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Gay Website Insists It Was Correct In Asking Tom Hardy Cringe-Inducing Question About His “Ambiguous Sexuality”

Gay Website Insists It Was Correct In Asking Tom Hardy Cringe-Inducing Question About His “Ambiguous Sexuality”

TORONTO, ON - SEPTEMBER 13:  Actor Tom Hardy speaks during the 'Legend' press conference  at TIFF Bell Lightbox on September 13, 2015 in Toronto, Canada.  (Photo by Juanito Aguil/WireImage)

Though actor Tom Hardy bristled at Daily Xtra’s questions about sexuality during a press conference at the Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF) on Sept 13, 2015, touching off a media firestorm — other actors have embraced our questions at TIFF, and even welcomed the opportunity to shine a spotlight on sexuality and gender identity.

As Canada’s gay and lesbian news source, we feel it’s our responsibility to examine sexuality and the ways in which it’s portrayed on screen, especially once it’s in the public eye.”

 

A post co-written by Robin Perelle and Kevin O’Keefe on Daily Xtra‘s website to defend its widely-derided novice reporter Graeme Coleman timidly asking Legend star Tom Hardy about a 2008 interview he gave to Attitude magazine and using examples of other celebs such as Evan Rachel Wood who’ve answered the question. Watch the super-awkawrd exchange between Hardy and Coleman below.

 

Jeremy Kinser

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News: Tom Hardy, Mr. Leather, Paleo Diet, PrEP, Gay Instagram

News: Tom Hardy, Mr. Leather, Paleo Diet, PrEP, Gay Instagram

hardy> Christopher Rice on Tom Hardy and that interview that touched on his sexuality: “Enough of this. Enough of allowing actors once they reach a certain threshold of fame to act like they’ve been violated or shamed by any question that suggests they might not be one hundred percent heterosexual. Asking a handsome young male actor if he’s gay is not in any way indecent. To pretend as such deepens the stigma around homosexuality on a vastly public level, in a manner that does damage to gay people who don’t have access to media platforms and who aren’t regularly provided with a press conference in which to air their views.”

>  Devo band-member Jerry Casale had a 9/11-themed wedding last Friday. 

> Whitney Houston hologram is going on tour next year.

> David Gandy wants to thank you for liking him in his skivvies (and also liking his skivvies).

> Neil Patrick Harris’ variety show Best Time Ever debuts tonight.

mister-leather-uganda-1-x750> Why Mr. Leather went to Uganda.

> Facebook is working on a dislike button.

> California may soon require condoms for all porn performers.

> Gay-themed film From Afar wins top prize at Venice Film Festival. 

> Your Paleo diet just got f*$ked. New research shows Paleolithic people were making and eating flour 32,000 years ago.

> Kim Davis’ 2nd/4th husband is now becoming a right-wing poster child in his own right. 

> Happy Birthday, Prince Harry.

> Leo has ditched his beard.

> Porn producer Michael Lucas: Drop the backlash on PrEP.

ig> Has Instagram been taken over by the gay community?

> Miley Cyrus releases song from Freeheld soundtrack.

> Samantha Bee rips Vanity Fair‘s boys club spread on late night hosts. 

> Google Maps now shows you if climate change will put your home underwater.

> NY Times talks to survivors of sexual abuse at the hands of Catholic clergy ahead of Pope Francis’ US visit.

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Sean Mandell

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WATCH: High School Senior Suspended For Wearing 'Nobody Knowns I'm a Lesbian' T-Shirt

WATCH: High School Senior Suspended For Wearing 'Nobody Knowns I'm a Lesbian' T-Shirt

A South Carolina high school student was suspended last week after a T-shirt she was wearing that said “Nobody Knows I’m a Lesbian” in bold letters was judged to be “disruptive.”

According to Charleston TV station WCBD, out Chesnee High School senior Briana Popour was asked to change out of her “Nobody Knows I’m a Lesbian” shirt by a school administrator who said he found the shirt offensive, and after she refused to do so, was later suspended. 

When she noted that there was nothing in the school handbook that said she couldn’t wear her pro-LGBT shirt on campus, the school administrator told her “not everything is in the handbook,” reports WCBD as well as another station, WSPA

“He does not like people in his school wearing anything that says anything about lesbians, gays, or bisexuals,” Popour said.

“Isn’t that what school is supposed to teach you? To be happy with who you are?” she continued. “Maybe people will be more comfortable showing who they are because you should be able to wear what you want to wear.” 

Watch WSPA’s report on Briana Popour below.

Raffy Ermac

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Some Thoughts on PrEP

Some Thoughts on PrEP

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Around two years ago, I met the first guy who told me he was on Truvada for PrEP. He said he had been on the drug for six months, along with a bunch of “bareback fuck buds” he hooked up with who were also on the drug. Although I had read about PrEP in The Times a few months before that, I had no idea guys were actually on it and running around having raw sex, just a few blocks away from my apartment! Call me naïve.

At the time, the concept seemed crazy to me because I’ve always had a distrust of the pharmaceutical industry. At 43, I’ve had my fair share of bizarre side effects from drugs, so the idea of taking an HIV med to help prevent HIV infection when I could just use condoms seemed ridiculous to me.

But in the past two years, PrEP has gone mainstream, and practically half my friends are on it. This is a boon for its maker, Gilead, since it costs upwards of $12,000 a year to be on it. It’s also a boon for the gay community, as new HIV infections have dramatically decreased since its introduction. In fact, a recent studied followed 600 men over the course of a two-year period and not one man seroconverted.

The makers of Truvada state the drug should be used with condoms, but from what I see going on here in NYC, a lot of men have abandoned them because they’re so confident in the drug’s effectiveness. Friends tell me they have bareback sex all the time and are still negative, even after bottoming for positive guys who are undetectable. It seems this advance in HIV meds has had one very good side effect. Thanks to PrEP and HIV meds like Stribild, the stigma many HIV+ have had to deal with for so many years seems to be fading away.

Another side effect these drugs have had is they’re breaking down a 30-year-old fear of semen. Now that it isn’t seen as the main way of contracting a life-threatening illness, loads of guys seem to be obsessed with exchanging loads. It seems the gay community is now going through a period where ejaculate has become almost fetishized because it no longer carries a potential death sentence. The end result is that many men have become liberated from the fear of having someone ejaculate inside them.

In my opinion, this is a good and bad thing. While I’m all for being released from any kind of mental bondage, the lack of condom use in the past two years has increased the spread of STDs like syphilis, herpes, gonorrhea and chlamydia. Interestingly, it’s now starting to have a boomerang effect because the latest trend I’ve been hearing about is…condoms! It seems more and more men are getting sick of having to take antibiotics for STDS they contract and have decided to start using them with PrEP. And since using Truvada with prophylactics ups it’s effectiveness to 99 percent, this can only be a good thing.

Sure, I wished we lived in a world where we didn’t have to take a break from foreplay to put on a condom, but in the scheme of things, it doesn’t take that much time to slap one on to keep you and the men you sleep with safe. And hey, that minute goes by a lot faster than an afternoon in your doctor’s office.

Greg Scarnici is the author of the book, “I Hope My Mother Doesn’t Read This” – now available on Amazon. Connect with him and his social networks on www.gregscarnici.com

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Neil Patrick Harris admits he has a big crush on Nick Jonas

Neil Patrick Harris admits he has a big crush on Nick Jonas

Neil Patrick Harris may be happily married to David Burtka but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t still have crushes on other guys.

Harris, whose new show The Best Time Ever premieres on NBC on Tuesday (15 September), was asked by talk show host Wendy Williams this week who his celebrity crush is.

Harris did not hesitate: Nick Jonas.

‘He was good-looking even before I was allowed to think he was good-looking,’ said Harris of the boy bander-turned Kingdom star. ‘It was a bit of a problem, I had to wait until he turned 19 or 20.’

Jonas, 22, can add Harris to a growing gay fan base that he has specifically courted in recent years of his career as a solo musical artist. His character on the drama Kingdom is a closeted gay man.

As for Harris going public with his crush, it won’t cause any problems at home. Hubby Burtka was already well aware of his crush on Jonas.

Below is NPH’s full appearance on The Wendy Williams Show:

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Greg Hernandez

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Woman Single-Handedly Spearheads Campaign To Protect Rights Of Sex Robots

Woman Single-Handedly Spearheads Campaign To Protect Rights Of Sex Robots

Screen shot 2015-09-15 at 2.04.09 PMWe recently told you about Sinthetics, the $25,000 life-like, “individually handmade” male sex dolls taking the internet by storm. Now, one woman is making it her personal mission to stop people from engaging in sexual intercourse with these kinds of robots.

“I started thinking, ‘Oh, no, something needs to be said about this,’” Kathleen Richardson, a senior senior research fellow in the ethics of robotics at De Montfort University in Leicester, England, tells the Washington Post. “This is not right!”

Related: What Is It About These Male Sex Dolls That’s So Creepy? Oh, Everything.

Richardson has dedicated her academic career to researching sex robots and the harmful impact they’re having on humanity, particularly the sex industry.

“I propose that extending relations of prostitution into machines is neither ethical, nor is it safe,” Richardson says. “If anything the development of sex robots will further reinforce relations of power that do not recognize both parties as human subjects.”

That’s right, Richardson fears if people continue doing it with robots they’ll lose the ability to differentiate between machines and humans and, in the process, forget how to empathize with one another. Or something.

“These robots will contribute to more sexual exploitation,” Richardson says. Not only that, she adds, but companies will begin manufacturing sex robots that look like children. In fact, they probably already are!

“It’s a new and emerging technology,” she cautions. “Let’s nip in the bud!”

Related: Turns Out There’s An Abundance Of Creepy Sex Toys Out There

 

The robot sex industry, however, is displeased with Richardson’s crusade.

Douglas Hines, CEO of True Companion, told the BBC that his company isn’t trying to exploit anyone, nor does it want to replace people’s real-life sexual partners.

“This is a solution for people who are between relationships or someone who has lost a spouse,” he said. “People can find happiness and fulfillment other than via human interaction.”

Tuthor of Love and Sex with Robots: The Evolution of Human-Robot Relationships, David Levy, added that he believes love with robots “will be as normal as love with other humans.”

“The number of sexual acts and lovemaking positions commonly practiced between humans will be extended, as robots teach us more than is in all of the world’s published sex manuals combined,” Levy proclaimed.

But Richardson isn’t buying.

“It’s important that we have a debate about this,” she says. “Einstein’s theory of relativity–it didn’t have to turn into the atom bomb, right?!”

Right!!!

Related: Encase Your Beloved’s Ashes In An Elegant Glass Sex Toy. Wait, What?

Graham Gremore

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POLL: Most Americans Want Kim Davis to Do Her Job

POLL: Most Americans Want Kim Davis to Do Her Job

A new poll shows most Americans want antigay Kentucky Clerk Kim Davis to be required to do her job, namely to issue marriage licenses same-sex couples

Davis returned to work Monday in Rowan County, and did not block her staff from issuing any licenses, as ordered by the courts and Kentucky’s governor. 

The Washington Post-ABC News poll found 63 percent of those surveyed say Davis should be required to do so regardless of her religious objections.

According to pollsters, almost one in two, or 45 percent, approved of the decision by a federal judge to send Davis to jail for not complying with his order to issue those licenses. And 16 percent preferred Davis be forced to issue the licenses but were against sending her to jail for her refusal. 

Nearly three-quarters of respondents said when civil rights and religious beliefs conflict, it is more important to treat everyone equally than to accommodate someone’s objections based on faith. And it wasn’t just Democrats but Republicans, liberals and conservatives who offered broad support for that concept.

The Post-ABC poll was conducted Sept. 7 to 10 among a random national sample of 1,003 adults, including land-line and cellphone respondents. Overall results have a margin of sampling error of plus or minus 3.5 percentage points.

Dawn Ennis

www.advocate.com/2015/9/15/poll-most-americans-want-kim-davis-do-her-job

Scientists Fear Sex Robots Could Be Bad For Society

Scientists Fear Sex Robots Could Be Bad For Society

We’ve joked about robots being the future of sex, but for these two researchers, it’s no laughing matter.

Kathleen Richardson and Erik Billing on Tuesday launched the Campaign Against Sex Robots, an effort to draw attention to what they see as the potential societal harm of human-like robots created for the purpose of having sex with humans. While these products are not yet widely available, they “seem to be a growing focus in the robotics industry,” Richardson, an ethics of robotics research fellow at England’s De Montfort University, told the BBC.

Billing, a lecturer at the University of Skovde in Sweden, told The Huffington Post in an email that he and Richardson “did not launch this campaign to protect the rights of the robots.” Instead, he explained, they are concerned that using sex robots could foster unhealthy attitudes towards sex and gender relations.

“The danger of sex robots lies in what we read into them, how we form fantasies that, in some respects, become a reality — a reality where the human (male) user is expected to turn on his woman robot companion for his own, lone, pleasure,” Billing said. “I think most of us would agree that this is very far from a healthy, mutual, sexual relationship.”

The campaign’s website features a position paper by Richardson comparing the relationship between a person and a sex robot to that between a client and a human sex worker. Richardson argues that the proliferation of sex robots would strengthen the attitudes of objectification and exploitation that she says are prevalent in the commercial sex trade. 

Even though the campaigners argue that there are strong parallels between robot sex and commercial human sex, they reject previous arguments that robots might simply replace human sex workers. Rather, Billing and Richardson say such technology would just “reinforce” the sex trade, “creating more demand for human bodies.”

But how similar is sex with robots to commercial sex with humans? Robots are literal objects, while sex workers are human beings with thoughts, feelings and agency. And while Richardson and Billing maintain that a person who pays for sex views the seller as a “thing” — like a robot — other research suggests the phenomenon is more complex.

“Men buy sex because they want more sex, different types of sex, different types of women (and men), because of opportunity, loneliness, lack of a relationship,” sociologist Teela Sanders wrote in 2007. “Yet the sex industry is not always a place of fleeting, emotionless sexual liaisons … men who regularly visit the same sex workers speak of their relationships in terms of intimacy and companionship.”

And whatever the implications for the commercial sex trade, some argue that the Campaign Against Sex Robots could stifle valuable research. The campaign’s site states that one of its goals is “to encourage computer scientists and roboticists to refuse to contribute to the development of sex robots as a field by refusing to provide code, hardware or ideas.” 

Computer researcher Kate Devlin calls that goal “shortsighted.”

“Instead of calling for an outright ban, why not use the topic as a base from which to explore new ideas of inclusivity, legality and social change?” Delvin asked Tuesday. “Fear of a branch of [artificial intelligence] that is in its infancy is a reason to shape it — not to ban it. Yes, there is a place for ethics in robotics. And, like sex between humans, talking about it can make it better.”

But Billing defended himself against that criticism, saying fostering a dialogue is exactly what he and Richardson intend to do.

“We are not against research on sex robots,” he said. “However, we are strongly against the development of sex robots without a consideration of the ethical and social consequences of such machines.”

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Stonewall star Jeremy Irvine opens up about his first gay sex scene

Stonewall star Jeremy Irvine opens up about his first gay sex scene

When it comes to gay sex scenes on film, Jeremy Irvine was a virgin.

But in the upcoming film Stonewall, the historical drama about the 1969 Stonewall Riots, the British actor’s character becomes romantically and passionately involved with a gay activist played by Jonathan Rhys Myers.

‘It was my first gay sex scene in a film, and hey, to be honest, if you’re gonna do it, Jonathan Rhys Myers is not a bad choice,’ Irvine tells PrideSource.

The 25-year-old actor had done only one other sex scene on film before and it was with a female.

‘I’m pretty green to all that,’ he says. ‘And Jonathan obviously did The Tudors, and so he said, “Just relax. I used to do, like, 10 of these a day.” So he was very cool. He took my hand. Took me through it.’

Director Roland Emmerich adds: ‘Jonathan totally took charge’ and says of Irvine: ‘Oh my God was he nervous.’

Irvine has been getting a lot of other attention for his role and it hasn’t been about the sex scenes.

After the first trailer for the film was unveiled last month, Emmerich was accused of ‘whitewashing’ and revolving the movie around the fictional white, cisgender male protagonist played by Irvine.

Subsequent trailers and featurettes (see below) have focused on other characters in the film to help quell the outcry.

Stonewall hits theaters in the US on 25 September.

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Greg Hernandez

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