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12 Films to Watch From Austin's LGBT Film Fest

12 Films to Watch From Austin's LGBT Film Fest
Last month, the Austin Gay & Lesbian International Film Festival took over the much-loved Alamo Drafthouse Cinema for a weekend of excellent queer films.

With subjects ranging from blind teenagers clumsy over love to a gang of “killer lesbians” punished for a crime they didn’t commit, aGLIFF presented a variety of viewpoints and perspectives with rapturous full-length features, eye-opening documentaries and silly, sexy and to-the-point shorts.

And of course, a gay film festival program wouldn’t be complete without a handful of adult gay film stars looking to get their big acting break. Here are some of my personal favorites.

Kate Bornstein Is a Queer & Pleasant Danger
Director: Sam Feder
To Mx Justin Vivian Bond, Amos Mac, Rocco Kayiatos and pretty much every gender outlaw living today, Kate Bornstein is the iconic queer grandma. This documentary follows the eccentric but charismatic writer as she struggles with defeating cancer and having to put up with her fair share of Internet haters. Watch the film trailer here.

Appropriate Behavior
Director: Desiree Akhavan
A cinematic gem first discovered at the 2014 Sundance Film Festival, the funny and poignant Appropriate Behavior has writer, director and star Desiree Akhavan trying to reconcile her Persian-American identity with her bisexual longings. After her brother gets engaged, Akhavan’s character beings to rebel, testing both society’s boundaries and her own emotional limitations as she tries to decipher why her relationship with her ex-girlfriend ultimately failed. This is what The L Word would have been if it had been created by Lena Dunham. Watch a clip from the film here.

Dior and I
Director: Frédéric Tchengc
Following the outstanding fashion documentary, Valentino: The Last Emperor, filmmaker Frédéric Tchengc takes us inside another iconic fashion institution, the House of Dior.  Viewers get an unprecedented behind-the-scenes look at the pivotal, career-defining moments right before Raf Simons’ highly-anticipated debut collection as Dior’s artistic director. As in his previous Valentino film, Tchengc captures both the surreal, often loony, day-to-day of the fashion elite and the stress-filled job of continuing a revered legacy, all while documenting the disappearing art of the atelier. Watch a clip from the film here.

The Way He Looks (Hoje Eu Quero Voltar Sozinho)
Director: Daniel Ribeiro
Fresh off winning big awards at prestigious festivals such as Berlinale, San Francisco’s Frameline and Los Angeles’ Outfest, The Way He Looks is a tender coming of age story that manages to pack an emotional punch without relying too heavily on sappy sentimentality (a rare feat for a film in the “coming out” subgenre). Leonardo, a blind teenager living in Sao Paulo, yearns to see the world, but manages to fall in love with a happy-go-lucky new boy in school instead. This unexpected but charming love story does not sit too well with Leonardo’s best friend, Giovanna, who gets her first lesson in unrequited love. Watch the film trailer here.

Mala Mala
Director: Dan Sickles & Antonio Santini
Winner of the Grand Jury Prize for Best Documentary at aGLIFF, Mala Mala presents an unflinching portrayal of the trans community in Puerto Rico. The diverse cast of characters in the film all work together to prove that the personal is political as trans activists, drag queens and sex workers fight for their right to be while undergoing radical self-awakenings. Both tragic and uplifting, the documentary is an eye-opener for privileged viewers, and an inspiration for persevering over adversity, even when you can’t always tell the difference between glitter and shattered glass. Watch the film trailer here.

Eternity: The Movie
Director: Ian Thorpe
An ode to 80’s homoeroticism and a surprisingly apt take on the music industry then and now, Eternity is one giant double entendre with sexual innuendos and the total ridiculosity of 80’s campy sensibilities, from the wardrobe to the music. Watch the film trailer here.

I Am Happiness on Earth (Yo Soy la Felicidad de Este Mundo)
Director: Julián Hernández
The term “contains explicit sexual content” may be a bit of an understatement when it comes to this masterful Mexican film. I Am Happiness on Earth is sexually-charged from beginning to end, but the truly explicit content is part of an experimental, meta-narrative that may catch some viewers off-guard. The primary story is the age-old tale of boy meets boy, boy loses boy because he’s addicted to online escorts. Director Julián Hernández has created a beautiful, almost suspenseful, rendition of a modern-day urban fairy tale, where ballet and modern dance are used as conduits to admire the beauty of the male body. Watch the film trailer here.

Peter de Rome: Grandfather of Gay Porn
Director: Ethan Reid
If Kate Bornstein is our iconic queer grandma, then Peter de Rome is our granddaddy of porn. A successful Hollywood cinematographer with an affinity for attractive men of color, Peter de Rome made sexually explicit films from the 1950s until the 70s, and he did so in a refreshingly unapologetic way, especially for a time when gay sex was not only taboo but actually illegal. Smut aficionados will get a kick out of seeing many of de Rome’s ambitious works, including Greta Garbo’s final film appearance. Watch the trailer here.

BFFs
Director: Andrew Putschoegl
A lesbian romantic comedy that acknowledges the twist element of embarking on a same-sex relationship but doesn’t dwell on it, BFFs features actors well-versed in comedic timing to make it truly a standout. The conflict comes from the two main characters negotiating a fruitful way of going from best friends to partners in crime to fully-committed lovers and realizing the trust that true love really requires. Watch the film trailer here.

When My Sorrow Died: The Legend of Armen Ra and The Theremin
Director: Robert Nazar Arjoyan
This documentary about cheeky concert performer and “high society gender illusionist” Armen Ra takes viewers to another time and place: Iran right after the revolution, New York in the golden age of nightclubs. Through the highs and lows, Armen Ra never loses his bejeweled spirit in this hyper-real documentary, the only way this larger-than-life character could be accurately captured on film. Watch the film trailer here.

Blackbird
Director: Patrik-Ian Polk
From the creator of the gay soap, Noah’s Arc, Blackbird is a compelling drama about an African-American high school senior struggling with coming out in the small religiously conservative Mississippi town. Academy Award winner Mo’Nique plays his emotionally unstable mother who has to deal with an absentee husband, an abducted daughter and — what should seem like the least of her problems — a gay teenage son. Watch the film trailer here.

Out in the Night
Director: Blair Doroshwalther
To activists they are collectively known as the New Jersey 4, to the mainstream media, however, they were basically a “Gang of Killer Lesbians.” Out in the Night traces back the horrific events that brought seven young African-American lesbians to prison after an act of self-defense. Charged with gang assault and attempted murder, the New Jersey 4 were victims of a racist, sexist and homophobic system that looked down upon them from the day they were born. Watch the film trailer here.

This post originally appeared on Confessions of a Boy Toy.

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Catholic University Cancels Screening Of “Milk” For Fear Of Appearing To Support LGBT Awareness Month

Catholic University Cancels Screening Of “Milk” For Fear Of Appearing To Support LGBT Awareness Month

Screen Shot 2014-10-03 at 11.42.39 AMA Catholic university in Washington with close ties to the Vatican, aptly named Catholic University, has pressured students to postpone a screening of the Oscar-winning 2008 film Milk over concerns that the event promoted gay lifestyles.

The event flyer, seen right, advertises the screening as “kicking off LGBT awareness month with the CUA College Democrats,” with special guest Dr. John White, author of such scintillating books as Eros Defiled: The Christian and Sexual Sin. It features a rainbow flag, and also implies there will be cookies, which is more than enough reason to show up anywhere in our opinion.

University spokesperson Victor Nakas said:

“For university administrators, it called into question whether the event had changed in nature from one of education to one of advocacy. Given the confusion caused by the advertising, the Office of the Dean of Students contacted the College Democrats to postpone the event.”

Jasckson Tovar, a 19-year-old sophomore who is active in the College Democrats, is quoted saying:

“I’m still confused and still disappointed in my university that an event like this cannot go on for the reason that it says ‘LGBT awareness month.”

We’re guessing it has everything to do with the rainbow flag. Gay tolerance/awareness? Permissible. But gay pride?! What would The Pope think?

“Who am I to judge?” is what he’d think. Maybe it’s CUA takes a few pointers from their main man in the robes.

Or maybe it was the cookies all along. Students shouldn’t be consuming all that sugar.

via Washington Post

Dan Tracer

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Arizona Professional Distance Runner Matt Llano Comes Out as Gay: VIDEO

Arizona Professional Distance Runner Matt Llano Comes Out as Gay: VIDEO

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Matt Llano, a professional distance runner in Flagstaff, Arizona has opened up about being gay in a new video for his team – Northern Arizona Elite.

In the video, Llano chronicles his early fears about being “different,” his coming out to his parents (who are hugely supportive), and the reaction he’s received from other runners and athletes who have been inspired by his openness. 

Check it out, AFTER THE JUMP

Outsports adds “Llano ran for the University of Richmond in college, where he was an All-American in cross-country. In 2012 he finished 10th in the U.S. 15k championship; In 2014 he finished fifth in the U.S. half-marathon championship.”

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Kyler Geoffroy

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Philly Gay Bashing Victims Release Statement At 'Love Over Hate' Rally

Philly Gay Bashing Victims Release Statement At 'Love Over Hate' Rally
The victims of an alleged horrific anti-gay attack in Philadelphia have spoken out for the first time since the attack through a statement read by organizers of a rally called “Love Over Hate.”

The rally, which drew an estimated 200 people, was reportedly an opportunity for individuals to lend support to the victims, as well as offer lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender high school and middle school students an opportunity to talk about the bullying they face in school.

On September 11, two gay men were allegedly the victims of an anti-gay attack by a large group of “well-dressed” individuals. Online activists later successfully identified the alleged attackers through the use of multiple social media platforms and a photo the group had taken at a restaurant shortly before the attack. Three suspects, Kathryn Knott, whose father is a police chief, James Kerrigan and Philip Williams, are now slated to stand in a preliminary hearing for the attack on Dec. 16.

Here is the statement released by the couple as reported by The Intelligencer:

Everyone keeps saying that they are sorry this happened to us. But the truth is, we’re sorry. We feel sorry for our attackers — people who believed it was OK, cool, maybe even funny, to use two innocent individuals as their punching bags and not even have the decency to apologize. Words are powerful. A simple, I’m sorry, would’ve went a long way with us …

“You butchered my boyfriend’s beautiful face. You violated our rights. You jeopardized our health and safety in a city that we love and during a time where so much progress around human rights has been made. … We are also determined to do everything in our power to make sure this doesn’t happen to anyone else again.”

The men said they haven’t released their identity because the story is not about them, but everyone who lives in fear. They called for passage of a hate crime bill in Pennsylvania. “It stops here. It stops today. It stops now.

Check out a video from a supporter at the “Love Over Hate” rally below.

(h/t Towleroad)

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Dutch Artist Will Make Public Grindr Connections In Glass Box In Berlin

Dutch Artist Will Make Public Grindr Connections In Glass Box In Berlin

By4DFeXIIAASpvsA 38-year-old Dutch artist is currently living in a glass box in a popular Berlin square as part of a 15-day public performance art piece called “Wanna Play”, during which he’ll spend 100% of his time trying to make nonsexual connections on Grindr.

Dries Verhoeven tells HuffPo that he “aims to explore the potential powers and dangers of a site like Grindr, putting his life on display in the process.”

According to the interview, Verhoeven will live inside a glass container for 15 days with five smartphones, only making connection with the outside world via Grindr. The conversations he has will be projected on a large black screen for all to see, though the men on Grindr will have their faces blurred for privacy.

Verhoeven says his work will “replace the hunt for sex with the search for friendship and intimacy,” and that instead of having sex with the men he meets on Grindr, he’ll invite them to his glass box to play chess, have breakfast, and “shave one another,” among other nonsexual things.

He tells HuffPo:

“Grindr brought me more sex than ever before, but the app was untouched by any form of intimacy, we maintained a silent agreement that we could enact our porno fantasies on one another. I felt like a superficial illustration of myself, a man that could fulfill many sexual fantasies, but who rarely went to the movies with a stranger. I hadn’t brought anyone home to the family for Christmas in years. Grindr kept me from dealing with my single life. A feeble surrogate, but good enough not to feel lonely.

My dystopia was more about sex date apps coming to monopolize the daily lives of gay men. That our search for a deeper form of contact could only take place through this medium, like a darkroom in which men weren’t looking for sex, but were veiling their desire for love. I think something has gone wrong when gays trust each other enough to admit their desire to have a fist up their butts, but can no longer dare to invite one another to dinner.”

To learn more about Verhoeven’s “Wanna Play”, check out the artist’s page at Hebbel am Ufer Berlin.

To check out a live stream of Verhoeven’s performance, click here.

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Photos via Hebbel am Ufer Berlin

Queerty Editor

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News: Aaron Schock, Ebola, Texas, Justin Bieber, Stampede in India

News: Aaron Schock, Ebola, Texas, Justin Bieber, Stampede in India

Road Antonin Scalia says SCOTUS will take up a gay marriage case “soon”

SchockRoad With Norway dropping out of the running this week, the host of the 2022 Winter Olympics will be either China or Kazakhstan – both of which have “authoritarian governments that muzzle critics, poor records on human rights and noxious air pollution”

Road Aaron Schock goes commando at West Point’s Combat Water Survival Lab. 

Road Are the Senate races in Arkansas, Alaska, and Louisiana slipping away from Democrats?

Road A NBC journalist in Africa has been diagnosed with Ebola and will be flown back the U.S. for treatment. 

Road Nick News anchor Linda Ellerbee will host a Nickelodeon special on the lives of gay children next week. 

Road The Karl Rove-backed American Crossroads super PAC and Crossroads GPS have raised a total of $100 million to pump into the November election. 

Road Does ABC’s new sitcom Black-ish have a gay problem? “It might seem a throwaway phrase, and not something to get too riled about, but a fundamental attitude about someone’s or a TV show’s attitude towards homosexuality is neatly enshrined in Black-ish’s disparaging use of the word “gay”—a dismissiveness, an easy laugh, a deliberate, lazy play to a gallery of stereotypes.”

KinshasaRoad Conservative MP Matthew Hancock has apologized for sharing a poem on Twitter that suggested the Labour Party was “full of queers.”

Road A new study traces the origins of HIV/AIDS back to central African city of Kinshasa in the 1920s.

Road Sushant Divgikar, the winner of Mr. Gay India 2014 and current contestant on the reality show “Bigg Boss 8” is hoping his presence on the show changes public perceptions of India’s LGBT community

Road Katherine Heigl has a roll in the hay with four other men on the set of her new show State of Affairs.  

Road Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher introduce their daughter Wyatt Isabelle….kinda.

Road 50 Shades of Grey‘s Jamie Dornan keeps his backhand strong while playing golf with Bill Murray in Scotland.

 Road BieberJustin Bieber teases sexy upcoming collaboration with German fashion designer Karl Lagerfeld.

Road Real Housewives stars Teresa and Joe Giudice have been handed their prison sentences for their felony band fraud convictions. 

Road Bryan Fischer’s Insane Tweet of the Day: “Ebola illustrates why HIV is NOT the cause of AIDS: viruses don’t lie in wait for 10-12 years. They attack upon exposure.”

Road Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals has lifted the injunction against HB2 (the infamous Texas anti-abortion bill filibustered by Wendy Davis last year) meaning that the entire state of Texas will now only have 8 abortion clinics serving its entire population of 26.5 million people.  

Road U.S. unemployment has hit a six-year low, with the economy adding 248,000 jobs in September. 

Road A deadly stampede at a Hindu festival in eastern India has left 32 people dead and 15 injured. 


Kyler Geoffroy

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