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Kevin Hart Says He’s Too Insecure To Ever Play A Gay Character

Kevin Hart Says He’s Too Insecure To Ever Play A Gay Character

130702135852-faces-of-kevin-hart-mtv-show-2007-horizontal-gallery“I can’t [play a gay character] because I don’t think I’m really going to dive into that role 100 percent, because of the insecurities about myself trying to play that part. What I think people are going to think while I’m trying to do this is going to stop me from playing that part the way I’m supposed to.”

 

Comic actor Kevin Hart who also noted that he “appreciates and respects” the gay community while chatting with the hosts of the Breakfast Club on Power 105.1 

 

H/t: HuffPo

Jeremy Kinser

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A Look Back At Madonna’s Greatest Live TV Performances

A Look Back At Madonna’s Greatest Live TV Performances

It was announced this week that Madonna will be performing at the 57th Grammy Awards in Los Angeles on February 8. The “Living for Love” singer is about to embark on a major media blitz to promote her thirteenth studio album Rebel Heart, due out on March 10.

No word yet on which song — or songs — our lady M will be performing, or if any other artists will appear on stage with her (Nicki Minaj, perhaps?), but we have a feeling that it’s going to be big.

We can hardly wait to see what tricks the Queen has up her sleeve!

In anticipation for Madonna’s upcoming performance, here’s s a roundup of some of her greatest live TV performances…

 

2006 Grammy Awards

Clad in a purple sequined leotard with matching high heels and lots of glittery bangle bracelets, Madonna looked smokin’ hot while singing “Hung Up” alongside the cartoon band the Gorillaz. (What ever happened to them anyway?) Seriously, there’s nothing we don’t love about this performance. The music. The choreography. The costumes. The lights. And, most importantly, the slow-motion dance break at the 5:30 mark. It’s beyond.

 

1995 Brit Awards

Bathed in white light and dressed in a flowing silk nightgown, Madonna looked like an angelic Greek goddess as she belted out the title track from her 1994 album Bedtime Stories whilst standing before two enormous fans that kept her platinum blonde hair blowing Heavenward for the entire four-and-a-half minutes.

 

1997 Academy Awards

Determined to prove that, despite what the critics claimed, she could actually sing, Madge took to the stage of the 1997 Academy Awards to perform the ballad “You Must Love Me” from her hit film Evita. And it worked. She proved herself. And we loved her.

 

1990 MTV Music Video Awards

Everyone always talks about Madonna’s performance at the 1894 MTV Music Video Awards when she writhed around on stage in a wedding dress cooing “Like A Virgin.” That performance was iconic, but, deep down, we’ve always preferred the spectacle she put on at the 1990 MTV Music Video Awards when she channeled her inner Marie Antoinette and lip-synced the song “Vogue.” (Yes, die-hards, she lip-synced. Look closely and you’ll see she doesn’t have a microphone anywhere.)

 

1985 Live Aid

When Madonna performed at the first Live Aid music event in 1985, she was big, but she wasn’t yet the pop cultural force to be reckoned with that she is today. This gem of a performance features Madge before she was, well, Madge and she still hadn’t quite shaken her youthful and ebullient club performer persona.

 

1995 American Music Awards

Our Lady M hit the stage with R&B crooner Babyface at the 1995 AMAs to serenade audiences with her mega-hit “Take A Bow.” The performance is noteworthy because it marks one of the few times she has ever performed the ballad live, despite it being one of the most successful singles of her career, spending seven weeks at number 1 on the Billboard Hot 100.

 

2012 Superbowl Halftime

Of course, we couldn’t forget to include Madonna’s epic 2012 Superbowl Halftime performance, during which our Queen, dressed like Cleopatra, sung a medley of some of her greatest hits, including “Open Your Heart,” “Like A Prayer,” “Vogue,” and “Music.”

 

Related stories:

This Is How Madonna Was Introduced To The World 31 Years Ago

Something To Remember: The 12 Most Underrated Madonna Songs Of All Time

Happy Birthday, Madonna! 56 Reasons Why We Love The Queen Of Pop In GIFs

 

Graham Gremore

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Comedian Simon Amstell Shares His Well Lubricated Dream About Wet Dungeon Boys: VIDEO

Comedian Simon Amstell Shares His Well Lubricated Dream About Wet Dungeon Boys: VIDEO

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Out gay comedian Simon Amstell appeared on Conan O’Brien’s late night show this week and riffed on how he regrets not having had more sexual adventures before settling down in a relationship. However, the comedian notes that the type of adventures he craves are not ones he’s particularly well cut-out to handle. Nor are they situations he feels he has a lot to offer. An orgy, for instance: “My personality is not suited to an orgy. What I bring to a social setting is humor. That is not required at an orgy. No one wants to be sarcastically fellated.” 

Amstell also shares a fantasy he had while on vacation in France with his boyfriend that caught him off-guard: 

“Even though it’s perfect, even though I love [my boyfriend], I fall asleep next to him, I have a dream that I’m being seduced by this wet dungeon boy and not wet from water. Covered in lubricant. And I should have known it was a dream because it was too much lubricant.”

Watch as Amstell hilariously recounts his dream and how it almost ruined his vacation, AFTER THE JUMP…


Sean Mandell

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The Difference Between Dating Men And Boys

The Difference Between Dating Men And Boys

unnamedWhen does a boy become a man? Is it an age thing? When you’re 35, perhaps? We know plenty of 35-year-olds who still act like teenagers. Go to any gay bar in the country and you’ll find middle-aged men squeezed into Abercrombie T-shirts proving it every night.

Maybe it’s an experience thing. As soon as you rack up enough real-world lessons, you start to view the world and yourself in a new way.

For gay men, it seems to be somewhere in the middle. Sure, age is a factor. A 45 year-old is more likely to be emotionally mature than a 25 year-old, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t exceptions.

In dating, the feeling of seeing a boy or a man can be dramatically different. We teamed up with our friends at Compatible Partners to offer some guidance on the two.

1. Grown up men don’t chase

Dating in your twenties and even through your thirties can feel like a flashy Vegas casino game. Sometimes you’re up, sometimes you’re down, but you’re always standing at the table ready to swallow those complimentary cocktails.

Dating apps don’t help. We woof at each other, swipe one another and “load more guys” in a never ending carnival ride of sex and desire. Gaming dynamics are purposefully built into these hook-up tools to keep it fun, and to keep you coming back to chase the next hottest thing.

The idea of sex as a conquest is a boyish pursuit. But there’s a flip side to beware of.

If you’re interested in a man and he’s not going all-out schoolboy crush on you, you may need to make the first move. Let him know you’re interested, and if he feels the same, take it from there.

2. Grown up men know how to communicate

As guys mature, they tend to be more comfortable in their own skin. That translates into being more comfortable in general. They’ve had time to find their center, and are able to communicate directly and vulnerably.

As maturity grows, the ego tends to shrink a bit. A successful relationship winds up hinging on a devoted desire to give the other person happiness rather than taking from your partner what you think you need. These dynamics can get mighty tricky unless the channel of communication is wide open.

3. Grown up men would rather be alone than be with the wrong guy

Being comfortable on your own is a vital quality in becoming a man. The most successful relationships are two people spinning independently, together. One partner shouldn’t rely on the other to stand up straight.

In our 20s and 30s we might be looking for someone to create a new reality with, but as we get older it becomes more about sharing your already developed existence, and having someone else share theirs with you. Of course you still might end up falling head over heels for one another and integrating more deeply into each other’s lives, but it should be a fully intentional move — not just “because it felt OK.”

Dan Tracer

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This 13-Year-Old’s Response To Her Brother Coming Out And Being Told It’s Wrong To Be Gay Is Awesome

This 13-Year-Old’s Response To Her Brother Coming Out And Being Told It’s Wrong To Be Gay Is Awesome

The Catholic Church has long served as a roadblock for full acceptance of LGBT people. But these times they are a-changing. And they’re changing fast.

A user on Imgur, the popular online image hosting service, recently posted a screenshot of a text message he received from his 13-year-old sister, Paige. What she wrote to her gay brother will totally make your day and possibly even restore your faith in humanity.

Check it out:

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You go, Paige! We couldn’t have said it better ourselves. It’s strong-willed, free-thinking young people like yourself who are paving the way for a more loving and accepting world.

Related stories:

“Forrest Gump” Actor Gary Sinise Cancels Appearance at Antigay Catholic Hate Rally

10 Bible-Based Reasons Why Christians Should Love Homosexuality

Is Pope Francis About To Sever The Catholic Church’s Alliance With Anti-Gay Evangelicals?

Graham Gremore

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Why My Friends and Family Slut Shamed Me for Contracting an STI

Why My Friends and Family Slut Shamed Me for Contracting an STI
Until very recently, I had been single and dating for about the past four months. I had been on dates with several men during that time, and while it may seem shocking to some, I had sex with a portion of those men. A few weeks ago I began experiencing the classic symptoms of an STI, so I went to my doctor right away.

I was not surprised when I was immediately treated with antibiotics to attack both gonorrhea and chlamydia, as they tend to go hand in hand. My test results came back, and, as expected, I tested positive for both gonorrhea and chlamydia. By the time we knew the results, I had already been successfully treated and cured.

I had disclosed this information to some of my closest family and friends only to be greeted with an attitude of slut shaming. I got the same response from nearly everyone I told. They would all mention something sort of like this: “I’m glad to hear you got treated, but you should really be more careful and use protection.”

Perhaps the people who said these things are just ignorant of how these kinds of STIs are spread, but I was highly offended by these comments, because I do use protection, and I am very aware of my sexual health. I always use protection during penetrative sex and recently got a prescription to begin taking Truvada as PrEP.

Here’s the thing: Many of these common and easily curable STIs can easily be spread through non-penetrative sex. I know for a fact that everyone who preached to me about practicing “safer sex” does not use protection for oral and other non-penetrative forms of sex. Yet they somehow find it appropriate to stigmatize my sexual behavior simply because I contracted two of the most common STIs.

In fact, after the first signs of some type of infection, I immediately visited my physician and got treated. I also notified everyone who may have been exposed. I did all the right things, but because the infections I contracted were of a sexual nature, for some reason they felt I needed some sort of lecture on safer sex. None of these people lectured me about hand washing the last time I caught a cold.

Based on the amount of people who asked me if gonorrhea and chlamydia were treatable, my takeaway from this experience is that these people are the ones who need to practice safer sex and be more aware of their sexual health. I don’t think anyone meant to slut shame me, but I do think they lack basic knowledge regarding STIs and how they’re spread.

This is precisely why people don’t openly discuss their sexual health, because people are afraid of being stigmatized by those who are uninformed. It’s also the reason that so many of these diseases continue to spread, because people think they’re practicing “safe sex” when in reality they should probably go get tested for STIs.

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LGBT-Inclusive School May Soon Be Opening Its Doors, But Is It A Good Idea?

LGBT-Inclusive School May Soon Be Opening Its Doors, But Is It A Good Idea?

157434732A school geared specifically towards LGBT students may be opening its doors in Manchester, England within the next three years.

“It is about trying to develop something that helps people that need extra support,” Amelia Lee, strategic director for LGBT Youth North West in Manchester, told The Guardian“Despite the laws that claim to protect gay people from homophobic bullying, the truth is that in schools especially, bullying is still incredibly common and causes young people to feel isolated and alienated, which often leads to truanting and, in the worst-case scenarios, to suicide.”

The proposed school will be located in the heart of Manchester and will offer classroom space for up to 40 full-time students, as well as 20 part-time students who also want to continue attending a mainstream school.

“This is not about making a little, safe enclave away from the real world,” Lee said. “The school will have a gentle, supportive atmosphere. Its curriculum will be closely tailored to each child’s needs and incorporate academic work with youth-work techniques, such as building self-esteem and functional skills by working in the charity’s cafe or community garden.”

Lee noted that the present school system in Manchester is failing 5-10 percent of pupils, many of whom either don’t respond well to the structure or are struggling with their identities. This new school will offer them an alternative and a place to thrive.

“We can either hope every school is going to be inclusive,” Lee said, “or we can recognize we are not there yet and so, for the moment, we need more specialized schools.”

“It will be LGBT-inclusive, but not exclusive,” she said.

But not everyone agrees with Lee. Some LGBT rights activists feel a school of this sort doesn’t help to advance their cause.

“We know that LGBT students still experience bullying and harassment. That needs to change,” Ruth Hunt, chief executive of the LGBT advocacy group Stonewall, tells the Guardian. “While we’re sympathetic to the aims and objectives of LGBT-only schools, we don’t see them as the answer.”

“Our experience working with more than 12,000 schools across the country shows that it is possible to create safe and inclusive environments where all pupils can be themselves,” she continues. “This makes the learning environment better for all students–regardless of their sexual orientation–and is the key to eradicating homophobia in every single school in Britain.”

But there are plenty of young people who feel that a specialized school is absolutely necessary.

Ellie (not her real name) told the Guardian that after she was outed by someone at her school the fallout was “awful” and that “none of the teachers did anything to help me.” In fact, some went out of their way to make things worse.

“The PE teacher made me change clothes with the lads because she said I wasn’t attracted to them,” Ellie said. “It annoyed me so much that I stopped going to PE, which meant I got in trouble for missing the lessons.”

She eventually had to transfer to a new school.

Rob (also not his real name) told the Guardian that constant homophobic bullying made his school experience extremely difficult. He, too, blames his teachers for not doing enough to stick up for him.

“They need to help us feel safe in our own environment of school,” Ron said. “And they should teach the other students how LGBT people just want to be like anyone else. But none of this happens and, as a result, LGBT pupils routinely experience bullying that, if it was racist or sexist, wouldn’t be accepted by the school for a second.”

The new school is being planned as an extension to Manchester’s Joyce Layland LGBT Centre and will likely open in 2018.

Related stories:

Crowd Gathers To Support 14-Year Old Trying To Start GSA

Transgender Student Crowned Prom Queen At Boston Area High School

Students Prevail Over Principal Who Blocked Efforts To Establish Gay-Straight Alliance

Graham Gremore

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