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HB2 Fallout Continues in North Carolina

HB2 Fallout Continues in North Carolina

As North Carolina Governor Pat McCrory and Republican legislative leaders continue to face intense public backlash over the damaging consequences of HB2, they have mounted a second effort to bully Charlotte into repealing its citywide LGBTQ protections as part of a so-called “reset.”

Meanwhile, HRC, Equality NC and allies in the business community held a press conference this morning in Charlotte to denounce this ploy for what it is: an effort to smear Charlotte and cast blame elsewhere for the devastating impact of HB2 — which now includes the loss of NCAA, ACC and NBA championship games.

Leading North Carolina editorial boards are already speaking out against the thinly-veiled proposal: The Charlotte Observer called it “a step backward, both symbolically and practically” and urged the City Council not to “sell out” Charlotte’s LGBTQ community. And WRAL put it just as bluntly: “The problems that have befallen North Carolina after the hasty and poorly conceived passage of HB2 fall squarely on the shoulders of Gov. McCrory and the legislature’s leadership. They should have the conscience and integrity to repeal the bill, acknowledge and apologize for the terrible consequences at their hands and move on. Charlotte should change nothing.”

This morning, Mayor Jennifer Roberts said the issue would not be on the Council’s agenda tonight, saying “the state should overturn HB2, which the state can do at any time without any action from the City of Charlotte.”

Here are six reasons this “reset” is a setback (and a generally terrible idea):

  1. It wouldn’t fix the problem. The NCAA announced earlier this year it would not locate future events in cities without nondiscrimination protections. Without Charlotte’s nondiscrimination ordinance in place, North Carolina will not win back games.
  2. It pre-supposes that both the NCGA and Pat McCrory will hold up their end of the bargain. Confidence level: zero.
  3. It would leave the LGBTQ community worse off. HB2 will be repealed one way or another — and when it is, the LGBTQ community in Charlotte deserves the nondiscrimination protections it’s elected leaders campaigned on and passed.
  4. It’s a brazen attempt to saddle Charlotte with the political blame for McCrory’s mistake. The Charlotte City Council has steadfastly championed LGBTQ equality in the face of months of bullying by Governor McCrory and his allies — and they’re winning. Rescinding the ordinance would not only be pointless (see #1 & 2) it would create the impression Charlotte bears responsibility for this fiasco.
  5. With 50 days until Election Day, voters are prepared to elect a Governor and new state legislative leaders who will simply repeal HB2. This is, of course, why McCrory and his allies are suddenly talking about a “reset” in the first place.
  6. More than 135 million Americans — or 42 percent of the country — live in city’s with ordinances like Charlotte. Far from suggestions by McCrory and his allies, until HB2 overturned Charlotte’s ordinance, the city was in very good company. In fact, 19 states, the District of Columbia, and more than 100 major American cities, including Atlanta, Dallas, Cincinnati, Indianapolis and Pittsburgh all have these protections.

Transgender Americans Infographic

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“Gender-Fluid” Added to Oxford English Dictionary

“Gender-Fluid” Added to Oxford English Dictionary

More than 1,000 words have been added to the Oxford English Dictionary (OED) in 2016, and among them is “gender-fluid.” “Gender-fluid” is used to describe “a person who does not identify with a single fixed gender; of or relating to a person having or expressing a fluid or unfixed gender identity.”

The term “gender-fluid” has been used for many years by the LGBTQ community, but its addition to the dictionary sends a message to a larger audience.

“Adding words about our identities, ideas, and community to the dictionary is a powerful gesture that helps young queer people know that they are valued, loved, and affirmed by the world around them,” said HRC supporter Jacob Tobia, host of NBC OUT’s “Queer 2.0.”

What’s more, inclusion of the term in the OED reinforces legitimacy for those who are unfamiliar with it or question its validity.

The editors of the world’s most prestigious English language dictionary have long recognized that the publication must be constantly updated to reflect the evolution of the language. There’s no doubt that increased visibility of people who identify as gender-fluid, such as Ruby Rose, have helped to accelerate the wider acceptance of the term.

OED editor Katherine Martin echoed this, telling Time that the “speed at which the English language is expanding” to accommodate different gender identities is the most thrilling for her to observe.

The full definition of gender-fluid in the Oxford English Dictionary is as follows:

“(a) (in early use) not clearly or wholly male or female; androgynous; (b) designating a person who does not identify with a single fixed gender; of or relating to a person having or expressing a fluid or unfixed gender identity (now the usual sense).”

Learn more at HRC’s Glossary of Terms

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HRC Celebrates #BiWeek

HRC Celebrates #BiWeek

Today, HRC marks the start of Bisexual Awareness Week, also known as #BiWeek. The week will culminate on Friday with Bisexuality Day.

A bisexual person is someone who can be attracted to more than one gender, and studies show that as much as half of the lesbian, gay and bisexual population identify as bisexual. In other words, bisexual–– or bi –– people comprise the largest single group in the LGBTQ community.

As bisexual people continue to gain visibility and awareness through advocates and leaders such as Anna Paquin, Shane Dawson, Oregon Governor Kate Brown, Alan Cumming, Stephanie Beatriz and Evan Rachel Wood, it is vital to remain cognizant about the issues facing the bisexual community.

For example, compared to other groups in the LGBTQ community, bisexuals face striking rates of poor health outcomes ranging from cancer and obesity to sexually transmitted infections to mental health problems. Additionally, bisexual youth face a unique set of challenges that affect their ability to flourish in their families, schools and communities.

Stay tuned to HRC’s blog to learn more about Bisexual Awareness Week and check out hrc.org/bisexual for more information about the community and the issues it currently faces.

What does it mean to be bisexual? How many people are bisexual? What concerns do bisexual people have? Check out these answers to some basic questions about bisexuality.

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Transgender models "Strut" onto Oxygen

Transgender models "Strut" onto Oxygen

Photo credit: Oxygen

The new original series Strut, premiering September 20 at 9 p.m. ET/PT on Oxygen, promises viewers an all-access pass into the lives of transgender models (l-r) Dominique Jackson, Ren Spriggs, Laith De La Cruz, Isis King, and Arisce Wanzer as they aspire to make a name for themselves in the fashion industry with the help of Slay Model Management, the world’s first exclusively transgender modeling agency.

Whoopi Goldberg, the show’s executive producer commented, “This show is important right now because for all of the positive advances the community has made and continues to make, transgender is still a hot-button word that gets people hysterical. People tend to focus on the stereotype instead of the person, and this series will give viewers a unique opportunity to spend time with real people who are struggling with the same challenges we all face as we make our way through the world.”

While transgender models are not new to the modeling scene – having graced magazine covers and catwalks for decades – Strut gives an exclusive behind-the-scenes look into how these models navigate everything from the competition of the fashion industry, conversations with family, to coming to terms with themselves and breaking down gender and beauty barriers.

Tune in to see what transpires!

GLAAD’s Transgender Media Program team, Nick Adams and Alex Schmider, met with the Oxygen cast and crew in Los Angeles at NBCUniversal Studios in August.

September 19, 2016

www.glaad.org/blog/transgender-models-strut-oxygen

Tina Fey’s Face Melts As “Dr. Bill Cosby” Announced At Emmys

Tina Fey’s Face Melts As “Dr. Bill Cosby” Announced At Emmys

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It was an unusually dark moment in the vanilla-as-Puddin’-Pops ceremony known as the Emmy’s Awards when a certain “Dr. Bill Cosby” was crisply announced as the next presenter.

Related: Tina Fey Worked In A Lesbian Joke During Her Hilarious Salute To Steve Martin

Turned out it was a bit of particularly ballsy trolling on behalf of host Jimmy Kimmel, who quipped, “Don’t worry, he’s not really here. I just wanted to see what you guys would do.”

Related: Tina Fey Hopes the Gays Accept Tracy Morgan’s Apology for the Sake of His Career

The audience went ashen and gaspy. A certain Tina Fey attempted to quell her own rapidly melting face as she boggled at the announcement, quickly recovering when she realized it was a joke.

Take a look here: 

Twitter quickly seized on the moment with a vice grip and has yet to release its grasp:

Announcer: Please welcome Dr. Bill Cosby!

Tina Fey: OOOOOO SHIT!!! #emmys pic.twitter.com/ZzEXYKNfQb

— Katie Corvino (@kTc0rvin0) September 19, 2016

Tina Fey saying “that’s gotta be a joke” with mild panic on her face after the fake Cosby intro was all of us, right? #Emmys

— Emerson Collins (@ActuallyEmerson) September 19, 2016

Tina Fey’s face after Bill Cosby joke: #ClimateCh‘Fey pic.twitter.com/P6v1F8U4wf

— Jack Bensinger (@JackBensinger) September 19, 2016

Tina Fey’s panicked look when they announced Bill Cosby is one of the top ten moments of the year #Emmys

— Josh McLean (@RadioMcLean) September 19, 2016

Tina Fey mouthing “Cosby joke” is everything I never knew I needed in life. #Emmys

— Lauren Pokedoff (@LaurenPokedoff) September 19, 2016

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