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WATCH: Is Halloween Really The Gay Superbowl?

WATCH: Is Halloween Really The Gay Superbowl?

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Last we checked, the “gay Super Bowl” was Pride. And the Olympics. And Memorial Day weekend. OK, any holiday really.

So by that logic, yes, Halloween is also the gay Super Bowl.

Related: “Slutty Halloween Costume” Guy Is Back With A New Array Of Looks

In an ad for the upcoming Halloween episode of The Real O’Neals, this metaphor is brought to life, and more importantly, to dance!

Since this is the first Halloween for fictional Kenny as an out and proud teen, he has big, big plans.

Watch below:

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Populations Most at Risk of HIV Infection Have Worst Access to PrEP: STUDY

Populations Most at Risk of HIV Infection Have Worst Access to PrEP: STUDY

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A new study from the University of California has found that those most at risk of contracting HIV have the least access to pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP).

Populations that are most vulnerable to seroconversion are Latino and Black men who have sex with men (MSM), transgender women, and those who live in southern states.

Rolling Stone reports: 

In a survey of gay and bisexual men in California, only a handful of participants reported having taken PrEP. PrEP use was highest among young white men, at 13.9 percent. For young Latino men, that figure was cut by more than half, while young black men represented less than 10 percent of people who started PrEP.

“This is not reflective of the HIV epidemic at all,” says Shannon Weber, founder of Please PrEP Me, an online directory of over 230 clinics in California that provide PrEP. “It is reflective about access, and where and how people are getting that information.” […]

“Black and Latino men who have sex with men, who are overrepresented in the epidemic, have low threshold access to the services,” says Dr. Demetre Daskalakis, assistant health commissioner overseeing the Bureau of HIV/AIDS Prevention and Control at the New York City Department of Health and Mental Hygiene.

It’s a broad racial disparity first reported in June by Gilead Sciences, the biopharmaceutical company that makes Truvada. White gay and bisexual men made up the biggest gains in PrEP usage in 2015, although they’re far less likely to contract HIV in their lifetime. PrEP use among black men, on the other hand, has dipped since 2012. So while prescriptions for Truvada continue to rise significantly, McCord says, “What we’re not seeing is perhaps where PrEP is needed and that is in higher risk communities.”

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Interestingly, Republican opposition to Obamacare plays a factor in the limited availability of PrEP in the American south:

Those Southern cities most susceptible to an HIV outbreak – El Paso, Atlanta, Jackson, to name a few – are also in states that haven’t expanded Medicaid, which does cover the costs of Truvada after a small co-pay. That means the preventive drug, which can cost upward of $1,564 for a month’s supply, has become financially out-of-reach for hundreds of thousands of eligible PrEP users because GOP lawmakers refused to make healthcare accessible to people living in poverty. “Low cost services for HIV-negative people [are] practically nonexistent,” says David Evans, director of Research Advocacy at Project Inform.

Some major population centers have, however, begun expanding access to PrEP for at-risk communities:

Last year, San Francisco and Los Angeles ramped up efforts to increase PrEP use among men who sleep with men and transgender women after receiving grants from the CDC as part of the agency’s Project PrIDE initiative. In June of this year, MAC AIDS Fund announced a two-year, $1 million citywide program in Washington, D.C. to educate and promote PrEP use among black women — one of the groups most at risk in a city that once had the worst HIV rates in the country. Last week, researchers from the Rollins School of Public Health at Emory University in Atlanta launched a searchable nationwide PrEP provider database. And in the coming months, about 70 community-based clinics in underserved areas throughout New York City will start providing PrEP with the support of the city’s Department of Health and Mental Hygiene.

“People who don’t have a voice aren’t going to be walking into a clinic with a giant rainbow flag on it,” like the ones in Chelsea, the West Village and other LGBTQ-friendly neighborhoods, says Daskalakis. “We’re creating the infrastructure in places that may not have that giant rainbow flag, and we’re really proud of that.”

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Populations Most at Risk of HIV Infection Have Worst Access to PrEP: STUDY

Those Simon Rex Leaked Scenes Have Apparently “Resurfaced” Online

Those Simon Rex Leaked Scenes Have Apparently “Resurfaced” Online

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There was a time, and it wasn’t terribly long ago, when male celebs didn’t have explicit GIFs and jpegs pouring out all over the Internet every waking moment of every waking day.

Related: Adult Film Stars Who’ve Retired: Did They Have Happy Endings?

And before these semi-scandals became as commonplace as the very air that we breathe, there was MTV VJ Simon Rex, whose career was somewhat derailed when it became widely known that he’d filmed a series of lengthy solo scenes at the tender age of 18 under the nom de porn Sebastian.

Related: One-Time Solo MTV Masturbator Latches on to Lance Bass’ Fame Vehicle

For whatever reason  — and we have a hard time believing there are many who who haven’t seen these a million times over, but you tell us — these Rex videos  are once again titillating the masses, as C&C reports.

Next week, we’ll be presenting a rarely seen cachet of photos featuring Michelangelo’s David in all of his glory. Stay tuned.

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Scotland Moves to Pardon Gay Men Convicted Under Outdated Indecency Laws

Scotland Moves to Pardon Gay Men Convicted Under Outdated Indecency Laws

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Scotland plans a blanket pardon for gay men convicted under outdated indecency laws, the Guardian reports:

Holyrood’s justice secretary, Michael Matheson, told the chamber on Tuesday afternoon that the parliament would bring forward a Scottish “Turing law” to automatically pardon gay and bisexual men convicted of sexual offences that are no longer criminal.

He added that his officials had also been in discussion with Police Scotland to identify the most effective way of ensuring that past convictions for consensual sex between men no longer appeared on a person’s criminal record.

A similar law intended to apply to England and Wales was scuppered by the Conservative justice minister, Sam Gyimah, on Friday after he spoke so long that it ran out of time.

The BBC reported earlier this week that Gyimah had proposed an alternative bill that “would grant similar pardons for those who have died but would make those still alive go through a ‘disregard process’ to receive official pardons.”

The Scottish MPs hope to avoid that application process and offer a full blanket pardon.

RELATED: ‘Alan Turing Bill’ to Pardon 49,000+ Gay Men Fails in UK Parliament: WATCH

Labour MP Chris Bryant got emotional when talking about the new law, which has been proposed as the Turing Law, after Alan Turing.

Bryant wants the bill named after Ronald Cartland, Jack Macnamara, Anthony Muirhead, Robert Bernays and Victor Cazalet, a group of gay MPs from the 1930s.

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Scotland Moves to Pardon Gay Men Convicted Under Outdated Indecency Laws

730 More North Carolina Jobs Lost Under Governor McCrory’s Watch

730 More North Carolina Jobs Lost Under Governor McCrory’s Watch

HRC President Chad Griffin and Equality North Carolina Executive Director Chris Sgro released the following statements after news broke today that North Carolina lost out on 730 jobs because Pat McCrory has refused to support the full repeal of HB2.

“With each passing day that Governor McCrory’s discriminatory HB2 remains law the people of North Carolina continue to pay the price,” said HRC President Chad Griffin. “North Carolina and its people are suffering under HB2, and yet Governor McCrory and his allies continue to defend the indefensible. Governor McCrory has proven he is unfit to lead this great state, and the majority of fair-minded North Carolinians will finally have a chance to make their voices heard on Election Day.”

“What a travesty — our state has lost 730 more jobs because of Governor McCrory’s bad bill,” said Equality NC Executive Director Chris Sgro. “HB2 puts LGBT people at risk for discrimination and violence and it’s hurting all North Carolinians every day. Where are Pat McCrory’s priorities? 200 days after he signed this bill, he still refuses to step up and fix the mess he made of our state. Shame on him for putting his politics above our economy.”

BACKGROUND:

Pat McCrory has refused to fully repeal HB2, despite massive economic fallout as companies concerned with protecting their consumers and employees have moved conventions, trainings, operations and productions out of state. Since Gov. McCrory and state lawmakers rammed HB2 into law, the outcry has continued to grow:

  • The NBA announced it was moving the 2017 All-Star Game because of the failure of the General Assembly to repeal HB2, costing North Carolina an estimated $100 million in All-Star Game related profits.
  • The NCAA, the ACC and the CIAA also announced they would stand up for the safety of their employees, players, and fans by moving championship games out of North Carolina due to the state’s refusal to repeal its anti-LGBTQ HB2 law.
  •  More than 200 major CEOs and business leaders signed an open letter calling for full repeal of HB2 – including many of North Carolina’s largest employers. More than 50 investment managers with more than $2.1 trillion in investments signed a similar letter.
  • Major film studios and corporations, from PayPal to Deutsche Bank, have stopped investments in the state because of the new law’s threat to employees and consumers. Conventions have withdrawn from the state, taking substantial revenue with them. Prior to the NBA and NCAA decisions, the Tar Heel State had already taken a hit of at least $329.9 million in lost business, and in taxpayer money used to defend the measure – including funding Gov. Pat McCrory’s road trips to explain why he signed discrimination into law.
  • Artists including Beyoncé, Bruce Springsteen, Dead & Company and Cyndi Lauper have spoken out.
  • In May, the U.S. Department of Justice (DOJ) filed suit in federal court, stating that HB2’s state-mandated discrimination against transgender people, including government workers and students, violates Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1965, Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972 and the Violence Against Women Act of 2011.
  • Joined by 68 major companies, HRC filed an amicus brief in support of DOJ’s effort to block some of the most egregious and discriminatory components of HB2.
  • Duke University men’s basketball coach Mike Krzyzewski called the bill “embarrassing” and North Carolina State University men’s basketball coach Mark Gottfried said it “appalled” and “embarrassed” him.

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Self-Proclaimed “Number One Escort In The World” Says He Likes His Men Old And Ugly

Self-Proclaimed “Number One Escort In The World” Says He Likes His Men Old And Ugly

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A man claiming to be the “number one escort in the world” has opened up about his chosen profession in a fascinating new Reddit AMA.

According to the man’s online profile, he is 29-years-old, 6’4, with brown hair and blue eyes. A scorpio, he’s originally from Australia but currently lives in London and has been an escort for about seven years. He doesn’t smoke or do drugs. And he identifies as a straight-leaning bisexual.

Related: The Surprising Results In A New Study On Male Escorts

Now, let’s take a look at what he had to say…

On having sex outside of work for his own personal enjoyment…

Yes, I do. My clients are nearly all men but I’m more towards the straight end of the bi spectrum, so I prefer women and TS for fun. It’s not that I dislike sex with my male clients, I do enjoy it, but sex with men is only a small part of my sexuality. If I only had sex with my male clients and never with women or TS, I’d be unsatisfied. If I ever started to lose interest in sex for fun outside of bookings with clients, I’d take a long break or possibly quit altogether.

On the weirdest request anyone has ever made…

I used to have a regular who was into ball busting. He’d arrive and with very little chit chat, take of his jeans but leave his underwear and the rest of his clothes on, and stand with his feet shoulder width apart and his hands behind his back. I’d stand in front of him fully dressed with my shoes on and kick him repeatedly. I’ve been doing martial arts since I was a kid. Taekwondo for 10 years. And I lived in Thailand for a few years and trained full time at a thai boxing gym and fought professionally. I can kick hard.

On what he will do…

Mainly naked oil massage, oral, and sex. I’m versatile, which means I have sex as a top or a bottom. I also do duos (two escorts with one client), double domination, cuckolding, forced bi with pro dommes, and I cater to all kinds of fetishes. … My clients, whether they’re male or female, are all different and I try to tailor each session according to the needs of the individual.

On what he won’t do…

I don’t kiss…use drugs, do duos with male escorts, or do anything as a submissive. I’ve outright refused to see people for being pushy about any of the above, if they’re drunk or high, or if they’ve arrived at my place dirty and smelly and refused to shower. … The worst clients are those who don’t read or my ad or deliberately come to see me to try to pressure me into doing something they know I don’t offer.

On STDs…

I’m very careful. I always use condoms. Almost all clients know that sex with an escort will be with condoms so there’s no need to mention condoms during the booking. … I get contacted sometimes by people asking for bareback and I block their number or email. I don’t want to see someone who initially asks for bareback even if they do agree to use condoms because if that’s what they’re into, they’re at very high risk for STDs and condoms can break. I get a sexual health check-up once every 3 months. Always get the all-clear.

On his ideal client…

I generally prefer clients who wouldn’t conventionally be considered attractive. I guess because my priorities are different. I want my clients to be clean, polite, respectful of my boundaries as per your first question, and to enjoy themselves. I associate all of the above more with older, overweight, bald, etc.

On his family and friends…

I haven’t told my family or any of my friends who I knew from before I started escorting. But I have a lot of friends I’ve met since I started escorting who know what I do. I rent out my apartment by the hour to other escorts so I’ve met a lot of other escorts that way and now I have a huge network of people I know in the industry and some close friends. It’s important in this job to have some people you can talk to about jobs who understand. And great to have security buddies who know where you are. I tell someone the location and start/end times of my outcalls so if something did happen and they didn’t hear from me and couldn’t get in contact with me, they’d send the police. I do the same for them.

Related: PHOTOS: An Intimate Glimpse At The Gay Male Escorts Of Amsterdam

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‘Moonlight’ Star on the Importance of Telling Black Gay Stories: ‘It’s Something That the World Needs’ 

‘Moonlight’ Star on the Importance of Telling Black Gay Stories: ‘It’s Something That the World Needs’ 

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Trevante Rhodes, star of the new film Moonlight, is speaking about the impact the film is having and on his experience playing a gay man.

Rhodes spoke with PEOPLE about the film, a bildungsroman in three acts about a boy growing up gay, black and poor in Miami.

Said Rhodes of the social significance of the film,

“It talks about a subject matter that is so prevalent today. Being a black man in American is relatively difficult right now, being a gay man in America is incredibly difficult and so being a black, gay man, like I’ve said before, can be perceived as the worst possible thing right now. So it is something that we need, that the world needs, and I’m thinking it’s a beautiful thing that people are receiving it. I didn’t think we were ready for something like that. And it’s really surprising and really refreshing to me to see that people are.”

Of how he approached playing a gay character, Rhodes said,

screen-shot-2016-10-25-at-10-00-50-am“I was born loving women but I easily could have been born loving men. It’s the exact same sensation… You don’t fall in love with someone [just] for their physical [traits], but for their mental.”

It was really just about me it was really just falling in love with the person that [my co-star] André Holland is. I respect him, I love him for the father figure he is.” 

RELATED – Oscar Season Preview: Moonlight, La La Land, Fences, Loving, The Arrival, and More!

Rhodes says he didn’t tap into from any specific story or source material for his performance:

“One of my best friends is homosexual so I knew his struggle, but it wasn’t about pulling from that. I didn’t want to make it about that. It was really just about understanding people, understanding love and relationships…As actors and directors, I feel like our job, more so than anything else, is to shine a light on a subject and to let people know that they’re not alone.”

Watch a trailer for Moonlight, below.

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‘Moonlight’ Star on the Importance of Telling Black Gay Stories: ‘It’s Something That the World Needs’