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Lady Gaga Previews New Track ‘Perfect Illusion’ – WATCH

Lady Gaga Previews New Track ‘Perfect Illusion’ – WATCH

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Lady Gaga on Thursday previewed her new track, “Perfect Illusion”, which is set to debut tomorrow, September 9.

The song is the first new single from Gaga in nearly three years. “Perfect Illusion” pairs Gaga with collaborators Mark Ronson, Tame Impala’s Kevin Parker and Blood Pop.

Listen, below.

Sept 9 #PERFECTILLUSION @MarkRonson @tameimpala @bloodpop t.co/EZJbgqsoUH pic.twitter.com/DzKKs6HUj7

— Lady Gaga (@ladygaga) September 8, 2016

Gaga previously teased this image, perhaps a still from a forthcoming music video, to promote “Perfect Illusion.”

LADY GAGA / PERFECT ILLUSION
NEW SINGLE
SEPT 9 pic.twitter.com/QU5mAzgii8

— Lady Gaga (@ladygaga) September 6, 2016

Lady Gaga also tweeted out four lines of lyrics to the song:

I DON’T NEED EYES TO SEE
I FELT YOU TOUCHIN’ ME
HIGH LIKE AMPHETAMINE
MAYBE YOU’RE JUST A DREAM #PerfectIllusion pic.twitter.com/6dzlTrQlrp

— Lady Gaga (@ladygaga) September 7, 2016

[h/t ONTD]

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Washington Spirit Owner Blocks Players from Hearing National Anthem So Megan Rapinoe Can’t Protest

Washington Spirit Owner Blocks Players from Hearing National Anthem So Megan Rapinoe Can’t Protest

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On Wednesday night, Bill Lynch, the owner of the Washington Spirit soccer team, took it upon himself to personally thwart protest of the National Anthem by FC Reign star Megan Rapinoe, and broadcast the national anthem while teams were in the locker room.

This prevented Rapinoe from refusing to stand during it, as she did on Sunday night in solidarity with 49ers star Colin Kaepernick. Kaepernick has been refusing to stand as a protest of the nation’s treatment of black people, and Rapinoe said she was also doing it for gay people.

The NY Post reports:

Rapinoe, a US national team member who plays for the Seattle Reign, and members of both teams warmed up for about 25 minutes following a rain delay. They then left the field before the anthem and returned shortly after for the start of the game.

On Sunday Rapinoe said:

“It was very intentional. It was a little nod to Kaepernick and everything that he’s standing for right now. I think it’s actually pretty disgusting the way he was treated and the way that a lot of the media has covered it and made it about something that it absolutely isn’t. We need to have a more thoughtful, two-sided conversation about racial issues in this country.

“Being a gay American, I know what it means to look at the flag and not have it protect all of your liberties. It was something small that I could do and something that I plan to keep doing in the future and hopefully spark some meaningful conversation around it. It’s important to have white people stand in support of people of color on this. We don’t need to be the leading voice, of course, but standing in support of them is something that’s really powerful.”

Lynch wasn’t having it, and sent out a lengthy press release about the same time he broadcast the national anthem, which you can read below:

Statement from Washington Spirit owner Bill Lynch on decision to play national anthem with teams not on field. #NWSL pic.twitter.com/RKgkIyvHUb

— Jeff Kassouf (@JeffKassouf) September 7, 2016

Lynch said he was preventing fans and friends from being subject to disrespect from Rapinoe, and said he objected to her “hijacking” the national anthem for “a personal – albeit worthy – cause.”

Lynch explained that as a veteran-owned team, he couldn’t allow it.

Rapinoe reacted in an interview with the Washington Post:

“I didn’t hear it and I wasn’t exactly sure why it wasn’t played. It’s [expletive] unbelievable. Saddened by it. It’s pretty clear what the message is I am trying to bring to light in Chicago and what I continue to try to talk about the last few days. Clearly with [Spirit owner Bill Lynch’s] actions, it’s a necessary conversation. It was incredibly distasteful, four days before one of the worst tragedies in our country, to say that I tried to hijack this event. … It’s just really disappointing and disrespectful. We want to talk about disrespect, and me disrespecting, he didn’t even give both teams a chance to even stand in front of it and show their respects. It’s unbelievable. It’s truly an unbelievable act to me.”

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Hillary Clinton Shares Powerful Story with Humans of New York About Why You Might Think She’s ‘Cold’

Hillary Clinton Shares Powerful Story with Humans of New York About Why You Might Think She’s ‘Cold’

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Hillary Clinton sat down to be photographed by the popular Facebook account Humans of New York and got personal about the public perception that she is ‘cold’ and ‘unemotional.’

Clinton opened up about what it was like as young woman attempting to enter the legal world, a world that at the time was not only predominantly male but also hostile to women entering its ranks:

“I was taking a law school admissions test in a big classroom at Harvard. My friend and I were some of the only women in the room. I was feeling nervous. I was a senior in college. I wasn’t sure how well I’d do. And while we’re waiting for the exam to start, a group of men began to yell things like: ‘You don’t need to be here.’ And ‘There’s plenty else you can do.’ It turned into a real ‘pile on.’ One of them even said: ‘If you take my spot, I’ll get drafted, and I’ll go to Vietnam, and I’ll die.’ And they weren’t kidding around. It was intense. It got very personal. But I couldn’t respond. I couldn’t afford to get distracted because I didn’t want to mess up the test. So I just kept looking down, hoping that the proctor would walk in the room. I know that I can be perceived as aloof or cold or unemotional. But I had to learn as a young woman to control my emotions. And that’s a hard path to walk. Because you need to protect yourself, you need to keep steady, but at the same time you don’t want to seem ‘walled off.’ And sometimes I think I come across more in the ‘walled off’ arena. And if I create that perception, then I take responsibility. I don’t view myself as cold or unemotional. And neither do my friends. And neither does my family. But if that sometimes is the perception I create, then I can’t blame people for thinking that.”

RELATED: Hillary Clinton Offers Support To Young Gay Boy in Viral Facebook Photo

Clinton’s letter of sorts to Humans of New York comes just a day after Republicans accused her of appearing”angry”, “defensive”, and not smiley enough during Wednesday night’s Commander in Chief Forum on MSNBC.

@HillaryClinton was angry + defensive the entire time – no smile and uncomfortable – upset that she was caught wrongly sending our secrets.

— Reince Priebus (@Reince) September 8, 2016

Clinton responded to that criticism with her usual aplomb.

Actually, that’s just what taking the office of President seriously looks like. t.co/Pyn92mesom

— Hillary Clinton (@HillaryClinton) September 8, 2016

Last night, Trump chose to talk about his deep admiration and support for Putin.

Maybe he did it with a smile. pic.twitter.com/IjcqT5Z4KZ

— Hillary Clinton (@HillaryClinton) September 8, 2016

She’s certainly smiling now.

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She Watched Her Boyfriend Have Sex With A Guy. Now, The Spark Is Gone.

She Watched Her Boyfriend Have Sex With A Guy. Now, The Spark Is Gone.

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Sometimes an open mind is all you need to tear your life asunder. A young woman thought she’d see how the swinging side lives, and found herself in gooey unchartered territory that turned her every waking moment into a steamy cesspool of uncertainty.

Related: What It’s Really Like To Date A Bi Guy

Seeking out advice on Reddit, a certain Forreasons-throwaway sings her song of woe. Take it away, “Forreasons-throwaway”:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Our relationship, in general, is really good. He suggested a MMF threesome, saying that he would like to also try things with the other guy. We did it. The threesome was going really well at first but at one point the guy we did it with engaged my boyfriend in anal sex. I had no idea that my boyfriend wanted it to go that far and it was a huge shock to me – I thought he only wanted to try soft-core type stuff. Seeing him in that position… was quite unattractive to say the least. I am having a lot of trouble seeing him the same way I saw him beforehand and I really need some advice.”

They wanted to try this experiment with a stranger, so they found a guy online. Things started off awkward, then they got hot. And then they got soul-bendingly awkward.

“It became clear that John was trying to have anal sex with him,” she writes. “It was at this point that my bf rolled off me onto the bed beside me. I expected him to be angry, but he simply laid back with his eyes tightly closed…. As it went on, my boyfriend just pulled me really tightly to his chest and made quiet grunts until John finished.”

Related: Would You Date Someone Who Identifies As Bisexual?

Things have changed. Now she feels “really conflicted.” She didn’t think he was “that type of guy.” It’s all been “incredibly jarring”.

“Seeing him laying there on his back, quietly moaning, while being penetrated by another guy… it was just… not attractive?”

(Are you sure…?)

Now it’s been three weeks and she “can’t get the memories out of my head.” She’s having trouble seeing him the way she used to. As Bat For Lashes once asked, What’s a girl to do?

Related: Would All The Bisexual Men Please Stand Up?

As you might have predicted, Reddit commentators had much to say. (The post has been locked due to the overwhelming amount of comments that broke Reddit rules.)

“Bad communication led you and him there,” scolds LV106.

Invader_zero agrees. “You really should have discussed boundaries before you did anything.”

“If you leave him just known that you’re not wrong for doing so,” says WillWorkForLTC.

“It comes off to me as a little homophobic,” says wantsemall. “Sort of a ‘oh, he’s not one of those kinds’ vibe. There might be a good opportunity here for you to unpack how you feel about that.”

“This is one of those really, really normal pitfalls encountered by people who are first trying nonmonogamy,” writes andthecrash. “Did he have the anal sex planned in advance? If so, he should have communicated that better to you.”

On and on.

Anyway. Obviously threesomes can be consciousness-raising adventures in self-exploration and even reinvigorate a relationship that’s getting a little pain-by-numbers. They can also be meh, whut, or blecch. And sometimes they’re a good way to weed out garden-variety narcissists and sociopaths, who can be relied upon to use triangulation as an airy ploy to keep themselves at the center of attention and turn everyone into a big mess.

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Libertarian Candidate Gary Johnson Appears Confused, Incoherent in Lobby After Aleppo Gaffe – WATCH

Libertarian Candidate Gary Johnson Appears Confused, Incoherent in Lobby After Aleppo Gaffe – WATCH

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Libertarian presidential nominee Gary Johnson appeared incoherent and confused when questioned in the lobby of Rockefeller Center immediately following his “What is Aleppo?” interview on Morning Joe.

As previously reported, when asked by journalist Mike Barnicle about the situation in Aleppo, Johnson responded with a question of his own: “What is Aleppo?”

That left Barnicle and anyone watching stunned. “You’re kidding,” Barnicle replied.

After Johnson explained that he wasn’t kidding, Barnicle explained, “Aleppo is in Syria. It’s the epicenter of the refugee crisis.”

ICYMI – ‘What is Aleppo?’ – Libertarian Candidate Gary Johnson Stuns MSNBC Hosts with Foreign Policy Fail: WATCH

Following that interview, Bloomberg Politics reporters and With All Due Respect host Mark Halperin got a hold of Johnson to try and get some clarification from Johnson.

Halperin asked Johnson, “Is it a gotcha thing?…In retrospect do you know it?” It being Aleppo.

Johnson’s response was meandering and not entirely cogent:

“Well, when you recognize what’s going in in Syria, when you recognize that Aleppo is in the kind of in the epicenter–Aleppo! Not knowing that there’s a city in between the two forces really at the epicenter of the–but not remembering or identifying that that’s Aleppo, guilty.”

Halperin again tried for clarification: “But in retrospect, is this a town you know?”

Johnson dodged that question and instead went into a story about a similar incident that happened to him when he was running for Governor of New Mexico.

RELATED: Bloodied Young Boy Becomes Face of Suffering in Aleppo

Johnson added, “I’m incredibly frustrated with myself.” Johnson also conceded that his “What is Aleppo?” comment should be considered a big flap. “I understand the significance,” Johnson said. “No one is taking this more seriously than me. I feel horrible.”

As for what will happen next, Johnson told Halperin, “I have to get smarter. And that’s just part of the process.”

When asked if he has heard from his running mate Bill Weld following his Morning Joe appearance, Johsnon was confused. He asked Halperin,”Regarding?”

“This,” Halperin replied.

Johnson didn’t seem to get why he might have heard from Weld.

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Star Trek’s Chris Pine Beams Up a Few Thoughts on Gay Sulu: ‘Amen…It’s About F–king Time’

Star Trek’s Chris Pine Beams Up a Few Thoughts on Gay Sulu: ‘Amen…It’s About F–king Time’

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Chris Pine talks to The Hollywood Reporter about Star Trek Beyond‘s gay Sulu controversy in its September 16 issue.

Said Pine to the magazine:

“Amen, man. It’s about f—ing time. The fact that there’s still a conversation about it means that there’s still room to go in terms of it being normalized….My only rebuttal to George Takei — no matter what kind of creative differences he had about Sulu being gay, and I can understand his creative differences — is the fact that our job is to make people feel less alone. If there’s one kid in Middle America who feels any amount of self-loathing because he feels different, or is being bullied because he feels different or looks different or sounds different, if our film can give him solace and make him or her feel less alone, then abso-effin-loutely we should do it all the time, every day of the week.”

After news emerged in July that John Cho’s Sulu would be revealed as gay, George Takei, who played Mr. Sulu in the original series, called it a “really unfortunate” turn of events.

Takei told The Hollywood Reporter that he had tried to convince Pegg and director Justin Lin that it was a bad idea.

“I told him, ‘Be imaginative and create a character who has a history of being gay, rather than Sulu, who had been straight all this time, suddenly being revealed as being closeted,” said Takei.

Takei’s statements caused immediate reaction from screenwriter Simon Pegg, who also plays Scotty, who said he “respectfully disagreed” with Takei, and Zachary Quinto, who plays Spock, who said he was “disappointed” by Takei’s reaction.

Pegg expressed sympathy with Takei’s sentiment that mainstream gay heroes were belatedly coming to the big screen, but rejected the idea that this meant a new character needed creating.

“He’s right, it is unfortunate, it’s unfortunate that the screen version of the most inclusive, tolerant universe in science fiction hasn’t featured an LGBT character until now. We could have introduced a new gay character, but he or she would have been primarily defined by their sexuality, seen as the ‘gay character’, rather than simply for who they are, and isn’t that tokenism?”

Pegg continued: “Justin Lin, Doug Jung and I loved the idea of it being someone we already knew because the audience have a pre-existing opinion of that character as a human being, unaffected by any prejudice. Their sexual orientation is just one of many personal aspects, not the defining characteristic. Also, the audience would infer that there has been an LGBT presence in the Trek Universe from the beginning (at least in the Kelvin timeline), that a gay hero isn’t something new or strange. It’s also important to note that at no point do we suggest that our Sulu was ever closeted, why would he need to be? It’s just hasn’t come up before.”

Added Pegg: “The viewing audience weren’t open minded enough at the time and it must have forced Roddenberry to modulate his innovation. His mantra was always ‘infinite diversity in infinite combinations’. If he could have explored Sulu’s sexuality with George, he no doubt would have. Roddenberry was a visionary and a pioneer but we choose our battles carefully.”

Takei has since set the record straight about his thoughts:

Good morning from Montana! I’ve been here relaxing on vacation, but have noticed that many of you have been following the “gay Sulu” story and wanted to know why I’m being such a sourpuss. I’m writing to set the record “straight,” if you will.

When the news first broke, I gave a lengthy telephone interview, but the headlines have been misleading. Apparently, controversy makes for better sales! Let me be clear: I am not disappointed that there is a gay character in Star Trek. On the contrary, as I made clear, I am delighted that the Star Trek franchise has addressed this issue, which is truly one of diversity. It is thrilling to know that future generations will not see LGBTs go wholly unrepresented in the Trek universe.

On the specific question of Sulu being gay, when I was first approached with the concept, I responded that I hoped instead that Gene Roddenberry’s original characters and their backgrounds would be respected. How exciting it would be instead if a new hero might be created, whose story could be fleshed out from scratch, rather than reinvented. To me, this would have been even more impactful. While I understand that we are in an alternate timeline with the new Trek movies, for me it seemed less than necessary to tinker with an existing character in order to fulfill Gene’s hope of a truly diverse Trek universe. And while I am flattered that the character of Sulu apparently was selected as an homage to me, this was never about me or what I wanted. It was about being true to Gene’s vision and storytelling.

Gene had wanted long ago to include LGBT characters, and we spoke personally and specifically about the lack of them. Gene understandably felt constrained by the sensitivities of the time. Some fifty years ago, even TV’s first interracial kiss, between Kirk and Uhura, caused our ratings to plummet as the show was censored across much of the South for that scene. Gene made a conscious decision to make the main characters heterosexual, and worked within those parameters to tell incredible stories that still challenged many cultural values of the time. So the lack of gay characters was not some oversight by him; it was a conscious decision with which he grappled. I loved Gene as a friend, and I respected his decision and the context under which he created these stories. On this 50th year anniversary of Star Trek, my hope was to honor his foresight and bravery, as well as his ability to create discussion and diversity despite these constraints.

But Star Trek has always pushed the boundaries and opened new opportunities for actors, including myself. I am eternally grateful to have been part of this incredible and continuing family. I wish John Cho well in the role I once played, and congratulate Simon Pegg on his daring and groundbreaking storytelling. While I would have gone with the development of a new character in this instance, I do fully understand and appreciate what they are doing—as ever, boldly going where no one has gone before. Star Trek will live long and prosper.

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Jeffrey Tambor Said a Man Came After Him in the Airport Over His Role in ‘Transparent’ – WATCH

Jeffrey Tambor Said a Man Came After Him in the Airport Over His Role in ‘Transparent’ – WATCH

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Jeffrey Tambor told Seth Meyers on last night’s Late Night with Seth Meyers that he was getting off a plane in the airport when a man pointed, approached him, and grabbed him because of his role as transgender matriarch Maura Pfeffermen in Transparent.

RELATED: What Makes Amazon’s ‘Transparent’ So Special?

Tambor says he thought the man was going to “lay [him] out” and was surprised when after being grabbed the man said, “Thank you. Thank you for teaching me about something I did not know.”

Adds Tambor:

“The world is changing. They’re not going to stand for this hatred. They’re not going to stand for this nonsense and this misgendering and all of this crap. It’s a brand new world.”

Watch:

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