Matthew Shepard's Mom: Clinton Got 'Bad Advice' On DOMA

Matthew Shepard's Mom: Clinton Got 'Bad Advice' On DOMA
Former U.S. President Bill Clinton has endured significant criticism for signing the Defense of Marriage Act into law in 1996 — and he has since had a complete change of heart — but one of the most high-profile parents in the queer community says the legislation wasn’t fully Clinton’s fault.

Judy Shepard, the mother of the late Matthew Shepard, gave Clinton the benefit of the doubt on HuffPost Live this week.

“I personally think he just got some bad advice,” Shepard told host Josh Zepps during a conversation about the upcoming documentary on her son. “I think in [Clinton’s] heart, he wanted to do the right thing and he knew what the right thing was, but the political advice was not right.”

Since President Barack Obama’s “evolving” attitude on same-sex marriage turned into full-fledged support in 2012, DOMA has been overturned and society’s acceptance of gays is at an all-time high — 8 out of 10 Americans now support marriage equality.

Shepard said she is “absolutely” impressed by the pace of change since her son’s death 16 years ago, adding that electing Obama gave Americans “permission” to finally support the gay community.

“We knew we weren’t going to get very far with past leadership, but with President Obama, he’s a leader who understands social injustice and has his people around him who understand it too,” she said. “So it became just a matter of the right message and the timing, and it’s just been incredible.”

Watch the video above to hear more from Matthew Shepard’s parents, and click here to watch the full interview.

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Austin Police Department Welcomes First Openly Transgender Officer: VIDEO

Austin Police Department Welcomes First Openly Transgender Officer: VIDEO

Picture 3Austin Police Department’s Senior Officer Greg Abbink introduced himself as the first openly transgender man on the Austin police force during his Transgender Day of Remembrance speech outside of Austin’s city hall on Thursday reports KXAN News. Officer Abbink, who joined the force a decade ago as Emily, officially changed his name this past spring. This year also marks the first time a transgender officer was chosen from APD’s Lesbian and Gay Police Officers Association to deliver the speech.

Said Abbink:

“I was honored when I was asked to speak,” said Abbink. “I can’t imagine the city of Austin or the Austin Police Department, for that matter, being any more supportive than they are. I consider APD my family. They are truly my brothers and sisters.”

Officer Abbink says coming out as transgender comes with its own challenges, but recognizes there are certain rewards that come with it as well.

Added Abbink:

“I didn’t do this for anyone other than me, and I don’t mean to sound selfish, but I had to do this to be the best person that I can be, so that I can serve the public — the city of Austin — to the best of my ability.

“I’d like to be a role model if I can.”

Watch Officer Abbink’s interview with KNAX, AFTER THE JUMP

 


Anthony Costello

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Viral Infection Forces Cher To Cancel Remainder Of Dressed To Kill Tour

Viral Infection Forces Cher To Cancel Remainder Of Dressed To Kill Tour
Cher has canceled the remaining 29 dates on her Dressed To Kill tour after developing a viral infection that’s “affected her kidney function,” according to a press release.

The singer postponed several dates in September when the infection was first spotted, but a month later they were rescheduled. Now the final leg of the tour, which first launched in March, has been nixed altogether.

Cher took to Twitter to express her disappointment, saying this and the death of director Mike Nichols, with whom she worked on the movie “Silkwood,” have left her “devastated”:

I’m SORRY I Couldn’t B the 1 to tell you about postponing my tour.
I Tried SO HARD 2b Strong enough,but my Will couldn’t force my Body time

— Cher (@cher) November 21, 2014

let’s talk about it tomm. Between gut wrenching Sadness of not being Able 2go on stage,
sing,b Silly,& wear new Mackie’s & Mike
Dying,I’m

— Cher (@cher) November 21, 2014

Im devastated (& NO fun 2b around)that I’m not packing all Blk & 1 P.Treacy 4 Bus WILL NEVER SAY AGAIN“Is It Show Nite?I’m
A-Wee-Bit Tired”

— Cher (@cher) November 21, 2014

Am Trying 2“Let go & Let God,“but I suck at Letting Go & Letting Anybody! This is a CRUSHING BLOW 4 ME & IM BEYOND SORRY 4 DISSAPOINTING U

— Cher (@cher) November 21, 2014

“While her progress has been consistent, Cher’s doctors have advised her to take more time to ensure a complete and total recovery,” the release said.

The canceled dates are as follows:

Nov. 9, 2014: Lubbock, Texas – United Supermarkets Arena
Nov. 11, 2014: Austin, Texas – Frank Erwin Center
Nov. 13, 2014: Corpus Christi, Texas – American Bank Center
Nov. 15, 2014: Bossier City, Los Angeles – CenturyLink Center
Nov. 17, 2014: Pensacola, Florida – Pensacola Bay Center
Nov. 19, 2014: Charleston, South Carolina – North Charleston Coliseum
Nov. 23, 2014: Auburn Hills, Michigan – Palace of Auburn Hills
Dec. 2, 2014: Allentown, Pennsylvania – PPL Center
Dec. 4, 2014: Albany, New York – Times Union Center
Dec. 6, 2014: Washington D.C. – Verizon Center
Dec. 8, 2014: Uniondale, New York – Nassau Coliseum
Dec. 10, 2014: New York, New York – Madison Square Garden
Dec. 12, 2014: Newark, New Jersey – Prudential Center
Dec. 13, 2014: Hartford, Connecticut – XL Center
Dec. 15, 2014: New York, New York – Madison Square Garden
Jan. 5, 2015: Manchester, New Hampshire – Verizon Wireless Arena
Jan. 7, 2015: Boston, Massachusetts – TD Garden
Jan. 9, 2015: State College, Pennsylvania – Bryce Jordan Center
Jan. 11, 2015: Grand Rapids, Michigan – Van Andel Arena
Jan. 13, 2015: Toronto, Ontario – Air Canada Centre
Jan. 15, 2015: Ft Wayne, Indiana – Allen County War Memorial Coliseum
Jan. 17, 2015: Green Bay, Wisconsin – Resch Center
Jan. 19, 2015: Moline, Illinois – iWireless Center
Jan. 21, 2015: Chicago, Illinois – United Center
Jan. 23, 2015: Cincinnati, Ohio – US Bank Arena
Jan. 25, 2015: Sioux Falls, South Dakota – Denny Sanford Premier Center
Jan. 27, 2015: Omaha, Nebraska – CenturyLink Center
Jan. 29, 2015: Wichita, Kansas – INTRUST Bank Arena
Feb. 4, 2015: Fargo, North Dakota – Fargodome

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Michelle Duggar Is Harassing Neighbors With Super Creepy Phone Message About Trans People

Michelle Duggar Is Harassing Neighbors With Super Creepy Phone Message About Trans People

Screen shot 2014-11-21 at 11.07.31 AMJim Bob and Michelle Duggar are at it again.

Last week, the 19 Kids and Counting reality stars made headlines when they launched an impromptu kiss-a-thon on social media, encouraging couples everywhere to post photographs of themselves swapping spit to the Duggar’s Facebook page.

Everything was going fine until gay couples started sharing their kissy photos. The Duggars quickly deleted them. But they were careful to leave up pictures of people making out with Godzilla, Diet Coke, Tide Pods and a 14-year-old cat.

Now, it’s been uncovered that Michelle Duggar has been on a not-so-secret campaign to warn residents of Fayetteville, Arkansas that all transgender people are child predators out to rape little girls.

According to sources, Duggar has enlisted the help of an automated call system to cold call residents. When they pick up the phone, the following creepy message is played:

Hello, this is Michelle Duggar. I’m calling to inform you of some shocking news that would affect the safety of Northwest Arkansas women and children. The Fayetteville City Council is voting on an ordinance this Tuesday night that would allow men–yes, I said mento use women’s and girls’ restrooms, locker rooms, showers, sleeping areas and other areas that are designated for females only. I don’t believe the citizens of Fayetteville would want males with past child predator convictions that claim they are female to have a legal right to enter private areas that are reserved for women and girls.

Of course, this hardly the first time the Duggar family has tried to squash the rights of LGBT people. Last year, the couple endorsed sodomy-obsessed candidate Ken Cuccinelli for Virginia governor. They also encouraged their oldest son, Josh, to become an antigay activist. And they once embarked on a seven state bus tour to oppose marriage equality.

As a result of Michelle’s latest telephone scheme, an online petition calling for Duggar’s TLC reality show to be cancelled has begun circulating.

“End LGBTQ fear mongering by the Duggars,” the petition reads. “The Duggars have been using their fame to promote discrimination, hate, and fear-mongering against gays and transgendered people. You need to take a stand on the side of justice and cancel their show.”

So far the petition has garnered more than 130,000 signatures.

TLC is not yet issued a response to the petition.

h/t: Pink News

Related stories:

Oldest Duggar Child Now Antigay Activist, Will The Other 18 Follow Suit?

Duggar Family Doesn’t Want Gays Kissing On Their Facebook Page, Making Out With Cats And Godzilla Is OK Though

Six Loony Anti-Gay Rants From This Week. And It’s Only Wednesday.

Graham Gremore is a columnist and contributor for Queerty and Life of the Law. Follow him on Facebook and Twitter.

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News: Gwyneth Paltrow, Beard Nets, Zoolander 2, Harry Styles

News: Gwyneth Paltrow, Beard Nets, Zoolander 2, Harry Styles

Road House Republicans have filed a lawsuit against President Obama over the Affordable Care Act. 

JailbirdRoad Gwyneth Paltrow throws shade at Martha Stewart with “Jailbird Cake” recipe. 

Road Check out this Vogue feature on the wedding of designer Joseph Altuzarra and New York real estate developer Seth Weissman. 

Road Sales of “beard nets” are on the rise as a result of more and more people sporting hipster scruff in the food preparation industry. 

Road FRC hate leader Tony Perkins says gay people are “excluding themselves” from the “divine and natural reality” of marriage. 

StewartRoad WATCH: Stephen Colbert’s hilarious interview with Jon Stewart last night. 

Road A Zoolander sequel has been confirmed, with Justin Theroux writing and Ben Stiller directing. 

Road Tom Daley looks cute as a button at the Winter Wonderland in London’s Hyde Park.

Road Harry Styles nixes rumors that he bought 1,989 roses for ex Taylor Swift to celebrate her new album. 

Road Breaking Bad spinoff Better Call Saul gets a release date. 

Road Ferguson police officer Darren Wilson might be resigning from the force

Road Television streaming tech company Aereo has filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy following their Jude defeat in a SCOTUS case brought by several broadcast networks. 

SDSS1133Road A mysterious space object has scientists puzzled as to whether its a black hole or an exploding star. 

Road Find out what critics are saying about The Hunger Games: Mockingjay – Part 1

Road A new Michigan State University study shows a bad marriage could literally break your heart. 

Road How to Get Away With Murder showrunner Pete Nowalk (who previously dished on the show’s steamy gay sex scenes) chats with EW about last night’s killer midseason twist.


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