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Survey: Grindr users back Bernie Sanders for president

Survey: Grindr users back Bernie Sanders for president

The majority of Grindr users are backing Bernie Sanders for president of the United States.

Users of the gay hookup app are ‘highly engaged’ in both national and local politics, according to a new poll.

Of the 1,718 respondents, 76% say they vote in both general and presidential elections, with 64% indicating that ‘culture wars’ over LGBTI issues motivate them to vote in non-presidential elections.

More than half identified as Democrat (51%), among whom Bernie Sanders edged out Hillary Clinton 38% to 35% for the nomination.

Only 15% identifited as Republican with Donald Trump comfortably ahead of the other hopefuls with 21% of the vote. John Kasich and Jeb Bush followed next each with 7%, while Ben Carson and Carly Fiorina were both at the 5%, with the 10 others in the crowded field trailing behind.

‘LGBTQ voters reject simplistic “identity politics” and vote on much broader issues affecting them AND their fellow Americans,’ Grindr’s blog noted.

Half of all Grindr voters chose the economy as the ‘biggest issue’ facing America today. Other leading issues included immigration (10.3%) and healthcare (9.8%); while ‘minority rights’ outpolled ‘LGBT rights’ 9% to 3%, suggesting users take a holistic view of rights issues.

That said, LGBTI matters still remain front and center on Grindr guys’ minds.

Asked what was the next big issue for the LGBTI movement in the US, 41% singled out the Equality Act. Fighting HIV/AIDS drew 15% of votes, followed by ‘ensuring that states follow the law on marriage and adoption’ with 12.4% and ‘strengthening transgender rights’ with 11.5%.

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Darren Wee

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Mike Huckabee: Obama inviting LGBTI Catholics to meet pope is like setting up open bar at Alcoholics Anonymous

Mike Huckabee: Obama inviting LGBTI Catholics to meet pope is like setting up open bar at Alcoholics Anonymous

Republican presidential candidate Mike Huckabee has said US President Barack Obama inviting LGBTI Catholics to meet the Pope Francis is like setting up open bar at Alcoholics Anonymous.

The Wall Street Journal reported that the Vatican had ‘taken offense’ to some of the guests who attended the pope’s welcome ceremony at the White House, which included transgender activists and the first openly gay Episcopal bishop.

Classless decision by @POTUS to transform @Pontifex visit into a politicized cattle call is an insult to millions of Catholics #PopeInUS

— Gov. Mike Huckabee (@GovMikeHuckabee) September 21, 2015

‘Obama shows total disrespect to millions of Americans by transforming Pope Francis’ White House visit into a politicized cattle call for gay and pro-abortion activists,’ Huckabee wrote in a op-ed for the Daily Caller.

‘The Catholic Church is also pro-marriage. When the issue emerged in his native Argentina, Pope Francis blasted same-sex marriage as a “destructive pretension against the plan of God.”‘

Huckabee reiterated comments he made in a Fox News interview News on  ( September) that inviting LGBTI people to the meet the pope was like setting setting up an open bar at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting.

‘Welcoming a pro-life, pro-marriage leader at the White House with a crowd of abortion and gay rights activists is as classy as hosting an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting with an open bar,’ he said.

‘President Obama should be ashamed of himself.’

Huckabee added: ‘It’s all petty, partisan politics. Exploiting the Pope for cheap political points at the expense of millions of Americans and Catholics around the world is a shameless new low for this Administration. This classless stunt is disrespectful and disgraceful.’

Watch the Fox interview below:

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Darren Wee

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Pope Francis Welcomed at LGBT-Inclusive White House Reception

Pope Francis Welcomed at LGBT-Inclusive White House Reception

The White House ceremony welcoming Pope Francis today went smoothly — and the presence of LGBT guests proved to be no problem, contrary to the dire predictions of conservative politicians and commentators.

“The White House crowd of about 11,000 ticket holders couldn’t have been more polite,” reports Mother Jones in a story headlined “Gay People, Liberal Nun Fail to Embarrass Pope at the White House.”

The guests who raised the ire of American conservatives and even Vatican officials included Gene Robinson, the first openly gay bishop in the Episcopal Church; Mateo Williamson, a transgender Catholic activist; and Sister Simone Campbell, a (presumably) straight nun who has publicly supported the Affordable Care Act, which has been denounced by some Catholics because it mandates coverage of contraceptives. There were several other attendees who differ with Catholic teachings on LGBT rights and other issues, but these were the ones singled out for criticism.

“Welcoming a pro-life, pro-marriage leader at the White House with a crowd of abortion and gay rights activists is as classy as hosting an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting with an open bar. President Obama should be ashamed of himself,” Republican presidential candidate Mike Huckabee wrote on The Daily Caller, a conservative website, and he made similar comments in an interview with Megyn Kelly on Fox News. 

Hot Air blogger Ed Morrissey wrote, “The White House wants to deliberately embarrass the Pope by sticking a thumb in his eye, and by sticking their noses into Catholic doctrine and teachings.” And some Vatican officials worried that if Pope Francis had his picture taken with LGBT activists or dissident Catholics, it might appear that he endorsed their views.

However, there were no confrontations at the event on the White House’s South Lawn. A few guests wore rainbow flag pins, Mother Jones reports, but the pins were small and not visible to the pope from any distance. “The only real outburst from a guest came as the pope was leaving, when a man yelled, ‘We love you, Pope Francis!’” the magazine reports, adding, “A Twitter jokester attributed this to Vice President Joe Biden.”

At the ceremony, the pope praised President Obama’s efforts to address climate change; the pontiff also voiced support for immigrants and stressed the need to reduce income inequality, CNN reports. “While some of these themes were sure to please the left, he also delivered a firm defense of traditional values, warning that the institution of marriage and family needed to be protected at ‘a critical moment in the history of our civilization,’” the network notes on its website.

“He said that it was right that society was ‘tolerant and inclusive’ but warned that American Catholics were ‘concerned that efforts to build a just and wisely ordered society respect their deepest concerns and their right to religious liberty. That freedom remains one of America’s most precious possessions,’” CNN’s report continues. In response, “Obama gently — but pointedly — argued, ‘here in the United States, we cherish religious liberty,’” the network notes.

After the event, Bishop Robinson told CNN reporter Chris Cuomo he “didn’t feel very controversial” standing far away from the pope in such a big crowd, and called the controversy over some of the guests “a bit of a tempest in a teapot.” He was “honored and humbled to be invited,” he said. Robinson’s denomination is part of the global Anglican Communion, whose “mother church,” the Church of England, broke off from the Roman Catholic Church nearly 500 years ago.

While the Catholic Church continues to oppose same-sex relationships, Francis has changed the church’s tone toward LGBT people, Robinson said, adding, “What I hope is that over the course of his ministry, as he meets with gay and lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people — as he’s already begun to do — his own views about our families will change.” (Watch the interview below; the clip is from a right-wing site that objected to CNN giving Robinson a platform, but it includes none of the site’s editorializing.)

LGBT Catholics and their supporters made their views known at venues outside the White House reception. In Washington, the Human Rights Campaign headquarters was draped with a banner reading, “We are your children, your teachers, your faithful. Welcomed by God, dismissed by our bishops. Pope Francis, will you welcome us home?” As his motorcade went past the building today, Mashable reports, “dozens of LGBT advocates and Catholics stood out front, welcoming him with cheers, as well as flags and signs imploring him to embrace the LGBT faithful.”

The pope’s visit to the U.S. continues with stops planned in New York City and Philadelphia.

Trudy Ring

www.advocate.com/religion/2015/9/23/pope-francis-welcomed-lgbt-inclusive-white-house-reception

Anti-gay Ben Carson: Muslim shouldn’t be president because they are homophobic

Anti-gay Ben Carson: Muslim shouldn’t be president because they are homophobic

Anti-gay Republican Ben Carson has said a Muslim should not be president of the United States because they kill homosexuals.

In an interview on NBC’s Meet the Press on Sunday (20 September), the retired neurosurgeon said he ‘absolutely would not agree’ with a Muslim president.

Democrat and his fellow Republican presidential candidates have criticized his comments but campaign donations have reportedly spiked since the interview.

Carson took to Facebook on Monday (21 September) night to clarify his comments:

‘I could never support a candidate for President of the United States that was Muslim and had not renounced the central tenant [sic] of Islam: Sharia Law,’ he wrote.

‘Under Islamic Law, homosexuals – men and women alike – must be killed. Women must be subservient. And people following other religions must be killed.

‘I know that there are many peaceful Muslims who do not adhere to these beliefs. But until these tenants [sic] are fully renounced…I cannot advocate any Muslim candidate for President.’

Carson is currently second in the polls with 15%.

According to a June Gallup survey, 38% of Americans said they would not support a Muslim presidential candidate.

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Darren Wee

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Yogi Berra, Baseball Legend and LGBT Ally, Dead at 90

Yogi Berra, Baseball Legend and LGBT Ally, Dead at 90

Baseball Hall of Famer Yogi Berra, who died Tuesday at age 90, was famed for his playing prowess and tendency to mangle the English language to comedic effect — but, in an achievement that’s less well known, he was also a strong LGBT ally.

In 2013, Berra became an ambassador for Athlete Ally, an organization that partners with professional, college, and Olympic athletes to advance LGBT equality. Under his leadership, the Yogi Berra Museum and Learning Center in Little Falls, N.J., presented an exhibit titled “Championing Respect,” highlighting athletes who contributed to social change, from Jackie Robinson to Billie Jean King to those working for LGBT equality today.

“We will remember Yogi Berra for his values and his courage,” said Hudson Taylor, Athlete Ally founder and executive director, in a statement posted on the group’s website. “He was a true pioneer for inclusion in sport, and a personal hero of mine. Not only was he one of the best catchers in MLB history, but he was strongly committed to diversity, inclusion, and education.”

“As Yogi said, ‘Respect the game, respect others. That’s what I always learned in sports. Treat everyone the same. That’s how it should be,’” Taylor added. “I couldn’t agree more. Yogi truly understood what it meant to be an ally, and he lived it every day. Our thoughts are with his family and friends, and we thank Yogi for teaching us all to value respect and inclusion in sport.” The group presented Berra with an Athlete Ally Action Award in 2014.

Berra played 18 seasons with the New York Yankees — 1946 through 1963 — and one with the crosstown Mets, mostly at the physically demanding position of catcher. He had a lifetime batting average of .285, hit 358 home runs, and amassed 1,430 runs batted in. He played on 10 world championship teams with the Yankees, and he went on to coach and manage for the Yankees and Mets, leading both to the World Series. He was elected to the Hall of Fame in 1972.

Born Lawrence Peter Berra, he received the nickname “Yogi” as a teenager from friends who thought he took a yoga-like pose as he sat cross-legged waiting his turn at bat. A cartoon character, Yogi Bear, was named after Berra.

Many humorous quotes are attributed to Berra; whether or not he actually uttered them “has long been a matter of speculation,” The New York Times noted in its obituary. Among them: “You can observe a lot just by watching”; “When you come to a fork in the road, take it”; “Nobody goes there anymore. It’s too crowded,” — the latter of a popular restaurant.

Underneath it all, Berra was actually brainy, a Times sportswriter noted in 1963, saying, “He has continued to allow people to regard him as an amiable clown because it brings him quick acceptance, despite ample proof, onfield and off, that he is intelligent, shrewd and opportunistic.”

He was also a consistent champion of the underdog. He was friendly and supportive to the Cleveland Indians’ Larry Doby, the first black player in the American League, and welcoming of Elston Howard, the Yankees’ first black team member. His museum has offered a variety of programs aimed at fostering sportsmanship and educational achievement among young people. And then there’s the partnership with Athlete Ally.

“You don’t usually see guys like Yogi at gay pride parades,” center director Dave Kaplan told the Times earlier this year, “but when I explained to him that this is the equivalent of the civil rights movement — people looking for equal opportunity and respect — he said: ‘I have no problem with that. If they can play, they can play.’”

Trudy Ring

www.advocate.com/sports/2015/9/23/yogi-berra-baseball-legend-and-lgbt-ally-dead-90

Study: Younger men more likely to consider being gay a core part of identity

Study: Younger men more likely to consider being gay a core part of identity

Gay men in their 20s are far more likely to consider their sexual orientation to be a core part of their identity than gay men in their 40s, according to a study released by Logo TV on Wednesday (23 September).

The Gay Men Redefined survey was given to 1,000 men in the US between the ages of 18 and 49. It found that 55% of men in their 20s view being gay as extremely or very important to their identity. This is 15% higher than gay men in their 40s.

Almost all respondents (95%) seem to agree that younger gay men are embracing their gay identity more so today than in the past.

They also almost all are united (92%) in hoping the community becomes more accepting of each other, that there a a need for more open dialogue among gay men (91%), and 87% wish the gay community was as united during the rest of the year as we are during Pride.

With same-sex marriage now legal in all 50 US states, six in 10 of the respondents who are in their 20s say their families expect them to get married and have children one day.  But 67 percent still believe that being gay means you have the freedom to do things differently.

The survey also showed that coming out is no longer the most defining experience for many young days. Of those in their 20s and 30s, 65% said they are focused on life after coming out and are struggling to figure out what kind of gay man they want to be.

Other findings include:

  • 61 percent of gay men in their 20s and 30s believe gay community was more united in the past.
  • 85 percent agree that even as gay people become more accepted, they should have places that are just for them and many are sad to see gay neighborhoods and bars disappear.
  • 67 percent say their life is more interesting because they are gay.
  • 75 percent believe that being gay has had a positive effect on their life.
  • 86 percent still wish there were more gay role models and mentors they could look up to.

 

 

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Greg Hernandez

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Jets Wide Receiver Eric Decker Shirtless for Flaunt

Jets Wide Receiver Eric Decker Shirtless for Flaunt

Eric Decker shirtless

Eric Decker shirtless.

Eric Decker gave an interview to Flaunt magazine this month, and offered them some quotes about his high IQ, his reality series on E!, his married life, and what he likes to wear:

“I always usually have the same equipment guy put on my jersey and I wear double-­sided tape on my pads, so that the jersey lays a certain way,” he says. Off the field, Decker says, “I always like to be in jeans and a t-­shirt, but then I also like to get dressed up when we go to events or even travel for games. [I like] wearing suits and driving a nice car.”

But Flaunt also got to the meat of the story: “Decker’s beach body is almost offensive.”

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Jets Wide Receiver Eric Decker Shirtless for Flaunt

Caitlyn Jenner Likely to Escape Charges in Deadly Crash

Caitlyn Jenner Likely to Escape Charges in Deadly Crash

After rear-ending a car that lost control and crashed head-on with another vehicle in Malibu, Calif., last February, trans reality star Caitlyn Jenner is likely to escape vehicular manslaughter charges, TMZ reports.

Jenner’s action were “negligent, but not criminal,” according to sources at the Los Angeles County District Attorney’s office, who relied on information obtained at the accident scene from the L.A. County Sheriff’s Department. District Attorney Jackie Lacey could override her staff’s recommendation and file criminal charges herself, though TMZ believes that’s unlikely.

When L.A. County sheriff’s deputies completed their investigation last month, a detective said there was a “50/50” chance that Jenner would face a criminal charge in the accident, but so far no charges have been filed against anyone. If one is filed against Jenner, the charge would most likely be misdemeanor-level manslaughter, the detective said.

In the accident, Jenner’s Cadillac Escalade rear-ended Kimberly Howe’s car, pushing it into oncoming traffic, where it was struck head-on by a Hummer. After rear-ending Howe, Jenner also rear-ended a Prius driven by Jessica Steindorff. Howe, 69, died in the crash, and several people were injured. Howe’s stepchildren have filed a wrongful death lawsuit against Jenner, and Steindorff has filed a personal injury suit against her.

Jenner was driving under the speed limit, she told Matt Lauer, but sheriff’s deputies have said she was driving too fast for the rainy conditions that day — something with which Jenner took issue.

The usual sentence for misdemeanor-level manslaughter is a year in the county jail. About the possibility of going to jail, Jenner told Lauer, “The media wants that picture, don’t they? That is the worst-case scenario. I don’t know. We’ll see. The men’s county jail. It is an enormous problem that they would put trans women in a men’s county jail.”

The L.A. County Men’s Central Jail, by the way, does have a special wing for gay and transgender inmates, and while such segregation is controversial, the arrangement has reportedly protected gay and trans inmates from violence.

Neal Broverman

www.advocate.com/caitlyn-jenner/2015/9/23/caitlyn-jenner-likely-escape-charges-deadly-crash

Justice Scalia Is Still Hopping Mad Over The Gay Marriage Ruling

Justice Scalia Is Still Hopping Mad Over The Gay Marriage Ruling

With less than two weeks before the start of the new Supreme Court session, Justice Antonin Scalia is still lamenting Obergefell v. Hodges, the June ruling that legalized same-sex marriage nationwide.

At a Tuesday speech at Rhodes College, which his grandson attends, the justice blasted the decision, calling it the “furthest imaginable extension of the Supreme Court doing whatever it wants,” according to The Associated Press.

Scalia dissented in the case, accusing the court of being a “threat to democracy” and the justices who ruled for a constitutional right to marriage for gay couples the “Ruler of 320 million Americans coast-to-coast.”

The speech at Rhodes seemed to signal that his dismay over gay marriage continues.

“Saying that the Constitution requires that practice, which is contrary to the religious beliefs of many of our citizens,” Scalia said, “I don’t know how you can get more extreme than that.”

He added, “I worry about a court that’s headed in that direction.”

The speech came as part of the college’s observance of Constitution Day, a statutory initiative schools use for educational programs and civics lessons on citizenship and the Constitution.

But rather than celebrate the founding document, Scalia appeared to decry its destruction by his colleagues on the court.

“Do you really want your judges to rewrite the Constitution?” he pondered. He bemoaned that the court was made up of no more than “lawyers” who are “terribly unrepresentative of our country,” according to the Commercial Appeal, a Memphis-based news outlet.

Scalia said there was nothing in his legal education at one of America’s top law schools that makes him especially qualified to decide some of the hotly debated issues that reach the court.

“What is it that I learned at Harvard Law School that makes me peculiarly qualified to determine such profound moral and ethical questions as whether there should be a right to abortion, whether there should be same-sex marriage, whether there should be a right to suicide?” he asked, according to the AP. “It has nothing to do with the law. Even Yale Law School doesn’t teach that stuff.”

Scalia also used the speech and a question-and-answer session with students to address controversial subjects such as the death penalty and U.S. drone strikes against Americans in the Middle East. 

Scalia didn’t seem to have a problem with the latter issue.

“I think, if that person has taken up arms against the United States, what’s the difference between allowing our soldiers to shoot him dead and allowing a drone to kill him?” he said.

The Supreme Court’s next session kicks off Oct. 5.

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Margaret Cho’s mom used magazine called Ass Master to teach daughter about gay people

Margaret Cho’s mom used magazine called Ass Master to teach daughter about gay people

It’s hard to believe that comic Margaret Cho wasn’t always an expert on all things gay.

But when she was around 7 or 8, she knew nothing.

It was her mother, who is so often imitated in her act, who decided to teach her daughter about gay people. Since the family operated a bookstore in San Francisco, the mother grabbed a gay porn magazine called Ass Master to help with her explanation.

‘She was really just trying to explain to me what gay people were like, because she didn’t know that I knew about gay people,’ Cho said Wednesday (23 September) on HuffPost Live.

‘So she wanted to explain to me gay people, and she had a visual aid. … She was really shocked by it, but at the same time trying to explain gay people so that I wouldn’t be alarmed.’

All these years later, Cho thinks her mom did the right thing at the right time.

‘I didn’t know anything then and was young enough to not understand sexuality and that kind of sexuality, so it was very enlightening,’

Cho made her third appearance on the E! show Fashion Police earlier this week and has proved to be an audience favorite. Her latest stand-up special, Margaret Cho: psyCHO premieres on Showtime on Friday (25 September).

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Greg Hernandez

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