HRC Foundation Youth Ambassador Spotlight: Val Weisler

HRC Foundation Youth Ambassador Spotlight: Val Weisler

The 2017 HRC Youth Ambassador cohort is a group of 16 inspiring young people, ages 15-22, from across the country. Young people are invited to participate in the HRC Youth Ambassador program because of their courage in sharing their own stories, and their demonstrated commitment to speaking out about issues facing all LGBTQ youth. As HRC Youth Ambassadors, they represent HRC Foundation and add their voice to help raise awareness about HRC’s youth-focused programs.

HRC recently sat down with Val Weisler, an HRC Youth Ambassador from New City, New York. Val grew up in a family in which being LGBTQ was never a problem. Her maternal grandmother is a lesbian and her oldest brother, Alex, came out as gay a few years ago. But Val felt compelled to stay in the closet because of a hostile school environment. 

At 16, she was the first person to come out publicly in her school and faced brutal bullying the first few weeks. Eventually, others began to come out, and her school transformed into a place of pride and acceptance. Val, who identifies as lesbian, has since founded The Validation Project, a global movement helping teenagers transform their passions into action through mentoring, volunteer opportunities and social media.

1) What inspired you to become an HRC Youth Ambassador?
I had just come out and wanted to talk to someone at HRC about my experience. I called the HRC Headquarters and they invited me to speak to their staff. Visiting the headquarters and speaking with such passionate people made me want to get more involved. Vinnie Pompei invited me to join the first cohort of youth ambassadors a few months later, and now I’ve been working with HRC for three incredible years. 

2) What’s been one highlight of your experience as an HRC Youth Ambassador?
Definitely the Time to Thrive conferences! Getting to collaborate with other young queer activists is rare and something that truly refuels me to continue working to make sure LGBTQIA youth are supported enough to pursue their dreams. 

3) What part of HRC’s work do you connect with the most? 
I love the Welcoming Schools program. I think that starting the conversation early is key – keeping quiet just teaches kids that the LGBTQIA community isn’t something you should talk about. Welcoming Schools provides the resources to make sure educators and students are working together to make their school a place where everyone is truly welcome. 

4) What’s your message to LGBTQ youth?
Your people are out there and I promise, you’ll find them soon. We are fighting for you and we won’t stop until this is a world where you do not have to hide. 

To learn more about HRC Foundation’s work with LGBTQ youth, visit our Children, Youth and Families program, our Campus and Young Adult program and our Youth Ambassador resource page.

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Ryan Atkin Comes Out, Becomes the First Openly Gay Referee in English Football

Ryan Atkin Comes Out, Becomes the First Openly Gay Referee in English Football

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32-year-old Ryan Atkin has become the first openly gay professional official in English football.

Atkin will referee games in the National League North and South this season. He will also work as a fourth official in Football League games. He has already provided referee’s assistant duties in EFL matches including the Championship.

RELATED: Eight Percent of British Football Fans Would Dump Their Team Over a Gay Player

Neale Barry, the Football Association head of senior referee development, said:

“Ryan’s declaration marks an important moment in the game and reinforces the fact that refereeing really is open to everyone.

“He believes people who are happy in their own skin perform better and I couldn’t agree more. Our role is to support all referees, aid their development, maximize their potential and, above all, help ensure their experiences are positive.”

Barry added that while “homophobia is still a problem” in soccer, “things are improving all the time.”

“Be who you want to, and accept someone for who they are.”

Ryan Atkin is the first ‘out’ professional official >> t.co/48lhOkJmFx pic.twitter.com/U3xlwTL304

— EFL (@EFL) August 10, 2017

“You can change the game and culture by changing your mind,” he said.

Atkin said:

“Being gay doesn’t matter in the context of refereeing a football match. But if I am speaking about equality and diversity then I am going to mention that I am gay because it is relevant. It is important to be who you want to be, and to be accepted for who you are.”

Praising Atkin’s announcement, Mike Riley, the managing director of the referees’ body PGMOL, added:

“With the continued support of the FA and PGMOL coaches, he has a great opportunity to realize his ambitions to referee in the EFL and the Premier League.

“We are proud to support him in emphasizing that in whatever walk of life, people perform better when they can be themselves, which is a hugely powerful message.”

Robbie de Santos, Head of Campaigns at Stonewall, said that Atkin’s decision to come out “underlines just how important it is that there are allies who are willing to stand up for LGBT inclusion at all levels of sport.”

Jesús TomilleroAccording to the Guardian, English soccer has lagged behind other sports and countries in promoting gay referees. Welsh rugby official Nigel Owens, who came out in 2017, was subjected to homophobic abuse when refereeing England v New Zealand three years ago. Two spectators later were banned from the grounds.

Spanish referee Jesús Tomillero (right) received death threats after he came out last year. He quit, later came back again and ended up under police protection.

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HRC Reacts to Trump’s Delusional Assessment of Transgender Troop Ban

HRC Reacts to Trump’s Delusional Assessment of Transgender Troop Ban

Today, HRC responded to Donald Trump’s comments regarding his despicable plan to ban transgender service members:

“Donald Trump’s delusional comments regarding his reckless ban on transgender troops are demonstrably false and lack any basis in reality,” said Chad Griffin, HRC President. “Donald Trump’s attack on transgender troops weakens our military and is a betrayal of those who wear the uniform. Fifty-six retired admirals and generals, Republican and Democrat elected officials, and a majority of the American public have all condemned Trump’s misguided and despicable policy that will do nothing but undermine military readiness and harm brave transgender service members and their families.”

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