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Gay Stereotypes About Tops and Bottoms Get Wrecked – WATCH

Gay Stereotypes About Tops and Bottoms Get Wrecked – WATCH

 

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Stereotypes abound in gay culture. And in a new comedic sketch from Michael Henry, stereotypes about what an archetypal top and bottom look like get smashed.

The video parodies what might happen when two gay friends find out that their other friend is a top–a fact that baffles them because he embodies many of the qualities often associated with gay men who identify as bottoms. That is, in all but one way.

Watch as gay expectations are shattered, below.

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Magician Destroys the Transgender Bathroom Myth with the Help of Peanut Butter and Jelly – WATCH

Magician Destroys the Transgender Bathroom Myth with the Help of Peanut Butter and Jelly – WATCH

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Magician Justin Willman decided to use his magical powers for good and help educate America on why the transgender bathroom myth is a bunch of bullsh**.

Willman suggests that transgender bathroom rights really isn’t a complicated issue. And neither is gender identity. In fact, they are so simple that they can be explained with peanut butter and jelly.

Imagine, for instance, that a peanut butter jar was actually filled with jelly, and that a jelly jar was filled with peanut butter. While the jar in each case may not match its contents, the contents themselves do not change. The peanut butter is still peanut butter even though it’s in a jelly jar.

Says Willman, “I guess it doesn’t matter what it says on the jar. If it’s got peanut butter in it we should just show it some god-damned respect and call it peanut butter because it didn’t choose the jar.”

Get the picture?

RELATED: Debunking the Dangerous Myth Behind America’s Anti-LGBT ‘Bathroom Bills’ – WATCH 

Willman adds,

“I know this seems so simple but there are some f**king idiots out there who just can’t comprehend this. They think that the peanut butter is going to pretend to be jelly just so it can sneak over here and listen to the jelly pee and just jerk off–that’s not what this is about, Dad! If it’s peanut butter, let it pee with peanut butter. And if it’s jelly, let it pee with jelly.”

Watch, below.

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It Was Romance premieres music video with LGBT spin on 90's classic

It Was Romance premieres music video with LGBT spin on 90's classic

Comedian, journalist, and musician Lane Moore and her band It Was Romance released a music video for their latest single, “Hooking Up With Girls.” The new video is a shot-for-shot remake of the Fiona Apple’s iconic music video for her song “Criminal” in the 1990’s, but It Was Romance remakes it from a queer perspective. It Was Romance’s video has caught the attention of several leading outlets, including Billboard, NylonJezebelOutAfter Ellen, Refinery 29,and Curve

Moore’s career has taken her in many different directions, from comedy and acting, to music and writing. However, no matter what creative medium she is working in, she incorporates queer advocacy in almost everything she does.  

“Some of it is conscious, but a lot of it isn’t,” she said. “My band’s debut album, It Was Romance, which this song [‘Hooking Up With Girls’] is from, has songs on it that I wrote about men and some I wrote about women. When I wrote these songs I wrote them because I was feeling the same feelings any other song writer feels when they write a song.”

It was also important to the band to add queer elements to their remake of Fiona Apple’s video.

“I’ve always been obsessed with ’90s music videos and Fiona has been a lifelong musical inspiration for me,” Moore said. “The Criminal song and video are both so evocative of something sexy and frustrated and angry and confused, all of which were themes in ‘Hooking Up With Girls,’ so to recreate that and tie in the queer element of the song just seemed like the most exciting thing to do!”

The video was also created entirely by a diverse crew of queer people and people of color, showing the importance of diversity both in front of and behind the camera. Moore explained that because the band is already made up of people of color and queer people, it made most sense for the crew and actors in the video to reflect that.

Outside of her music career, Moore recently served as the Sex & Romance editor of Cosmopolitan when the magazine won the GLAAD Media Award for Outstanding Magazine Overall Coverage this past May, where she helped to achieve greater visibility for the LGBT community.

“Winning that award meant everything to me,” Moore said. “When I came to Cosmopolitan I wanted to make it LGBT-inclusive and body positive and to talk about gender and sexuality and love and all of these things I wish I’d been able to see in a mainstream magazine. We’re all just people who have crushes and feelings so there’s no reason there should be ‘Oh, this is for straight people, and this is for queer people.’ I’d love to see that gap continue to narrow.”

As for the music industry, Moore believes that the best way to promote queer visibility is to support queer artists.

“It’s so important for queer people to support their own,” she said. “Buy music by LGBT artists, watch films by LGBT people, go like Facebook and Twitter pages by LGBT performers. I’ve started a Patreon for that reason, to allow people who like what I’m doing and want to directly support it to be able to do that. There are a lot of queer people and people of color doing things like this and I think it’s so valuable to lift each other up any way we can.”

Watch It Was Romance’s new video for their song “Hooking Up With Girls” below! The band’s new album can be purchased or streamed on iTunes, Bandcamp or Spotify.

 

August 2, 2016

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Ride along (virtually) as GLAAD takes the Southern Stories Summer Tour to Texas

Ride along (virtually) as GLAAD takes the Southern Stories Summer Tour to Texas

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GLAAD continues its Southern Stories Summer Tour next week in Texas. Throughout the trip, GLAAD will be facilitating conversations with local advocacy leaders about accelerating acceptance and amplifying the voices of LGBT people in the South. We will share resources, and listen to the stories of everyday LGBT Texans.

The Summer Tour begins in Houston on August 9, with a teaser preview of the upcoming short documentary “GLAAD Presents: State of Change – Texas” at the Montrose Center. We will also hear from a panel of LGBT leaders in Houston who are featured in the film. Panelists include Fran Watson, President of the Houston GLBT Political Caucus; Lou Weaver, Statewide Transgender Programs Coordinator for Equality Texas; Andrea Molina, Director of the Organización Latina de Trans de Texas; and Janet Quezada, Senior Strategist, Spanish Language and Latino Media at GLAAD. Panel will be moderated by Ross Murray, Director of Programs, Global and US South at GLAAD. RSVP for the event here.

GLAAD staff will also unveil a new resource guide for journalists and media organizations and LGBT leaders, “Southern Stories – A Guide for Reporting on LGBT People in Texas.” The guide provides a timeline of LGBT highlights, terms and definitions, pitfalls to avoid, organizations and experts on given topics, as well as story ideas for innovative, fair, and inclusive reporting. GLAAD collaborated with Equality Texas in the creation of the resource guide.

On August 12, GLAAD will visit the youth living in Pride Home in Edinburg. We’ll share a sneak peek of “State of Change – Texas” and talk to the residents about their perception of being LGBT in Texas. Pride Home has just opened home that will provide emergency housing for LGBT youth in the Rio Grande Valley. Joining us for conversation would be Amanda Robinson, the founder of Real Live Connection, a non-profit based in Dallas that is dedicated to providing positive development and life-enhancing programs to LGBT teens.

Finally, GLAAD will end the tour at the Aquí Estamos Conference in McAllen. In addition to attending the conference, GLAAD will screen a teaser of “State of Change – Texas”, followed by a panel of LGBT leaders who were filmed at the 2015 conference for the documentary. Panelists include Anel Flores, author of Empanada: A Lesbiana Story en Probaditas; and Robert Salcido, Regional Field Coordinator for Equality Texas. GLAAD’s Janet Quezada will moderate. RSVP for the event here.

The Southern Stories Summer Tour is part of GLAAD’s Southern Stories initiative, which aims to positively showcase the lives of, and build acceptance for, the LGBT community in southern states. This is done through sharing the stories of people from a wide array of backgrounds, including faith-based organizations, sports teams, military personnel, and more. Partners on the Texas tour include Equality Texas, The Montrose Center, Youth Pride Home, and the Aquí Estamos Conference.

To view the full schedule in detail, click here.

August 2, 2016

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Christopher Biggins, Renee Graziano’s “Big Brother” Biphobia Causes Backlash

Christopher Biggins, Renee Graziano’s “Big Brother” Biphobia Causes Backlash

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Christopher Biggins and Renee Graziano. Photo via Big Brother, YouTube.

Celebrity “Big Brother” housemates Christopher Biggins and Renee Graziano competed recently to see who could be the bigger biphobe. In a fierce competition, they pretty much tied for worst.

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Actor and television presenter Biggins asked “Mob Wives” star Graziano what her feelings were on gay people.

“I think it’s beautiful because it’s who you are and I think it’s natural,” she said. “But I think today in society, I think they kind of force things on people and confuse you.”

Related: Zach Rance On “Big Brother” Showmance: “Sexuality Doesn’t Define You”

“I think the worst type though, I’m afraid to say, is the bisexuals,” Biggins added.

“That upsets me,” Grazino said. “You have to pick a team.”

“Yeah,” Biggins said. “What it is, is people not wanting to admit they’re gay.”

“Please pick a team!” Graziano pleads. “You can pick any one you want.”

“I know, I agree,” Biggins said. “I totally agree.

Related: Former “Big Brother” Winner Says He Was Kicked Off Show For Being HIV-Positive

Yeah, just pick a team. So long as that team perfectly conforms to their false dichotomy where everyone is on one end of the spectrum or the other, despite what social science has taught us over the decades about the complexities of human sexuality.

Ironically, they seem unaware that what they are doing, displaying the type of biphobia that anyone not on “Team Gay” or “Team Straight” often receive from both communities, is the exact reason that few people pretend at being bisexual for very long.

It quickly becomes evident that identifying as bisexual is not going to make your life any easier and that it is probably easier to just identify as gay.

Unless, of course, you are legitimately bisexual and want to live your truth, in spite of the rampant biphobia present in society.

Related: “Big Brother 15” Houseguest David Girton Is Now Doing Porn On Twitter

The comments are inspiring many to join team “F*ck you, Biggins and Graziano.”

I hope the conversation between Biggins and Renee invalidating bisexuality causes controversy because that shouldn’t go under the radar #CBB

— tom (@thomas__don) August 1, 2016

It’s shocking for me especially as Biggins ‘supports’ the LG(B)T community! Cmon … he should know better #CBB t.co/WqzZLMzheV

— Lloyd Daniels (@LloydDanielsUK) August 1, 2016

Oh Biggins #CBB pic.twitter.com/X8UM7bSQap

— Becky Bedbug (@BeckyBedbug) August 1, 2016

@bbuk can renee and biggins pls get a warning for their biphobic discussion, they’d receive one if it was homophobic or racist

cam / 31 (@OAKLEYSUPPERLIP) August 1, 2016

Disgusted at the attitudes of Renee and Biggins towards bisexuality ? #cbb

— Sophie Collacott (@s0phiecollacott) August 1, 2016

Oh my gosh! Shocked at Biggins blatant biphobia on #CBB wtf?!

— Juno Dawson (@junodawson) August 1, 2016

My opinion of Renee and Biggins has significantly altered. Sorry hun, “pick a team,” really? That is SO offensive. #LGBT #CBB

— Naomi (@NJRalph1) August 1, 2016

well i hate biggins & renee now! they can rot 🙂 #cbbuk

— ash (@ashlikesbands) August 1, 2016

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Trump Repeatedly Accuses New York Times Of Not “Writing Good”

Trump Repeatedly Accuses New York Times Of Not “Writing Good”

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Donald Trump caricature by DonkeyHotey, CC 2.0.

“The media is very unfair,” Trump told a crowd of rubes yesterday, “No matter how good I do on something, they’ll never write good.”

Well, he would know, wouldn’t he?

It’s always so hard to know if Trump knows what he’s doing. Could anyone actually be such a thick, crowing moron? He’s like a parody character in a second-rate improv show.

He even repeated his stupid grammar: “They don’t write good. They have people over there, like Maggie Haberman and others, they don’t — they don’t write good,” he said. “They don’t know how to write good.”

This has gotta be a joke, right?

And yet the dummies who believe that he’s a leader, and not simply a rich idiot with no ideas, are still lapping up his rhetoric. They don’t read the New York Times; they don’t like the New York Times; they don’t care that he can’t put together a proper sentence. What does Trump have to lose by attacking a newspaper?

He later threatened to pull the NY Times‘ credentials, which would make it a lot harder for the paper to cover him. His complaint: the paper isn’t reporting fairly or accurately. This may be part of a longer strategy to have someone to blame when he loses the election: he can claim in November that the election was rigged and unfair, and he would have won if not for media bias.

Because of course, nothing bad that happens to Donald is ever Donald’s fault. He’s a perfect man who never does anything wrong, a precious little baby prince.

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Lesbian Drama, Legal Battles and ‘The Little Prince’ Streaming In August

Lesbian Drama, Legal Battles and ‘The Little Prince’ Streaming In August

Streaming movies this month include Legally Blonde

Looking for something to stream while you Netflix and chill? Check out our picks for new additions to streaming services this month below, including gay love stories Holding The Man and Blue Is the Warmest Color.

Holding The Man (2015), Available on Netflix August 1

Timothy Conigrave’s memoir gets an emotional film adaptation in this sweeping gay Australian love story. Holding The Man chronicles Conigrave’s 15-year relationship with John Caleo while portraying the coming out process and the AIDS crisis against a backdrop of the 1970s and ‘80s.

Capote (2005), Available on HBO Now August 1

The late Philip Seymour Hoffman’s Oscar-winning turn as iconic gay author Truman Capote in this drama chronicling his writing of In Cold Blood, a sort of pre-cursor to The Jinx and Making A Murderer.

Legally Blonde (2001), Available on Hulu August 1

Now’s your chance to perfect your bend and snap! Reese Witherspoon’s classic comedy hits Hulu in all its wonderful pink glory. Cast includes gay faves like Victor Garber, Holland Taylor, Jennifer Coolidge and Ali Larter. (OK, maybe Ali Larter is a stretch, but have you seen Obsessed? Come on.)

The Little Prince (2016), Available on Netflix August 5

One of the most beloved children’s books ever, Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s The Little Prince is brought to life with stunning animation, featuring the voices of Rachel McAdams, Marion Cotillard, Jeff Bridges, Paul Rudd, James Franco and more. While not an expressly LGBT film, the fable will resonate with anyone who’s ever looked at the adult world and did’t understand why we do the things we do.

Blue Is the Warmest Color (2013), Available on Netflix August 26

Lauded for its raw realism (and notable for the graphic sex scenes that earned the film an NC-17 rating), this critical darling was the first film to win the Palme d’Or at Cannes for both its director and its actresses. The French film follows young lovers Adèle and Emma from the beginning of their high-school romance into their turbulent adult relationship.

The State Of Marriage (2015), Available on Netflix August 29

Same-sex marriage may be the reality across the country today, but you can trace its roots to lawyers Mary Bonauto, Susan Murray, and Beth Robinson in Vermont. This documentary tells the story of the struggle behind Vermont Supreme Court case Baker v. Vermont, and reminds us how different things were not too long ago.

What are you streaming this month?

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