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Universities Are Trying To Teach Faculty How To Spot Microaggressions

Universities Are Trying To Teach Faculty How To Spot Microaggressions

Earlier this year, University of California President Janet Napolitano invited deans and department heads to a seminar on inclusivity on campus. A large theme was how the university could better address microaggressions, the subtle comments, “slights” or “snubs” that signal bias against someone’s race, background or identity.

To better explain it, UC published a list of examples of microaggressions, and when commentators discovered it in June, they erupted in disapproval at the examples.

One UCLA professor wrote op-eds calling it “UC’s PC police.” A Los Angeles Times staff editorial criticized it as going too far. Bloomberg View columnists picked it apart as well.

UC officials declined to make anyone available for an interview, but insisted no one in the university system is “prohibited from making statements such as ‘America is a melting pot,’ ‘America is the land of opportunity,’ or any other such statement,” phrases listed among the microaggression examples.

Yet for all the criticism, the University of California didn’t come up with the list — a Columbia University researcher named Derald W. Sue did in 2007, along with several colleagues. And versions of it have been used in college diversity trainings nationwide for at least the past few years.

“I’m not sure they are advocating for banning speech,” Sue told The Huffington Post on Tuesday about the institutions that have adopted the table. “I think it’s much more educational. In other words, what are microaggressions? How do they harm individuals of color or marginalized groups? And what can we do to avoid creating misunderstandings?”

The University of Missouri used an almost identical list at a 2012 summit on diversity, part of a biannual effort by the school to improve the campus climate. A version was handed out at a professional development program at Texas A&M University by a guest speaker. A PowerPoint presentation during a student affairs symposium in 2012 at the University of Arizona laid out several examples of microaggressions as well, some from Sue and John Jay College researcher David Nadal, and a few from students on their own campus. The University of Richmond and Virginia Commonwealth University co-organized a workshop in January 2014 to recognize and diffuse microaggressions in the classroom.

A key component of microaggressions, Sue said, is that they frequently are uttered without any malice on the speaker’s part.

“When I’m complimented for speaking good English — and this happens to me frequently — the person complimenting me, they are not a mean, evil person,” Sue elaborated. “They mean to compliment me but they don’t see what message it sends — that I am a perpetual alien in my own country, I am not a true American. When you try to tell them you feel insulted, they get defensive and they don’t understand it. They begin to perceive I am oversensitive. This is the power of microaggressions.”

Sue’s example appears to be reflected by reactions outside of academia to campus educational efforts.

[RELATED: What You Should Know About The Lives Of Black Students On Campus]

Shortly after the University of California version made the rounds online, it was discovered that a similar copy was shared at the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point. Similar criticism ensued from Bloomberg View, but UW-Stevens Point Provost Greg Summers noted to HuffPost it was merely a page ripped out of Sue’s 2007 article, and said they’ve used it in new faculty and staff seminars for a few years.

“Few people have seemed to notice that it’s not our material,” Summers said, noting there’s been academic literature on microaggressions “for at least the past decade, so it’s not surprising that other universities are discussing similar lists.”

“The term ‘microaggression’ is really professional jargon that has arisen from research on the subject, and it obviously doesn’t translate well to a popular audience,” he added.

The reason schools are doing this, according to University of Illinois urban planning professor Stacy Anne Harwood, is because students are demanding it. Students in recent years have engaged in activism around campus climate issues tied to race and treatment of minorities.

From Dartmouth College, Colgate University and the University of Virginia, to the University of Notre Dame, the University of Michigan and UCLA, student activists have demonstrated on campus about microaggressions and inclusivity.

Students at the University of Illinois staged the Being Black at Illinois campaign in March 2014, and later met with school officials to explain their grievances on campus. A year later, in May, a group of faculty and students produced a report after surveying 4,800 students of color at the Urbana campus, showing that over half had experienced stereotyping in the classroom. The report went on to detail places minority students felt uncomfortable, examples of microaggressions they faced and recommendations for how the university could improve.

 

The top recommendation from the report was that the administration should train faculty and staff about microaggressions and provide them with “tools to address racial microaggressions, such as how to facilitate dialogue in the classroom.” Beyond that, it recommended creating an education requirement that students take a class about race, white privilege and inequality in the United States.

[RELATED: What It’s Like To Be A Muslim College Student Today]

“The reaction is more like, ‘Oh, we have to be [politically correct] and ‘thought police,’ without thinking about well, if your words are harming people and limiting access and contributing to students dropping out and not succeeding,” Harwood said. “There is this disconnect.”

Harwood doesn’t think new rules banning certain phrases or disciplining people at school for committing microaggressions would be helpful. Instead, she and her colleague Ruby Mendenhall, a sociology professor, hope reports like theirs can get people to simply think more critically about what they say to one another.

“Since the civil rights era, all of us have been socialized in some way to believe we’re in this post-racial society, that it’s colorblind, that race does not play a role in the U.S.,” explained Mendenhall, “and I think that’s some of what’s behind the backlash. We aren’t really taught or feel comfortable talking about about race relations.”

Harwood knows people may write off microaggressions as “just a few words,” and insist “it’s not a big deal.

“Yeah, but have you heard that 20 times this week?” she asks rhetorically. “I’m sure everyone can relate in some way, maybe because of your weight, your religion, your sexuality.”

[RELATED: Colleges Campuses Are Full Of Subtle Racism And Sexism, Study Says]

Sue doesn’t want to ban microaggressions either — though favors banning overt racial slurs — because the people committing them don’t realize they’re doing it. He’d rather get more people to recognize what they are.

“It’s not a political issue,” Sue said, “It’s an educational issue here.”

“If we are to have a society that really allows for equal opportunities,” he continued, “we have to begin talking with one another.”

 

Tyler Kingkade is based in New York and covers higher education for The Huffington Post. You can reach him at [email protected] or on Twitter: @tylerkingkade.

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My Transgender Life: I Know Someone Who Knows Someone Who…..

My Transgender Life: I Know Someone Who Knows Someone Who…..
Do you remember the old game called Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon? You know, name any actor and try to connect in the fewest “hops” of what movie were they in with someone who ultimately was in a movie with Kevin Bacon.

The entire game was based on a concept called six degrees of separation, which posits that any two people on earth are fewer than six acquaintance links apart.

This made me think about the recent survey report that only about 8% of the population knows someone who is transgender. I know that my own personal world does not fairly represent the country as a whole, but when I go out to teach or speak I ask the question and often see 20-30% or more hands go up.

I do believe that knowing someone who is transgender goes a long way to acceptance and understanding – and for those that have been following some of my writing, you know that I think the acceptance can come first. So the questions started to swim around my mind that how far can the “separation” of acquaintance links be in order to foster and grow transgender acceptance.

If you know someone who is trans, have you ever been in a conversation with a friend, a co-worker, even a stranger in a line somewhere, where you got to say, “I know someone who is transgender and they are so courageous and happy being their true self!” Have you ever heard this from someone and repeated as ” I know someone who knows someone who is transgender and…..”

Once again, I will state that we are all unique, just like snowflakes! There is no one way, no right way to BE transgender. Just because you may know someone who is transgender that does not mean you know everyone who is transgender. There are trans people in the public. Some do great things, while some do not! Some are heroes while some are not. Some are highly visible and some hide themselves and their past, which all is fine. Almost all of them, all of us, have gone through an internal battle to understand and hopefully accept ourselves as best we possibly can. No two of us have taken the same path to live our truth. Each one of us has had the courage to move forward and possibly lose everything and everyone that is near and dear to us. Yes, each one of us reached this crossroad!

When you know someone you have met someone who has had an incredible challenge in his or her life and was incredibly brave enough to face their internal challenge in spite of not mapping to society’s expectations. The more people you meet and get to know, you will realize that they are really not that much different than you, but perhaps their specific challenges are! Perhaps it is the millions of trans people that are facing their challenges can teach everyone to face their own and live their true life, what ever that may be.

Six degrees of separation does not seem so far away. Neither does even 2 degrees or 3 degrees of separation. It was reported that over 17 million people saw the Diane Sawyer/Jenner interview this past April. If each of those people told two people they know a trans person and then they told 2 people, there would be over 150 Million people at 2 degrees of separation. This may sound silly, but that is the power of the media and the way we see knowledge being spread.

Most of us, not just trans people, want to live our lives as our true selves. We need people in our life to accept us just as people who had a challenge that we did not ask for but have learned to deal with it. We are not crazy, impaired or doing anything wrong.

We are just trying to end our internal six degrees of separation, and bring together all those parts and aspects inside of us that have been internally battling for many years and bring them all together as the people we truly are.

I bet you are too!

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Grace Stevens is a transgender woman who transitioned at the age of 64 and holds a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology. She is a father of three, grandparent of two, athlete, advocate and author of No! Maybe? Yes! Living My Truth, an intimate memoir of her personal struggle to transition and live her true life authentically as a woman. Grace is available for speaking about authentic living with Living on-TRACK, and Gender Variance Education and Training. Visit her website at: www.graceannestevens.com/. Follow Grace on Twitter: www.twitter.com/graceonboard .

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REVIEW: Jen Cafe – Chinatown, London

REVIEW: Jen Cafe – Chinatown, London

Jen Cafe is a fairly simple place but it’s one of the stand-outs in London’s Chinatown.

Occupying a prime corner location in Newport Place, Jen Cafe specialise in freshly made dumplings (steamed or fried) but also has a full menu of numerous classic dishes.

The service is brusque, and this isn’t a place to linger over your food, but if you fancy some freshly made dumplings then this is a winner.

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Parents Give Son Gift Of NSA Gay Dating Apps. Happy Birthday, “RagingBottom96″!

Parents Give Son Gift Of NSA Gay Dating Apps. Happy Birthday, “RagingBottom96″!

Screen Shot 2015-07-07 at 10.48.19 AMWhat did you get for your 19th birthday? A subscription to Rolling Stone? A car if you were one of those kids?

Well for one fresh-faced 20-something actor playing 19, the big gift was a smart phone loaded up with Jack’d and complete with a ready-to-go profile crafted by mum and dad.

They even chose a solid user ID to get him stated — RagingBottom96. How very touching.

Watch the entertaining marketing ploy below:

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YouTuber Shane Dawson Comes Out As Bisexual in Moving Video: WATCH

YouTuber Shane Dawson Comes Out As Bisexual in Moving Video: WATCH

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Vlogger Shane Dawson, who has more than 6.7 million followers on YouTube, came out as bisexual in a new video posted to his channel Tuesday.

Shane first started his channel back in 2008 and in many ways was at the forefront of the YouTube movement.

In an emotional no-frills video, Shane shared his struggle to come out as bisexual:

“Over the last year I have been extremely sexually confused…I mean my whole life, but this last year is when it really hit me. I always wished that I was gay, that I was just 100 percent gay. For so many reasons, you know, number one, that would mean I knew who I was. Number two, it would be a lot easier for me to be accepted by people. Because I wear wigs and dresses on the internet and I’m feminine and all these things. And it would be so much easier to just say, yeah, you know, I’m gay. But I’m not completely gay, and I can’t sit here and say that I am… but I also can’t sit here and say that I’m straight…I’ve come to the conclusion, through therapy and through being honest with myself, I am bisexual.

Shane confessed that he had only said out loud that he was bisexual once before while in therapy. He decided he wanted to talk about it because he felt that other viewers might identify with his struggle to understand who he is.

Watch Shane’s emotional coming out video in which he touches on how his same-sex attractions were shut down and repressed as a kid because of his family’s religion as well as what he hopes others can take away from his story, below:

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Refusal to Grant Marriage Licenses Because of Alleged Religious Conviction Is Based More on Politics and Bigotry Than Scripture

Refusal to Grant Marriage Licenses Because of Alleged Religious Conviction Is Based More on Politics and Bigotry Than Scripture
Clerks have granted marriage licenses to convicted murderers while still in prison despite the Commandment that thou shall not commit murder, but some clerks have decided to draw the line at same-sex marriage licenses–apparently, in their view, a much more serious offense to their religious principles. Have these same clerks refused to grant a marriage license because one or both of the applicants has violated one of the Ten Commandments? Do clerks inquire as to whether the applicants have taken the name of the Lord in vain or failed to keep the Sabbath holy? Have they denied licenses to those who have been convicted of theft or committed adultery? Do or have Catholic clerks refused to give licenses to persons who have been divorced? Can Jewish clerks deny licenses to applicants who eat pork? Critics of the Supreme Court’s decision protecting same-sex marriages, such as Ted Cruz, have suggested that not only is the decision a “violation of the justices’ oath” and a threat to democracy, but it represents an intrusion into religious liberty as well. Nonsense.

As to the first claim, “thwarting the will of the majority” is the duty of the Supreme Court when the majority seeks to impede or interfere with the equal rights of some of its citizens. Neither the states nor Congress have the option of enacting laws that discriminate and violate the Constitution. Matters of constitutional law are decided by the courts—not by the public or its representatives. But the further charge that the decision impinges upon religious liberty is even more absurd. The claim is made that government employees may be required to grant marriage licenses in violation of their religious beliefs. As set forth above, they have had no trouble doing so for much more serious violations of universal religious teachings.

I have no doubt that there are many persons opposed to same-sex marriage for sincere religious beliefs, but I sense that the sudden refusal to grant marriage licenses supposedly based on religious conviction is based more on politics and bigotry than scripture.

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Jimmy Carter believes Jesus would have approved of gay marriage

Jimmy Carter believes Jesus would have approved of gay marriage

Jimmy Carter, president of the US from 1977-81, is a well-known Christian who has spoken out in support of same-sex marriage in the past.

He said this week that he believes his point of view is in line with that of Jesus despite much of the marriage equality opposition being due to people’s religious beliefs.

‘I believe Jesus would approve gay marriage, but that’s just my own personal belief,’ Carter tells HuffPost Live. ‘I think Jesus would encourage any love affair if it was honest and sincere and was not damaging to anyone else, and I don’t see that gay marriage damages anyone else.’

Carter describes himself as a born again Christian and he still teaches Sunday school classes when he’s at home in Plains, Georgia.

Even though same-sex marriage was not legal in any of the 50 states when Carter was president, he says he has ‘no problem’ with it.

‘I think everyone should have the right to get married regardless of their sex,’ he says.

But, he adds, he is not in favor ‘of the government being able to force a local church congregation to perform gay marriages if they didn’t want to.

‘But these partners should be able to go to the local courthouse or another church and get married.’

Carter is promoting his latest memoir A Full Life: Reflections at Ninety.

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