The Seismic Shift in Irish Values, and One Reason It Happened

The Seismic Shift in Irish Values, and One Reason It Happened
The landslide victory for marriage equality in Ireland caught some conservatives off guard. What happened to the staunchly conservative, almost fanatical Catholicism of the Irish people?

Paul Valleley, a professor of public ethics at the University of Chester, offered some important suggestions. He lists two major reasons. One is that “the Catholic Church has lost its grip on the Irish,” something he attributes to “self-destruction” by the church as a result of priestly child abuse and physical and psychological cruelty by nuns and priests at various institutions of the church, such as the infamous Magdalene laundries.

It is the second reason that I want to focus upon, however. Valleley writes:

Ireland had joined the EU, giving it access to markets much larger than previously when its trade had been predominantly with Britain. That, combined with an influx of foreign investment, transformed Ireland from one of the poorest countries in Europe to one of the wealthiest. Its economy grew so powerfully in the 1990s that Ireland became known as the Celtic tiger.

With that affluence, and an increased engagement with Europe, came a shift in social attitudes. Emigration, so long a potent norm in Irish society, fell away. Brighter and more enlightened Irish talent no longer looked abroad but remained at home and fostered change. The Economist named Ireland the best place to live in the world. “Rising material wealth seems to have expanded minds as well as wallets,” as one Irish commentator put it. Secularism became linked in the public imagination with the benefits of urban modernity and religion was relegated to an association with the poverty of the rural past.

Ireland, according to Seán Ó’Riain’s The Rise and Fall of Ireland’s Celtic Tiger, was in crisis, with “massive government debt accompanied by severe unemployment, immigration and weak labour force participation among women.” But a series of liberalizing market reforms led to “rapid economic growth and, even more significantly, exceptionally high employment growth in the second half of the decade. The numbers employed in Ireland almost doubled between 1988 and 2008, increasing by one million jobs.”

Historically, the more market-oriented the economy, the more the well-being of LGBT people increases. Politicized markets require political power, something sexual minorities rarely have, but depoliticized economies only need an entrepreneur willing to cater to a minority. Soviet-style, top-down economies would never allocate paper for books on gay issues, let alone for a thriving gay media. That required a bottom-up, depoliticized or less-politicized economy, where entrepreneurs only had to buy the paper and find a profit-seeking printer. Even in the McCarthy-dominated 1950s, the United States had publications for gay men and lesbians. In Europe these publications existed since the late 1800s, something not possible in Comstockian America at the time, mainly because postal regulations were used to close down any publication that Comstock deemed obscene, such as information on birth control.

It was the Financial Times that noted the role of material wealth on social liberalism. They wrote, “Ireland’s apparent willingness to embrace gay marriage is therefore as much a product of the Celtic Tiger years as it is a reflection of the decline of the Church’s influence.” With rising prosperity, Irish voters started embracing socially liberal reforms, matching the economically liberal reforms of a few years earlier: deregulation and more individual choice. Women demanded and won liberalization of contraception laws and legalization of divorce.

Sociologist Tom Inglis said of Ireland, “[W]e have all signed up for cultural liberal individualism and a laissez faire approach to civil rights.”

Similar seismic shifts in cultural values occurred in other nations following periods of economic boom. The relative prosperity of the 1950s in America gave way to the social turbulence of the ’60s, which saw the culmination of not only the civil rights movement but the movements for women’s liberation and, of course, gay liberation.

In 1943 Abraham Maslow proposed his famous hierarchy of human needs. He argued that people fulfill lower-order needs first and work their way up the pyramid. The lower three rungs are basic needs, such as food, water, and sleep; safety needs, such as employment and security; and social needs, such as family, friends, and love. The higher-order needs are esteem (respect, confidence, and self-esteem) and self-actualization, which is the individual finding personal fulfillment, self-growth and their understanding of the meaning of their life.

These last categories underline the gay rights revolution. Gay rights were not about access to markets; a closeted gay could still access markets even in a prejudicial culture. It was hard, however, to be closeted yet still have self-esteem and self-growth. Once lower-order needs were out of the way, people clamored for those choices in life that make them individuals — different from others. Economic prosperity creates that demand by filling the lower-order needs. While economic reform is necessary for economic prosperity, it is social reform that is necessary for individuals to live as free individuals.

Many have damned liberal economic reforms because they encourage individualism, the theory being that individualism promotes an uncaring, socially isolated, atomistic culture. Yet studies find that “the tolerance level of the average American has been climbing steadily since the early 1970s.” The reason that tolerance has increased is precisely because people became more individualistic in how they perceive themselves and others:

The increase in tolerance co-occurred with increases in individualistic beliefs such as rejecting traditional social rules around gender, race, religion, sexuality, and drug use. At the group level, tolerance was higher in years with more individualistic language in books and a higher need for uniqueness. These analyses cannot infer causation, but these results are consistent with our hypothesis that increasingly individualistic attitudes may be one cause of increasing tolerance for outgroups.

Rising economic prosperity encourages individualism. With the rise of individualism, it becomes harder and harder to damn those “not like us.” There is no “us” anymore, just many individuals, each with different values and priorities. Intolerance is largely fear of individualism; once you prosper economically, the individualistic genie is out of the bottle, and social change inevitably follows. Depoliticized markets ought to terrify conservatives, for in them social change is born.

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Texas Legislature Poised to Pass Bill that Undermines Privacy for People Living With HIV

Texas Legislature Poised to Pass Bill that Undermines Privacy for People Living With HIV

The Texas State House is considering SB 799, a bill that would allow any HIV test results to be used in any criminal proceedings against a person with HIV in Texas. 
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Gay Catholic: 'I Still Want to Have a Family. It’s Just Going to Look Different' – VIDEO

Gay Catholic: 'I Still Want to Have a Family. It’s Just Going to Look Different' – VIDEO

Carlo

When Carlo, a gay Catholic from Sydney, Australia, told his aunt he was gay, she began sobbing uncontrollably. 

When she finally calmed down, she explained that she needed to grieve the loss of the image she built up for him of having a wife and children. 

“I said to her, ‘I get that, but I want to make sure you understand: I still want that,'” Carlo recalls. “‘I still want to have a family, but it’s just going to look different. It’s going to be with a man as opposed to a woman.'” 

Carlo tells his coming out story as part of Nathan Manske’s “I’m From Driftwood” project. He says he didn’t come out until 25, largely because of his Catholic upbringing, including his image of the perfect family as a father, mother and children. 

Finally, he began telling his friends he was gay, but he knew he hadn’t really come out until he told his parents. He did it as they were driving to church for a Catholic mass. 

“I said to them, ‘Mom, dad, I’m attracted to men,” he recalls. “There was a bit of silence for a moment, but Dad was the first person to chime up and say ‘Carlo, as long as you’re happy, we’re happy,'” Carlo says. “And mom soon thereafter said: ‘You can’t change who you are. This is you, and we want you to be you.’ So I was actually surprised that they didn’t have any more questions.” 

Carlo later explained to his parents that he didn’t plan to follow the church’s teaching that you can be gay as long as you’re celibate, which was slightly harder for them to understand. A few weeks later, he was making cake decorations with his aunt. 

“My auntie jokingly said, ‘Maybe you could make some of these pink rose cake decorations for your girlfriend,'” Carlo recalls. “I said, ‘Well, that will never happen, because I’m actually gay.'” 

Once his aunt stopped crying, she said she was grateful that he told her because it would allow them to have a deeper relationship. 

“What I’ve learned is that I can be gay and I can be Catholic and the two can actually build on each other, and strengthen both parts of my identity,” Carlo says.  

Watch Carlo tell his coming out story, AFTER THE JUMP … 


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Fox News Host Chris Wallace Grills Mike Huckabee on If He'd Ignore SCOTUS on Desegregation Too: VIDEO

Fox News Host Chris Wallace Grills Mike Huckabee on If He'd Ignore SCOTUS on Desegregation Too: VIDEO

Huckabee

During his 2016 presidential campaign announcement earlier this month, you may recall Mike Huckabee taking a thinly veiled shot at the Supreme Court’s upcoming ruling on same-sex marriage, saying:

“Many of our politicians have surrendered to the false god of judicial supremacy which would allow black robed and unelected judges the power to make law as well as enforce it.”

On Fox News Sunday earlier today, host Chris Wallace decided to give the evangelical favorite a refresher on Marbury v. Madison as well as history lesson on a fellow, former Arkansas governor who thought he didn’t have to follow the Supreme Court either.

Can’t blame the Huckster for not knowing these things though, he was probably busy reading his Bible in class as a kid instead of the textbook.

Watch Wallace ask whether Huckabee would have followed a Supreme Court order on desegregation, AFTER THE JUMP

 


Kyler Geoffroy

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Under Five Million People School the World

Under Five Million People School the World
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A small island nation of under five million people in the North Atlantic just showed a country of 318 million, and a world over seven billion, a thing or two about equality by becoming the first country in the world to legalize same sex marriage via a referendum vote of the people. Yes, Ireland, a country and people I’ve had the pleasure of visiting over a dozen times, by an overwhelming margin voted for marriage equality on May 22, 2015 (Harvey Milk Day in the U.S.A., appropriately enough). They become the 20th country to legalize same sex marriage, but the first to do so by popular vote.

I knew if the people that I have met over the last 20 years showed up at the polls that the measure would win. Never once in Ireland have I experienced homophobia; well, there was one time in Matt Malloy’s pub in the West of Ireland, but the homophobes were from Nashville, TN, not Ireland. And yes, that always surprised me, as much as the Pope may be surprised today; you see, Ireland is a Catholic country — I mean, really Catholic. This is a country that didn’t get divorce until 1992, one that just decriminalized homosexuality in the last three decades and one that just allowed condoms to be purchased over the counter since I’ve been going.

It was a hard felt battle. When I was in Ireland March last, the “Yes” side felt pretty confident. Then the Catholic church poured millions in to the “No” campaign and went the whole family values route. But, the Irish didn’t buy it. At least not the younger ones, even many of the older by the amounts of “Yes” votes received.

I sat worried on May 22 in the U.S.A.. The New York Times ran an editorial stating what a huge step this would be world wide, an accelerant for GLBT rights across the globe. The converse would mean if it went down in flames, it would be a huge blow.

By 2:00 a.m. PST Saturday May 23, 10 a.m. Irish time, it was becoming clear that the “yes” votes would prevail. By 07:00 PST, 15:00 Irish (3:00 p.m.) both sides declared that the “yes” would carry the day with an overwhelming margin. In fact, as of this writing, no district has voted “no” yet.

“What do you say to the Catholic Church that wants a ‘no’ vote from you today,” one presenter asked a middle-aged woman on her way to the polls. “I think they should mind their own business, especially as of late,” she responded, “I’m taking my country in to the next century,” she added as she scurried off.

“You must remember, that compared to Americans, the Irish are screaming left-wing liberals,” presenter George Hook told me in our last interview. “We are a left leaning nation by far, which is often at odds with our religious roots in today’s world,” he went on. “And when we decide this, it will be decided. In other words, we won’t rehash it every year. It will be done, the law of the land,” Hook concluded.

And so it will be.

It’s the season of Gay Pride in America. Long Beach, Calif. just celebrated their Pride festival on May 16 and 17 and Los Angeles, New York, San Francisco and many cities in between will continue over the next few months. The festivals were meant to celebrate the spirit of Stonewall, the spirit of oppressed people who had taken enough and stood up for their civil rights.

All over Europe Friday, straights, gays, bis, everyone stood up for GLBT rights and yes, it makes me cry right here, right now. Truly, as one of America’s openly gay media figures for the last three decades, I’ve debated this issue a lot on CNN, MSNBC, in print, in other countries, on BBC, RTE. And I’ve watched homophobia rise, not fall, of late. As singer, Sam Smith, just revealed even he, in the last year, has been hit and called a “faggot” while on tour. It’s still not easy being gay.

Tears. My lesbian niece in Seattle, WA, just texted me, she’s been to Ireland with me before, Uncle Charles, We Won! We Won! and my friend Steven Cabral already this morning, “Karel, we won, it passed; they said yes!”

Joy, happiness, true exuberance, it comes from feeling accepted, from winning long fought battles, from not being discouraged for a change. It’s a shame America can’t do this for all of its people, but Ireland is and that gives the GLBT community around the world hope. Yes, hope that people, including people in our country, their country, wherever they may be, that people can get this issue right. If a Catholic nation can do it, anyone can. And should.

Dublin Castle is alive and electric Saturday, May 23, as people from all around the world gather in anticipation of the final victory’s announcement (it should come at 10:00 PST, 18:00 Irish 6 p.m.) “I’m a gay Irish-Catholic American and I’m here to bear witness to history,” Jay Lassiter told the Irish Times on May 23rd while waiting the final count. And he wasn’t alone. The world was literally waiting.

An award-winning video directed by Karel about Marriage Equality that uses the Jefferson Quote about changing Constitutions

This vote changes the Irish Constitution. That’s right — they changed their document to be inclusive, to grant rights. How Thomas Jefferson of them, the spirit of one of his most famous quotes living and breathing today in Ireland.

“I am not an advocate for frequent changes in laws and constitutions, but laws and institutions must go hand in hand with the progress of the human mind,” Panel Four on the Jefferson Memorial reads in Washington, D.C.

As that becomes more developed, more enlightened, as new discoveries are made, new truths discovered and manners and opinions change, with the change of circumstances, institutions must advance also to keep pace with the times.

We might as well require a man to wear still the coat which fitted him when a boy as civilized society to remain ever under the regimen of their barbarous ancestors.

It appears the Irish agree with Jefferson more than many Americans.

The Irish vote is a huge step for GLBT rights around the globe, and it comes at the time the progress of those rights are celebrated here in the U.S. It’s a lesson that a country can have faith, and believe me, the Irish have faith. This is not a vote saying they are a godless nation. On the contrary, many Irish believe that god and gays are fine with each other, that god is love and understanding and wants families to come together, not be torn apart — all families. It’s a country that struggles with the confines of its faith, but one that puts human rights tantamount to all else. Because they’ve suffered. I mean, they’ve really suffered in that country. Tyrants, plague, famine, Viking invasion — you name it, they’ve had it.

And yet, their hearts remain open to all people.

In 1999, I went to Ireland afraid because of violence in the North and the fact that it hadn’t even been a decade since being gay had been made legal. From the first step, the feeling of welcome was felt then, and over the years, I have always felt like a welcomed visitor in their country. I have brought my partner to meet their President, danced with my late husband in pubs all across the Temple Bar in Dublin, and walked the Moors hand in hand with a man. And never once did anyone say anything to me except “Hello!” or “Welcome.”

A small island nation in the North Atlantic is schooling the world on equal rights. I want every member of the GLBT community, and those allies, to remember Ireland when you are spending vacation dollars. Support this country, these people, who have made such a bold statement to the world, and to their church.

Religion and civil rights can exist side by side; good, god-fearing Catholics can be gay or accept them, and devastation won’t happen when equality is granted.

Thank you to every “yes” campaigner in Ireland. From a 52-year-old gay American, I feel very, very Irish today. As a country and as a people, you have my continued love. As an example to the world today you shine like no other.

Sláinte! What you’ve done is brilliant! I’ll see you in September, and until that time, thanks for giving millions hope around the world in your one, simple vote.

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Sweden's Eurovision Winner Previously Called Homosexuality an 'Abnormality' – VIDEO

Sweden's Eurovision Winner Previously Called Homosexuality an 'Abnormality' – VIDEO

Zelmerlow

Well this certainly puts a bit of a damper on the camp-tastic Eurovision Song Contest:

Sweden’s Mans Zelmerlow won the final of the Eurovision Song Contest in Vienna on Sunday, beating Russia and Italy in the big international talent show which will be held in his home country next year.

The 28-year-old singer and TV presenter performed the winning electro-pop ballad Heroes, dancing in front of a black screen with animated gnomes.

Last year, Zelmerlow came under fire and subsequently apologized for saying “it isn’t equally natural for men to want to sleep with one another.” He also called homosexuality an “avvikelse” which can be translated as “abnormality.” 

 
“I want to apologize to all who take offense,” he said in a follow up statement at the time. “I believe and hope that the vast majority know that I respect differences and all forms of love.”
 
Watch Zelmerlow’s winning performance during last night’s Eurovision finale (which also featured a sky high performance by Conchita Wurst), AFTER THE JUMP
 
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Kyler Geoffroy

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'Inside Out: Portraits Of Cross-Gender Children' Beautifully Documents Transgender Kids

'Inside Out: Portraits Of Cross-Gender Children' Beautifully Documents Transgender Kids
For the past 12 years, Dutch photographer Sarah Wong has documented the lives and experiences of a group of children who have transitioned — or are in the process of transitioning — to live as their authentic selves.

Wong captured these images of children involved with VU University in Amsterdam, where they engaged in a type of therapy that aimed to support children who experience gender dysphoria. A number of these kids took or have taken puberty blockers in order to delay the effects of puberty until they decide how they want to live their lives. However, the photos were taken at the kids’ homes, schools, ballet classes — spaces where they felt most comfortable.

Wong shared the images with the world through a book called Inside Out: Portraits Of Cross-Gender Children, published in 2011. A medical research journalist from the Dutch Volkskrant newspaper, Ellen de Visser, wrote the book’s text.

The Huffington Post chatted with Wong this week about the children in these photos, as well as her own experiences documenting the lives of these kids.

ballet girl 2005
Ballet Girl, 2005

The Huffington Post: Who are the children captured in these photographs?
Sarah Wong: These are Dutch, cross-gender children aged 5 up to 17. I photographed them since 2003 by request of their parents. I worked as a photographer in health care and had just finished a photo book about a children’s hospital. We met, and the cross-gender children immediately touched my heart.

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Ballet Girl, 2010

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Boy with swimming suit, 2009

“At the end we’re all the same — souls who want to be happy and live compassionately.”

What was your goal/intention with photographing these children?
My goal was to help them to find happiness. With their portraits I wanted to empower them — no sensational journalistic approach. Not a boy in a dress or a girl with a football. When people saw the portraits they said, “lovely children, but who are they?”

The photographs showed lovely children, with a strong consciousness: this is who I truly am. At the end we’re all the same — souls who want to be happy and live compassionately.

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Boy with boxing trainer, 2010

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Girl, 2003

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Boy, 2007

What were the experiences of these children like at this European clinic?
The children had very good experiences at the VUmc because of the puberty blockers. The greatest nightmare from a cross-gender child is your body growing the wrong direction. A boy doesn’t want breasts and girls don’t want to have a beard. The puberty-blockers gave relief and thinking time, and they could grow up like “normal” teenagers.

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Boy, 2009

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Girl, 2015

Why, as a photographer, is providing these stories and experiences visibility so important?
As an artist your work can have a great impact on public opinion. I was always very interested in identity and compassion and felt sometimes more like a psychologist or detective-profiler, than a photographer.

I realized very young, at age 21 in art school, that as an artist, your photographs can have a great impact on the public opinion. I was very much inspired by Robert Capa and Henry Cartier Bresson, Magnum photographers.

It’s very important for society to see these images — theres nothing sensational about transgender kids. Again, at the end we’re pretty much the same: we’re all souls who want to live happy and give meaning to our life and others.

It was during the project that I suddenly understood why these photos were incredibly important for the kids. They showed who they really were. The photographs were almost forensic proof for them.

Mostly, photography is about the emotions and ego from the artist. Well, during this project my ego shrunk every photoshoot because I was in service of them. And I liked very much the idea that the photographs we made were for a greater purpose. Unfortunately, I could never expose them in a museum because of the integrity of the children. Now that they’re older I’m looking for a great spot. Society and public opinion has changed.

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Girl, 2003

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Girl, 2009

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Princess on white horse, 2012

What do you hope viewers take away from these images?
I truly hope The Huffington Post audience will take the compassionate way of looking. This means a way of looking with the heart — free from personal emotions.

If you get emotional with someone’s suffering you are not in a position of empowering someone. The very first doctor who helped these children was a pioneer as well. During the weekend he was a deacon in a church. The reason he wanted to help transgender gender people was because of this compassionate way of looking at them — not as a doctor but as a human being.

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Butterfly tableau, 2010

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Butterfly tableau, 2012

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