The Origin Of 'Hot' – VIDEO

The Origin Of 'Hot' – VIDEO

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It’s a strange term when one stops to think about it: why would we use temperature to describe someone’s sexiness? The folks over at Mental Floss dove into this etymology lesson with some surprising revelations, such as the fact that it’s been a common term for over 700 years, first appearing in the 1300s to reference lust and desire. Canterbury Tales is an early work to use this new definition with the line in the prologue, “Hot he was, and lecherous as a sparrow.” The complete adoption of the word to mean “attractive” took a long gestation time and according to the Oxford English Dictionary became official slang in the 1920s.

Word nerds can get the full rundown AFTER THE JUMP…


Christian Walters

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Justice for Leelah Alcorn: Pass Leelah's Law

Justice for Leelah Alcorn: Pass Leelah's Law
While stories of self-harm among the LGBTQ+ community are all too common on too frequent a basis, the news of 17-year-old Leelah Alcorn’s suicide on December 27, 2014, has left us reeling, especially those within and working on behalf of the transgender community.

The Ohioan teen, misgendered and misnamed by local media, was struck by a tractor trailer on I-71 in Warren County two days after Christmas. Her true identity, proclaimed in a note she left behind on her Tumblr account, revealed the pain Leelah had suffered for years as a result of a family who didn’t understand and refused to accept her, as well as the abuse she endured from the extremely misguided conversion therapy she was forced into. She had been isolated from her friends and, as a result of the aforementioned, ended her life — but not without a strong message for all of us:

My death needs to be counted in the number of transgender people who commit suicide this year. I want someone to look at that number and say ‘that’s fucked up’ and fix it. Fix society. Please.

As a member of the Transgender Human Rights Institute (THRI) and Transgender Violence Tracking Portal (TVTP), I am well aware of the statistics; this past year alone has seen a rise in violence against the trans* community. As severe as the numbers appear, they are truly just a drop in the bucket considering how many unreported cases of trans* discrimination in the form of assaults, suicides, murders and the like remain.

How many more Leelahs do there need to be before true change comes?

In an effort to hasten that change, the THRI has begun a petition via Change.org, calling for a permanent end to transgender conversion therapy in Leelah’s name. At this point, only with help from the federal government can we hope to see differences made quickly in the United States on this front.

As our petition notes:

“Conversion therapies” have been documented to cause great harms and, in this case, Leelah’s death. Therapists that engage in the attempt to brainwash or reverse any child’s gender identity are seriously unethical, and legislation is needed to end such practices immediately. Transgender youth have one of the highest suicide rates in the nation. We must not allow therapists to increase those rates with therapy methodologies that have been demonstrated in harming transgender youth.

The American Association of Pediatrics (AAP), the American Psychological Association, the National Association of Social Workers and the American Counseling Association have all released studies and statements with various statistics demonstrating the damage that comes from such therapy, seen in increased incidences of self-mutilation, suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts. The AAP alone states:

According to the study, “Characteristics of Children and Adolescents with Gender Identity Disorder Referred to a Pediatric Medical Center,” in the March 2012 Pediatrics … gender-dysphoric children who do not receive medical treatment or counseling for GID can be at high-risk for certain behavioral and emotional problems, including psychiatric diagnoses. Of 97 patients younger than 21 years who met the criteria for GID … 21.6 percent had a history of self-mutilation and suicide attempts.

Allison Woolbert, founding member of both the THRI and TVTP, said:

The one message we need to get out to the world is transgender conversion therapy kills. Gender identity and sexual orientation are not choices; and those who unethically try to modify transgender and gay/lesbian/bisexual+ youth through therapy, brainwashing or religious bias can cause severe harms. Leelah’s Law must be created, enacted and enforced to save our youth.

We hope this petition, currently at over 292,000 signatures strong, will raise the awareness needed to get the powers that be to act in Leelah’s memory, saving countless lives in the future.

Fix society. Please.

For more information and resources on how you can help, please visit LeelahsLaw.com.

The THRI is dedicated to advancing acceptance of transgender human rights. We seek to be an educational catalyst and the foremost provider of accurate, verified data through our education, advocacy and research, ensuring human rights and dignity for all transgender people around the world.

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Adorable, Cuddly Gay Couple Kicked To The Curb By Uber Driver For Being Adorable And Cuddly

Adorable, Cuddly Gay Couple Kicked To The Curb By Uber Driver For Being Adorable And Cuddly

stream_imgWhat started as a typical ride from point A to point B ended in an unforgettable act of discrimination for Corey Watts and Jordan Sloan recently in London.

They were traveling from Covent Garden at around 8 p.m. on New Year’s Day when the driver pulled over and told them to get out of the car.

“We were kissing and cuddled next to each other when a minute or two after picking us up he pulled over and told us to get out,” Sloan told ITV News.

They asked him why they were getting the boot, and the driver allegedly told them, “I take gays but they don’t normally do this,” essentially the I’m OK with gay people as long as they don’t flaunt their lifestyle in my face equivalent of cab driving.

The two, both in their early 20s, were understandably shaken.

Sloan, from Toronto, Canada, said, “I’ve never had any homophobic stuff happen to me so I was caught off guard. You don’t expect it to happen in one of the world’s biggest cities.

stream_img-1“I wanted to understand what he was thinking so I asked the driver: ‘Would you do the same thing if it was a guy and a girl?’”

That’s when the driver drove off.

Shortly afterwards, they got an email receipt for the ride they’d been charged for.

Uber refunded their money, and has suspended the driver pending an investigation into the incident.

A spokesperson for the ride-sharing service said: “Uber does not tolerate any form of discrimination either by our partner drivers or towards our partner drivers.

“We opened an investigation from the moment we learned of this unacceptable incident and have been in contact with the rider to extended our sincere apologies and get further information.”

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Dan Tracer

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Out Chef Art Smith to Throw 101 Gay Weddings At Miami Beach Hotel

Out Chef Art Smith to Throw 101 Gay Weddings At Miami Beach Hotel

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With same-sex marriage now legal in Florida, out celebrity chef Art Smith has announced he will be joining forces with the James Royal Palm Hotel in Miami to throw a special wedding officiated by a mystery celebrity on Saturday, February 21st for 101 lucky gay couples, NewTimes Miami reports:

The event, coinciding with the South Beach Wine & Food Festival, where Chef Smith cohosted the Big Gay Ice Cream Social, will feature food by some of Miami’s best chefs, a party with a celebrity DJ, and a special cake created by Duff Goldman, star of Food Network’s Ace of Cakes. 

The first 101 couples to tweet to @ChefArtSmith using #101GayWeddings will be invited to participate in the free wedding, complete with a celebrity minister to officiate the ceremony. Although the officiant has yet to be announced, it was assured that the person will be a “really big name.” 

Each couple will be able to invite two guests to share the big day. Couples do not have to be Florida residents to enter but will have pay for travel to Miami if they’re from out of town. 

An afterparty, in lieu of the Big Gay Ice Cream Social, is also being planned, with proceeds benefiting local LBGT charities. More info when that’s announced.

Smith married his partner back in 2010 at the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, D.C.


Sean Mandell

www.towleroad.com/2015/01/out-chef-art-smith-to-throw-101-gay-weddings-at-miami-beach-hotel.html