Oregon Baker Found Guilty of Discriminating Against Gay Couple; Faces Fine of Up to $150,000

Oregon Baker Found Guilty of Discriminating Against Gay Couple; Faces Fine of Up to $150,000

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Sweet Cakes, the Oregon bakery which refused to bake a cake in January 2013 after they found out it was for a lesbian’s wedding, has been found guilty by the Oregon Bureau of Labor and Industries of discriminating against the couple getting married and faces fines of up to $150,000, KGW Portland reports:

In Jan. 2013, Laurel Bowman said Sweet Cakes refused to sell her and her fiancée a cake for their upcoming wedding. Bowman said Aaron Klein, the co-owner of Sweet Cakes by Melissa, said the couple’s union was an “abomination unto the lord.”

Bowman filed an anti-discrimination complaint with BOLI later that year, alleging that the bakery violated the Oregon Equality Act of 2007, which protects the rights of Oregonians who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender.

According to KGW, Sweet Cakes by Melissa is liable for up to $75,000 per person, “which means the same-sex couple could be awarded up to $150,000.”

Sweet Cakes closed in September 2013, moving its business to an ‘in-home’ bakery after the state began its investigation and it became the target of protests.

The baker posted a sign on the door at the time:

“This fight is not over. We will continue to stand strong. Your Religious Freedom is becoming not Free anymore. This is ridiculous that we can not practice our faith. The LORD is good and we will continue to serve Him with all our heart. ♥”


Andy Towle

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Is Writing 'Masculine Only' in Your Dating Profile Homophobic?

Is Writing 'Masculine Only' in Your Dating Profile Homophobic?
I had just typed: “Hey gorgeous,” on Grindr and hit send before realizing my phone had corrected it to: “He forgives.” Well, might as well lead with something provocative. Gorgeous boy was not phased. “More pics?” he instantly responded.

I flipped through my selfie library and selected the usuals. The one where the Instagram filter blew out my fine lines. Another from last summer, when the tank top was hugging me in a way that showed pecs where there really weren’t any.

“Sorry,” he quipped back, “Masculine only.”

Wait. What? Should I have sent him the picture of me tearing a tiger in half with with my bare hands? Or, perhaps the one where I demolished an entire building with my balls? What did he see in two cell phone snap shots that made him think I was going to rollerblade into his life wearing daisy dukes and waving dance streamers?

Scroll through any of the gay hook-up apps these days, and you’ll get a sea of exclusive terminology. “Masc4Masc only.” “No Femmes.” “Masculine/Muscular ONLY.” (Did he mean Mascular?) What’s going on here? Is this personal taste in men? Or, is it subtle homophobia with a dash of self loathing?

In elementary school, there was an effeminate little boy. It was the early ’80s in small-town Indiana, and the other boys were quite cruel. They really let him have it. Out of fear, I remember making a concerted effort to sit with my legs spread wide, and to speak in the lowest tone my prepubescent voice could muster. To never get too expressive.

It worked. I passed.

Later, in high school, as my sexuality awakened, I was able to fly under the radar as one of the artsy kids. I grew out my hair. Played in a band. Wore a biker jacket. To the untrained eye, I wasn’t gay; I was just too cool for school.

As a young adult, I was also on a masculine-only kick. So much so that I developed a tragic ability to fall for straight guys. The moment I saw a flash of girly-ness on your visage, or a swish in your sashay, it was over.

It’s a funny thing, how painful and fearful moments from our childhood seem to linger with us forever, subconsciously influencing our behavior. Even funnier still is how time has a way of distancing us from the past. With each passing moment, I step further away from the scared little boy, overly-concerned with surface mannerisms that simply do not matter, and closer to the wise old man who has embraced the diversity of our people. I’m not all the way there yet, but it’s the direction I’m heading. It’s the direction I choose to go.

Today, I attempt to live without limitations, without preconceived ideas about what might be best for me. For one, being surprised is amazing. Two, living without the constraints of a scared little boy is the better way.

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Colby Keller Has A Poetic Package, Chris Pratt, Chris Evans Love Ball, Franco And Quinto Make Out In Slow-Mo

Colby Keller Has A Poetic Package, Chris Pratt, Chris Evans Love Ball, Franco And Quinto Make Out In Slow-Mo

Adult film star Colby Keller can recite Robert Frost’s “The Road Not Taken” all he wants, but we’re still going to be distracted by his package.

 

Kick-Ass 2 actor Augustus Prew has been cast in HBO’s upcoming comedy Mama Dallas as a hard-living drag queen who becomes a nanny to three children of a conservative Texan family.

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Out2Enroll has created an entertaining reminder that there are only two weeks left for open enrollment for affordable health insurance options under the Affordable Care Act.

Dance music pioneer Giorgio Moroder enlisted goddess Kylie to sing on his infectious new single “Right Here, Right Now.”

James Franco and Zachary Quinto, stars of the ex-gay themed film I Am Michael, will look for any excuse to lock lips.

Super heroes Chris Pratt and Chris Evans spent Sunday together watching the Super Bowl. Sorry mere mortals, no one ever said that life is fair.

Let’s go #12s #JurassicWorld trailer #twitterbowl #Psalm126:3 #12sEverywhere #TomBradysBeautifulSkin #LOB #SuperBowl pic.twitter.com/sNMEXsO6Gg

— chris pratt (@prattprattpratt) February 1, 2015

Iconic entertainer Lily Tomlin had a big hit at the Sundance Film Festival with her new comedy Grandma, but in this recent interview she also discusses her classic Nine to Five.

Jeremy Kinser

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What To Watch This Week on TV: Wedding Bells for 'Lance,' 'Glee' and 'Parks and Rec'

What To Watch This Week on TV: Wedding Bells for 'Lance,' 'Glee' and 'Parks and Rec'

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Check out our weekly guide to make sure you’re catching the big premieres, crucial episodes and the stuff you won’t admit you watch when no one’s looking.

— Here comes the grooms in E! Network’s reality special, Lance Loves Michael: The Lance Bass Wedding, Thursday at 8 p.m. Eastern. See the former boybander tie the knot, plus his bandmate JC Chasez serenades the happy couple.

What’s coming up on the final seasons of Parks and Recreation and Glee, plus more TV this week, AFTER THE JUMP

On the one hand, we’ve loved gorging ourselves on two new episodes of Parks and Recreation every Tuesday these last few weeks. However, we’re going to wish we’d savored them more when the series wraps its seventh and final season. One of this week’s installments features the mysteriously drama-free nuptials of Donna (Retta) and Joe (Keegan-Michael Key). Check in with all of your favorite Pawnee citizens Tuesday at 8 p.m. Eastern on NBC.

 

School is back in session for the students on How To Get Away With Murder, Thursday at 10 p.m. Eastern on ABC. Can they keep their cool after the shocking events that took place the night of the bonfire? Come for the steamy same-sex makeout scenes, stay for the sort of heightened drama only Shonda Rhimes can provide.

 

Glee pays tribute to Burt Bacharach with an hour dedicated to the legendary songwriter Friday at 9 p.m. Eastern on Fox. Plus, Brittany (Heather Morris) and Santana (Naya Rivera) tell their parents about their engagement.

The honeymoon might be over between Patrick (Jonathan Groff) and Kevin (Russell Tovey) on this week’s Looking, Sunday at 10 p.m. Eastern on HBO. How will the pair react after Patrick’s overheard Kevin taking a call from his boyfriend during their sleepover?

What are you watching this week?


Bobby Hankinson

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