The Next Step Is Oblivion: The Future of Gay Literature

The Next Step Is Oblivion: The Future of Gay Literature
If there is such a thing as “gay writing” or “LGBT literature” — and I am really not a fan of categories — here is a look at its future.

For most of history, gay writing didn’t exist. Gay characters did not feature in literature. Some books had “homoerotic” aspects — a term that, if you think about it, just shows how patriarchal our society is. If there had been more female writers, if women had been respected more as artists throughout the ages, then “homoerotic” would have never been an issue.

In the 19th century, a few dashing Englishmen concealed their love for men in descriptions of handsome heroes, whether they fought evil or wild animals in Africa or just looked into the mirror a lot. Some ended up in jail for it. George Meredith was one of the first to write novels from the viewpoint of “sensible males,” and D.H. Lawrence and E.M. Forster gave us a whole new vocabulary to write about atypical, sensual men. A few outspoken books were written about adoring male beauty, but none of them dealt with male love. It was all very much in the closet up until the 1970s.

The Stonewall generation of writers in America revolutionized the way gay men wrote about themselves. I consider Holleran’s Dancer From the Dance the most important product of that generation, because of the way it portrayed the gay life of the time: coming out, breaking free, descent into a world of sex and dance, and retirement in the South with wistful glances at the delivery boy — the closet life of discovery, delirium, and dispatch. Coming out and having sex are obviously the two most important things in a gay person’s life, not because sex is so important but because it’s really the only thing setting us apart from heterosexuals.

A few years on, writers showed us that we aren’t necessarily nice people. We use each other, we lead empty, sex-obsessed lives, and we take drugs. It was a step toward a more realistic form of “gay writing,” but it was essentially still about people in the closet, inhabiting dark niches whence they emerged once a week to hit the dance floor or the opera box.

There has been nothing new since. Gay writing itself has stagnated after the AIDS generation: Stories about loss, death, and self-doubt were the last meaningful wave. Since the late 90s, the “genre” has been in decline. And for a good reason.

We are now at a very important junction in the development of our societies. We are seriously talking about gay marriage. Gay marriage isn’t as much about two people of the same sex living together in a state-sanctioned relationship as it is about accepting an alternative lifestyle and destroying the closet for good. Once gay marriage is just “marriage,” we can stop defining gay lives by excess of dance music and sex, and society at large can start seeing gay men as just plain fellow men.

Without the stigma, however, much of what we have written about in the last hundred years will be largely irrelevant. We won’t be suffering, suicidal, sex-crazed perverts anymore; we will be loving, caring, responsible individuals, even in the mind of the reading public. It may be some way off, but we are getting there. What, then, will happen to literature?

Literature at its best is a reflection of our lives in our times. It should be inspiring, give cause for thought and reflection, and make a lasting contribution to both the arts and society itself. In a world where gay marriage loses its adjective, in which gay couples are just couples, gay writing will just be writing. There will be books in which characters “happen to be gay,” but in which the gay theme is not the most important aspect of the book. Gay writers will just be writers, and the general audience will learn to like stories because they are stories of love, or deceit, or crime, or fantastic worlds, even if they contain gay characters. The insulting, segregating categories on book websites and in bookstores will disappear. Their won’t be a button for “gay fiction” anymore. Men loving men, and women loving women, will be part of what publishers, for the sake of their accounting departments, call “the mainstream.”

One the earliest examples of what I mean was Frederick Pohl’s Gateway, a fantastic sci-fi novel featuring three men in a permanent relationship. Nobody would call it a gay book, though. There is gay sex in Reginald Hill’s Price of Butcher’s Meat. Even so, it’s not in the gay category, because it’s not a gay book. And what is a gay book, once gay people aren’t special any longer? Is Hollinghurst’s The Spell about being gay, or is it about human relationships, the fascination of youth, and the Dorset countryside?

The path to such an artistic utopia is treacherous. My novel Gabriel was twice rejected by a major publisher because although he liked the overall story, the final chapter sees two men united in love. To get it published, I was asked to rewrite the book so that they could just become “friends.” The mainstream, the publisher explained, would not welcome a book that ends in gay love.

I believe that one day people will find this ridiculous. I believe that one day, Gabriel and books like it be seen as a story about animal rights, culture shock, the importance of learning from other cultures and dealing with the ill effects of globalization, and the fact that the protagonists are gay men won’t matter at all.

Too much to ask for? I don’t think so. Gays and lesbians have to read about straight couples all the time. Most of the movies we watch are about women and men falling in love. It is only the stigma of ages, the religious bigotry and financial considerations that keep gay characters out of the mainstream. Once gay marriage — the state seal of respect for a human relationship — is widely accepted, more people will come out of the closet. Everybody will know someone who is in a same-sex relationship. Relating to aspects of a gay person’s existence will be easier once we have done away with religious notions and biblical taboos. It will lose its strangeness, its otherness. Heterosexuals will stop finding it weird and dirty and sinful; it will just be another way of living. Entire categories and clichés will disappear. Gay books will just be books, gay movies just movies.

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PHOTOS: Costumed Hunks Get Into La Leche Halloween in New York City

PHOTOS: Costumed Hunks Get Into La Leche Halloween in New York City

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Jake Resnicow and Patrick Crough teamed up with Stoli Vodka, The Only Shows, and Joe Roszak to present La Leche Halloween, the North American debut of Matinee Halloween. DJs Taito Tikaro (Matinee Spain) and Cindel (Matinee USA) spun spooky beats until the lights came up. Afterwards the party moved to Studio XXI in Chelsea for Action Halloween After Hours with DJ Billy Lace.

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This Is What Happened When I Tried Banning Conversion Therapy in Minnesota

This Is What Happened When I Tried Banning Conversion Therapy in Minnesota
So-called “conversion therapy” still exists; the Southern Poverty Law Center lists almost 70 documented practitioners in 20 states across the United States who currently advertise it to their patients.

Last October, after doing intensive research on the issue, my close friend Gabe Aderhold and I co-founded Can’t Convert Love MN, an organization dedicated to raising awareness about the dangers of conversion therapy in the state of Minnesota. We also wrote a bill that would effectively ban conversion therapy from being practiced on minors in Minnesota. Having same-sex marriage legalized one year prior gave us hope that our bill would be heard and eventually passed; if our legislators approved marriage equality, surely they would advocate for the restriction of a practice that treats homosexuality as a curable disorder.

We were immediately able to partner with a few key legislative supporters of the marriage-equality movement, State Sen. Scott Dibble and State Rep. Karen Clark. I then quickly connected with GLAAD and Change.org to set up a petition asking lawmakers in Minnesota to hear our bill. Gabe continued advocating at the State Capitol, attempting to gain more legislative support. Media outlets began requesting interviews about our progress and about the petition.

Our excitement rose as we watched the number of petition signatures rise into the thousands; within a few weeks we had reached over 100,000.

With increased momentum on our side, Gabe was able to successfully attain co-authors for the bill in both the Minnesota House and the Minnesota Senate. The possibility of our bill being heard and eventually passed by lawmakers was becoming increasingly achievable.

Throughout this time period we engaged in numerous conversations with fellow college students, local authority figures, and Minneapolis constituents. Our conversations yielded one continuous theme: People were not aware that conversion therapy was still being practiced in Minnesota. Most were obviously disgusted to hear that California and New Jersey were the only two states in the country that had successfully passed legislation banning the use of conversion therapy on minors.

Back in the State Capitol, our bill was transferred to State Rep. Susan Allen. With her collaboration we were able to file the bill to be heard in the 2014 legislative session.

It was during this time that I realized how much of a game politics really is. Having to compete for time and attention against bills that were being pushed by groups with deep pockets, pools of volunteers, and paid lobbyists created hurdles for me and Gabe to tackle with limited resources. The influence of this political power structure became apparent to us once we realized how difficult it is to reach the top of the legislative priority list. Additionally, many legislators were still dealing with backlash from same-sex marriages being legalized, leading to their refusal to back another bill that could impact their bids for reelection.

These setbacks left me angry and disappointed. In my mind it was never about maintaining my pride in the bill I had written with Gabe. It wasn’t about playing a political game to be heard by legislators. This was about protecting youth in our state from the dangers of conversion therapy.

Toward the end of February, it became clear that we had the votes needed in the Minnesota House’s Health & Human Services Policy Committee. Our petition on Change.org had reached 110,000 signatures, our Facebook page had grown to 900 “likes,” and we had begun to form a coalition of organizations nationwide that supported our cause. The progress we had made since October seemed to be exponential. We were at the edge of making history in Minnesota.

Gabe got the bad news first.

Our first committee hearing wasn’t going to be scheduled in the House. Without the committee hearing our bill wouldn’t advance to the floor, and it was too late into the session to attempt to reschedule. We learned the hard way that our bill had effectively “died before committee.”

The second blow to our movement occurred a few weeks later, after an article published by our university’s newspaper portrayed our work in a juvenile light. The article stated that our bill wasn’t given a hearing due to “the proposal’s lack of crucial details and a strong argument for its passage.”

Gabe and I were heartbroken. To have our work discredited was humiliating. However, the frustration and embarrassment fueled our attempt to return as a stronger, more composed campaign this upcoming legislative session.

Can’t Convert Love MN is just the beginning of the movement to end conversion therapy on a national level. Gabe and I hope our work will inspire other youth to take a stand against the unethical practice.

Banning the use of conversion therapy on minors is not only the moral thing to do; it’s the smart thing to do. Even if you believe that being GLBTQ isn’t natural or isn’t a part of God’s plan for certain people, condemning them to a life of repression and psychological trauma should not be the answer. That is exactly what we are condoning if we allow conversion therapy to stay legal in the United States. We need to work to introduce legislation in every state that will effectively reduce and remove the number of people who are able to practice conversion therapy. Only then will we be able to begin working toward a better, more equal future for all children.

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Doctor Leaves Male Patients Feeling “Dirty And Ashamed” After Inappropriate Check-Ups

Doctor Leaves Male Patients Feeling “Dirty And Ashamed” After Inappropriate Check-Ups

460023341“Steve” (not his real name) made an appointment to see Dr. Kelvin Thuc Minh Vo in Sydney, Australia after developing an ache in his back. What happened next, however, left him “scarred for life.”

According to the 18-year-old patient, Dr. Vo asked him a slew of inappropriate questions that were totally irrelevant to his current medical condition. The questions included whether the young man enjoyed watching pornography, if he liked “rough sex,” if he was sexually attracted to Asian men, and if he was a “giver” or “taker.”

In a follow-up visit, Steve claims Dr. Vo grabbed the young man’s crotch then propositioned him for sex. The incident, he says, left him feeling “dirty and ashamed” and led him to file an official report with the Health Care Complaint Commission.

A second alleged victim has also filed a report.

27-year-old “George” (also not his real name) claims Dr. Vo tried to perform oral sex on him during a visit in 2011. When the patient told the doctor to stop, Vo allegedly begged, “I’m prepared to give anything to you if you don’t tell anyone.”

This week, a tribunal determined that Vo had “exploited a relationship of trust with his young and vulnerable patient” and called for his medical license to be suspected for at least two years to maintain public confidence in doctors.

“We have found the practitioner to be untruthful, and can place no weight on his expressed remorse for his actions, other than his remorse for the consequences of those actions on him and his wife,” the tribunal said.

Related stories:

Monstrous “Gay Cure” Doctor On Trial For Sexually Abusing Male Patients

Doctor Diagnoses California Man With “Chronic Illness”: Being Gay

Man Checks Into Hospital For Colonoscopy, Wakes Up Wearing Lacy Lady Panties

 

Graham Gremore is a columnist and contributor for Queerty and Life of the Law. Follow him on Facebook and Twitter.

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What To Watch This Week on TV: A Big Week For Bomer

What To Watch This Week on TV: A Big Week For Bomer

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Check out our weekly guide to make sure you’re catching the big premieres, crucial episodes and the stuff you won’t admit you watch when no one’s looking.

— Politics makes strange bedfellows, but it also makes fantastic comedy. It’s the midterm elections Tuesday, and Comedy Central’s resident newsmen Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert will be following all the action live starting at 11 p.m.

Two chances to see Matt Bomer in action this week, AFTER THE JUMP …

 

— Fans of Hiyao Miyazaki’s gorgeous Studio Ghibli animations and Adventure Time’s fun-­for-­all-­ages approach to cartoons should not miss Over the Garden Wall. The new miniseries has a whimsical Miyazaki vibe, and its creator, Patrick McHale, worked on Adventure Time. The first installment debuts tonight at 7 p.m. on Cartoon Network and new episodes air nightly this week. Elijah Wood and Melanie Lynskey lend their vocal talent.

 

— Matt Bomer makes his American Horror Story debut in this week’s twisted episode, titled “Pink Cupcakes.” Between Dandy Mott’s (Finn Wittrock) deranged antics and Stanley (Denis O’Hare)’s sinister intentions, Jupiter doesn’t seem to be any safer even if there is one less monsterous murderer around. Will Bomer make it out alive? Find out Wednesday at 10 p.m. Eastern on FX.

 

— That’s not your only chance to catch Bomer in action this week. The final season of White Collar makes its debut Thursday at 9 p.m. Eastern on USA.

 

— If you thought this season’s Real Housewives of New Jersey hit new lows with the Giudice’s legal drama, that’s nothing compared to what’s going down on Real Housewives of Atlanta. The most­-watched Real Housewives franchise returns Sunday at 8 p.m. on Bravo. The cameras not only chronicle Phaedra and Apollo’s crumbling marriage, but also Apollo’s failure to report back to prison while he rampages through their home. Kandi, Kenya and, of course, the queen of all housewives NeNe Leakes also return.

What are you watching this week?


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