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Minnesota Republican Attacks Her Democratic Opponent For Being ‘LGBT’ And ‘Half Black’

Minnesota Republican Attacks Her Democratic Opponent For Being ‘LGBT’ And ‘Half Black’

“She is really far left [in] her values.”

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HRC Honoree from Gambia Granted Asylum

HRC Honoree from Gambia Granted Asylum

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Alagie Jammeh, a distant nephew of vehemently anti-LGBTQ Gambian President Yahya Jammeh, has been granted political asylum in the United States.

In September 2014, Jammeh posted a Facebook status asserting that, “No one should be denied their basic fundamental human rights because of their sexuality.” Homosexuality is against the law in The Gambia, and “violators” can face life in prison. President Jammeh has threatened to personally “slit the throats” of gay men in his country.

After his pro-equality Facebook post, Alagie immediately received threats from Gambian officials. By November that year, the government revoked his scholarship to study at the University of California-Santa Barbara (UCSB), and he was struggling to get by at the school.

HRC honored Alagie last year on Human Rights Day for his support of the LGBTQ community and courage as an ally.

By accepting political asylum,  Alagie can never return to The Gambia where he would face imprisonment or even death. He stated that he would miss his country, but that, above all, “ did this because it was the right thing to do.” Alagie has faced many issues with anti-LGBTQ people in The Gambia tracking his comments, but he stands by what he believes in.

Alagie has made incredible sacrifices as a vocal ally to the LGBTQ community, including losing the financial support for school he was receiving from the Gambian government. Even when he was forced to skip meals and live out of his car, he maintained a high GPA at UCSB. Alagie stated that his ultimate goal is to work for the United Nations and become a human rights advocate for people all around the world. With political asylum in the U.S., he is one step closer to achieving that goal.

“I will continue to advocate for LGBTQ rights especially in the Gambia, Africa and around the world. LGBTQ rights are not special rights, they are human rights. Period,” he told HRC. “[LGBT people] just want to be treated with respect and dignity like other citizens.”

HRC commends Alagie for his commitment to the LGBTQ community and congratulates him on being granted asylum.

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GLAAD's Southern Stories Summer Tour will kick off in Florida on June 27

GLAAD's Southern Stories Summer Tour will kick off in Florida on June 27

Today, GLAAD announced its second Southern Stories Summer Tour, a summer-long campaign aimed at accelerating LGBT acceptance across the U.S. South. The 2016 tour, supported by national, state and local partners, will kick off in Jacksonville, FL, on June 27 and include stops across Florida, Mississippi, and Alabama, before ending with a week-long trip across Texas. 

“We know that Americans’ attitudes and behavior on LGBT equality are not just influenced by what they see and hear, but also who they know. That’s why our Southern Stories initiative is so important. By telling the stories of LGBT individuals and their allies in the South, hearts and minds are changed,” said Zeke Stokes, GLAAD Vice President of Programs.

The 2015 Southern Stories Tour helped to create connections and amplify the voices of LGBT Southerners. This year, GLAAD elevates the tour from a single week in June to three weeks, spread across the full summer. To view a recap of the 2015 tour, click here

Why the South? Why now?

In late 2014, GLAAD commissioned Harris Poll to measure attitudes towards LGBT Americans. What we found is that even though 2015 had been an historic year for the rights of LGBT Americans, beneath legal and policy progress lies a layer of uneasiness and discomfort. While the public is increasingly embracing LGBT civil rights and equal protection under the law, many are still uncomfortable with having LGBT people in their families and the communities where they live. Within these numbers we find that Southerners feel significantly more discomfort about their LGBT family, friends, and neighbors than is found in other regions of the country.

In 2016, a follow-up GLAAD-commissioned Harris Poll found that Southerners are slightly more unconcerned or unaware of important issues facing the LGBT community than the rest of the country.

Through meeting with community leaders and advocates, hosting public events by and for LGBT community members, and collecting and telling stories of LGBT lives in the South, GLAAD continues to accelerate acceptance in these communities not only on the tour, but year round. 

We hope you will get on board with the GLAAD 2016 Southern Stories Sumemr Tour. For more information, check out glaad.org/summertour.

June 8, 2016

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DoD News Photos posted a photo:

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The DoD wide audience gathers prior to the Department of Defense LGBT Pride Month Event Celebration held on the Pentagon Courtyard, June 8th, 2016. The event is an opportunity for the entire DoD community to come together and celebrate the great diversity of the American people in a festive, affirming atmosphere. President Barack Obama signed a proclamation, May 31, 2016, designating June as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Pride Month. On Sept. 20, 2011, the “don’t ask, don’t tell” repeal went into full implementation, allowing lesbian, gay and bisexual service members to serve openly in the U.S armed forces. (DoD photo)

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When The Dangerously Hot ‘Bad Boy’ Loses His Sex Appeal

When The Dangerously Hot ‘Bad Boy’ Loses His Sex Appeal

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Have you ever met someone you thought was drop-dead sexy, only to get to know them over a period of time and realize you have absolutely no attraction to them in any way, shape or form?

We’ve seen it a million times, which only goes to show how powerful a force our own imaginations are when it comes to what turns us on.

Related: That Awkward Moment When You Realize You Hooked Up With Your Friend’s Boyfriend

There will always be a fantasy that’s more titillating than reality, but if you lose yourself entirely to some idealized version of what you’re looking for, you’ll end up closed off to a world of possibility and pleasure.

OK, this intro got way too serious because the below video from comedian Michael Henry is pretty hysterical.

Watch below:

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Gay Guys Are Having More Open Relationships Than Ever

Gay Guys Are Having More Open Relationships Than Ever

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There’s never been a better time to be alive, queer, and horny! First there was that study showing that people are growing far more likely than ever to have same-sex sexual encounters, and to identify as bisexual. Now there’s another study showing that queers are having more open relationships than ever before.

Is this a good thing? Well, the jury’s still out on that. Short-term, having an open relationship can be a lot of fun, and can mean a lot of sex. But long-term, there are some unique relationship hurdles that our culture doesn’t exactly prepare us for. It’s easy to model behavior on monogamous couples that you see in movies and on TV, but how many healthy happy stable poly guys do you see?

Related: I Don’t: Six Kinds Of Relationships To Try Before, Or Instead Of, Marriage

The research comes from Australia, where a third (!) of respondents said that they were in open relationships. About the same amount said they were monogamous, a quarter said they were just having casual sex, and the rest aren’t getting any ass right now.

Other intriguing findings: half used apps to meet other guys; a third meet guys in bars; and just over a quarter make new friends in saunas. Saunas! Is that an Australian thing, or is this some global gay trend that we’ve missed out on? Saunas used to be a big thing in the United States but we can’t think of the last time any of our friends mentioned going to one.

Related: Guys Reveal How They Really Feel About Open Relationships

And there’s some good news from the survey as well: a doubling in the rate of STI testing. If we’re all having more sex we’ll need to be extra-vigilant about combatting diseases. For example, after International Mr. Leather last weekend, there was a mini-outbreak of severe flu-like symptoms in Chicago. A bunch of attendees wound up hospitalized. But quick testing and quarantines kept the illness under control, and despite a little rumor-mongering about meningitis, everyone seems to be on the mend.

So in terms of physical health, it seems like we’re making some good choices about being in open relationships. But what about emotional health? That’s a much harder quality to gauge. Time will just have to tell whether this means bigger, healthier, happier families; or if the lack of poly visibility leads to heartbreaks and mistakes.

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Whitney Houston Was Bisexual, Says Bobby Brown – VIDEO

Whitney Houston Was Bisexual, Says Bobby Brown – VIDEO

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Whitney Houston was bisexual according to her former husband Bobby Brown, who is coming forward to reveal intimate details about his life with Houston in a new tell-all book.

Us Weekly reports: 

Whitney Houston was long rumored to have had a secret same-sex romance with her best friend and assistant, Robyn Crawford, and Bobby Brown tells Us Weekly in the new issue that it’s all true.

“I know,” Brown, 47, tells Us exclusively of his ex-wife’s relationship with Crawford, 55. “We were married for 14 years. There are some things we talked about that were personal to us.” Houston and Crawford met as teens when they both worked at a community center in East Orange, New Jersey, and Crawford became her assistant and later creative director, traveling the world with the Bodyguard star.

Brown insists that Houston was bisexual and not a lesbian. “I’m a man and she was attracted to me!”, he says.

Brown believes that Houston, denied her relationship with Crawford while alive because she knew her family would disapprove. In 2013, Houston’s mother Cissy Houston told Oprah she would “absolutely” have been disappointed if her daughter had come out to her as gay.

It was the lack of acceptance that Brown believes may have been fatal to Houston. Brown tells Us, “I really feel that if Robyn was accepted into Whitney’s life, Whitney would still be alive today. She didn’t have close friends with her anymore.”

Watch a video from Us on Brown’s relationship with Houston, below.

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Richard Simmons’ Rep: ‘He’s Not Transitioning Into A Woman’ – VIDEO

Richard Simmons’ Rep: ‘He’s Not Transitioning Into A Woman’ – VIDEO

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A representative of celebrity fitness trainer Richard Simmons has denied that Simmons is transitioning to become a woman.

A statement was issued by rep Tom Estey on Wednesday in response to a report from tabloid The National Enquirer which ran a cover story with the headline, “Richard Simmons: He’s Now a Woman!”

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Radar Online made similar claims, suggesting Simmons had been spotted “dressing as a female on occasion.”

The tabloids also speculated about the reason behind Simmons’ trip to the hospital last Friday. Simmons and his rep say he was treated for dehydration. Simmons has been reclusive in recent years after suffering a knee injury and having knee replacement surgery.

PEOPLE reports:

“It’s not true,” Simmons’ rep Tom Estey tells PEOPLE in response to reports about the fitness guru. “He is not transitioning into a woman. He has decided to live quietly the last few years. He had knee surgery a few years ago and has a bum knee. He is still on Twitter and Facebook and works behind the scenes continuing to inspire and motivate people to lose weight. When he decides to come back, he will come back.”

Estey adds, that Simmons “was in the hospital over the weekend for dehydration and was out the next day. He’s a human being. He was in the public eye for over three decades, but he deserves his privacy. He should be able to have a private life. He just needed a break. He is still taking care of the people who need his help.”

Simmons thanked fans for their support, writing on Facebook, 

“Thank you to everyone who has reached out with love and concern after hearing I was in the hospital. I was dehydrated and needed some fluids and now I am feeling great! Summer is here – drink plenty of liquids. Big hugs and kisses for caring. <3″

Watch a report from PEOPLE, below.

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J.K. Simmons Got Totally Swoll for the ‘Justice League’ Movie – PHOTOS

J.K. Simmons Got Totally Swoll for the ‘Justice League’ Movie – PHOTOS

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“61 years old & making the young generation jealous.”

Actor J.K. Simmons is set to play Police Commissioner Gordon in the upcoming Justice League movie and looks ready to fight some baddies. Simmons, who won an Academy Award for his role in Whiplash, already had a noticeably defined physique–exhibit A: those guns in that black t-shirt…

But Simmons is taking it to a new level in training for his role in the upcoming superhero flick. In comic book movies these days, it would seem that even the supporting cast has to be jacked.

Simmons’ trainer, former U.S. Marine Aaron Williamson shared photos of Simmons on Instagram, often declaring himself stunned by Simmons’ strength.

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[h/t Batman-News; SB Nation]

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