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Same-sex couple win Denmark’s Dancing With The Stars

Same-sex couple win Denmark’s Dancing With The Stars

 

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A same-sex dance couple have made history by winning Denmark’s TV show, Vild med Dans. The show is its version of Dancing With The Stars.

The pair comprise of gay actor Jakob Fauerby, 42, and professional dancer Silas Holst, 36. They have consistently wowed audiences and judges with their routines, securing the highest score in four of the show’s previous eight episodes.

Fauerby says that when he was invited to take part, he requested to be partnered with another man.

Once producers agreed to the request, Holst, who had taken a break from the show for the past five years, returned to dance with Fauerby.

Although the pair’s participation has been met with much praise, there have been some detractors. Fauerby has appeared on several news shows to defend his participation as one half of the first same-sex couple in the show’s 16-year history.

“We are a small country of only 5.6 million people, and every Friday more than a million people tune in to watch the show and many more watch it on-demand afterward,” LGBTQ Nation reports Fauerby saying.

“There are very few shows that everyone sees, and this is one of them, so there are a lot of feelings connected to it.”

Related: The first male couple on Denmark’s “Dancing with the Stars” is stirring up controversy… & winning

He says that criticism died down after the first couple of shows and the novelty of seeing two men dance together wore off.

“What happened after the first two shows is that people saw weren’t going to have anal sex on stage.

“It is feelings. It is sensuality. But it is not sexuality. It’s just two people dancing.”

When they danced their paso doble at Friday’s finale, one of the judges, Marianne Eihilt cheered and said, “I am so proud to live in a country where two men can make a final,” reports Politiken.

Afterward, Fauebry, a father to two children, took to Instagram to post about his joy and pride at winning.

“It’s totally crazy and absolutely amazing. Thank you so much to all of you for your wonderful messages and great support over the last 12 weeks.

“I am so proud that my daughter, her big brother, and all other little boys and girls can go out into the world and love them the way they want and dance with whomever they want.”

He called his dance partner, Host, “the bravest man” and thanked him for partnering with him: “It was worth it. Now we have to party! With all my heart – thank you very much.”

Holst, in return, posted: “I am proud! Proud of our hard work was rewarded, but most importantly proud to share a country with all of you who have dared to open your mind and look at something new with open eyes.

“That you saw through both sex and sexuality and only saw two people dancing. It fills my heart with love and my eyes with tears! Thank you so much for all your love and voices! It has been touching and absolutely amazing to feel your support!”

Last year, Italy’s version of Dancing With The Stars, Ballando con le Stelle, featured a gay celebrity partnered with a male professional dancer. The duo reached the competition’s grand final and came third.

The Israeli version of the show has featured a same-sex female competing couple and the Austrian version has featured a male competing couple. Earlier this year, Courtney Act danced with a male partner in the Australian version of the show.

There has yet to be a same-sex competing pairing on the US’s Dancing With The Stars. Nyle DiMarco did participate in a brief, same-sex routine in a January 2016 episode of the show. He went on to win the series with his female dance partner, Peta Murgatroyd.

Related: WATCH: UK’s version of Dancing With The Stars features same-sex dance duo

UK TV show Strictly Come Dancing – forerunner to Dancing With The Stars in the US and other countries – featured its first same-sex dance routine in early November. The dancers were professionals, not celebrity contestants.

A report in Britain’s Sunday Times yesterday suggested UK show producers are seeking a drag queen – possibly a former Drag Race contestant – to take part in the next series.

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Legalizing same-sex marriage leads to big drop in gay suicide rate

Legalizing same-sex marriage leads to big drop in gay suicide rate

A gay couple celebrates their wedding day

Allowing same-sex couples to marry leads to a significant drop in the rates of suicide in gay and lesbian people. That’s the findings of a major survey carried out in Sweden and Denmark.

Both European countries were early adopters of same-sex marriage (Denmark legalized it in 1989), which means researchers were able to analyze a large data pool. The study tracked more than 28,000 people in same-sex unions for an average of 11 years.

They looked at the suicide rates among those entering same-sex marriages between 1989 and 2002, and then between 2003-2016. The suicide rate fell by 46% between the two samples.

It’s been noted in other studies that married people – of all sexualities – are less likely to die by suicide, and the suicide rate in both countries has fallen in recent years. In the same study, the suicide rate for those in opposite-sex marriages fell by 28% between – still significant but not as great as the figure for those in same-sex relationships.

Related: Gay men who get married live longer, but not lesbians

In their conclusion, the researchers note: “Although suicide rates in the general populations of Denmark and Sweden have been decreasing in recent decades, the rate for those living in same-sex marriage was declining at a steeper pace, which has not been noted previously.”

Although some other factors may be at play (for example, more effective treatment for HIV has also led to a drop in suicide among gay men) they believe that legalizing same-sex marriage has helped to decrease prejudice towards gay and bisexual people.

“Being married is protective against suicide,” said Annette Erlangsen of the Danish Research Institute for Suicide Prevention and one of the study’s co-authors.

“Legalizing same-sex marriage and other supportive legislative measures – they might actually reduce stigma around sexual minorities,” she told Thomson Reuters Foundation.

This isn’t the first study to suggest a link between marriage and a drop in LGBTQ suicides. A Harvard University study in 2017 found that suicide attempts by gay, lesbian and bisexual US High School students dropped 14% in those states with legal same-sex marriage.

The Swedish and Danish study wasn’t all good news, though. People in same-sex marriages were still 2.3 times as likely to kill themselves as those in opposite-sex marriages – with gay men more likely than any other group. Tackling stigma and prejudice still has some way to go.

Related: The Trevor Project launches 24/7 chat and text services

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