Backstage With Adore Delano

Backstage With Adore Delano

I had the opportunity to sit down with Adore Delano backstage after her show at the TLA in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. We chatted social media, ex-boyfriends, her new album, and why she wants to kill Bianca Del Rio.

What do you experience when you get off the stage?

Adore Delano: Sweat. Sweat everywhere. I imagine my balls smell like bleach and how much I need to shower. I don’t want to hug anyone because I sweat a lot.

How was tonight’s show for you?

Tonight was fun! They are always fun. These little shows, they are always intimate and really cool. You see a lot of people from Twitter and Instagram and you put their faces to the names. Like that one guy that came up and was like, “I am BoB_FAGET.” I know you’re BoB_FAGET!

Who is he?

He is a guy on Instagram. He has the name BoB_FAGET. I was so jealous of that and I told him that. I recognized him instantly. It’s so weird but really neat that I get to travel and meat these mother fuckers in person.

You have a really good relationship with your social media following.

Fuck yeah! You have to man. From the beginning, that’s all I had. No one would come to my drag shows before Drag Race but I had a big social media following because I knew had to work it. I am very active on social media.

I think you have the biggest social media following of any of the Drag Race contestants. Is this true?

Yeah. It is awesome. It is a cool feeling. When you see shit like that, it’s good to know that people actually get it. That’s what you really need to focus on. I’m learning. Just to shut my mouth, and learn that the positive overcomes the negative.

Well I saw you posted on Facebook about last night’s show this morning. About being nervous before your show. What happened there?

I was just being a baby. I was kind of scared. It was our first show for this run of this tour. These venues aren’t really selling out. But I went to a show when I was 14 to see the Distillers, and Brody was performing in front of 50 people. They are one of my favorite bands ever. And she fucking slayed. I was thinking about that. And my band last night was like, “Who the fuck cares if no one comes? We are making music. We are having fun. Take a shot and shut up and have fun.”

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What happened with that Raven and Delta drama that happened on their Fashion RuView show?

Oh god. Delta and I go back. She is like my home girl. Her and I are the only Mexican American contestants to be on the show. I only know that because she would bring it up all the time. She is cool. But my feelings were hurt. Even though people said that, “You signed the contract to let them do that to you.” But when they act like they don’t get it, it just hurts. I have so much respect for them and I look up to them. Raven was the first drag queen I had ever seen. Her and Detox in LA when I was baby. I respect Raven and Detox so much. So it hurt my feelings.

What do you think of when I say Raven?

Artist. She is a fucking awesome makeup artist. She is very talented and creative. She is very inspiring. Before Sharon Needles a lot of people were emulating Raven’s makeup and style. Sharon then kind of changed that. She made it cool to be edgy and weird. But, Raven is beautiful.

You had a boyfriend but said on stage tonight you are now single. What happened there?

Distance. He lives in Australia. When you get in a relationship like that that is long distance, it is really fucking hard. I am on the road. I was being faithful. My mom says, “Don’t ever love anyone more than they love you.” And that has been in my head since I was a kid. I was feeling it was one sided. If you are not sure that you are in my love with me, I can’t do “I’m not sure”.

Are you guys still friends?

Yes. Very much so. And I love his mom. My family fucking adores him. So that was hard. When I told my brother, he was the most upset. They all love him so much. He (Kristian) is a good kid. He is a sweetheart. Just chill.

What is next for you?

A new album.

A new album! When is that coming out?

Probably the same time this one came out last year. We are working on what producers to work with. We are writing a lot of shit. Working with the same writer, Ashley. She is awesome. Yeah, just touring. I just want to make music. And see these little fuckers. My fans.

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Let’s play some rounds of kill, marry, fuck. First round: Darienne Lake, Courtney Act, and Bianca Del Rio.

Why? I can’t kill them! Those are my home girls. Oh no! I don’t know who to kill. I like them all. Who should I kill, John (Adore’s assistant and cousin)?

John: Bianca would kill you.

Bianca said she doesn’t want to kill marry or fuck anyone of you. She wants to get you all jobs.

I would kill Bianca.

Because then you would have won.

Yes. I want Bianca to die of old age so I can take the crown. I would then marry Darienne. And fuck Courtney.

I like that. Jink Monsoon, Raja, or Sharon Needles?

Kill Sharon. Fuck …..

Fuck Raja?

I guess I’d fuck Raja. I just don’t want to marry any of them. I’ll marry Jinkx but then I would probably divorce her because we would just be singing all the time while making eggs in the morning.

What would you be singing?

She will be singing show tunes and I will singing, “Shut the fuck up!” No, I love Jinkx.

For more information on Adore and where she will be performing in 2015, visit www.adoredelano.com.

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Gay Mormon Man Married To A Woman Compares Gay Sex To Donuts

Gay Mormon Man Married To A Woman Compares Gay Sex To Donuts

Oh, brother. One of the nutjobs husbands from TLC’s controversial new show My Husband’s Not Gay sat down with ABC’s Nightline to talk about his attraction to men, and it’s just as awkward and uncomfortable as you might expect.

“When I’m having sex with [my wife], I don’t wish she were a man,” he said. “I don’t fantasize about her being a man. I am with her. And I am having sex with her. And it’s her I love and want to be with.”

To help better explain himself, he offered up the following analogy:

“I love donuts! I would eat donuts three times a day. But I desire to be able to fit in my pants in the morning, too. SO you could say I’m oriented towards donuts. And if I were being true to myself, I would eat donuts a lot more than I eat donuts. But am I miserable? Am I lonely? Am I denying myself because I don’t eat donuts as much as I’d like to eat donuts? I’m not.”

All the while, his doting Mormon wife sits glossy-eyed and smiling by his side.

My Husband’s Not Gay chronicles the lives of four gay men, many of whom are married to women, living in Salt Lake City. The show has received harsh criticism by gay rights activists who feel it delivers a damaging message about gay people. Earlier this month, a Change.org petition calling for the show to be cancelled garnered 100,000 signatures, TLC, however, was unpersuaded and has refused to take the show off the air. 

See the awkward interview below. And excuse us while we go indulge ourselves in a donut.

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Ellen Celebrates Her Lesbianism And Pushes Her 'Gay Agenda' In Response To Anti-Gay Pastor: VIDEO

Ellen Celebrates Her Lesbianism And Pushes Her 'Gay Agenda' In Response To Anti-Gay Pastor: VIDEO

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Funny lady Ellen DeGeneres took pause yesterday to address an anti-gay pastor who has accused her of pushing a gay agenda on the world. The pastor in question is Larry Tomczak, who previously claimed that gays and lesbians were being punished by God by being made effeminate and mannish. Tomczak this time time has written an article in The Christian Post where he blasts Ellen saying, “Ellen Degeneres celebrates her lesbianism and ‘marriage’ in between appearances of guests like Taylor Swift to attract young girls,” as Raw Story reports. Ellen couldn’t let such nonsense stand: 

“Larry I don’t even know what it means to celebrate my lesbianism,” DeGeneres responded.

“Well,” she said, then shot streamers out of a party favor she produced from her jacket pocket. “I guess it’s that.”

“Larry,” she said, “The only way I’m trying to influence people is to be more kind and compassionate with one another. That is the message I’m sending out. I don’t have an agenda. I’m not here to brainwash anybody.”

Watch the video of Ellen’s hilarious and spot-on response, AFTER THE JUMP…


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Jon Stewart Skewers Florida For Fighting Same-Sex Marriage: VIDEO

Jon Stewart Skewers Florida For Fighting Same-Sex Marriage: VIDEO

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On last night’s The Daily Show, host Jon Stewart took the state of Florida to task for the extreme measures it took this month to avoid granting same-sex couples the right to marry. Among the many absurdities involved in the larger unfolding of events pertaining to the arrival of marriage equality in Florida, Stewart highlighted the decision by some counties not to allow any couples to get married at courthouses, a move aimed at blocking same-sex couples from saying “I do” and upholding the so-called “religious liberty” of clerks who personally oppose marriage equality. The fodder is too perfect for Stewart to resist:

“Yes we don’t want to cause ‘discriminations’ against county court employees who don’t feel like following the law. These people didn’t choose to be county clerks. They were born that way.”

Florida claiming to have the moral high-ground on any subject is a bit of joke. Stewart sums it up nicely: “Florida, you don’t get to judge others when your state motto is, ‘If Darwin was right we wouldn’t be here.’”

Watch Stewart lampoon the “giant cockroach-choking, hazard-infested, Hooters-dining, reptile-abusing, Everglades-draining, election-ruining, stripper-motorboating, ball-sweat-scented, genitalia-shaped, 24-hour mugshot factory,” AFTER THE JUMP…

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