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Navigating the streets of Ho Chi Minh City (with a Grindr guide)

Navigating the streets of Ho Chi Minh City (with a Grindr guide)

I’ve always been rather skeptical of those who claim to be on Grindr to ‘network’ or ‘look for a room’. Like – really? But having now used Grindr to find a tour guide in Vietnam, I’ve been forced to review my cynicism.

I was in Ho Chi Minh City – formerly known as Saigon, and now often abbreviated to HCMC – with one of my best friends from London. All the organized tours seemed rather expensive. There’s also that feeling of being on a tourist hamster wheel when being shown around a city by an official guide.

My friend suggested I ask the cute Vietnamese guy I’d been flirting with on Grindr if he would be interested in being our guide for the day. A few of the familiar bleeping purrs of Grindr later and the deal was done. ‘Cookie’ [below, right] – his Vietnamese name was to my western tongue unpronounceable – would meet us tomorrow.

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Martin and his friends in HCMC

If you travel alone and make the same arrangements for a tour guide you’ll probably be doing a lot of the tour on the back of a scooter. You’ll have to be brave. Perhaps close your eyes for the first few minutes. If you’re easily stressed, a drive on a moped in HCMC will knock years off you – there are so many packed so close together, they are almost touching.

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The city is known for its staggering traffic scenes

So where do you go on your scooter in this frenetic South East Asian metropolis? When it comes to museums I’m normally a born again philistine and avoid but the War Remnants Museum is definitely worth a look. This is not a sophisticated, plush museum full of interactive exhibits of the type you would get in London, but a blatantly one-sided, anti-American view of the Vietnam War. But it’s this view which makes it both fascinating and depressing as one is reminded of the brutality that humans are capable of.

For a taste of colonial old Saigon visit the Central Post Office and check out the old school phone booths. While you’re in the area, the Saigon Notre-Dame Basilica cathedral is just across the road. To get a taste of modern day Ho Chi Minh City, take a break from the moped madness in one of the cool modern coffee shops. M2C is a great one for people watching.

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The gorgeous Central Post Office

For fantastic Vietnamese food go to Quan An Ngon. It’s a favorite of the locals bringing together former street food vendors known for particular specialties, but off the street and in a hygienic environment. The other must visit is Temple Club. Angelina Jolie apparently ate here after adopting one of her kids. Colonial, opium den, old school, romantic have all been used to describe the interior of Temple Club. Take your pick: they all apply. The food is pretty amazing too.

A gay scene in HCMC does exist. There are clubs and bars in HCMC but this is not Bangkok. If you fall in love with your tour guide you might not be able to take him back to your hotel – especially if you are staying in a small family-run establishment. Many Vietnamese are still on the conservative side when it comes to same sex love.

That said, the Vietnamese government changed the law earlier this year abolishing laws that prohibited same-sex marriage. The government doesn’t officially recognize or provide legal protections for same-sex marriages but weddings can now take place without the threat of fines. The warm, tropical winds of change are blowing in Vietnam.

HCMC exhausted me after two days. The perfect place to recover from your hair-raising moped rides is the island of Phu Quoc. And yes – if you’re wondering – the second word is pronounced ‘cock’.

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Beautiful sunsets at Mango Bay Resort

It takes just one hour to fly from HCMC to what is described by many as Vietnam’s most beautiful island. You’ll be rewarded with white sandy beaches and rustling palms trees – especially if you stay at the Mango Bay Resort, my favorite in the whole of South East Asia.

This isn’t a shiny boutique where you are freeze-dried in an air conditioned box of a room. It’s rustic boutique at its very best. There’s no air conditioning at all in these beautiful but basic beach huts – but the thatched roofs make it unnecessary. The plantation rooms have open air showers where you can watch butterflies the size of small birds flutter by as you plan a day divided between the beach, spa and restaurant.

Words: Martin Popplewell

www.vietnamtourism.com

 

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Watch Jennifer Hudson gatecrash a gay wedding to serenade grooms

Watch Jennifer Hudson gatecrash a gay wedding to serenade grooms

Singer Jennifer Hudson teamed up with W Hotels and Human Rights Campaign to help make one gay couple’s wedding day extra memorable on Wednesday.

The former American Idol winner and Grammy-winning star has been working with W Hotel and Human Rights Campaign since last year on a marriage equality initiative called Turn It Up For Change.

Following the US Supreme Court ruling on marriage equality in late June, paving the way for same-sex couples to wed in all 50 states, Hudson gatecrashed the celebrations of one couple who were among the first to marry in Dallas.

Hudson sings for the grooms

Hudson sings for the grooms in Dallas

Scott and Chris Lindsey have been together for 14 years and have four children, reports Hollywood Reporter. The two men finally got the opportunity to exchange vows at the W Hotel in Dallas on Wednesday.

The grooms were told that Hudson had sent a video message of congratulations, which was duly played. However, after the video finished, a curtain dropped away to reveal Hudson herself, who went on to perform her song, ‘I Still Love You’.

The grooms and their guests danced and sung along to the performance.

Afterwards, Hudson posted Instagram pictures of the event, while a video of the gig has now appeared online. Watch it below.

 

Congrats to Chris and Scott ! They said girl where the hell u come from!

A photo posted by Jennifer Hudson (@iamjhud) on Jul 9, 2015 at 4:12pm PDT

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Ukraine tennis pro: ‘Definitely no gays’ in men’s top 100, but ‘every other’ female player is lesbian

Ukraine tennis pro: ‘Definitely no gays’ in men’s top 100, but ‘every other’ female player is lesbian

A Ukrainian tennis player has said there are ‘definitely no gays’ in the sport – but ‘almost every other’ female tennis player is a lesbian.

Sergiy Stakhovsky, who is best known for knocking Roger Federer out of Wimbledon in 2013, said he would not let his daughter play tennis for this reason.

The world number 49 made the claim in a interview with the Ukrainian Xsport website published on Wednesday (8 July).

Asked on if there were any ‘sexual minorities’ in tennis, Stakhovsky replied: ‘I think not.’

‘You see, on the ATP we have a normal atmosphere,’ he said, according to a translation by letsecondserve.com.

‘If there was anything, we’d know about it, because it’s a very closed circle.

‘Earlier there used to be talk about Gasquet, about Nadal. Even about Federer. I won’t sacrifice my hand for the whole tour and the new guys, who are just joining, but in the backbone of the top 100 there are definitely no gays.’

Stakhovsky then took a shot at tennis legend Martina Navratilova, who earlier this year said she couldn’t believe that no male tennis players are gay,

‘She can think that in the women’s locker room,’ he said.

‘She has no clue at all what men’s tennis is. And she’s has nothing to do with it. On the WTA tour, almost every other player is a lesbian. Can you imagine – half of them!

‘So I for sure won’t send my daughter to play tennis.’

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Married since 2007, lesbian teacher fired from Catholic school after 8 years because two parents complained

Married since 2007, lesbian teacher fired from Catholic school after 8 years because two parents complained

Margie Winters is finding out that she has many friends and supporters. What she doesn’t have anymore is a job.

Winters was fired last month from Waldron Mercy Academy in Merion, Pennsylvania, after eight years, because she is married to a woman.

She’s been married since 2007 and was upfront with school officials when she was hired and was advised then to keep a low-profile.

‘So that’s what I’ve done,’ she told The Philadelphia Inquirer. ‘I’ve never been open. And that’s been hard.’

But it wasn’t enough in the end.

The parents of a few students found out about Winters having a wife, one complained to school officials and the other went directly to the Archdiocese of Philadelphia.

On 22 June, Winters was fired.

‘The primary consideration that guided my decision-making process was to sustain the Catholic identity of Waldron Mercy Academy,’ Principal Nell Stetser said in a statement to the newspaper.

Stetser was not principal when Winters was hired.

A Stand With Margie Facebook page has been created and has more than 6,600 ‘Likes’ and a Go Fund Me page for Winters has raised more than $6,200.

The funds will go directly to Winters for her to cover any costs involved with the loss of her job.

‘I can only hope and believe that much good will come out of this, that Margie can continue to educate but in a place that RESPECTS her and her marriage, where she does not need to hide who she is,’ wrote Miriam Edelstein who pledged $50.

Carrie and Joe Santoro pledged $250 and wrote: ‘We stand with Margie. You are An amazing inspiring woman we are proud to know, and we will help you in anyway we can to fight this injustice in a merciful way.’

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Tangerine Director Sean Baker May Be A Straight White Man, But He’s Made A Terrific Movie About Transgender Women Of Color

Tangerine Director Sean Baker May Be A Straight White Man, But He’s Made A Terrific Movie About Transgender Women Of Color

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Mya Taylor and Kitana Kiki Rodriguez

If you’re exhausted with the endless onslaught of Marvel comic book adaptations and disappointing male stripper comedies proliferating your local cinemas, Sean Baker’s Tangerine, a shaggy, often-frenetic dramedy about a pair of transgender sex workers, Alexandra and Sin-Dee (impressive newcomers Mya Taylor and Kitana Kiki Rodriguez, both trans in real life), having a rough day on the mean streets of Hollywood, is here to offer a welcome respite. Baker might not be a household name — yet — but the talented 44-year-old filmmaker has developed serious cachet within the industry thanks to the acclaim that greeted his last two movies, Starlet and Prince of Broadway, both made for a budgets comparable to what the average person spends on petrol each year. Tangerine (in select theaters this Friday and expanding throughout the summer) should launch Baker into the bigger leagues. Already one of the most buzzed-about movies at Sundance last winter, the comedy-drama has been widely-written about for having been shot with an iPhone 5 (though you wouldn’t know it), which gives the film a startling immediacy, but it’s just as notable for the unshowy performances of its leading ladies, as well as for chronicling a rarely-seen subculture. Queerty spoke with Baker about how he gained trust of transgender newcomers, the clandestine shooting of the movie in Hollywood and the universal appeal of the film’s story.

Queerty: As a straight Caucasian man, how did you come to tell a story about transgender women of color?

Sean Baker: I live about half a mile from the corner of Santa Monica and Highland [the neighborhood where the film takes place]. I was just drawn to it. I can’t explain exactly why, other than from a filmmaker’s point of view I knew there would be some interesting stories there and I could tell a cinematic story. We went in there not knowing anything. We usually do extensive research. Chris Bergoch, who wrote the screenplay, and I just started pounding the pavement and introducing ourselves to people and telling them what we planned on doing.

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Sean Baker

It seems like a tight-knit group who hang out in that area. How did they initially react to you guys?

At first there was apprehension. They might have thought we were cops or johns or who knows what? We weren’t finding that one person who could be a collaborator. We learned from Prince of Broadway, which is a film I made before Starlet, that being from outside that world you need to find that one person to be your passport. In this case we found Mya at the LGBT Center. She was hanging out in the courtyard with some friends. We saw her from across the courtyard. There was just something electrifying about her. She was the one of all her friends who just stood out and was drawing me in. I decided we couldn’t leave until we introduced ourselves. We walked over and it was one of those moments when I knew it was perfect timing. Who knows whether she’d have been there the next day? The next thing you know Mya was showing the enthusiasm I was looking for and we exchanged contact information. The next thing we knew we were hanging out at the local Jack in the Box and we heard all of her stories and anecdotes.

How long did you meet before you found the story for the film?

It was once or twice a week over the course of a couple of months. She’d bring people into the Jack in the Box to introduce to us. One day she brought in Kiki and as soon as she sat down next to Mya, I thought, Here we go! Dynamic duo. They contrast each other and they complement each other. Visually, they were perfect, and then Kiki opened her mouth and she was hilarious. We went down that road of developing something together. It was Kiki who brought the “woman scorned” plot to the table. She said that one time this happened. She filled us in and we thought that was the perfect “A plot” for this film.

TangerineHow did you earn their trust and let them know you weren’t trying to exploit them?

The first gaining of their trust was to show them you’re a legitimate filmmaker, so that was as easy as handing them DVDs. Mya connected over Starlet and Kiki connected over Prince of Broadway. I knew I’d won them over with the films. Then, yes, there was the trust issue. I was very open with them from the beginning. We had no idea then that the trans movement would become as much of the zeitgeist as it has. At the time I was still very conscientious that this is a sensitive issue and I’m a cisgender white male so there might be some apprehension or resistance to someone like me trying to tell a story like this. I told Mya that I would only do it with her and Kiki’s approval every step of the way. I wanted them to be happy with this film and with the representation of this subculture. By that I mean, trans women of color who are sex workers. So she said to me early on that she trusted me and wanted to make the film with me.

Did she have any caveats about how the characters would be portrayed?

She asked me to promise two things: It had to be extremely realistic and show the brutal reality of what these women have to deal with, the hardships, everything that comes with being a trans woman of color sex worker. She told me she wanted the movie to be laugh-out-loud funny. She said, “When you’re on the corner there’s humor out there and I want the movie to be entertaining.” I looked at her and thought, That’s a tall order. That’s a balancing act. It was already risky making this movie, but leaning toward comedy was really risky. Then I thought, Of course she’s right. Any other way would be condescending. If we started making an overtly heavy-handed, plight of-type movie, it would be treating these women as subjects to be studied rather than connecting to them as human beings. 

TangerineThe girls have a great rapport and play off each other really well.

While doing the research with them at Jack in the Box everyday I realized it was like watching stand-up comics. They’re extremely witty and were always finishing each other’s sentences, setting up each other’s jokes and delivering punchlines. I realized these women are dealing with such hardships that they use humor to deal with it.

I think it’s admirable that your film doesn’t portray sex workers of color as victims.

We decided that one of the themes of this movie would be friendship. I wanted audiences to connect with these women the way I did. It was important to be aware of the discrimination and violence and the dangers these women face on a daily basis. At the same time, that wasn’t the story we were telling. We wanted to bring these two characters together and show how friendship overcomes everything and how they have to support each other because society has shunned and alienated them. That’s the story we wanted to tell.

Has that been an issue with audiences so far?

At a screening someone stood up and asked if it was appropriate not to show a scene of violence against these women, given the fact that there are so many incidents these days. That’s true. Even though right now the transgender movement is so much in the zeitgeist and people are so much more aware, violence has risen 13 percent in the last year. That’s not the story we’re telling. We’re telling a story about friendship and we had to pick and choose about what we would put in this film. This is just one film. Hopefully, there will be many more films that focus on trans characters.

TangerineHow realistic is the film?

We didn’t fabricate anything, except for maybe Mya’s performance in Hamburger Mary’s [her character Victor Herbert’s “Toyland” to a nearly empty bar] and having to pay to play. That came to me from being a filmmaker and going to film festivals and having to put my film on the screen. I think all artists can connect with that. Every vignette and subplot in the movie — from the way the cops interfere with the girls to the hate crime at the end — is based on stories that we heard from Mya and the other girls.

I’m intrigued by Rasmik, the married Armenian cab driver on the down low and obsessed with Sin-Dee. Did you meet with guys like him?

I’d heard stories about how cab drivers solicit services from girls. Rasmik really came out of the fact that I wanted to work with Karren Karagulian again and there just happens to be a large Armenian community in Los Angeles so it just worked out. When I approached Karren I told him that I was making a film about two transgender sex workers in L.A. and asked, “How am I going to work you into it?” He said, “I’ll be a cab driver!”  It’s funny that in all the press I’ve done that Armenian subplot is never brought up. I think it’s important because it’s really the other parallel story of infidelity being told. I was so incredibly lucky to have such a star-studded Armenian cast. Alla Tumanian, Arsen Grigoryan and Luiza Nersisyan… they’re all big stars over there. Arsen is the Sophia Loren of Armenia. It was an incredible honor to work with them.

Your film is very objective. You don’t judge the characters despite the awful things they sometimes do. Do you personally find them relatable?

I try to find something to relate to in every character. That’s something Chris and I said we wanted to do. We took it from the way De Sica [the Italian neorealist director] would hold longer on certain scenes. That’s why we held the camera on the characters a beat longer to show that everyone is going through it and has a history. The only people we didn’t give a second to were the guys who commit the hate crime at the end. We did that on purpose because they don’t deserve more screen time.

Shooting with the iPhone must have made filming inconspicuous. I wondered if some of the background actors even knew they were in a movie.

It was very inconspicuous. We learned how to do this with the previous films. As soon as you yell “cut!” we’d chase everyone down to have them sign a release. Everyone who is recognizable on camera signed a release. You shoot clandestinely, then you quickly try to save the day. In the U.S. it’s a legal thing. In this case, yeah, we had a very small footprint. If you saw us from across the street, you’d never know we were shooting a film. The only giveaway was our sound gear, because we had a boom on a sound pole. Otherwise, you’d never notice.

What do you see as the universality of this story?

It’s one of those themes that everyone in the world can identify with these themes of friendship and jealousy that’s the result of infidelity. Those are the universal themes we wanted to tackle. I’ve been so involved with this world from day one two-and-a-half years ago that I realized just recently that the first scene for some people isn’t a shocker but they’re trying to get a handle on what’s going on. It’s two transgender girls talking about a cheating pimp. It’s a lot to wrap your head around. So my hope is that after the first 10 minutes people will see the appealing personas of my two leads and just get invested in the film and fall in love with the character the way I did.

Watch Tangerine‘s trailer below.

Jeremy Kinser

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