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School Won’t Let Student Bring Another Boy To Homecoming Dance, Warns Him About Murderous Gays

School Won’t Let Student Bring Another Boy To Homecoming Dance, Warns Him About Murderous Gays

Lance-Sanderson-WMC-800x430All Lance Sanderson (pictured) wants is to bring another boy to his school’s homecoming dance, but administrators won’t let him.

Sanderson is a senior at Christian Brothers High School, an all-boys Catholic prep school in Memphis. Last year, he says he spoke with an administrator about bringing a boy from another school to the dance. That administrator gave him permission, but has since left his position at the school.

Now, school officials have changed their tune.

Related: After Denying FTM Student Homecoming King Title, MI High School Does Away With Prom King + Queen

“I was sitting down talking to one of the current administrators over the summer, and at the end of our conversation, I mentioned it, expecting him to say the same thing. And he had a very different response,” Sanderson tells the Memphis Flyer. “He mentioned a [gay] couple in Texas and said I was a lot like this one person and said that the guy’s boyfriend murdered him. It was a little rough.”

The school cited a policy against boys from other schools attending social functions as its reason for denying Sanderson’s request.

Related: All-Girls School Won’t Let Hannah Williams Bring Girlfriend To Dance, Because It’s A Chance to Meet Boys

The official policy reads: “CBHS students may attend the dance by themselves, with other CBHS students, or with a girl from another school. For logistical reasons, boys from other schools may not attend.”

According to Sanderson, that policy has been read over the school’s loudspeaker daily for the past week.

“The way they worded it is ‘for logistical reasons, boys from other schools may not attend.’ I asked about it in a meeting [Tuesday] morning, and they said they didn’t want guys from our school getting into disagreements with guys from other schools,” Sanderson says.

The school’s marketing and communications director, John Morris, said it would not be releasing any comment over the matter… Perhaps for “logistical reasons”?

Related: High School Jock Comes Out By Slow Dancing With The Homecoming King

h/t: Raw Story

Graham Gremore

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Ellen Unveils the All-Trump 2016 GOP Debate Line Up: VIDEO

Ellen Unveils the All-Trump 2016 GOP Debate Line Up: VIDEO

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And you thought one billionaire blowhard was a headache. Try 11 of em.

Hoping to boost her ratings, Ellen DeGeneres created this hilarious (and more than a little terrifying) video that replaces the other 10 GOP candidates at last week’s debate with Donald Trump.

Get ready for a lot of insults and interruptions in the video below:

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Ellen Unveils the All-Trump 2016 GOP Debate Line Up: VIDEO

New Kim Davis Lesbian Erotica Takes Her to the Promised Land

New Kim Davis Lesbian Erotica Takes Her to the Promised Land

Embattled Kentucky county clerk Kim Davis may be best known for her homophobic stance against marriage equality and leaving gay and lesbian couples wanting more. But now she’s the subject of a new lesbian jailhouse erotic novella that is all about satisfaction.

Author Lilith St. Augustine has written a fantasy novel starring the renegade clerk that is “bitingly satirical, unexpectedly funny and unabashedly sexy,” according to the book’s online description. Kim Goes To Jail: An Erotic Story is available now as a Kindle download on Amazon.

Loosely based on Davis’ stint in the slammer on contempt of court charges, the novella has our antihero incarcerated with a “beautiful cellmate” who is “only too eager to acclimate” Davis to her new life behind bars.

“One day I’m standin’ on the side of the Lord against sexual perversion, and the next I’m in prison orange watchin’ a buck nekkid mulatto vixen ‘bout to do impure things to herself and to my soul in one single, terrifyin’ act,” reads one passage. “She was strokin’ my thigh and makin’ her way for the promised land…”

The author told the Huffington Post that she used the story to “poke fun” at religious right zealots who loudly proclaim their homophobia. Studies have shown that the most homophobic people are usually struggling with their own sexuality and act out as a way of reaffirming their heterosexuality.

St. Augustine says she is “giving readers satisfaction not only in the typical erotica sense but also of seeing a character do some things that, in the real world, would obviously be anathema to the kinds of people we’re talking about.”

“There can be pleasure in irony sometimes,” she said. “And hopefully readers will get a chuckle or two while we’re at it.”

The Advocate reached out to Davis’s attorneys for comment but did not receieve a reply by press time.

Bil Browning

www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/2015/9/24/new-kim-davis-lesbian-erotica-takes-her-promised-land

Friends</em> Series 1 – Six Things I Never Knew I Knew

Friends</em> Series 1 – Six Things I Never Knew I Knew
Sorry… 26. Ross is TWENTY SIX in series one? But I am 26. That is my age. He is a grown up man who is my age.

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That was largely my reaction to watching the entire series one of Friends again. I’ve of course watched Friends a lot since it finished, I mean I’m not an animal, but never in any order. I tended to follow it in whatever order the TV channel that was carrying it wanted to throw at me. One minute she gets off the plane, the next skinny Chandler is all up in Janice’s grill clutching on to that hideous/fabulous leopard print boot. The series turns 21 this week, and to honour that milestone I decided to go back to the start, old fashioned DVD boxset-style. A re-watch, a rebirth, a rediscovery (NOTE FROM EDITOR: calm down).

Age aside (TWENTY SIX?), I discovered six key things I didn’t know I knew during my more crazy mixed up viewing habits. So here we go, Friends series 1… a re-reaction.

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1 ‘The Rachel’ hairstyle is a blink and you’ll miss it situation. Full disclosure, I hate that hairstyle. I understand that thousands, if not millions, of 90’s ladies wanted it on their heads, but it is awful. Thankfully, it actually wasn’t in it for very long. To my eyes, about half the first series includes ‘The Rachel’ and then that’s all folks. That’s the power of the Aniston though right, I mean I’m not saying she’s Jesus but let’s be real, she was sent here to save us all.

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2 – Poor Phoebe. She just doesn’t get a look in. Minor stories like the thumb in the soda thing, and a token love story with lovely David, but that’s really all we see of her. Could she be more supporting cast? If you want evidence of how little is about her, I give you this: David reappears later in the show’s run to represent Phoebe’s great love, yet he’s only in it for ONE episode of S1. That is how much screen time they gave the Buffay’s great love story. Well done everyone, it’s not like Kudrow is a national treasure or anything.

3 – In contrast, series one really is the one about Ross and Rachel. Seriously, between Ross’ divorce, his baby, Rachel’s wedding walk out, her journey from spoilt to, well, less spoilt, her relationship with Paolo (who, I might add, gets three episodes in series 1. That’s two more than David… case rested) — it’s just non-stop with those two. Plus, of course, the ‘will they won’t they’ starts. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m as into the whole Ross / Rachel thing as the next 90s kid, but I had no idea these two were so all encompassing.

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4 – Joey is not stupid, nor is he creepy with women. I get it, character development etc. But really, he’s actually kind of witty and charming in S1. He’s sarcastic and slightly deep (that whole thing with his dad, too cute). I quite like some dumb Joey moments, but in the end I thought they got a bit annoying. Our Italian Stallion could have been so much more. Alas. (EDITOR: seriously, calm down)

5 – What’s with the beam? Monica’s apartment has this weird beam in it that is def removed at some point. I don’t like it and I’m glad she changed it. I don’t think Monica’s decorating is always on point (purple, really?), but she werked it out with that decision — it would have been the first thing to go if I lived in that palatial apartment.

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6 – I’m about to come out. This is a big moment for me so be kind. Monica is my favorite character.

Phew, it feels so good to say it out loud, when’s the parade (etc). Basically, Monica is sarcastic, tough when she needs to be, deals with her crazy mother, is not that bothered that she’s supremely uncool and has a deep rooted pride in the apartment she keeps spotless. I’m not saying I relate to her, but when the shoe fits… (NB Mum I’m totally kidding, LOVE YOU).

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That’s it, done. I am E.X.HAUSTED. On to series two…

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Ditch Grindr, there is finally a dating app for people who love bacon

Ditch Grindr, there is finally a dating app for people who love bacon

Grindr? Scruff? Tinder? Who needs them when there is a dating app out there for bacon lovers?

Oscar Mayer has launched the new app, called Sizzl, for bacon lovers looking to find love. It gives you an option to look for men, women or both.

Like Tinder, it links up your Facebook so you are looking at people’s actual pictures. It then asks you a series of questions to better find out what kind of bacon lover you are.

‘What kind of bacon do you love the most?’ they ask. ‘Pork, Turkey or Both?’

And also, ‘If you’re on a date and there’s one strip of bacon left, you…take it obviously, generously give it away, or split it?’

Once you have filled out the short questionnaire, you then start looking for potential dates and rate them by how much ‘sizzl’ you feel for them.

Does this bacon dating app make you sizzle?

Does this bacon dating app make you sizzle?

According to the Oscar Mayer website, Sizzl is ‘a real dating app for bacon lovers’ and offers users the chance to connect with thousands of ‘like-minded lovers who share your selective taste in bacon’.

The app is currently only available for Apple phones and products.

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Joe Morgan

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Kim Davis to Megyn Kelly: ‘No Way’ I’d Give My Gay Child a Marriage License

Kim Davis to Megyn Kelly: ‘No Way’ I’d Give My Gay Child a Marriage License

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Rowan County, Kentucky Clerk Kim Davis sat down with FOX News anchor Megyn Kelly last night to talk about her refusal to issue marriage license to gay couples, her time in jail, her reasoning behind the refusals, and whether she’ll resign.

Said Davis:

“Marriage is defined as one man and one woman. It’s not like black and white. You’re not talking about a racial issue…So you have millions of Christians who object this whole same-sex marriage issue. Are their rights invalid? Are their rights not worth anything? It’s a valid point. It’s a fight that’s worth fighting for.”

Kelly says President Obama talked about religious liberty in America and asks Davis if she believes it exists.

“In 2015 when a county clerk can go to jail because she is upholding her religious beliefs, I would have to question his statement.”

Adding:

“Megyn when I gave my life to the Lord, I vowed to serve him with my whole heart mind, body, and soul every bit of strength I had, and to me that’s a vow I want to keep, because that’s a Heaven or Hell issue to me….Do you know how many thumbs up I got, people in jail, hardened criminals in there for over 10 years, got messages to let her know we’re praying for her.”

Watch:

Kelly asked Davis about being released from jail and what she felt at that insane rally:

“The presence of God was very strong there. It was overwhelming. I was totally unprepared for that…It was like electric up there.”

About those who say hateful things about her:

“What people say about me does not define who I am. My God has transformed me.”

RELATED: Kim Davis Says She Has Gay Friends. Where Are They?

And the hardest part of the last few weeks?

“The hardest part was when Judge Bunning called my deputies in. When he called my deputies in to force and coerce them to follow his order, I told them, my conscience is mine and yours is yours. You’ll have to make a decision. I love you all and I will not lead you like sheep to the slaughter.”

If one of her children were gay….

“I wouldn’t write them a marriage license. I would love them. I love all people. But I would not write them a marriage license. I have love in my heart for everyone. Everyone has a soul Megan and that’s what we’re bound as Christians to love and to reach for. “

How do you think you’ve come out of it, villain or heroine?

“Depends on if you love God or not what side you’re on.”

Will she resign?

“If I resign, I lose my voice. Why should I have to quit a job that I’m good at? I’ve been a county employee and I’ve served the public well for 26 years before I got elected.They can accommodate for all sorts of other issues, and we ask for one simple accommodation and we cannot receive it. It just does not seem right.?”

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Andy Towle

Kim Davis to Megyn Kelly: ‘No Way’ I’d Give My Gay Child a Marriage License

Listen to Sia’s new single written from the perspective of Adele (as in THAT Adele)

Listen to Sia’s new single written from the perspective of Adele (as in THAT Adele)

Bisexual singer-songwriter and superstar Sia has revealed her new single from her forthcoming album This Is Acting.

Written from the perspective of Adele, the song Alive is a belting powerhouse of a ballad. It’s exactly what you would expect from both Adele and Sia.

‘It’s about Adele’s life, so I now sing a song from Adele’s perspective,’ Sia recently said about the song.

‘This is the first song from the new project. I’m calling it This Is Acting because they are songs I was writing for other people, so I didn’t go into thinking, “This is something I would say.” It’s more like play-acting. It’s fun.’

Sia has previously written for several artists, including Beyoncé, Madonna and Rihanna.

Listen below:

 

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Joe Morgan

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What the Daraprim Price Gouging Means for You

What the Daraprim Price Gouging Means for You

Turing Pharmaceuticals CEO Martin Shkreli ignited a firestorm this week when news broke that his company increased the cost of Daraprim, a vital part of treating toxoplasmosis — which disproportionally affects patients with HIV and AIDS — by more than 4,000%, from $18.50 to $750 per pill.

Many called for a boycott of the company, but it’s hard to boycott a drug if you’ll die without it. Judith Aberg from the HIV Medicine Association estimates that patients could wind up paying upwards of $150 per pill out of pocket, even with insurance. To put this in perspective, a common course of treatment could now cost upwards of $63,000 — up from a more reasonable $1,130 just a month ago. The story even inspired Hillary Clinton to announce her plan to cap out-of-pocket drug expenses to $250 per month.

After the scandal sent his stock prices spiraling, Shkreli announced that he would be lowering the cost of the drug, although he has not yet specified by how much. Clinton had a succinct, elegant response, tweeting the word “Good” in reply. But until pharmaceutical companies face this kind of scrutiny over all their pricing practices, and we have stricter measures in place to prevent this kind of abuse, this just isn’t good enough for the people who need these drugs to survive.

I’ve been preoccupied with the cost of HIV and AIDS medications for some time, as I am developing a narrative feature film and companion documentary on the subject. I recently spoke with HIV patients living on Medicaid in Alabama that said they could not always afford an $8 copay for their medications — capitalism doesn’t work without compassion, and there are few regulations placed on morality in business. The truth is, even if we cap out-of-pocket expenses, someone will still have to foot the bill for exorbitantly over-priced medication, and the cost will inevitably have consequences for consumers.

To understand what this scandal really means for patients who need access to Daraprim, I reached out to infectious disease specialist Dr. Kalvin Brewer-Yu, who is currently the chief integration officer at Kaiser Permanente Southern California.

Williamson: What is Daraprim? 
Brewer-Yu: Daraprim is actually a drug called pyrimethamine, which is what it’s been known as for decades. It is the cornerstone drug of a combination of two or three drugs used to treat toxoplasmosis, an infection in the brain that can cause blindness, seizures, and neurologic deficits in movement. It is acquired by ingesting the toxoplasmosis organism via undercooked meat and contamination with cat feces. People with immune system deficiencies and pregnant women are particularly at risk. 

How have you seen toxoplasmosis affect patients living with HIV?
I think every infectious disease doctor that trained in the late ’80s or early ’90s has had several HIV patients die from toxoplasmosis. If they survive, it is often with neurologic deficits such as visual problems or limb weakness. It’s a serious disease in this population, even today, and the differential diagnosis includes brain lymphoma or progressive multifocal leukoencephalopathy, both of which are often life-threatening. 

What’s a course of treatment for Daraprim cost?
We have to keep in mind that toxoplasmosis treatment only works with a combination of drugs, not just one. With the recent proposed price hike, the IDSA has been quoted as stating that treatment will cost at least $336,000-$600,0000 per year — just for the Daraprim alone — depending on how much you weigh. The drug is prescribed depending on weight, so this is not a “simple” one-pill-once-a-day-for-all situation. 

Turing Pharmaceuticals CEO Martin Shkreli has described this 4000% increase as a “reasonable profit, not excessive at all.” Does this mean if a patient doesn’t have insurance they could be on the line for the full cost of treatment?
If they don’t have insurance they could be facing a bill anywhere from $300,000 to $600,000 for the year. There are other drugs they have to take in combination with Daraprim, so keep that in mind. 

Are there other necessary, life-saving treatments that cost this much?
The new hepatitis C drugs in the last two years have similar pricing, and HIV medications are also expensive. Although it must be said, there has rarely been a drug that has been generic and inexpensive for decades that suddenly shot up in price like this. It is quite shocking actually, but in line with recent expensive medications and likely inspired by the ability of other drug companies to make such a profit. 

Shkreli has also said they needed to increase profits to research better treatments — in your medical opinion, is a new treatment for toxoplasmosis needed or is Daraprim effective? 
I don’t believe this is the case; in fact, the part of the therapy that some patients do not like is the other drugs that they have to take up to four times a day. But Daraprim is not that drug. The argument falls flat when you consider which drug has been hiked up in price. The other point is, anybody can say they are trying to “make things better for the future,” but the reality is this particular action will make things worse immediately, and overnight. 

As a medical professional, do you feel that we should we have regulations in place to prevent abuses in the healthcare industry?  
I feel like the word “regulation” has so much negative connotation attached to it, that it would be a disservice to invoke that particular word. What we need is reasonable pricing so that people don’t lose their homes or ability to be financially stable just because they happened to get infected with something. The same can be said for drugs used to treat some forms of cancer, HIV, rheumatologic diseases, and hepatitis C. We need a reasonable, separate third party not involved in the stakes of financial gain to mediate drug prices, such that pharmaceutical companies can thrive without bankrupting the patients or rendering the therapies unaffordable. It’s hard to watch someone die when you can see the drug in your local pharmacy just sitting on the shelf.

DR. KALVIN BREWER-YU is the chief integration officer at Kaiser Permanente Southern California and an associate research professor at the College of Global Health at NYU.

KIT WILLIAMSON is an actor, filmmaker and activist living in New York City. He best known for playing the role of Ed Gifford on Mad Men and creating the LGBT series EastSiders, which recently premiered its second season exclusively on Vimeo On Demand

Kit Williamson

www.advocate.com/hiv-aids/2015/9/24/what-daraprim-price-gouging-means-you

On the "A" w/Souleo: Bionka, Trans Star of New Show Transcendent </em>is Ready to Open Up

On the "A" w/Souleo: Bionka, Trans Star of New Show Transcendent </em>is Ready to Open Up
Is the mainstream media visibility of transgender women such as Laverne Cox and Caitlyn Jenner a passing fad or not? It is a question that causes Bionka to pause and reflect on the long journey of raising awareness for the transgender community. As one of the stars of the new docu-series Transcendent, Bionka is stepping into the spotlight and she intends to stay there, along with other trans public figures.

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Bionka/Courtesy: Fuse Media Inc
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“It is amazing how America has been catapulted into the trans issue. I don’t think this is momentary,” she said. “The more we raise awareness the more you will see us popping up. We were in the shadows and now we are in the light and we will flourish.”

On Transcendent transgender cabaret entertainers at San Francisco’s Asia SF invite viewers into their lives to share their personal, professional and romantic ups and downs. Bionka, who balances performing at Asia SF with her social service work in the trans community isn’t afraid to let it all hang out. A central part of her storyline is her desire to undergo sex reassignment surgery (SRS). It is a part of the transgender journey for some that even the likes of Cox, Janet Mock and Carmen Carrera shun discussing. But Bionka views such openness as educational.

“I think I might have been more reserved discussing it (SRS) but it’s something I put out there. I cannot take it back. I think the show will help to better educate the public about our trans issues–medical or not. Everyone watching our show will see we are just human beings.”

Transcendent debuts Wednesday, September 30 (11:30 p.m. EDT, FUSE).

Transphobic violence issue takes center stage at Courage Awards

The transgender community may be gaining visibility but it is also facing what some refer to as an “epidemic” of transphobic violence. According to The Advocate, 19 trans women (mostly of color) have been murdered in the U.S. so far this year. On September 16, the New York City Anti-Violence Project (AVP) hosted its 19th Annual Courage Awards at the Broad Street Ballroom. The organization which provides social services, advocacy and education to end violence against LGBTQ and HIV-affected communities and allies honored television icon Phil Donahue, law firm Skadden, Arps, Slate, Meagher & Flom LLP and community advocate Armani Teighlor.

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AVP’s Incoming Executive Director Beverly Tillery/Credit:Lisa Lomauro

Teighlor, a trans woman of color was one of the evening’s highlights sharing an emotional and sobering story of having experienced violence just a few days prior to the event.

“On Sunday night while walking to the subway a man yelled transphobic and homophobic slurs. Someone stopped me to see if I was okay. The man came back toward me and punched me in the face,” she recalled. “I saw a police officer and called out for help. But when he came over I was shocked when he arrested me after being assaulted. I share this attack because I believe I was profiled as a trans woman of color. This happens to us every single day and it is unfortunate. It takes courage to stand here tonight in your presence after the violence I just experienced this past week. But this is the best way to educate community members about the works that needs to be done to ensure we are all safe from violence.”

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Courage Awards Honoree Armani Teighlor & AVP’s Legal Director Virginia Goggin/Credit: Gabriel Lee

As of October 13, AVP’s mission will fall under the leadership of the organization’s new executive director, Beverly Tillery. Her nearly 30-year career includes advocacy, organizing and leadership work for social justice organizations such as Lambda Legal, ACORN, Amnesty International and SEIU. Tillery gave insight into her advocacy strategy by underscoring the intersectionality of various forms of oppression.

“We are not going to be able to do this work without recognizing intersections and how people with multiple areas of oppression are impacted greatly by violence, homophobia, transphobia and racism,” she said. “If we want to end violence we have to change the culture and how we think about our communities and support them. We must understand that racism is a serious player here. It is a root cause.”

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The weekly column, On the “A” w/Souleo, covers the intersection of the arts, culture entertainment and philanthropy in Harlem and beyond and is written by Souleo, founder and president of event/media content production company Souleo Enterprises LLC.

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