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Teenager Suspended From High School For Wearing “Nobody Knows I’m a Lesbian” T-Shirt

Teenager Suspended From High School For Wearing “Nobody Knows I’m a Lesbian” T-Shirt

Screen-Shot-2015-09-15-at-4.40.31-PMBrianna Popour, a gay student at Chesnee High School in South Carolina, has been suspended after refusing to remove her “Nobody Knows I’m a Lesbian” T-shirt, reports WCBD 2 News.

Popour claims she wore it to encourage other students to come to terms with their sexuality, but was told to either change her outfit or go home.

When she pointed out that there was nothing in the school’s dress code that suggested there was anything wrong with the shirt, she was told by an administrator that “not everything is in the handbook” and that the the shirt was “disruptive.” Then she was suspended.

Brianna’s mother Barbara Popour says the move was discriminatory and is fighting back against the school.

“Isn’t that what school is supposed to teach you?” Brianna asked. “To be happy with who you are? Maybe people will be more comfortable showing who they are, because you should be able to wear what you want to wear.”

Ellen Kahn, director of the Children, Youth and Family Program at Human Rights Campaign Foundation, is strongly against the school’s decision and thinks it could be damaging to other gay students.

“It’s quite an extreme measure,” she told Dailymail.com. “I think the majority of school administrators and national organizations would tend to agree that it’s an extreme punitive reaction.”

 

H/t: LGBTQNation

Jeremy Kinser

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Humpback Whale Breaching on Top of Kayakers is Your OMG Video of the Day: WATCH

Humpback Whale Breaching on Top of Kayakers is Your OMG Video of the Day: WATCH

humpback whale

Check out this incredibly close call captured from a whale-watching boat in Moss Landing, California.

“We were taken under the water by the whale, perhaps in the down-draft,” kayaker Tom said in an interview with Inside Edition. “I think it brushed against me while I was out of the kayak… Neither of us know how we weren’t ended there and then.”

Captain Michael Sack of Sanctuary Cruises witnessed the incident and later wrote on his website:

Kayaking with whales can be extremely dangerous. It can turn into a life or death situation real quick-like. Within seconds. It was very scary to watch.

Today a couple of kayakers were very lucky. They came very close to getting crushed to death by the mighty humpback whale. A full-size humpback can weigh in at 40-tons. That’s a lot of heavy blubber that would surely flatten a kayaker if the whale had a direct hit.

Check out the footage below:

 

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Kyler Geoffroy

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New 'Stonewall' Featurette Spotlights Gender-Fluid Character Ray/Ramona

New 'Stonewall' Featurette Spotlights Gender-Fluid Character Ray/Ramona

The latest glimpse at director Roland Emmerich’s upcoming Stonewall spotlights actor Jonny Beauchamp and the Puerto Rican gender-fluid character he brings to life in the film, Ray/Ramona.

“Stonewall, it’s really about how the youth started this revolution. Not that many people know about it,” Beauchamp says in the featurette. “To me, it’s a really interesting moment of American history — a ferocity. It’s defiance. It’s gay power. And these kids just had enough. It’s not one specific person. It was a collective. It was a group.”

Beauchamp says his character is a composite of real-life Stonewall veterans Raymond Castro, who was one of the first people arrested during the 1969 riots, and Sylvia Rivera, the trans icon who was a founding member of the Gay Liberation Front, the Gay Activists Alliance, and the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries, the latter of which she cofounded with her close friend Marsha P.  Johnson.

“One thing I love about Ray is that Ray is a dreamer,” Beauchamp says. “And if he’s anything like Sylvia Rivera, we know he goes on to really kind of give back to the community because he’s got so much love and he’s got hope.”

Following the release of Stonewall’s first trailer, the film came under heavy fire with accusations that it diminished the contributions of trans activists and people of color in the 1969 uprising by depicting the story through the eyes of a fictional white young man named Danny (Jeremy Irvine), who goes on to throw the first brick that incites the riots.

Emmerich defended his film in a lengthy Facebook post, saying, “When this film — which is truly a labor of love for me — finally comes to theaters, audiences will see that it deeply honors the real-life activists who were there — including Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and Ray Castro — and all the brave people who sparked the civil rights movement which continues to this day.”

Watch the featurette below. Stonewall comes to theaters September 25.

www.advocate.com/film/2015/9/15/new-stonewall-featurette-spotlights-gender-fluid-character-rayramona

Here's What Happens When Real People Recreate Iconic Fashion Ads

Here's What Happens When Real People Recreate Iconic Fashion Ads

Most people don’t see themselves in the models staring back at them from magazine pages or TV. In fashion ads especially, people of varying shape, size and color are notably absent.

Buzzfeed recreated five fashion ads using real people to showcase individuals with different body types and genders. In the five original ads — from Victoria’s Secret, Calvin Klein, Abercrombie & Fitch, Guess and Chanel — only one person of color is included, while the rest of the models are white.

The people who participated in the new ads said they enjoyed their experiences, though at times felt uncomfortable.

“It’s interesting being basically naked with people walking around, but it’s kind of empowering as time goes on, because it’s just a body,” said a participant named Daysha, who was recreating a Victoria’s Secret ad.

“I now feel so much more confident in my skin, and this experience has really allowed me to embrace my skin color,” said Michelle, who recreated a Guess ad. Michelle said her father is Indian and her mom is caucasian. 

French stylish Nathalie Croquet also recreated iconic fashion looks earlier this year. Working with a team, Croquet created “Spoof,” a photo series of eleven ads that showed her mimicking iconic poses and models, including Gisele Bündchen and Kate Moss, with her own wrinkles and imperfections on display. 

As model Ashley Graham, who stars in a Lane Bryant campaign celebrating diversity, recently said to the Huffington Post: “Everyone deserves to see themselves being represented equally.”

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Poll: 63% say Kim Davis should be required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples in Kentucky

Poll: 63% say Kim Davis should be required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples in Kentucky

Regardless of her religious objections, a majority of Americans believe Rowan County Clerk Kim Davis should be required to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples.

Davis spent several days in a Kentucky jail for defying a federal judge’s order that she allow licenses to be issued. After returning to work this week, Davis allowed her deputies to issue licenses but had her name removed from them.

Of the random 1,003 adults surveyed nationwide in a Washington Post-ABC News poll,  63% believe she should be required, 33% said she should not be and 4% had no opinion.

Nearly half of those polled – 45% – supported the decision by a federal judge that Davis be sent to jail for defying his order.

Respondents were also asked which do they think is most important when it comes to a conflict between someone’s religious beliefs and everyone being treated equally under the law.

Of the Democrats polled, 80% said people should be treated equally under law and 75% of the Independents agreed. Of the Republicans polled, 66% put equal treatment over religious beliefs.

Davis gets her strongest support from White evangelical Protestants. In addition, 38% of  the Republicans who are supportive of Davis favor Donald Trump in the Republican Party presidential primaries.

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Greg Hernandez

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Princeton Freshman Overcomes Football Slump With Two Simple Words: “I’m Gay”

Princeton Freshman Overcomes Football Slump With Two Simple Words: “I’m Gay”

Mason Darrow was a mess amasont practice. The Princeton University freshman football player felt slow on his feet, unable to get his head fully in the game.

And he knew why. Maintaining a life in the closet is isolating enough as it is without feeling the added hypermasculine pressure of being an offensive lineman for a Division I football team.

Luckily one of his teammates noticed Mason seemed to be drifting off to a distant, and by the looks of it, unpleasant, planet.

They made a plan to talk that night, and after an an evening spent agonizing over what to do (bailing on the conversation altogether was an attractive prospect), Mason knocked on the other player’s door.

The teammate broke the tension with a joke about Mason’s worries being of the girl variety.

Screen Shot 2015-09-15 at 12.02.30 PM“If this is a girl issue,” he said, “I’m going to be pissed.”

“Actually, it’s kind of the opposite,” Mason told him. “I’m gay.”

The teammate responded positively, and Mason experienced that boundless elation that comes with cracking open the closet door. The darkness was suddenly broken by one narrow beam of light, and he knew the only thing to do was continue to welcome more in.

Mason told Outsports he’d struggled with aligning his sexual orientation with how he interpreted “gay culture,” but at that moment and in the coming weeks as he came out to the rest of his team, it suddenly didn’t matter.

He was finally content just being true, which results in much fewer distractions when you’re trying to tackle a 300 pound opponent.

“Telling my teammates was the best decision I have ever made.”

Watch more of Mason’s story below:

Dan Tracer

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New Australian PM to Waste Time, Millions on Public Marriage Vote

New Australian PM to Waste Time, Millions on Public Marriage Vote

Malcolm Turnbull

New Australian Prime Minister Malcolm Turnbull announced today that he plans to stick to a plan from former PM Tony Abbott and have a public vote on marriage equality after the next election rather than allowing a free vote in parliament. Abbott was ousted as PM during a leadership vote on Monday night.

Same Same’s Matt Akersten reports:

Whether or not there’ll be a change to the Marriage Act will “be determined by a vote of the people, all the people, via a plebiscite,” said Turnbull in Parliament today, prompted by a question from opposition deputy leader Tanya Plibersek.

“It would take half an hour of parliamentary time to allow this bill to be voted on,” she pointed out. “It could be done tomorrow. Will the PM allow a vote on this bill and allow members of his party a free vote as he’s publicly called for previously?”

Turnbull replied: “If we are re-elected to government, every single Australian will have a say.”

Watch:

The Australian Electoral Commission estimates the cost of a public vote to be $158.4 million.

Same Same adds:

In contrast, the Labor Party has promised they’ll introduce a bill for marriage equality within 100 days of winning the next election, and will encourage all MPs to have a free conscience vote on the legislation.

Polls show that approximately 70 percent of Australians favor marriage equality.

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Andy Towle

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That Time Steve Grand Had To Clarify To A News Anchor That He's Gay

That Time Steve Grand Had To Clarify To A News Anchor That He's Gay

Someone skipped over a possibly relevant bullet point… lol Today I went on live TV in San Diego to promote the show I’m doing tonight at Urban Mo’s and to also talk about getting asked to the Marine Corps ball. The two anchor ladies on both sides of me were very sweet and cheery. They were great. About a minute into the interview I was talking about where I draw inspiration, and one of the very well intentioned anchors interjected: “poor women who date you, right?”After a few seconds of pause: “well.. No. I’m gay so…”I used the opportunity to talk about how no matter who we love, as humans, we all love the same… That our experiences are far more alike than different… Love is a human experience, not specified to one sexual orientation or another… etc. Immediately after that, the news woman to my right asked about being asked to the Marine Corps ball… by a man. As soon as we cut the segment I burst out laughing and let the woman know it was all okay. I understand they are meeting new people every couple of minutes and are expected to entertain and engage audiences all over the state so I don’t post this at all as a criticism. If I was legit famous it would be one thing, but I still feel grateful for all the opportunities I am afforded to talk about my life and my work. This was just a silly moment I found to be pretty hilarious. Lol. #stayclassySanDiego

Posted by Steve Grand on Saturday, September 12, 2015

Leave it to Steve Grand to take a potentially awkward moment and, well, make it pretty great.

The out singer-songwriter, 25, appeared on a local news station (which appears to be San Diego 6, based on the onscreen logo) over the weekend to promote his Sept. 13 performance at Urban MO’s, a “hetero-friendly gay restaurant,” and the chat almost took a turn for the worse when the anchor inquired about his love life.  

Commenting on how several of Grand’s songs like “All-American Boy” and “Time” describe heartbreak, the anchor said, “Poor women who date you, right?”

Grand seemed puzzled for a moment, but rebounded.  

“Uh, no, I’m gay — so yeah, they’re, uh, it’s guys,” he said. “But it’s all the same really. It’s about the human experience.”

He seemed to determined to put the reporter at ease, adding, “I think that it’s good that people hear me and they may not even realize that I’m singing about guys, and I think that is a testament to the fact that we do really all love the same, we lose the same, we feel heartache the same and that’s what it’s all about.”

He later explained on Facebook that he didn’t want fans to interpret his response as being critical of the journalist, and said that all was fine in the end,” he wrote. “As soon as we cut the segment I burst out laughing and let the woman know it was all okay.” 

Well played, Steve!  

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