The Fight Rages On . . . in the GOP

The Fight Rages On . . . in the GOP
It’s not over. True, Indiana and Arkansas have backed down from “religious freedom” laws that legitimize anti-gay discrimination. And the U.S. Supreme Court may rule this year that same-sex marriages are legal in the entire country.

But even then it won’t be over. One sentence in the 2012 Republican Party platform is likely to stir up the controversy all over again: “We reaffirm our support for a Constitutional amendment defining marriage as the union of one man and one woman.” That Constitutional amendment would nullify any Supreme Court decision.

A lot of Republicans want to get rid of that provision in order to bring their party into the 21st century. Nearly forty percent of Republicans support same-sex marriage, including over sixty percent of Republicans under 30. “Any political candidate who is perceived as anti-gay at the presidential level will never connect with people under 30 years old,” a Republican pollster warned last month.

On the other hand, the religious right is threatening to walk out of the convention if that plank is removed. Evangelicals are talking about mobilizing “an army” to keep the Republican party from backsliding. All of the potential Republican candidates for President next year oppose same-sex marriage, and they all endorsed the Indiana “religious freedom” law. When the Indiana legislature modified the law under pressure, Jeb Bush quickly embraced the compromise. He was for the Indiana law before he was against it.

The big surprise was that the backlash to the law came as a big surprise to Republicans. “Was I expecting this kind of backlash? Heavens no,” Gov. Mike Pence (R-Ind.) said after a boycott Indiana movement sprang up across the country. “This is a bill that in ordinary times would not be controversial,” Gov. Asa Hutchinson (R-Ark.) said. “But these are not ordinary times.” For many Republicans, “ordinary times” means gays in the closet and same-sex marriage unimaginable.

What happened was really a backlash to a backlash. The religious freedom laws proposed in more than a dozen states this year were a backlash to the growing acceptance and legalization of same-sex marriage. The laws were supposed to be a consolation prize to conservatives: same-sex marriages may be legal, but you can still refuse to grant them equality.

Republicans claim they backed down in Indiana and Arkansas because of a “perception problem.” The religious freedom laws were “damaging the Republican brand” and “hurting the image” of their states. That misses the real message: in the New America, it is no longer acceptable to stigmatize gay people.

Or African-Americans or Latinos or Asian-Americans or Jews or Muslims or working women or single mothers or the unchurched (the nearly one in five Americans who have no religious affiliation). Those groups, along with millennials and educated professionals, comprise the New America coalition that came to power with President Obama. All of them (except African-Americans and Jews) represent growing shares of the U.S. population.

What holds the coalition together is a belief in diversity and inclusion. The Democratic Party, which used to be deeply divided by social and cultural issues, is amazingly unified today. It’s Republicans who are facing internal dissent. And who are being thrown on the defensive on issues like gay rights, women’s rights, civil rights, immigration and climate change.

Republicans represent the Old America. The Old America may be losing influence but it’s not giving up without a fight. The issue it’s rallying around? Religion. Today, the best poll question you can ask to find out how an American votes is “How often do you go to church?” Regular churchgoers vote Republican. Non-churchgoers vote Democratic.

The United States remains the most religious advanced industrial country in the world. That’s because many of the groups that immigrated to this country came seeking religious freedom. So the most religious people came here. Religion usually puts Democrats on the defensive because they don’t want to be seen as the godless party.

But Democrats have learned they can fight back by rallying around diversity and inclusion. It works, as we just saw in Indiana. Republicans were shocked — shocked! — to discover that gay issues have become just a big a political minefield as race.

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'Beyond' Is The Queer Sci-Fi Anthology You Need To Be Reading

'Beyond' Is The Queer Sci-Fi Anthology You Need To Be Reading

BeyondFor a lot of LGBT-identified people comics, science fiction, and fantasy were their first experiences being transported to faraway worlds where being different meant being special.

The stories of being chosen for a greater purpose or discovering hidden powers within mirror the experiences so many of us have coming to terms with our identities and coming out to loved ones. As much as queer people may identify with Marvel’s Inhumans or DC’s meta-humans, the number of actual gay, bi, and trans characters is relatively small. Sfé R. Monster is working to change that one panel at a time.

Beyond is an anthology of 26 comics collected from 18 writers and illustrators all featuring queer characters whose sexualities and gender identities are as plainly stated as their super powers. In an interview with io9 Monster, who’s editing the book, explained that a shared desire to see queerness normalized in sci-fi inspired him to spearhead the project.

“Sci-fi and fantasy have infinite potential for all sorts of diversity,” he said. “[I]t has always baffled me that these stories that accept aliens and magical dragons without question still struggle when it comes to featuring anything more than cisgender, heterosexual casts of characters.”

The stories featured in Beyond wouldn’t be the first comic books to feature queer characters travelling to fantastic lands, but Monster and his co-editor Taneka Stotts set out to do something different with the anthology. Often times queer (especially trans) characters are depicted as tragic or their identities are made out to be more magical than their surroundings. Beyond, Monster explained, wasn’t interested in those stories.

“When we put out the open call for submissions for Beyond I stressed that we were looking for diverse stories, and, to my absolute joy, that is something that everyone contributing a story to the anthology embraced with verve,” said Monster. “The thing I love most about Beyond is that giving people the go-ahead to create stories about diverse genders and sexuality gave them a space to tell stories that many of them have always wanted to tell, but felt there was no market or audience for.”


Charles Pulliam-Moore

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Florida Bakery Faces Threats After Refusing To Print Anti-Gay Message On A Cake

Florida Bakery Faces Threats After Refusing To Print Anti-Gay Message On A Cake
Days after the anti-gay pizzeria controversy rocked Indiana, former televangelist Joshua Feuerstein went after a Longwood, Florida, bakery for refusing to put the words “We do not support gay marriage” on a cake.

Feuerstein made the request himself, and when Cut The Cake owner Sharon Haller refused, she said threats started pouring in.

“He wanted us to put a hateful message on a cake, and I said, ‘We’re not gonna do that,’” Haller told Orlando news station WKMG Local 6, adding, “We started getting some hundreds of phone calls and making very nasty and negative gestures towards our business, towards us.”

As for Feurestein, he believes he’s teaching a lesson about tolerance.

“I believe that tolerance should be a two-way street,” he said in a video posted on his Facebook page. “But now it is that there are news outlets around this nation that are trying to paint me and others like me — because we’re Bible-believing individuals — to be bigots and full of hatred, when we’re simply pro-freedom.”

Neither Haller nor Feurestein immediately responded to a request for comment.

Watch Feurestein’s full video below:

YOU SHOULD BE SCARED IF YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN … they are coming for your freedom … THEY ARE ALREADY THREATENING…

Posted by Joshua Feuerstein on Saturday, April 4, 2015

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Rihanna Latest Celeb To Blast New ‘Religious Freedom’ Bill, Premieres New Single

Rihanna Latest Celeb To Blast New ‘Religious Freedom’ Bill, Premieres New Single
Rihanna finally debuted her unreleased track “American Oxygen” last night during her headlining set at the March Madness Music Fest. The song has been played in advertisement slots throughout the entirety of the NCAA Mens’ Final Four campaign. However, it was Rihanna’s backlash towards Indiana’s “religious freedom” bill that garnered most of the headlines. Despite Rihanna Latest Celeb To Blast …

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A Blind Man's Take on Beauty in the Gay Community

A Blind Man's Take on Beauty in the Gay Community
Seven years have passed since I lost my sight, and I’m now doing things that seemed impossible when I was newly blind. I live alone in Oakland, California, rely on my guide dog, Oslo, for mobility, and work as a writer full-time. I also go out on dates and have been engaged twice. But while I have learned to do everything the blind way, I always find myself teaching others how to interact with me — something I’ve become better at with time. And, one of the main themes I battle with, especially in the gay community, is the importance of beauty.

For instance, I met Jacob at a bar. His jokes and comical punch lines had won me over. Our dates always ended with my stomach hurting and my eyes tearing from so much laughter. We had taken a two-week break while I retired my first guide dog, Madge, and completed the two-week training with my second dog, Oslo. Jacob had stopped by my place to meet my new set of eyes.

“He’s adorable!” Jacob cheered. “You two look great together.”

I leaned my head on his shoulder and told Jacob I thought we looked good too, feeling his arm tense up.

“What’s wrong?” I asked, hearing him sit up and walk on the linoleum floor.

He drew a big breath. “I sometimes wish you could see me,” he shared. “I wish you knew what I look like.”

“I do know what you look like,” I replied. “I’ve touched your face plenty of times.”

“It’s not the same. I’m really average looking Belo, and people always give me a knowing look when we are out,” Jacob sighed.

It wasn’t the first time insecurities around his appearance came up, but it was the first time he mentioned others.

“Knowing look?” I inquired, my voice dry. “What do you mean?”

“The look that says ‘if you could see, you wouldn’t be with me.'”

I felt my throat tighten. Even though I live in a pitch-dark world, I still lived in a seeing universe ruled by laws of physical beauty. And no matter what I would say, I could not give him the validation he sought. Not wanting to argue, I changed the conversation and suggested we grab dinner in San Francisco.

The drive over the Bay Bridge did us well. We were laughing and cracking jokes the entire ride. It was an unusually warm San Francisco evening and we opted to eat on the patio of a Castro Street bistro to give Oslo more leg room. Like his predecessor, Oslo kept receiving compliments for his great looks by people passing by. One guy even asked to photograph my eighty pound black lab. The stranger handed me his card and said, “I’m Steve and I’m an amateur photographer. I would love to shoot your pup next weekend.”

Thinking nothing of the gesture, I took the man’s card and agreed to call him soon.

“You know that was a ploy to pick up on you,” Jacob hissed, munching on ice. “He looked at me and then gave you a look. You just couldn’t see it.”

“Oh come on!” I shouted, reaching for his hand and squeezing it. “That’s not true.”

Jacob remained quiet the rest of the evening and seven days went by before I heard back from him. I was sitting at my desk, working on an article when his email came in. As the screen reader read his note in the phonics voice, I grew restless. His words were simple. The message said he couldn’t date me anymore because I needed someone more like me.

“More like me?” I mumbled. “What does that mean?”

I began to reflect on insecurities. In losing my sight, I was forced to face all of my worries at once, helping me learn how to deal with them. And while dating a guy who wasn’t hot may have been an initial concern, it no longer bothered me. I did a quick web search for “ugly laws,” hoping to find an inspirational article. But, instead, I found the contrary. My search yielded “The Ugly Laws of the United States,” which were enforced from the 1860s to the 1970s. During this time, several American cities had regulations that fined anyone with a physical disability that was considered too hideous, if they were seen in public. As I continued to read, I felt lucky not to have been around in that time.

Then something clicked in my head. “The Ugly Laws” haven’t been abolished. They are still around and even more prevalent in the gay community. These are the same rules that make many gay men join a gym and seek the latest fashions. Although I enjoy nice things, it felt good to have my blindness keep me free from “The Ugly Laws.”

Belo Cipriani is a freelance journalist, the award-winning author of Blind: A Memoir and Midday Dreams, and a spokesperson for Guide Dogs for the Blind. Learn more at www.BeloCipriani.com. You are also invited to connect with him on Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and YouTube.

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