


Sean Mandell

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Former Student Killed Lover After Victim Said She Was 'Toying' With Her

Former Student Killed Lover After Victim Said She Was 'Toying' With Her
A former Virginia Tech student admitted this week to killing another student in 2014 after the victim told her she was just “experimenting” and “toying” with her.

Jessica Michelle Ewing was sentenced to 45 years in prison on Monday after she entered an Alford plea in the death of 21-year-old fellow student Samanata Shrestha, the Roanoke Times reported. The Alford plea allows Ewing to avoid pleading guilty while acknowledging prosecutors have enough evidence to convict her.

“We were pleased with the judge’s ruling,” Montgomery County Commonwealth attorney Mary Pettitt told The Huffington Post. Pettitt recommended a life sentence to Judge Robert Turk.

“Anytime you kill somebody, I think we ought to look at life in prison,” Pettitt said.

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“It wasn’t my intent to kill,” said Jessica Michelle Ewing as she cried on the witness stand in Christiansburg, Virginia, Monday, June 1, 2015. (AP)

Ewing’s attorney, Tyson Daniel, said there were several mitigating factors that merited a lighter sentence.

Before she was sentenced, Ewing offered her account of what happened at Shrestha’s home in Christiansburg, Virginia, the night of Feb. 7, 2014.

Ewing said Shrestha invited her over for what Ewing described as a “date night.” But when Ewing arrived in a dress, she said she was “disappointed” to find Shrestha wearing sweatpants and a casual shirt.

Shrestha eventually changed into a dress and the pair drank wine, fought with whipped cream and “engaged in sexual activity,” according to the Roanoke Times.

When Shrestha told Ewing she was just “experimenting” and “toying” with her, Ewing attacked her date. Ewing strangled Shrestha, who also suffered blunt force trauma to her head and her upper and lower extremities, according to the Associated Press.

Many news organizations that reported on the case described the killing as driven by the fact that Shreshta wore sweatpants to the date. But Pettitt told HuffPost she doesn’t think Shrestha’s decision to wear sweatpants lead to her death. However, she said it signaled “that Ewing showed up with expectations about how this night was going to go, and those expectations were not shared by Samanata Shrestha.”

Pettitt also said she didn’t see any mitigating factors in the case.

Daniel disagreed. His client is a young woman with no criminal past or history of violence, he said. Daniel also noted that Ewing was the victim of sexual abuse as a juvenile, which she “really bore inside of her.”

He also said Ewing’s decision to explain the truth of what happened should have been considered “a point of mitigation.”

“She said things that were entirely against her interests but were consistent with the evidence that the commonwealth had,” Daniel said.

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14 Gay Adult Film Stars Who Make Everyday Life A Little Steamier

14 Gay Adult Film Stars Who Make Everyday Life A Little Steamier

Everybody needs a work/life separation, and that includes all the fine (and we mean fine) performers in the gay adult film industry.

From idyllic long walks on the beach to mundane morning rituals, here’s a taste of some gay porn star’s lives away from the camera. Well, away from the other camera.

We’d say we were never so exited by Nutella, but that would be a lie.

Colby Jansen works up a sweat playing rugby:

Rugby pic from Saturday

A photo posted by Colby Jansen (@colbyjansen) on Jun 2, 2015 at 6:32am PDT

Sean Zevran geeks out with junk food:

YAAAAAASSS!!! This is LOOOONG overdue! I’ve been traveling around the country playing porn star too long and neglecting my passion, my love, my inner gamer-geek! Hadn’t even taken the time to go pick up the new Xbox One, but tonight I said “Fuck it!” I’m unleashing #gamer #beastmode! Went and bought an Xbox One, Dragon Age: Inquisition and Alien: Isolation with some McDonald’s on the side! ???????????????????? A photo posted by Sean Zevran (@sean_zevran) on Jan 28, 2015 at 3:05am PST

Ryan Rose serves up jello shots:

 

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Johnny Castle shows off his morning spread:

Nutella A photo posted by Johnny Castle (@thejohnnycastle) on Sep 30, 2014 at 5:41am PDT

Liam Riley hits the trails:

I can’t wait to be back in LA more than anything omg ?????? A photo posted by @liamrileycb on May 7, 2015 at 8:51pm PDT

Brent Everett works on his tan:

  Beach Time with a broken toe   A photo posted by Brent Everett (@brenteverettxxx) on May 20, 2015 at 9:47am PDT

Damien Crosse does some sightseeing:

???? A photo posted by Damien Crosse (@damiencrosse) on May 2, 2014 at 6:48am PDT

Diego Sans takes a breather with a Bud:

  Dreaming of warmer days   A photo posted by Diego Sans (@diegosans) on Feb 11, 2015 at 9:14am PST

Topher DiMaggio watches out for flying balls:

Trenton Ducati wonders what he forgot to do while getting dressed:

  Morning #undies #sexy #insta   A photo posted by Trenton Ducati (@trentonducati) on Jan 7, 2015 at 6:58am PST

Race Cooper puts a ring on it:

Walkin down to be wed with my hubby, #odamaebrown and Pollo A photo posted by Race Cooper (@racecooper) on May 4, 2015 at 7:59am PDT

Boomer Banks pays his dues to America’s new drag superstar:

This is only the beginning @violetchachki #TeamViolet #styleIsforever #gemini #twins #june13 A photo posted by Boomer Banks (@baconlvr) on Jun 1, 2015 at 11:21pm PDT

Christian Wilde cleans up:

Had to get a suit for a job interview. ????????????

A photo posted by Christian Wilde (@christianwildex) on May 12, 2015 at 10:55pm PDT

Adam Killian loves his country:

#memorialweekend #americanflag #muscle #booty #adamkillian A photo posted by Adam Killian (@killianadam) on May 23, 2015 at 2:00pm PDT

Related: 24 Gay Porn Stars Posing With Puppies

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Lambda Legal Atty: Officials Who Defy SCOTUS Marriage Ruling Will 'Get Their Heads Handed To Them'

Lambda Legal Atty: Officials Who Defy SCOTUS Marriage Ruling Will 'Get Their Heads Handed To Them'

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Now that all the anti-LGBT legislation introduced by Texas Republicans has died, the state’s last stand against same-sex marriage may take place via its Vital Statistics Unit. 

Texas marriage license application forms (shown above), which are generated by Vital Statistics, say “male” and “female.” County clerks in Austin and San Antonio say if the U.S. Supreme Court rules in favor of marriage equality later this month, they’ll simply modify the forms on their own. However, clerks in Dallas and El Paso say they’d be reluctant to do so, even though they’re Democrats. 

From The Texas Observer

BrionesEl Paso County Clerk Delia Briones (right) said she reached out to the Bureau of Vital Statistics about the forms in February, but was told to wait until after the court rules.

“What am I going to do, ask the person who’s the man and who’s the woman? I can’t do that,” Briones said. “You want to be proactive and be prepared, but they’re stalling it at the state level, so my hands are tied.”

Chris Van Deusen, a spokeswoman for the Texas Department of State Health Services, which includes the Bureau of Vital Statistics, said that after the Supreme Court rules, officials will consult with the attorney general’s office to determine what changes are needed.

“Until the court rules, [we] won’t be able know the impact on current operations or forms,” Van Deusen said.

Republican Attorney General Ken Paxton is rabidly anti-gay, so it’s possible he would try to resist the Supreme Court ruling by advising the Vital Statistics Unit not to modify the marriage license applications. 

However, Lambda Legal senior counsel Ken Upton (below) has a warning for government officials who defy the Supreme Court: They can be sued personally and could face punitive damages. 

From the Observer

Upton.Ken“I think there will be some places where this is a problem, but it isn’t going to be a problem for very long,” Upton said. “I think a clerk that hides behind Vital Statistics, when the law clearly states you have to let them get married, risks personal liability.”

Upton said it would also be illegal for clerks to stop issuing licenses to all couples, because they’d be interfering with the fundamental right to marry under the U.S. Constitution. If clerks or state officials refused to comply with a federal judge’s order, they could face punitive damages into the millions of dollars, he said.

“If the Supreme Court rules in our favor, I think there will be relatively little resistance in most places,” Upton said. “Where there are people resisting and throwing up obstacles, I think it will be a fireworks show worth watching, because the truth is they are going to get their heads handed to them.”


John Wright

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My Connection to Caitlyn Jenner

My Connection to Caitlyn Jenner
I met Caitlyn Jenner back when the name was Bruce Jenner. I was a high-level discus thrower living in San Jose. Back then, if you were a thrower, you lived in San Jose. Track was a serious sport in that area.

It was a phenomenal atmosphere to be a part of. On a day-to-day basis I could go to the training area and be throwing beside Wolfgang Schmidt of Germany or Mac Wilkins, the U.S. Gold Medal winner from the 1976 Montreal Olympics. In fact, my roommate at the time was a guy named Mike Buncic who represented the US in the Barcelona Olympic Games in 1992.

With all these incredible athletes around, it was impossible not to progress.

Jenner lived in the San Jose area as well. She hosted her own track meet: The Bruce Jenner Invitational at San Jose City College. It was at this meet in 1984 where I threw what would turn out to be the furthest discus throw of my career. It was not unusual to get twenty thousand people to watch a track meet at the time.

Roughly eight years earlier I watched — like much of the world – as Jenner came across the finish line of the 1500 meter final event of the Decathlon in Montreal to win the gold medal. To put this achievement in perspective: The results Jenner posted in the majority of her events would have let her win virtually any local college-level track meet, against any entire team… by herself.

Someone handed her a small American flag after she finished and that image ended up on the Wheaties cereal box. You can’t plan those moments out any better.

Her success was part of the reason I transitioned to track and field after my hockey career came to a screeching halt as a goalie at Malden Catholic High School (MA). MC was great at hockey… I was not, so it was on to track.

When I went up to the awards booth after my big throw, there was Jenner — the legend — just hanging out being the celebrity. Still presenting as male, she was “Classic California man,” with the long hair and physique one would expect. It was a highlight of my career.

Unfortunately, most people only know Caitlyn for her more recent celebrity status as part of the Kardashian train wreck… I mean, TV show.

My daughter texted me a photo of the cover of Vanity Fair with Caitlyn on the cover. At first, I had no idea who it was. Was she sending me this because her friend’s name was Caitlyn? Was there a caption I couldn’t read? When I opened it up and saw the full photo along with the magazine headline I was floored.

Caitlyn looks great! I can say that with all honesty.

I cannot image the bravery it took to go through a change like this under such massive scrutiny. Every moment chronicled. Even Caitlyn’s Wikipedia page has already been updated.

Unfortunately, Caitlyn’s success and personal story may only serve as additional fodder to prolong the misery that is Keeping Up With the Kardashians series. Never have so many profited so much from the presence of one woman’s famous derriere! Please make it stop…

Truth be told, the most talented individual on the cast was a man relegated to “back-burner” minor character status. This year, Caitlyn will turn 66 years old. Looking fit and no longer a minor story.

I was trying to find a way to segue this into a fitness thing… what could the point be?

Be your own person?

Take care of yourself because you never know when you will be on a magazine cover?

Hmmm…

I guess the only real point is that people can show strength under a multitude of difficult situations. Just keep going and you will eventually find the support you need.

Good luck Caitlyn.

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