Messing With Texas on Marriage

Messing With Texas on Marriage
Recently, Texas bewildered the rest of the nation as it overreacted to the Jade Helm 15 military exercise taking place this summer. Because Texas was labeled “hostile” territory on maps of the simulated battlefield for the exercise, some Texans worried that the exercise would be used as an excuse to take over Texas by declaring martial law and confiscating Texans’ guns.

Of course, pundits scoffed at the suggestion and derided Texas Governor Greg Abbott for ordering the Texas State Guard to monitor the military exercise. Reacting to the overreaction, the federal government has sought to assuage the concerns of the paranoid.

But the federal government might wish to rethink its stance on the exercises in light of this week’s moves in the Texas legislature regarding same-sex marriage. Anticipating the result in the same-sex marriage cases recently argued before the U.S. Supreme Court, the Texas legislature is considering a bill that would prohibit state and local officials from issuing or recognizing the marriage licenses of same-sex couples.

Through this bill, the Texas legislature is trying to send a message to the Supreme Court as it considers whether to extend the right to marry to same-sex couples nationwide. The message is undoubtedly that more conservative areas of the United States will actively resist any attempt to extend the right to marry to same-sex couples. They will try to slow the progress of the LGBT movement by ensuring that any pro-LGBT decision from the Supreme Court is bogged down in litigation for years to come.

Though far from unexpected, this proposed legislation is wholly without foundation. Ostensibly, the bill aims to protect the sovereignty of the State of Texas over the definition of marriage. Indeed, the second section of the bill states that “[T]he purpose of this Act is to affirm that the definition and regulation of marriage is within the sole authority and realm of the separate states and the people within those states.”

But that simply is not true. As someone who has practiced and taught federal tax law for many years, I can tell you that the federal government generally defers to the states on the definition of marriage, but it does often meddle with that definition for purposes of determining who is married under federal law. So, to say that the states have “sole authority” over the definition and regulation of marriage is incorrect as a matter of fact. What’s more, we are quickly approaching the 50th anniversary of the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision in Loving v. Virginia, a case in which the Court struck down the remaining state laws prohibiting interracial marriage — including Texas’s.

That makes you wonder what the state legislators who support the pending bill would say were they asked whether Texas should similarly be permitted to reinstitute its ban against interracial marriage in defiance of a U.S. Supreme Court decision. After all, then, as now, the Supremacy Clause of the U.S. Constitution provides that the Constitution is the “supreme Law of the Land… , any Thing in the Constitution or Laws of any State to the Contrary notwithstanding.”

So, is this really about states’ rights or is it just another instance of states’ rights being used as code for a license to discriminate?

The answer becomes clearer when you recall that now-Governor Abbott was Attorney General of the State of Texas two years ago when the Supreme Court decided United States v. Windsor. Then-Attorney General Abbott (along with a number of other state attorneys general) joined an amicus brief in the Windsor case that urged the Supreme Court to uphold section 3 of the federal Defense of Marriage Act. At that time, section 3 of DOMA prohibited the federal government from legally recognizing same-sex marriages validly entered into in states that had extended the right to marry to same-sex couples. In other words, then-Attorney General Abbott urged the federal government to override state determinations of who could marry. Where was the concern then for “states’ rights” and the “sole authority” of each state to determine who is married?

Depending on how the Supreme Court rules in the same-sex marriage cases it is currently considering, the federal government might find it convenient having the military in Texas at a time when that state’s legislature is contemplating open defiance of the U.S. Constitution, which each of the legislators has sworn to “preserve, protect, and defend.”

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How To Get A Kiss From Darren Criss, Cate Blanchett Has Loved Many Ladies, Britney Is Totally Hopeless

How To Get A Kiss From Darren Criss, Cate Blanchett Has Loved Many Ladies, Britney Is Totally Hopeless

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Cate Blanchett, whose new lesbian-themed film Carol will premiere at the Cannes Film Festival, reveals she’s had a few lady lovers herself.

Even when performing the material of other entertainers Sia kills it, as she proves with this cover of “California Dreamin’” for the upcoming disaster epic San Andreas.

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If you’ve dreamed of Darren Criss planting a smooch on you, keep dreaming — literally. While playing Hedwig on Broadway, the actor sometimes finds a distracted audience member to make out with when his characters wanders offstage.

Even Britney Spears‘ most loyal fans defending her lazy work in the video for her duet with Iggy Azalea, “Pretty Girls,” which is a rip off homage to the ’80s comedy Earth Girls Are Easy. As Gawker puts it: “She just sings what they tell her, doesn’t ask questions, and tries her best just to get through it all.”

Are you ready to rock out with the film adaptation of Jem and the Holograms? Not so much? Same here.

Everybody dies, apparently even luscious Tyler Posey in the upcoming MTV series Scream.

The common wisdom that Meryl Streep can do anything is tested once again with her role as a faded rock star in the upcoming comedy Ricki and the Flash which reunites her with Sophie’s Choice costar Kevin Kline. Director Jonathan Demme has already spilled that Streep can out-sing Gaga on her “Bad Romance” cover and the trailer proves the three-time Oscar-winning actress can even wring laughs from a bad joke about gray pubes.

Amy Schumer is now the worst nightmare of every vapid actress working today. Bless her!

You’ve probably already watched several red carpet interviews from last weekend’s GLAAD Media Awards, but you’ve likely never seen anything like Mike Diamond‘s interview technique.

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Phyllis Schlafly: Gay Activists Want To 'Wipe Out' Christianity – LISTEN

Phyllis Schlafly: Gay Activists Want To 'Wipe Out' Christianity – LISTEN

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Anti-gay wingnut and Eagle Forum founder Phyllis Schlafly has said that marriage equality advocates are trying “to wipe out the Christian religion”, reports Right Wing Watch.

In an interview with conservative radio host Chuck Wilder earlier this week, Schlafly spoke out for “harassed” business owners who have violated religious right to discriminate laws:

“Have you noticed that only Christian small-businesspeople have been harassed and sued for refusing to participate in same-sex marriages even though our fast-growing immigrant populations, you know of Muslims, Hindus and other faiths are also opposed to that concept?

“They want to wipe out the Christian religion. And most of these other religions do not recognize same-sex marriage. I assume there are some Muslim bakers and photographers and other people who have been harassed, but they’re not being attacked and they’re not being criticized.”

Hmmmm……

Listen, AFTER THE JUMP


Jim Redmond

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Here's What Happens When You Forget About Sex Roles and Rules

Here's What Happens When You Forget About Sex Roles and Rules
The first time we kissed, she pushed me up against the side of my Wrangler and pinned me tightly to the cold metal. I’m not going to lie. I love that shit and I seriously melted at the sheer aggression she displayed out of the gate. But it’s not the only way I like to play. And since it was our first date, I wondered immediately if she could, well, switch.

I’m a small girl — barely 5-even on a good day — and Gap Kids fits me better than Gap. But I’m no shrinking violet. I speak my mind to anyone who will listen and I have never once met a stranger.

This has left me in a quandary when it comes to sex. Girls make assumptions about who I am in bed because of my small stature and femme presentation. They automatically assume submission. They often also assume fragility as well.

I’ve made the unfortunate choice of not being true to my sexual self in the past and it hasn’t gone well. I allowed girls to treat me like a submissive and acquiesced when they said they didn’t ever want to find themselves on the receiving end.

But the truth is, as much as I love to be thrown around, I can also enjoy taking the lead myself. So when I discovered that my now-girlfriend, the one who pinned me so aggressively to my Jeep that night, could play on the submissive side as well (and could change roles on a dime, at that!) all the bells went off in my head. The good bells.

I whispered nasty things in her ear. I climbed onto her lap. I told her what to do and I reminded her what would happen if she didn’t see fit to obey. And then I held my breath, eager — and a little bit anxious — to see how she would react. No doubt she could have tossed me off her lap. This was all about the mindfuck, the power play and if this was going to work for more than a night or two, I needed to know if she was in.

Her eyes went soft and breath quickened. She was frozen in her seat and she obeyed me to the letter and I have never felt more relieved or turned on. In a snap this girl was happy to be whoever it was her turn to be. Taking turns. One of the first and best lessons we learn as a kid. Makes sense now more than ever to play by those rules. That way, everyone on the playground is assured a good time.

They call that being “a switch.”

To my mind, it’s magic … might even be the secret to avoiding lesbian bed death. With so many roles to play, how could you ever get bored? With this kind of fluid role reversing, you get to be all the things you are and want to be and even never realized you could or wanted to be.

How do you know if you’re a switch? Well, if you like playing both sides of the fence, as it were, that might be the exactly who you are.

It erases the “this is what femme sexual behavior looks like” and “this is what non-femme (soft butch, fill-in-the-blank) sexual behavior looks like” and instead introduces my favorite kind of sex — “this is what sex looks like for you and me as we define it and change it and explore it as we go.”

Being a switch doesn’t mean you have to do anything. Toys and strap-ons and every position under the sun are at your disposal, but not required. All it means is that you always get to choose and the options to choose from are infinite regardless of whether you wear your hair long or short, whether your go-to shoes are high heels or loafers, whether you fancy yourself super girly or not so much.

Read the rest of this piece here!

This article appeared in the Dallas Voice print edition May 8, 2015.

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Ex-Jehovah’s Witness To Gay Community: “Everything I Learned…Is A Big Pile Of Sh*t”

Ex-Jehovah’s Witness To Gay Community: “Everything I Learned…Is A Big Pile Of Sh*t”

jehovahs-witness-at-the-door-shutterstock-800x430Not that this is news exactly, but religion teaches some wacky nonsense. And Jehovah’s Witnesses are up there among the looniest of the toons.

One ex-Jehovah’s Witness named Misha Anouk decided to pen a letter to the LGBT community detailing his journey from the other side. It’s an important reminder that we all have the power to open our minds, no matter where you come from or what you’ve been taught.

Here’s how he tells it:

Dear LGBT-Community, I was a homophobic assh*le for two-thirds of my life. I am 33 now and it is time for me to apologize.

You see, I was born into a family of Jehovah’s Witnesses. I was a member of this organization for nearly 21 years. I got baptized when I was 14 and left Jehovah’s Witnesses on December 16th, 2003.

Let me get this straight: Individual members Jehovah’s Witnesses are not bad people per se. Most of the former spiritual sisters and brothers I had contact with were great guys who wanted the best for their family, their friends and – believe it or not – the people they visited to distribute their Watchtower and Awake! magazines. I know this for sure because I was one of them.

And that’s why I firmly believe that Jehovah’s Witnesses as an organization are a homophobic cult…

Of course, Jehovah’s Witnesses claim not to judge the individual – but who are they kidding? As soon as you start judging the actions of an individual you automatically start judging the person behind the actions. Especially if you associate these actions with labels like “unnatural sexual perversion”, “hate”, “perverted desire”, “condemn”, “abhorrent”, “sexually degrading” – or even compare it to the sexual abuse of children.

Related: This Flow Chart That Destroys Religion’s Case Against Gay Marriage Is So Easy, Any Zealot Can Use It

Most of the Jehovah’s Witnesses I knew agreed with the sentiments displayed in above quotes. I know that for sure, because I agreed with them.

I am ashamed to say that for the better part of my life I detested Homosexuality, thought it to be a sin, something bad. I viewed Homosexuals as perverted and used gay as a swear word. I wasn’t the only one. When my Jehovah’s Witness friends and I watched a movie with gay protagonists we felt sick and made no secret of it. We were convinced Homosexuals would die in Armageddon and we believed they deserved it.

To be honest: I did have a bad conscience, even back then, whenever I looked down on Homosexuals, because I knew it was only the actions that were to be judged. But then again I had read in the Bible that Jehovah hated Homosexuality so it couldn’t be that wrong to detest them, right?

On December 16, 2003 I was disfellowshipped by Jehovah’s Witnesses. My former friends have shunned me since then, my brother hasn’t spoken a single word to me since then and what I have with my friends is what I would call a relationshipwreck. I experienced first-hand what it means when people look down on you because they don’t agree with your lifestyle. That is the first lesson I learned.

Related: 10 Bible-Based Reasons Why Christians Should Love Homosexuality

The second, much more valuable lesson I have learned in the past 11 years is that everything I learned about life from Jehovah’s Witnesses is a big pile of sh*t. I grew up as a Jehovah’s Witness and turned into a homophobic assh*le because of that.

And I am proud to say that I am this assh*le no more. When I stopped being a Jehovah’s Witness I learned to have respect for all walks of life. I learned that you can choose who you sleep with and how you dress, but you do not choose your sexuality or your biological gender. I grew up in a binary world. But when I left, the diverse world beyond Jehovah’s Witnesses grew on me, and I learned to love it. I have a bunch of friends from the LGBT community and they all welcomed me into their lives despite of my past. Their example touched me and showed me what a jerk I used to be.

I have no idea how many people I have hurt in my life through my beliefs and homophobic or sexist slurs I may have uttered. It doesn’t matter because it is enough that I even entertained these kind of thoughts for the better part of my life. I am honestly sorry I was this kind of person. I know for sure that Jehovah’s Witnesses don’t tolerate crimes against Homosexuals. But they don’t realize that hate speech like theirs is a breeding ground for crimes against Homosexuals. I am so happy that I had the chance to change. I will never be able to make up for what I once believed. The least I can do is to apologize for having been part of a movement that contributes to intolerance. And I will do everything I can to contribute to the making of a world where everybody has the same rights as I no matter where they come from, what they identify as or who they love.

Best regards,
Misha Anouk

Dan Tracer

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Meet 'Mouthfeel', the New Gay Culinary Magazine with a Punk Twist

Meet 'Mouthfeel', the New Gay Culinary Magazine with a Punk Twist

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If you’re looking for something a little more sultry than just sumptuous fare in your food magazines, new publication Mouthfeel might just be the new magazine for you, with dishes and dishy boys sure to whet your appetite.
 
The magazine explores the complexities of food and the characters involved, all from a gay point-of-view and with a hardcore punk aesthetic. Described as being “for readers with unrestrained appetites for food, men, music and humor” each issue promises to serve up profiles, photos, artwork, recipes, essays and more.
 
Says founder Founder and Creative Director Mac Malikowski of the project, “I wanted to bring together the culture I live in – a combo of food, coffee, humor, hardcore and some hot guys here and there to keep it interesting. My favorite media always carries the torch of counter-culture. And counter-culture to me has always generated the best in food, art, music and my favorite types of guys. It’s a natural equation to me.” 
 
Check out a few more snaps to give you a feel for Mouthfeel, AFTER THE JUMP…
 
You can also purchase your print copy of the magazine HERE. The first issue is a limited edition run of 100 copies. Online content is slated to be released May 18. 

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Sean Mandell

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