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Florida Legalizes Driving While Gay-Married

Florida Legalizes Driving While Gay-Married
Florida has finally legalized driving while gay. Bills to discriminate against gay couples are rapidly multiplying in Texas. And multiple states are still wasting hundreds of thousands of dollars to try to reverse marriage equality.

Last fall, Scott and Daniel Wall-DeSousa got new driver’s licenses after they married in New York and hyphenated their name. But the state of Florida said that it wouldn’t recognize their new names — even though it was a legal name change — and canceled the licenses, which effectively meant that they couldn’t drive. But now that couples can marry in Florida, the Wall-DeSousas finally have their new licenses. So, there you go, Florida, you wasted everyone’s time and accomplished nothing, congratulations.

Last week I reported on a proposed bill in Texas that would force state officials to disobey federal courts that uphold marriage equality. Now Texas has two more proposed anti-gay laws. One would give businesses permission to deny service to LGBTs. The other would prevent towns from passing nondiscrimination laws, and overturn any laws that already exist. Anti-gay activists know that they’re about to lose on marriage, and so this is going to be their response: passing laws that let them take away our jobs, or our homes, our access to education and basic services. A proposed bill in Virginia would even let hospitals turn away gay patients. We’re going to see a lot more of these in the next year, as a form of dangerous, petty backlash against marriage equality.

Of course, there’s still one big wild card when it comes to national marriage equality: the Supreme Court. Late last week they announced that they’ll take up four marriage cases. We’ll probably see oral argument in late April, and a decision around the end of June. There’s no way to know how they’ll rule. If it’s in our favor, great — we’ll have national marriage equality this year. If they rule against us, then that means several more years of work to overturn the last few marriage bans.

But in the mean time, we keep racking up victories at lower courts. A South Dakota judge has ruled against that state’s marriage ban. A judge in Michigan ruled last week that the state must honor the 300 licenses that it issued during a one-day window last year. A judge in Kentucky has granted the state’s first divorce for a gay couples, which is a little depressing but that’s just how it goes sometimes. And the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals has refused to reconsider marriage cases in Idaho and Nevada, despite the continuing attempts by state officials to halt marriages.

Those Idaho and Nevada cases should have been over long ago. And by dragging them out this long, the states are running up huge legal bills. The current tally in Idaho is now close to a half million dollars — that means they’ve blown about a quarter of the state’s entire budget for Constitutional defense cases. And they’re not the only state wasting hundreds of thousands on marriage litigation. The legal bill in Wisconsin could top $1.2 million. In West Virginia, parties have run up $350,000 in fees. Oregon and Alaska are both $260,000 apiece.

And just like in Florida, these states are accomplishing nothing, other than making work for lawyers. At this point, anti-gay legislators seem to be mostly focused on just making life inconvenient for gay couples, whether it’s by delaying the start of marriage, removing other legal protections, or creating areas where we can’t do business. That’s their reaction to marriage equality — if they can’t stop us from getting married, they’re just going to annoy us instead. Well, it’s working. They’re annoying. Good job.

www.huffingtonpost.com/matt-baume/florida-legalizes-driving_b_6498472.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

Rachel Maddow On SCOTUS And Gay Marriage: ‘A Sense Of Inevitability Can Be A Dangerous Thing’ – VIDEO

Rachel Maddow On SCOTUS And Gay Marriage: ‘A Sense Of Inevitability Can Be A Dangerous Thing’ – VIDEO

Rachel

On Friday night, Rachel Maddow dug into the decision by the Supreme Court to hear 4 cases tackling whether states have the right to ban same-sex marriage. As our legal editor Ari Ezra Waldman pointed out in his analysis of this decision, the Court seems to be leaning towards recognizing a nationwide freedom to marry. And indeed, momentum seems to be on the side of marriage equality. Since the 2013 SCOTUS ruling on DOMA, we have gone from having only 20% of the U.S. population living in states that allow same-sex marriage to 70% (see GIF below). However, for all the talk of momentum, Rachel Maddow wonders, what if the inevitable is not so inevitable? 

Watch her contemplate this question, AFTER THE JUMP…

Marriage


Sean Mandell

www.towleroad.com/2015/01/rachel-maddow-on-scotus-and-gay-marriage-a-sense-of-inevitability-can-be-a-dangerous-thing-video.html

Actor-comedian Stephen Fry Weds Partner

Actor-comedian Stephen Fry Weds Partner
LONDON (AP) — Actor-comedian Stephen Fry has married partner Elliott G. Spencer in eastern England.

The 57-year-old Fry sent a tweet to his 8 million followers on Saturday, announcing that he had tied the knot. “Gosh. @ElliottGSpencer and I go into a room as two people, sign a book and leave as one,” Fry says on his Twitter feed. “Amazing.”

Well-wishers tweeted their congratulations on Sunday.

Fry announced his plans earlier this month to wed 27-year-old Spencer at the register office in Dereham, eastern England.

One of Britain’s best known presenters, Fry first gained fame in the 1980s in a comedy duo with Hugh Laurie. He also written novels and appeared in the film, “The Hobbit.”

www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/01/18/stephen-fry-married_n_6497898.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

This V-Day, Let's Work Together to Prevent Violence Against <em>All</em> Women and Girls

This V-Day, Let's Work Together to Prevent Violence Against <em>All</em> Women and Girls
We are representatives of the first all-transgender benefit performance of The Vagina Monologues.

In 2004, Eve Ensler supplemented The Vagina Monologues, writing a transgender piece after having intimate conversations with a diverse group of women in our community. It debuted in 2004 as part of the first all-transgender performance, which was cast without regard to transgender surgical status.

That trans-inclusive piece has been performed by trans and non-trans participants around the world as part of V-Day’s global fundraising efforts to end violence against women and girls. We feel it is one of many important steps which made the feminist movement more trans-inclusive.

The money our benefit performance raised went to Peace Over Violence, a trans-inclusive anti-violence nonprofit, the National LGBTQ Task Force, and V-Day’s annual focus of 2004, violence against women and girls in Juarez, Mexico. The interviews and performance became the 2005 film Beautiful Daughters.

V-Day’s and Eve’s amazing response to concerns presented to them by trans people has been inspirational. They made extraordinary efforts to make the play and the movement trans-inclusive, changing many hearts and minds in the process.

The goal of V-Day is to create a community which raises money and raises our voices together until violence against women and girls stops. Throughout the project’s history, Eve has added new monologues to include voices that were not heard in the original play.

Hurtful labels and divisiveness are antithetical to the social justice movement, which encourages building bridges and finding common ground around shared goals. We encourage all trans and genderqueer people interested in sharing their own unique voices to work with V-Day as we have. Our successful efforts with V-Day emerged from sharing our constructive criticism through direct outreach.

The V-Day movement and Eve’s play continue to evolve and respond to issues of the day, and our work with the movement was meant to be the start of a conversation about including sex and gender minorities. We encourage you to join us in working together to eliminate violence against all women and girls.

In love and solidarity,

Calpernia Addams, producer
Andrea James, producer
Lynn Conway, participant
Valerie Spencer, participant

www.huffingtonpost.com/calpernia-addams/post_8905_b_6497356.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

CNN: HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools Program Fights Bias and Stereotyping in Schools

CNN: HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools Program Fights Bias and Stereotyping in Schools

In honor of Martin Luther King Day, CNN profiled HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools program as a leader in fighting homophobia, bias and bullying in schools.
HRC.org

www.hrc.org/blog/entry/cnn-hrc-foundations-welcoming-schools-program-fights-bias-and-stereotyping?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed

High School Wrestler Forced Into Conversion Therapy By Parents Pulls Coming Out Post on Outsports

High School Wrestler Forced Into Conversion Therapy By Parents Pulls Coming Out Post on Outsports

Wrestler

Last week Outsports carried a story about a high school wrestler who came out as gay to his parents and was subsequently forced into conversion therapy and forbidden from coming out to anyone else. Suffering under the yoke of his parents’ oppressive reign but still yearning to live authentically, the young man, known only as “Hunter,” decided to came out anonymously online in a post published on OutSports.

Reading about other young LGBT athletes who had come out and interacting with them over social media inspired Hunter to open up. However, after his story started to gain media traction, Hunter asked that his story be pulled for fear that his parents might discover it, figure out it was about him and make reprisals against him. OutSports’ Cyd Zeigler has the story:

We’re sorry to say that we’ve decided to remove this story from the site.

Hunter contacted us this morning with fear that his parents might see it. The story got shared and read far more widely – and with more mainstream media – than we had imagined it could be. When mainstream sites started picking it up, Hunter got concerned and this morning asked us to remove the full story, at least temporarily, from Outsports. Just as the publication of the story is something we don’t usually do, its removal is the same […]

While there’s so much more to his story that Hunter wants to share, that will have to wait […]

The message of the story is not lost: There are lots of LGBT teen athletes who very much need help and support.

Hunter has set up an anonymous email where other young LGBT athletes can connect with him. 


Sean Mandell

www.towleroad.com/2015/01/high-school-wrestler-forced-into-conversion-therapy-pulls-down-online-coming-out-fears-discovery-and.html

The Weird Racial Politics Of Online Dating

The Weird Racial Politics Of Online Dating
We’re in the midst of a cultural sea change to one of the most central institutions in the life of the nation.

American attitudes on interracial relationships have taken an enormous step forward in the last two decades. As recently as 1995, fewer than half of all Gallup survey respondents favored interracial marriage—and only 4 percent did in 1985. Now such sentiments are relegated to shadowy Internet message boards and corners of right-wing talk radio.

www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/01/18/online-dating-race_n_6497150.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

Bill Maher, MSNBC's Josh Barro and Actor Josh Gad Whether We've Reached the 'Final Frontier' in Gay Rights: VIDEO

Bill Maher, MSNBC's Josh Barro and Actor Josh Gad Whether We've Reached the 'Final Frontier' in Gay Rights: VIDEO

Maher

On Friday’s Real Time, host Bill Maher’s opening monologue addressed the Supreme Court’s decision to set aside two and a half hours of oral arguments for the four gay marriage cases (you probably get where that joke is going to go) while on the “Overtime” segment, Maher and the panel were asked whether they think the gay rights movement is entering into some sort of “final frontier” phase. 

Maher3MSNBC contributor Josh Barro said the “final frontier” in gay rights will take place “inside peoples’ homes and communities.” He also pointed out that there is still a great deal of “state discrimination” against the LGBT community and that many individuals continue to face discrimination from their families, churches, and workplaces.

Actor Josh Gad, meanwhile, drew comparisons between gay rights and the fight over abortion and how the Supreme Court might overturn the progress made in the movement. 

Of course, to easily answer the question one only needs to look at Uganda’s “Anti-Homosexuality Law” or trans teen Leelah Alcorn to realize we still have a long, long way to go before we can say we’ve entered some sort of “final” stage in the movement for LGBT equality.

Watch, AFTER THE JUMP

 

 

 


Kyler Geoffroy

www.towleroad.com/2015/01/bill-maher-on-scotus-and-whether-weve-reached-the-final-frontier-in-gay-rights-video.html