Mom Plans To Disown Teen Son For Missing Older Brother’s Coming Out

Mom Plans To Disown Teen Son For Missing Older Brother’s Coming Out

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Life is a series of choices — what to have for lunch, where to go to college, when to come out to Mom and Dad and, most importantly for this story, when to work on that beach-ready bod.

From the depths of Reddit comes this cautionary tale about the importance of the nuclear family and the bonds that tie it together. So easily they can fray, over seemingly so little.

A distraught 20-year-old sister, we’ll call her Rachel, fills in the details:

I feel like I am slowly losing my mind.

So over the summer my brother Jake (19) and I came home from college and he was was planing to tell the others that he was gay. It was all he talked about on the way home. Our mother picked us up at the airport and took us home. My brother Will (14) said hello to us and made us breakfast. He told us he had to go; he had to be at the lake for his workout.

The board is set and the game begins. Why is Rachel descending slowly into madness? Will Jake finally come out? And what 14-year-old really says he needs to head out to the lake for his workout?

So many questions.

Jake asked Will to wait and Will said, “Dude, I literally can’t. I’m paying money for this session. I don’t get a refund or extra time.” Will is really into fitness/body building. He told us he was sorry and he would be back in 2 hours. So Jake sat myself, my two sisters and our parents down to come out as gay. Will came home and asked Jake what he wanted to tell him and Jake was being immature and said “don’t worry about it.” Will found out from Hannah (13).

Seems like all’s well that ends well to us, but something isn’t right.

Jake last night was talking to me about how rude Will was. I told him Will was trying to apologize.

Now Jake was intoxicated and he told me how our mother planned to disown Will for not being there for the announcement. I spoke to my mother and she all but confirmed this. She does not want a son who puts working out before family. I feel like I am the only sane person left in the world and could use some help.

The comments can be summarized with two simple words: “That’s crazy.”

In the (likely) case that this is a big meaty lie sandwich, this story is just nutty enough to make for one excellent Lifetime movie. Lake Of Fire, Feelings Of Another Brother, Waiting For What’s Real — we’d probably watch it.

And if it’s an honest tale of stubborn miscommunication, we hope Rachel moves far away from her whack job family and gets herself a good therapist.

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Philadelphia Pride Flag Raising Interrupted by Protest Over Racism in the Gayborhood – WATCH

Philadelphia Pride Flag Raising Interrupted by Protest Over Racism in the Gayborhood – WATCH

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Protesters overtook a pride flag raising ceremony in Philadelphia in a demonstration against racism within the city’s LGBT community.

The protest comes on the heels of a recent controversy involving local gay bar Icandy. As previously reported, video leaked last month of Icandy owner Darryl DePiano using racial slurs to describe black patrons.

De Piano confirmed that it was him in the video and apologized in a statement released on Facebook.

Protests took place outside Icandy after the video circulated online. Icandy and other bars in Philly’s gayborhood were previously accused of having a racist dress code that specially banned guests from wearing Timberland boots.

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The pride flag protest took place on Sunday, October 9, and alleged that Philadelphia Mayor Jim Kenney and his administration are in denial about racism in the city’s LGBT community.

We’ve come a long way as a City since the LGBT flag raising started in 2008. The office of @PhillyLGBTgov is now enshrined in our charter. pic.twitter.com/a2zB4KFyaJ

— Jim Kenney (@PhillyMayor) October 9, 2016

 

NBC News reports: 

The protesters interrupted the city’s seventh annual flag raising ceremony in the Mayor’s Reception Room. The ceremony is normally held outside City Hall but was moved indoors on Sunday due to rain. The flag raising coincides with the city’s annual OutFest.

Mayor Kenney and other officials left the room once protesters took over the event.

Said Kenney in a statement,

“As I have said previously, there is no denying that racism and discrimination is an issue within the LGBT community. The Gayborhood should be a sanctuary for all in the LGBT community, but sadly not everyone is welcome at some of its institutions, and until real steps are taken to address racist dress code policies or other instances of institutionalized discrimination, I will not go to those institutions.

Discrimination in the Gayborhood and across the city is not something that one person or one office can be expected to solve on its own – it’s on all of us – and I hope the hearing that the Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations is holding on racism in the Gayborhood will start to move that ball forward. I intend to be there to do my part in ensuring that it does, and I encourage all others that are invested in change to attend as well.”

Kennet reiterated parts of his statement on Twitter.

Have a long way to go. Gayborhood should be sanctuary for LGBT community, but all are not welcome. And, until they are, I will not go there.

— Jim Kenney (@PhillyMayor) October 9, 2016

He also added that he believes the Philadelphia “LGBT community will overcome this hate, because when this community comes together and works together, they are unstoppable.”

I know LGBT community will overcome this hate, because when this community comes together and works together, they are unstoppable.

— Jim Kenney (@PhillyMayor) October 9, 2016

NBC News also reports that the city’s Office of LGBT Affairs, headed by former assistant district attorney Nellie Fitzpatrick “issued a statement Sept. 29 after receiving what it called ‘reports of discriminatory practices by businesses in the Gayborhood, and the use of racist and homophobic slurs against members of the LGBT community.’”

A public hearing addressing racism and discrimination in Philadelphia’s Gayborhood is scheduled for October 25. The city has subpoenaed a number of local business owners to appear at the hearing.

Watch a news report as well as raw footage of the protest, below.

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Hunky String Quartet ‘Well-Strung’ Calls for Gun Control in New Green Day Mash-Up – WATCH 

Hunky String Quartet ‘Well-Strung’ Calls for Gun Control in New Green Day Mash-Up – WATCH 

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String quartet Well-Strung are back with another one of their mashups that mix classical music with contemporary pop.

In their latest video, the group brings together Green Day’s song “21 Guns” with Pachelbel’s Canon, which will sound familiar to you if you’ve ever been to a wedding or watched Father of the Bride.

The video opens with news clips highlighting the epidemic of gun violence sweeping America in recent years, including clips of news coverage following the Orlando massacre.

Well-Strung created the video to bring attention to the need for common sense gun safety report. The group wrote on Facebook,

“We made this video for our new single that joins Green Day‘s hit song 21 Guns and Pachelbel’s Canon hoping to inspire change and promote safer gun legislation. …If you would like to make a difference, go to Everytown for Gun Safety and take the Gun Sense Voter Pledge to help end gun violence!”

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While the video starts off with an ominous tone, there’s a gleeful twist that helps explain the choice of Pachelbel’s Canon for this mash-up.

Previously, Well-Strung has fused Bach with Taylor Swift’s “Blank Space”, recreated Fountains of Wayne’s  track “Stacy’s Mom” as “Chelsea’s Mom” to advocate for Hillary Clinton, covered Lorde’s “Royals” backed by the group’s rendition of Karl Jenkins’ “Palladio” from the album Diamond Music (you’ve heard it before in DeBeers diamond commercials), and blended “The Devil Went Down to Georgia” with Bach.

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WATCH: Twitter Is Lusting After This New, Sexed-Up Joe Jonas Video. You Should, Too.

WATCH: Twitter Is Lusting After This New, Sexed-Up Joe Jonas Video. You Should, Too.

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An oft-shirtless Joe Jonas slithers his way through the new DNCE video for their latest single, “Body Moves,” which intercuts faux sex-tape footage with some sexy models mugging moodily for the camera and getting jiggly with one another in various states of undress.

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During the chorus, Jonas enjoys getting and performing simulated fellatio in a disused elevator, as we try our best to do whenever the chorus kicks in, too.gif

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Needless to say, all this unstoppered and brazenly brazen sexuality has hardly gone unnoticed by the denizens of Twitter, who have taken to the social media site to share their impressions in real-time.

Me after seeing the best video ever! #BodyMovesMusicVideo @DNCE @joejonas I need A I R!!!! pic.twitter.com/BpQT5EbH9p

— BODY MOVES? (@ZarazuaSam) October 11, 2016

@joejonas I’m going to need to take a leave of absence at work to recover from what I witnessed this morning. @DNCE #BODYMOVES pic.twitter.com/VCGg4iAyEX

— Kayleen Verity (@kayver_) October 11, 2016

I can’t with #BodyMoves @joejonas omg?? @jinjoomusic @colewhittle @JackLawless @DNCE best video and song ever ?? pic.twitter.com/D28ZBbasmB

— Gabriela??? (@agabrielaoakley) October 11, 2016

@agabrielaoakley @joejonas @jinjoomusic @colewhittle @JackLawless @DNCE when someone is watching body moves pic.twitter.com/m155xIT0SR

— caroline (@joejonas_love20) October 11, 2016

@joejonas my face , when I was watching the video #BodyMoves ; I love it ???????? pic.twitter.com/5S81toFL8W

— AbbyMars (@AbiMars98) October 11, 2016

Expect the Unexpected from that body moves music video!! ?? @joejonas @DNCE pic.twitter.com/m20bLQBNGg

— JNGH? (@hazel_gerani) October 11, 2016

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15 Famous Actors We Desperately Wish Were Gay or Bisexual

15 Famous Actors We Desperately Wish Were Gay or Bisexual

While it’s true a greater number of actors seem to be kicking down the closet door every year, many of the men in Hollywood who fuel our fantasies happen to be straight.

Of course that doesn’t stop us from hoping that somewhere, just maybe, possibly in an alternate universe (or this one) we might have a shot.

(Hey, a guy can dream, right?)

There are literally hundreds of straight men in Hollywood today who have us wishing on a heterosexual star – and that’s part of the fun of the big and small screens.

So in our ongoing celebration of National Coming Out Day, here are just a few of famous actors we desperately wish were something other than straight.

1. Rami Malek
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The breakout star of Mr. Robot has officially hacked our hearts. Quirky never looked so cute.

2. Mike Colter
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Marvel’s Luke Cage in the flesh is the yummy hero we’ve been holding out for.

3. Oscar Isaac
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Let’s not pretend Oscar Isaac doesn’t raise our body temperature every time he’s on screen. It doesn’t matter if he’s playing one of the good guys in a galaxy far, far away or the biggest bad boy on the planet.

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4. Nick Jonas
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We’ve been swooning over the sexy JoBro since the moment he went solo and his continuous outspoken support of LGBTQ issues has only made him that much hotter. Yeah, we know. He’s such a tease.

5. Henry Cavill
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Whether he’s wearing a big red cape or walking the biggest red carpet, Henry Cavill is a real-life Man of Steel – and he’s got the shirtless Instagram photos to prove it.

6. Steven Yeun
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The Walking Dead star has us convinced the quiet, shy guy next door is exactly the kind of stud we’d want to have by our side during the zombie apocalypse.

7. Zac Efron
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Our former favorite pupcake is now a full-fledged beefcake who keeps us thirsty by regularly ditching his clothes on camera.

8. James Corden
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Who wouldn’t want to snuggle up next to the cutest cuddle-bear late-night TV has ever seen?

9. Chris Hemsworth
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What we wouldn’t give for just one date with this god of thunder.

10. Michael Ealy
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He’s the type of leading man who makes us lose our breath. (Those big blue eyes could melt the heart of the biggest ice queen.) We died a little when we found out we wouldn’t see him every week after Fox cancelled Almost Human in 2014, but the news that he’s joining the season 4 cast of Being Mary Jane has given us new life.

11. Patrick Stewart
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He was making us wish we could serve in Starfleet on Star Trek: The Next Generation long before he had us hot for teacher as Professor Xavier in the X-Men films. And his very public bromance with Ian Mckellen is about as adorable as adorable gets.

12. Joe Manganiello
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The perpetually shirtless True Blood and Magic Mike star never fails to make us howl.

13. John Cho
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This is high quality boyfriend material. A versatile man with a lot of range. It doesn’t matter if he’s warp-speeding through the stars as Sulu in the Star Trek films or making us laugh in Harold and Kumar. We’d be happy to take more of Mr. Cho any way we could get him.

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14. John Slattery
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The sexy silver fox drove us crazy over seven seasons of Mad Men.

15. Scott Eastwood
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Hollywood hunk 2.0. The son of Clint Eastwood takes the meaning of heartthrob to the next level.

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