WATCH: Gender Neutral Bathroom Signs Focus on What's Inside — The Toilet

WATCH: Gender Neutral Bathroom Signs Focus on What's Inside — The Toilet

Graceful under fire, My Door Sign listened to activists who critiqued their first attempt at a trans-affirming design, and are now giving colleges their new “all gender” bathroom signs for free.

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Mitch Kellaway

www.advocate.com/politics/transgender/2015/02/21/watch-gender-neutral-bathroom-signs-focus-whats-inside-toilet

Will Smith Brings Back 1998 in a Big Way with a Late Show Rap of 'Gettin' Jiggy Wit It' – VIDEO

Will Smith Brings Back 1998 in a Big Way with a Late Show Rap of 'Gettin' Jiggy Wit It' – VIDEO

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Will Smith was channeling 1998 on The Late Show this week, walking out to the tune of  “Gettin’ Jiggy Wit It” before grabbing a mic and leading the audience in a performance of his pop rap classic.

Watch, AFTER THE JUMP

  


Kyler Geoffroy

www.towleroad.com/2015/02/will-smith-brings-back-1998-in-a-big-way-with-a-late-show-performance-of-gettin-jiggy-wit-it-video.html

Dear Straight People: Stop Asking Non-Straight People When 'They Knew'

Dear Straight People: Stop Asking Non-Straight People When 'They Knew'
“When did you know?”

Stop asking people who don’t identify as straight that question.

I hear straight people spew this question to people whom self-identify as gay, bisexual, asexual, or anything not straight all the time. When did they know they were attracted to the same sex instead of the opposite sex? Or when they weren’t sexually attracted to anyone at all? Well, my question is: Why do you have such a dying urge to know?

When did you find out that you were straight? Did you just pop out of the womb thinking, “I can’t wait to marry and procreate with someone of the opposite sex?” Is that when you knew? Doubtful. A person who doesn’t identify as heterosexual didn’t necessarily have to have some revelation to discover that person’s sexual orientation.

How many people ask you when you found out you were straight? Presumably, none. If you haven’t struggled with discovering your sexuality and you’ve identified as straight for as long as you can remember, you can assume that some people have had the same experience with their sexuality, even if they aren’t straight. Similarly, if someone has struggled a lot with their sexual orientation, and is currently struggling, questions about when they came to realize their sexual orientation is unnecessary.

If a person that doesn’t identify as straight wants to tell you when he/she/they, (supposing that the person came to know his/her/their sexual identity at a particular time) then that is that person’s choice. But if the person doesn’t want to tell you, just hold your tongue.

The way that heteronormativity permeates our society has tricked individuals into thinking that everyone is born heterosexual; everyone comes into this world with the desire to have some heterosexual sex! Wrong. Those assumptions are simply bigoted to have and create an unsafe space for those who do not identify as straight. No one wants to feel like they were born the “wrong way,” so entering the world with this theory that you identify as the “normal” sexual orientation isn’t cool. This is really important. Because not being straight is already hard enough in our intolerant society. If you know a person who doesn’t identify as straight, there’s a possibility that that person has known their sexual orientation for as long as you have.

The point is: Sexual orientation varies amongst almost everyone. It’s fine if you’ve known that you are straight for your entire life. But it’s also fine for people who aren’t straight to know that for just as long. Or to have just realized it the other day. Chances are no one ever pokes at you to reveal the life-changing moment that forced you to realize your straightness. So, don’t put that kind of pressure on non-straight people. They might not have a story to tell, they might have a Nobel Prize winning story to tell. Either way, it’s not your place to ask, and you don’t need to know.

www.huffingtonpost.com/rennie-pasquinelli/dear-straight-people-stop-asking-non-straight-people-when-they-knew_b_6724806.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

Gay Iconography: RuPaul's Race To Stardom

Gay Iconography: RuPaul's Race To Stardom

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From Ru’s rise to prominence in the early ‘90s to the multimedia brand he’s become today, RuPaul Andre Charles has become a subversive pop-culture institution, a guide to learning to love yourself and one of the most iconic bastions of all things glam. From film to television to music and makeup, Ru has broken barriers and, seemingly against all odds, bent mainstream culture to his will.

Prior to the empire though, RuPaul was just a punk kid in 1980s Atlanta. From the underground scene, Ru first began with gender-fuck before evolving his drag look into the striking beauty we know today. After his single “Supermodel (You Better Work)” became a hit on MTV, the Ru-volution was in full effect. A talk show, film appearances and several more dance albums followed, but they didn’t capture the same success. The real ru-surgence (I swear that’s my last one) came in 2009 with the launch of RuPaul’s Drag Race, one of the most brilliant reality-TV competitions of all time and the cornerstone of the Logo Network.

While critically-lauded and a winner of a GLAAD Media Award, the show did run into some controversy last season. The show has weathered criticisms for using transphobic language, and Ru, adored for his warmth and sensitivity, pushed back in interviews. He shared his feelings following Lance Bass’ apology for using the word “tranny” in a 2011 interview with the Huffington Post: “I love the word ‘tranny’…And I hate the fact that he’s apologized. I wish he would have said, ‘F-you, you tranny jerk!'” It was a stance seemingly at odds with the show’s open embrace of trans contestants like Sonique, Carmen Carrera and Monica Beverly Hillz during and after the competition. However, it was a segment called “female or she-male” that finally forced the show’s hand. Outcry over the mini-challenge led to the pulling of the episode and the loss of the recurring “She-Mail” bit.

With season seven of RuPaul’s Drag Race just around the corner, let’s take a look back at some of our favorite RuPaul moments, AFTER THE JUMP

 

Before Britney demanded it, RuPaul launched “You better work” into the cultural lexicon with his 1993 hit “Supermodel (You Better Work).” The track peaked on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 at 45 and reached no. 2 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Dance Club Songs chart. The video skyrocketed Ru to stardom in the MTV-era, alongside grunge acts like Nirvana. Kurt Cobain even called it one of his favorite tunes of 1993.

 

At the 1993 MTV Music Awards (the one where Ru was famously photographed with Cobain), RuPaul courted controversy as a presenter alongside legendary comedian Milton Berle. Allegedly, Berle had been inappropriate with RuPaul backstage, so when they were at the podium, Ru fired off an impromptu read, “So you used to wear gowns, but now you’re wearing diapers,” to which Berle responded “Oh, we’re going to ad lib? I’ll check my brain and we’ll start even.” In his biography, RuPaul talked about how he should have handled the situation differently: “Of course, what I should have done backstage is told him ‘Get your dirty hands off of me, you motherfucker!’, and then gone out there and been Miss Black America.”

 

Coming off the success of “Supermodel” (and his cover of “Don’t Go Breaking My Heart” with Elton John, which hit no. seven on the UK Singles Chart), VH1 launched The RuPaul Show in 1996. Over the course of the talk show’s 100 episodes, there were many guests — including Ru’s idol, Diana Ross — but one of our favorites was Tammy Faye-Messner, above.

 

The 2009 debut of RuPaul’s Drag Race season one is nearly unrecognizable to what we know today. Despite the seemingly vaseline-smeared camerawork, the ultra low-budget reality TV competition still pitted aspiring drag queens against one another in a series of challenges based off of RuPaul’s own career path, judging them on their fashion sense, interview abilities, lip syncing and, of course, charisma, uniqueness, nerve and talent. Although the aesthetic wasn’t as polished, the show balanced an uncanny ability to skewer popular TV tropes from series like Top Model, Project Runway and American Idol while still maintaining a tremendous amount of heart.

 

Today, Drag Race is a certified phenomenon, spawning an All-Stars edition, an Untucked after-show and three seasons of straight women makeover show, Drag U. Not only is it introducing drag culture to a much wider audience (the season five premiere, for example, netted 1.3 million viewers on premiere night), but it’s also making its contestants, like winners Jinkx Monsoon, Sharon Needles and Bianca Del Rio, nationally-known performing superstars. Monsoon’s show, The Vaudevillians, received rave reviews from The New York Times and was extended several times through its initial run.

What is your favorite RuPaul moment?


Bobby Hankinson

www.towleroad.com/2015/02/gay-iconography-rupauls-race-to-stardom.html