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LGBTQ African Friendship

LGBTQ African Friendship

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LGBTQ African Friendship

In Image: Sizwe: Queer Burundian [IG: @sizwe__ ] (left) , Kim: Trans Burundian [IG: @blacksupremacist] (right)

By: Mikael Owunna

This week on #LimitlessAfricans, we will be doing something a bit different and exploring photographically what LGBTQ African community means and the importance of having that support network.

For me personally, I grew up feeling like I was totally alone and that I was the only LGBTQ African person out there. Now- after doing this work for 3 years now – that seems ridiculous, but as a teenage queer nigerian kid in Pittsburgh, PA- how was I to know better? And I didn’t know how much it hurt feeling like I was the only one until I saw how relieved I felt when I met other people like me and built that community (first virtually and then in person – s/o to @odera my first queer african friend <3). Meeting other LGBTQ Africans validated my identity as a queer African person in such a powerful way, in the face of a world that told me that I could not and should not exist. That I was “un-African,” deficient for not being white, femme and inherently invaluable as such and more.

Finding and building that community of LGBTQ Africans is part of the reason that I started #LimitlessAfricans, and it’s been incredible – to say the least – going from knowing ZERO other LGBTQ Africans in my early teens to now knowing dozens. <3. And getting to share all of these amazing people’s stories on www.limitlessafricans.com so that other people who might feel like they’re the only ones (like I did) realize that we’re not alone

It was such a pleasure to photograph Sizwe – Queer Burundian Person- and Kim – Trans Burundian Woman – both separately and together this summer and explore what LGBTQ African Friendship and Community looks like and the impact it has on our lives. Will be sharing their group photos over the course of the week, and you can check out their full individual interviews below as well:

Read Kim’s Full Interview: www.mikaelowunna.com/mikael-s-blog/limit-less-project-kim

Read Sizwe’s Full Interview: www.mikaelowunna.com/mikael-s-blog/limit-less-project-sizwe

Donate to support the project: HERE

About Limit(less)
Limit(less) is a photography project by Mikael Owunna (@owning-my-truth) documenting the fashion and style of LGBTQ African Immigrants (1st and 2nd generation) in diaspora. As LGBTQ Africans, we are constantly told that being LGBTQ is somehow “un-African,” and this rhetoric is a regular part of homophobic and transphobic discourse in African communities. This line of thinking, however, is patently false and exists an artifact of colonization of the African continent. Identities which would now be categorized as “LGBTQ” have always existed, and being LGBTQ does not make us “less” African.

Limit(less) explores how LGBTQ African immigrants navigate their identities and find ways to overcome the supposed “tension” between their LGBTQ and African identities through their fashion and style. The project seeks to visually deconstruct the colonial binary that has been set up between LGBTQ and African identities, which erases the lives and experiences of LGBTQ Africans. ‪#‎LimitlessAfricans‬

Donate to support the project: HERE

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Dolly Parton Gets In the Holiday Spirit, Mariah Invites Us Into Her World and More TV This Week

Dolly Parton Gets In the Holiday Spirit, Mariah Invites Us Into Her World and More TV This Week

Dolly Parton and more TV this week

Check out our weekly guide to TV this week, and make sure you’re catching the big premieres, crucial episodes and the stuff you won’t admit you watch when no one’s looking.

Ooh, gurl, grab your popcorn and get ready to see Leah Remini throw down on Leah Remini: Scientology and the Aftermath. The King of Queens actress takes the Church of Scientology to task and pulls no punches as she tells her story and the stories of others who have left the church in this new series, premiering Tuesday at 10 p.m. Eastern on A&E.

Is there any TV ad more insane than this one for the new season of Bravo’s Ladies of London? Whose idea was it to have these monsters do this awful lip sync and choreo to a song about women supporting each other to promote a show about women doing the opposite? Is this performance art? See how real housewives

Lin-Manuel Miranda can write, rap, dance, but can he hold his liquor? Find out when the beloved Broadway star gets sauced and recounts the exploits of Alexander Hamilton on Drunk History, Tuesday at 10:30 p.m. Eastern on Comedy Central.

Any appearance by Dolly Parton is reason to celebrate, and you’ve got two this week to revel in. First, she’ll join Josh Groban, Sarah McLachlan and Tony Bennett for NBC’s Christmas in Rockefeller Center at 8 p.m. Eastern on Wednesday. Then stay tuned for Dolly Parton’s Christmas of Many Colors: Circle of Love at 9 p.m. Eastern. The made-for-TV feel-good flick tells another story from Parton’s youth in the same vein as last year’s Coat of Many Colors.

If Dolly isn’t diva enough for you, buckle up for Mariah Carey’s latest foray into reality TV. It’s Mariah’s World, and we are all just living in it, henny. Witness one of the most over-the-top pop personalities as she tours the globe, starting Sunday at 9 p.m. Eastern on E!.

What are you watching this week on TV?

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For The Record, Nico Tortorella Is Bisexual, Not “Sexually Fluid”

For The Record, Nico Tortorella Is Bisexual, Not “Sexually Fluid”

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Younger’s Nico Tortorella is profiled in Vulture this week, where we find him feeding pigeons Lucky Charms in Manhattan’s Tompkins Square Park and opening up about his sexuality, his past battles with drugs and alcohol, and why he never wants to marry another man.

Related: ‘Sexually Fluid’ Nico Tortorella Asked Whether It’s Harder To Date Men Or Women. Here’s His Answer.

Besides the fact that he has a propensity to talk about moon cycles and has an unusually fervid interest in the healing power of crystals, here are a few takeaways from the story, in his own words.

On the first time he hooked up with a man

This is going to sound fucked, but I knew that he was really struggling. And I was like, Look, if I hook up with him, maybe it will make things easier for him.

We hooked up. There was no assplay at all. It was just dick-to-mouth here. He was shaken up about it and I was like, ‘It’s fine. What happened last night doesn’t make you the person that you are. Why are you putting so much weight on it?’ And when that happened, I was like, Oh, I’m thinking about this differently than everyone else is thinking about it.

On how he identifies (“I never labeled myself as sexually fluid,” he says): 

The more I’m having these conversations, the more comfortable I am identifying as bisexual. I’ve been so hesitant about using the word for so long, because it does have a negative connotation in our generation. People fought for so long for that ‘B’ in LGBT, and I refuse to be the person that’s going to throw that away because I think I have a more colorful word.

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On society’s views of sexuality and race: 

The only way to move to a genderless, raceless society is if everybody, across the board, (a) stops being an asshole, and (b) stops being so fucking sensitive.

On same-sex marriage: 

Ultimately, in my fluidity, at the end of the day I never could see myself marrying a man. I could never see myself having kids with a man. I don’t even like hanging out with dudes for the most part.

On drug and alcohol binges: 

Once you’re blacked out, there’s not enough cocaine in the world that can take you off it. There was one point where I was so fucked up, I woke up hung-over, I called the IV doctor to come to my apartment, and I hooked up the drip for like an hour. As soon as it was done, I bought a bag of coke and had a handle of fucking whiskey and started all over again. Living the Hollywood dream.

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On why he got sober: 

I definitely got into the underbelly of Hollywood. When you’re living the celebrity life and not working at the same time, shit can go dark real fast. I was drinking almost all day, every day, and hurting people that I love. I knew I was going to die at one point. I wanted to die at one point, and that was what made me turn around.

You can read the article in its entirety HERE

Related: Hunky Star Of ‘Younger’ Nico Tortorella Comes Out As Sexually Fluid

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Billy on the Street Made Lupita Nyong’o Try Stand Up (And It Didn’t Go So Well) – WATCH

Billy on the Street Made Lupita Nyong’o Try Stand Up (And It Didn’t Go So Well) – WATCH

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For his latest episode of Billy on the Street, Billy Eichner had Academy Award-winning actress Lupita Nyong’o give comedy a try–where else–on the streets of New York.

Performing bits from comics Louie CK, Bob Saget, Daniel Tosh and more, Nyong’o left many people, uh, speechless.

There was also some work-unfriendly language flying, so beware as you watch below.

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Trump Voter Cries Discrimination During Tirade At Michaels Over $1 Bag

Trump Voter Cries Discrimination During Tirade At Michaels Over $1 Bag

Woman yells at a fellow shopper, via Screenshot.

Woman yells at a fellow shopper, via Screenshot.

Forget violent assaults, having your home covered in swastikas and slurs, or riddled with bullets. This is the face of true discrimination: A white Donald Trump voter denied a free Michaels bag.

A woman was recorded losing her temper at employees and fellow shoppers, whom she claimed were “ganging up on her,” after she was asked if she would like to purchase a larger bag for some of her items for one dollar.

The incident occurred last week at a Chicago store, and the woman accused the African-American employees of discriminating against her.

Related: Man Called A “F*ggot That Voted For Hillary” In Front Of 4-Year Old Son By Angry Manager

“Why don’t you shut your face?!” the woman is heard yelling at the start of the video. “And I voted for Trump, so there! What, you want to kick me out because of that? And look who won! And look who won! And look who won!”

The woman soon realizes she is being filmed, and turns on those with cameras out, including the woman whose video is posted below, Jessie Grady.

The woman tells Grady to go home to her husband, whom she says is cheating on her, and accuses her young child of stealing. She pulls out her phone and starts filming Grady and her child, while continuing to argue with the clerk and store manager.

She calls one of the employees an animal, accusing her of yelling across the store at her, which the employee and the manager deny. She is repeatedly asked to calm down and stop using profanity in front of children.

The young woman also claims that one of the employees muttered under their breath that she probably voted for Trump after refusing to give her a free bag, which the employee denied.

“The last person who said out loud they voted for Trump got beat up. So what, you’re all going to beat me up?” she asked Grady.

She was perhaps referring to a man who was attacked by a group of people after a traffic accident. As a local CBS affiliate out of Chicago reports, when the man, David Wilcox, stepped out of his car an onlooker said he was a Trump supporter.

Wilcox asked what that had to do with it, and said he had voted Trump, and then punches were thrown. But he does not believe he was assaulted because of his political views, as those who attacked him said nothing about it.

Grady posted video of the incident at Michaels to Facebook, where it started to go viral. She said it was “the shortened version of a 45 minute ordeal.”

Related: 10 Things You Can Do About The Horrible Election Results Other Than Just Vent

She said that several people called police, including the woman, who can be heard speaking with a dispatcher at the end of the video. She added that by the time they arrived to the story the young woman had already left.

Grady has started a GoFundMe campaign to raise funds for the employee who received the most abuse from the woman. Grady wrote on the fundraising site:

“I am starting this GoFundMe because I’d like to do something to try to make it up to the employee who was the main target of this racist attack. I’d like to show her that many people are horrified by how this woman treated her, and that we stand with her and appreciate her hard work. She inspired me because despite the hateful words that were being hurled in her direction, she stood in that entranceway calm and unmoving to protect her staff and customers. Her calmness calmed me and I saw a true leader, which in today’s world, is something to be rewarded. All proceeds from this GoFundMe will be given to this employee, who has three children, to try to make her busy holiday season brighter.”

At time of writing, the campaign has raised over $5,000, far surpassing its $400 goal.

Michaels has said they are looking into the incident.

@truantwave At Michaels we do not tolerate racism/discrimination of any kind. We are working to resolve the issue.

— Michaels Stores (@MichaelsStores) November 27, 2016

h/t Chicagoist

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Tyler Oakley Plays Some Man Candy Games with Tom Daley and Scott Eastwood – WATCH

Tyler Oakley Plays Some Man Candy Games with Tom Daley and Scott Eastwood – WATCH

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Tyler Oakley invited Tom Daley and Scott Eastwood onto his digital series to play a couple of games that focus on man candy, or eye candy more generally speaking.

First Oakley and Daley had to see if they could match headless torsos to their male celebrity owners. Then Oakley and Eastwood played “This needs more context” in which they look at their Instagrams and explain what is going on in some ‘grams that, well, definitely require more context.

Like this one.

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Or this one.

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Ok, maybe you don’t need context. Maybe that’s too much to ask of your Insta-thots. But let’s hear Eastwood talk about those selfies anyway.

Watch, below.

 

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Must-See LGBTQ TV: Don't miss an all new 'Supergirl'

Must-See LGBTQ TV: Don't miss an all new 'Supergirl'

Photo Credit: Supergirl/The CW

Grab the remote, set your DVR or queue up your streaming service of choice! GLAAD is bringing you the highlights in LGBTQ on TV this week. Check back every Sunday for up-to-date coverage in LGBTQ-inclusive programming on TV.

This week’s Supergirl kicks off a crossover event with guests from The Flash coming to town to ask for Kara’s help. The episode will also see Eliza coming to celebrate Thanksgiving with Kara and Alex, with Alex deciding this is the perfect opportunity to come out to her mom. Meanwhile, Kara and Lena team up to fight a deadly virus unleased by CADMUS. Supergirl: Monday, 8pm on The CW.

Sunday November 27: Shameless (9pm, Showtime); Eyewitness (10pm, USA); Quantico (10pm, ABC)

Monday: Supergirl (8pm, The CW); Jane the Virgin (9pm, The CW); Mariela Castro’s March (9pm, HBO); Conviction (10pm, ABC)

Tuesday: Brooklyn Nine-Nine (8pm, FOX); The Real O’Neals (9:30pm, ABC); Teen Wolf (9pm, MTV)

Wednesday: Arrow (8pm, The CW); Modern Family (9pm, ABC); Empire (9pm, FOX); Queen Sugar (10pm, OWN); Younger (10pm, TV Land); Code Black (10pm, CBS), Designated Survivor (10pm, ABC); Impastor (10:30pm, TV Land)

Thursday: Rosewood (8pm, FOX); DC’S Legends of Tomorrow (8pm, The CW)

Friday: Crazy Ex-Girlfriend (9pm, The CW)

November 27, 2016
Issues: 

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