'Lost In America' Documents The Reality Of Youth Homelessness In America

'Lost In America' Documents The Reality Of Youth Homelessness In America
“Lost in America” is a compelling new documentary that takes a look at the reality of homeless youth in America.

While certainly not the first documentary to elevate issues surrounding the issue, “Lost in America” is unique in the large-scale coverage it provides to this nationwide epidemic. The film, which is currently engaged in an Indiegogo campaign, is directed by Rotimi Rainwater, who lived on the streets of Florida for almost a year.

The reality is that 40% of homeless youth identify as LGBT in America. The Huffington Post chatted with Rainwater this week about the implications of this fact, as well as his goals for “Lost in America” as a whole.

The Huffington Post: What is your concept/vision for this film? Why is it important?
Rotimi Rainwater: My vision for the film is to show the first national spotlight on youth homelessness in America — to finally shed the light on this epidemic that so few are seeing. The film will be a mix of a series of vignettes telling the stories of homeless youth across the country, mixed with interviews of members of the Senate and Congress as well as leaders of organizations across the country. There have been other films about youth homelessness, but they generally tell the story of a few youth, in one specific area, over a period of time. “Lost in America” is the first “Michael Moore” in scope look at the problem on a national level. It tackles the main issues that surround youth homelessness: sex trafficking, the failure of the foster care system and the epidemic of rejection of LGBT youth in America. It also looks into why youth end up on the streets, what they have to do to survive and asks the question: why, as a country, do we not do anything about this?

How is this film personal for you?
This film is very personal to me because I spent nine and a half months homeless on the streets of Orlando, Florida. I was in the Navy when my mother first got cancer. It took me a few months to get discharged and by the time I did my mother was already in a long-term hospice program and had lost her apartment. So I spent the next nine and a half months first living in my car, then in a park and an underpass while taking care of my mother. I got to experience first-hand the rejection you experience when you’re on the streets, the feeling that no one wants to see you, that they all wished you would just disappear. It was heart breaking and difficult to fight through.

What kind of stories can we expect to hear/see through this film?
We have travelled the country for the past year gathering stories from all walks of life. We’ve met youth on the streets because their parents died and everyone forgot about them so they lived in their abandoned family home for years with no electricity or running water. We have stories of LGBT youth who are on the streets because their parents couldn’t accept them and now they are being preyed upon.

Why is this film important?
This film is important because there are over 1.5 million homeless youth on the streets of America every year and, honestly, as a nation most of us don’t know about it. It is an unseen epidemic this country is facing. Unfortunately, because we are not pushing it as a nation, our government is doing very little about it. There has never been a national study on youth homelessness, ever. So the government says it’s between 1.6 – 2.8 million youth on the street, but then HUD says it’s only 45,000. The one thing that is stopping the Senate from passing new legislature to help these youth is that everyone involved is adamant that there has to be money in there for LGBT youth. And the Republican-run senate has said directly, we won’t pass any Runaway & Homeless Youth Act legislature with special provisions in their for monies for LGBT youth.

The reason this is so important is that over 40 percent of all homeless youth identify as LGBT. So now there are over 400,000 LGBT youth on the streets, afraid to go to most shelters because they will be preyed upon. We have stories of these youth being victimized, raped and beaten all because they are LGBT. So they are forced to live on the streets, with little help and so many end up forced in to sex slavery or prostitution. We work directly with Senator Patrick Leahy and other members of both the Senate and Congress who are fighting to get this legislature passed but are being told directly that this will not pass until they take out any monies allotted to LGBT youth. This is unacceptable, and this is why these stories have to be told and why this film has to be made.

Head here to visit the “Lost in America” Indiegogo campaign.

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Dude Gives Cabbie A BJ In Exchange For A Ride, Wonders If He Was Raped

Dude Gives Cabbie A BJ In Exchange For A Ride, Wonders If He Was Raped

img_taxiIn a recent Reddit thread titled “Was I Raped?” mylordm9 writes:

“Yesterday I went to a gay party. I went outside and was immedeatly (sic) in front of the train station. I needed to get a train to get home. I just missed it though. I sat outside and waited for the next one when a cab came along and asked me where I needed to go. I said that I don’t have the money but he offered me a ride anyways. This of course should have been a red flag but I was drunk and I made it very clear that I just wanted a ride. I’d pay if it was cheaper but I didnt want to have to do anything for it. He said yeah sure just get in I get you home and you don’t have to do anything.”

Turns out, this was a lie. At least according to mylordm9. He continues:

“Anyways, during the ride he got his dick out and wanted me to blow him. I was so afraid that I did and well.. now i feel terrible. I am such a dumbass for getting in the cab and I hate myself for it. I cant get over the feeling.”

As a result, mylordm9 says he “can’t swallow anything” and feels “real shitty.”

“What do I have to do now?” he asks. “I have no idea. I’m such a fucking dumbass!”

Never fear, mylordm9, your fellow Reddit users are here to offer their two cents on your dilemma.

“I don’t think you were raped,” hatessw states matter-of-factly. “Unless you’re omitting relevant facts, no force seems to have occurred, and everything you did on your own volition, drunk or not. That’s not to say what the dude did was classy, but there’s a pretty big gap between lack of class and rape.”

“Based on your story, a guy asked for a BJ and you were uninhibited enough to do it,” Kolyarut5 adds. “Don’t hate yourself.”

“You voluntarily engaged in a sexual act,” significantrisk says, “that is the opposite of being raped. The only way to be less raped than voluntarily having sex is to have no sex at all.”

But Vandal1 disagrees: “He was drunk, and not able to legally consent. Therefore, non-consensual, therefore rape. As well, he is experiencing many of the same feelings as a rape victim. He feels violated and hurt. From what he described, he probably also feels un-clean or dirty.”

“Uhh, I’m pretty sure that whipping out your dick on a drunk person is rapey,” filipelm adds.

“This is rape,” kpatl says. “Regardless if you were drunk, this is rape. Coerced sex is rape. You didn’t exchange sex for a ride; you engaged in a sexual act because you were afraid of the consequences if you didn’t. This is unequivocal rape. Everyone else posting is very clearly wrong.”

What do you think? Was mylordm9 raped? Sound off in the comments section below.

Graham Gremore

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Governor Pence Is Right: Tolerance is Not a Liberal Value

Governor Pence Is Right: Tolerance is Not a Liberal Value
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Poor Governor Mike Pence, victim of Intolerance.

Sunday morning, in “sorry, not sorry” mode, the Indiana governor visited George Stephanopoulos to clarify, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he has no intention of changing the state’s newly passed Religious Freedom Reformation Act or pushing for protected status for the Hoosier state’s LGBT citizens, which would ensure the RFRA could not be used to target them.

Many had thought the governor would strike a conciliatory tone, but Pence was unapologetic. In full Culture Warrior mode, all but ensuring a plum slot on the speakers roster at the next RNC (and maybe even on the ticket), Pence lashed out at the media, liberals and (without ever deigning to name them) members of the LGBT community for shamelessly unloosing an “avalanche of intolerance” on Indiana.

Those protesting a law co-authored by Curt Smith, President of Indiana Family Institute (who has likened homosexuality to bestiality) and promoted by Eric Miller of Advance America (who celebrated SB101 as the only means of “protection” for “Churches, Christian businesses and individuals … from those who support homosexual marriages and those who support government recognition and approval of gender identity — men who dress as women”) were the intolerant ones, and Pence wasn’t having it! The Hoosier state was fighting back! “I think people are getting tired of it, George, I really do,” Pence snapped at Stephanopoulos. “And I’m not going to take it lying down.”

Preferred positions for taking it aside, crying victim and labeling liberals “intolerant” for opposing discriminatory legislation is, unfortunately, nothing new for Culture Warriors on the right. And Pence used his ten minutes of fame to drive the point home. “Is tolerance a two-way street or not?” Pence trolled. “I mean there’s a lot of talk about tolerance today having to do with people on the left…. And this avalanche of intolerance has been poured on our state!”

I don’t know who Governor Pence has been eavesdropping on, but as a lifelong progressive and a proud member of the LGBT community, I know of no “talk on the left” that highlights “tolerance” as an aspiration among my cohort. I have heard talk of diversity, inclusion, universal access, individual empowerment, and mutual respect. I have heard progressives speak of protecting and extending voters’ rights, improving public education and expanding economic opportunity to all. Liberals like big, bright ideas that embrace the belief in a culture of opportunity for everyone and inspire those who struggle for opportunity in a society that’s not quite there yet. Progressivism, I’m not ashamed to say, is aspirational. No one aspires to be tolerated. And no liberal I know would hail tolerance as the best we can do or be to one another.

Liberal values aren’t about tolerating difference, they’re about celebrating it. Progressives are all about finding our strength as communities and as a nation in our incredible diversity. Despite cynical histrionics on the right that claim the contrary, this includes all religious belief and practice that does not seek to coerce, oppress, or harm.

Governor Pence’s attempt to co-opt religion in pursuit of a political agenda rings particularly false given the opposition to the RFRA by Christians in his own state.

Mainline and Progressive Christianity acknowledges the central message of the gospels. As Rev. Sharon Watkins of the Disciples of Christ denomination, which has had its headquarters in Indianapolis for more than a century, said in a letter to Governor Pence critical of the RFRA: “As a Christian church, we are particularly sensitive to the values of the One we follow — one who sat at table with people from all walks of life, and loved them all.”

The Episcopal Diocese of Indianapolis also issued a Pastoral Letter on the RFRA, reading in part: “Provision of a legal way for some among us to choose to treat others with disdain and contempt is the worst possible use of the rule of law. For Episcopalians, whose lives are ordered in the Gospel of Christ and the promises of our Baptismal Covenant, it is unthinkable.”

I don’t know what religion Mike Pence is, but the Christian religion does not call for tolerance, regardless of what a political party with a persecution complex would have him believe. The Christ of the gospels did not exhort his disciples to “tolerate thy neighbors,” but to love them.

Just to clarify.

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Homophobic Florist Fears Homelessness After Being Slapped With $1,001 Fine

Homophobic Florist Fears Homelessness After Being Slapped With $1,001 Fine

barronelle-stutzmanA Washington state florist says she may lose her business and her home after being ordered to pay a $1,000 fine, plus $1 in court fees, for violating Washington’s anti-discrimination and consumer protection laws when she refused to sell two grooms a bouquet of flowers for their wedding back in 2013.

Arlene’s Flowers and Gifts owner Barronelle Stutzman says the $1,001.00 fine will “financially devastate” her, as it will cause her to dip into her “retirement and personal savings,” and that’s simply not fair because she is a “70-year-old grandmother.”

Speaking to the Christian PostStutzman said the harsh punishment is a “threat to Christians” with a very specific message: “Surrender your religious liberty and free speech rights, or face personal and professional ruin!”

Again, she is being fined $1,001.00.

In Feburary, after spending nearly two years fighting in court, Stutzman was offered a settlement from Attorney General Bob Ferguson that wouldn’t have cost her quite so much, but she refused on grounds that doing so would be a betrayal of Jesus H. Christ.

“I certainly don’t relish the idea of losing my business, my home, and everything else that your lawsuit threatens to take from my family,” Stutzman told Ferguson in a letter. “But my freedom to honor God in doing what I do best is more important.”

Stutzman has 60 days to fork over the $1001.00.

Related stories:

Washington Florist Refuses To Supply Gay Couple Flowers For Their Wedding

Washington Florist Refusing Service To Gays Faces Lawsuit From Attorney General

Washington Florist Won’t Greet Gay Wedding Guests, Even Though No One Asked Her To

Graham Gremore

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Massive List of Companies Warn Indiana: NASCAR, Marriott, Twitter, GAP, Duke U. – UPDATE

Massive List of Companies Warn Indiana: NASCAR, Marriott, Twitter, GAP, Duke U. – UPDATE

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Dozens of companies are taking action against Indiana’s Religious Freedom Restoration Act including NASCAR (below), Anthem, Cummins, Dow, Roche, Starbucks, Apple, Angie’s List, PayPal co-founder Max Levchin (below), YELP, Salesforce, Eli Lilly, NBA, WNBA, Indiana Pacers and Indiana Fever (below), Marriott (below), NCAA, and Gen Con:

Here’s an update:

NASCAR:

“We will not embrace nor participate in exclusion or intolerance,” said NASCAR, which is based in Florida and North Carolina. “We are committed to diversity and inclusion within our sport and therefore will continue to welcome all competitors and fans at our events in the state of Indiana and anywhere else we race.”

Marriott CEO Arne Sorenson calls it “idiocy” and “madness”:

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PayPal founder Max Levchin:

“I encourage Paypal’s new CEO and other CEOs in Silicon Valley to evaluate their relationship with the state of Indiana,” he told CNBC’s “Squawk on the Street” on Monday. “If local laws and bills say that it is OK to discriminate, you have to make sure that you are protecting your employees and you keep them safe and comfortable.”

Levi Strauss and GAP Inc:

Today Gap Inc. and Levi Strauss & Co. are calling on retail and apparel companies, and other businesses, to join us in speaking out against legalized discrimination.

Both of our companies have a long history of standing up for equal rights and equal opportunity for all. We have consistently spoken out against discrimination and unequal treatment based on race, sex or sexual orientation.

As Indiana, Arkansas, and states around the country enact and consider legislation that perpetuates discrimination, we’re urging State Legislatures to stand up for equality by repealing and voting against these discriminatory laws.

These new laws and legislation, that allow people and businesses to deny service to people based on their sexual orientation, turn back the clock on equality and foster a culture of intolerance.

Discriminatory laws are unquestionably bad for business, but more importantly, they are fundamentally wrong. They must be stopped.

At Gap Inc. and Levi Strauss & Co., we are proud to say we are open to business for everyone.

Twitter:

We’re disappointed to see state bills that enshrine discrimination. These bills are unjust and bad for business. We support #EqualityForAll.

— Policy (@policy) March 30, 2015

NBA, WNBA, Indiana Pacers and Indiana Fever

“The game of basketball is grounded in long established principles of inclusion and mutual respect. We will continue to ensure that all fans, players and employees feel welcome at all NBA and WNBA events in Indiana and elsewhere.”

AfscmeAmerican Federation of State, County & Municipal Employees are pulling their conference out of Indiana:

This un-American law sets Indiana and our nation back decades in the struggle for civil rights. It is an embarrassment and cannot be tolerated. As such, AFSCME will move our 2015 Women’s Conference in October from Indianapolis to another state. Additional details about the conference’s new location and any necessary date change will be announced as they become available.

The 1.6 million members of AFSCME cannot in good conscience make such a sizeable financial investment in Indiana knowing that women and men in that state are deliberately targeted for discrimination.

Finally, Gen Con has posted another letter after speaking with Indiana Governor Pence saying

Gen Con has asked Governor Pence to support an amendment to RFRA that includes protections against discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. We believe that freedom from discrimination is a fundamental human right. Until Gen Con has received legally sound assurances that Indiana will support these rights, we are halting our plans to expand Gen Con into Lucas Oil Stadium, and plans for further expansion into other hotel convention spaces…

And New York lawmakers want the state to join others including Connecticut, the cities of Seattle, Portland, San Francisco in banning state-funded travel to Indiana.

Duke University has spoken out on Indiana ahead of the Final Four:

“Duke University continues to stand alongside the LGBT community in seeking a more equal and inclusive world, and we deplore any effort to legislate bias and discrimination,” the statement reads. “We share the NCAA’s concern about the potential impact of the new law, and will be vigilant to ensure that our student-athletes, supporters, and indeed all citizens and visitors are treated fairly and with respect.”


Andy Towle

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Two Gay-Bashing Murderers Fall In Love And Wed In Prison, Family Members “Proud” Of Their Sons

Two Gay-Bashing Murderers Fall In Love And Wed In Prison, Family Members “Proud” Of Their Sons

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Goodman (left) and Gallatinov (right)

When 40-year-old Mikhail Gallatinov and 31-year-old Marc Goodman first met while working together at their local bar in the U.K., it was love at first sight. Conveniently, they were also neighbors, which meant they got to see each other all the time. Last week, the two “soul partners” exchanged wedding vows in front of their friends and family members… and 10 prison guards from the Full Sutton Prison in Yorkshire, where both men are currently incarcerated. Their union is the first same-sex wedding to occur in a prison after gay marriage was made legal in the U.K. in March 2014.

Gallatinov, a convicted child molester who prison psychologists have labeled “psychopathic,” is currently serving a 20-year sentence after strangling a 28-year-old man he met on a gay sex hotline in 1997. Goodman is currently serving an 18-year sentence after going on a “gay-bashing spree” and bludgeoning a 57-year-old gay man to death in 2007.

The two men met while working as “bar staff” inside the prison.

Gallatinov’s folks told the Manchester Evening News that they are “proud” of their son for “being a small part of history.”

“If you find love you have to go for it,” his father, Allen Abdulla, said, “even if it is in prison.”

His mother, Christina WIlliams agreed, saying her son was absolutely heartbroken when his last in-prison boyfriend was transferred to a different correctional facility and that she is “glad he’s found love again.”

“Everyone deserves to be happy,” Abdulla added.

But not everyone is pleased about the union.

Tony Benfold, the brother of the man Goodwin murdered, suspects the marriage is just a ploy to gain early release and should not have been permitted, despite the U.K.’s Marriages Act of 1983, which allows prisoners to apply for marriage licenses, and the legalization of same-sex marriage in the U.K. in March of last year.

“How can you go out and kill a man for being gay and then have a gay wedding in prison?” he told the Mirror. “I can’t see any logic in it. It has crossed my mind that this could be a trick to get early release by showing they have built new lives.”

Others think it is a positive thing.

“Marriage is a human right for same-sex couples and even for people whose lives we may find reprehensible,” Peter Tatchell, an ambassador for a U.K. penal reform association, told BuzzFeed Newsadding that while Gallatinov and Goodwin “committed horrific murders,” the “aim of prison is to also reform and rehabilitate offenders. … Being in love and married might help stabilize these men; giving them a focus away from a life of crime.”

Congratulations to the happy couple?

Graham Gremore

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