President Obama Is Not My Ally

President Obama Is Not My Ally
This morning, I read that OUT Magazine named President Obama as its LGBT “Ally of the Year.” Literally one minute later, Chelsea Manning called me from prison.

Hearing Chelsea’s voice was a powerful reminder: President Obama may talk a good talk when it comes to gay rights, but his Administration’s policies speak louder than his speech-writer’s words, and they’re detrimental to LGBTQ+ people around the world.

Chelsea is the Wikileaks whistleblower who exposed some of the U.S. government’s worst abuses in Iraq and Afghanistan. She’s also a transgender woman. The Obama administration has aggressively prosecuted her, held her in conditions that the UN considers to be torture, and locked her away for a 35 year sentence in an all male military prison.

Chelsea was calling to give me an update about her current legal battle with Obama’s Justice Department over something that seems simple: the right to grow her hair to the length of her choice. Military officials are currently requiring her to cut her hair to the Military’s “male” standard, despite the fact this goes against recommendations from medical professionals regarding Chelsea’s gender-related health care needs.

The Obama administration has previously supported appropriate treatment for transgender people in prison, but it appears as though they’re actively reversing that position in order to single out and punish Chelsea. It’s just the latest in a series of blatant attempts by the U.S. government to harass her and silence her important voice.

Thinking about Chelsea fighting for her basic human dignity from inside a sterile military facility, it was hard to swallow the parade of social media posts and headlines about the OUT Magazine cover. A heroic yet sensitive grayscale photo of the President graced the front page, and the article inside lauded his administration’s support for the repeal of “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell,” and for stricter hate crimes legislation.

It went on to call Obama’s “evolution” on marriage equality “something to behold,” quickly glossing over the fact that he maintained throughout his first term that marriage should be between a man and a woman.

Much has been written about how the mainstream gay rights movement’s focus on marriage, the military, and tougher hate crimes is continuously failing to address the needs of the most marginalized LGBTQ people, especially trans women of color, queer youth, homeless folks, immigrants, poor people, and people in prison.

But what I find most concerning about gay rights advocates putting President Obama on the “ally” pedestal isn’t what his administration has failed to do, but what it’s actively doing every day: pushing for foreign and domestic policies that endanger LGBTQ people, deepen our oppression, and contribute to the violence enacted against us.

The Obama Administration’s foreign policy continues the work of the Bush Administration to expand U.S. imperialism and global dominance. In the process, it aids and abets some of the most repressive government regimes in the world, including many with deplorable human rights records, like Saudi Arabia, where LGBTQ people have essentially no protections.

Meanwhile, the President has thrown his full weight behind the massive Trans-Pacific Partnership agreement (TPP), a secretive global deal containing massive policy handouts for pharmaceutical companies that groups like Doctors Without Borders say will be devastating for global access to HIV medication and affordable healthcare, disproportionately affecting LGBTQ people in impoverished countries.

Finally, this administtion has dramatically expanded the U.S. government’s mass surveillance programs, which pose a grave threat to the future of freedom of expression in general, but also amplify the oppression of people with marginalized gender and sexual identities for whom privacy is a matter of survival.

The juxtaposition of Obama’s actual policies with all the buzz about his “historic” photo-op on the cover of the nation’s most popular gay magazine underscores the reality that the mainstream gay rights movement does not speak for, or represent the interests of, the vast majority of LGBTQ people in the world.

As long as Chelsea Manning sits in prison; as long as the U.S. government continues to prop up dictatorships and push for economic policies that exacerbate global inequality; as long as the police and FBI show us again and again that Black Lives don’t matter, that trans lives don’t matter, that we don’t matter; President Obama is not my ally.

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Gay Guy Scores $15 Million Jackpot, But How Much Will His Homophobic Parents Get?

Gay Guy Scores $15 Million Jackpot, But How Much Will His Homophobic Parents Get?

easy-money-man-rain-moneyShort answer: not much.

A Reddit user who goes by the name IDontWantToGiveItUp has posted to an advice sub with his seriously first-world problem.

After winning a huge lottery jackpot, he isn’t sure how much of his hard-won cash his parents, who essentially shunned him for being gay as an adolescent, deserve to see.

He writes:

Hey everyone, I’m was told that I should bring my problem to reddit to see what people have to say. But before I do, I feel the need to say that I know it’s a privileged problem to have and I’m not falling all over the place in tears about it. It’s just emotionally weighing on me.

So! I’m a 29yr old guy and I won the lottery. And it’s enough that I don’t have to work ever again if I don’t want too (over 15m). My plans are to take some finance/business courses over a period of time so I can be smart about investments and be responsible with the money. I am terrible at money management. I want to turn it into more money and hopefully get involved in charity. Altruistic I know, but I have always volunteered and it’s part of me.

My problem? My family, mainly my parents, feel they are entitled to 1/4 of the amount. I offered to pay off their mortgages and give them a little sum but that’s not good enough once they found the total amount. My family and I have a cordial relationship but I moved an hour away to get away from my oppressive mother and distant father. My sisters are nice people but we don’t really have a relationship. The definition of distant white middle class family. Boohoo, I know.

When it comes down to it, I don’t feel like they are entitled to anything and I’m being as generous as I can be (which I never said to them, but retrospectively I guess it’s implied). The conversation got ugly and when my mom said, “we raised you”, I immediately thought about how both my parents didn’t talk to me for 5yrs (ages 15-20), when they found out I was gay. And I almost failed highschool because of it. Is that raising someone? Obviously I have hangups.

How do I explain to them what my plans are again and how it doesn’t involve them? Should I speak to a lawyer about it just in case? I can’t see them suing but money makes people do dumb things. I don’t want to ruin the relationships but I feel like the damage is done. I feel like a lot of people are going to say “Fuck them”.

Many echoed the “fuck them” mentality, citing the borderline child abuse in his formative teenage years.

Related: $590 Million Lottery Winner Will Share Massive Winnings Exclusively With Gay Son

One commenter had a much more practical suggestion:

Here is my suggestion: figure out how much it cost to raise you from birth to 15 eg room, food, clothes, health care, school fees, etc. Come up with an amount. Take said amount and donate 10 percent to your favorite charity in their name (they get the tax break), take the rest and put it in a trust that they get when they reach retirement age. They took care of you before you could work, so take care of them after they can’t. Of course speak to an attorney about this.

I agree with most other comments that your parents aren’t great but they are still your parents.

You have a full life ahead of you with one of life’s major concerns taken care of. Enjoy your life, do the things that you love, and be inspirational. I now have to go buy a lottery ticket.

What advice would you give him?

Dan Tracer

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Wedding Bells Ring in Trailer for ‘Transparent’ Season 2: WATCH

Wedding Bells Ring in Trailer for ‘Transparent’ Season 2: WATCH

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Fans of the hit show Transparent won’t have to wait much longer for the highly anticipated season 2.

To help quench the thirst of the show’s followers, Amazon yesterday released a new teaser trailer that shows the Pfefferman family in its usual state of hilarious dysfunction. From The Verge: “The whole family’s trying to get together for a wedding photo — it looks like Sarah (Amy Landecker) is one of the two brides — but it’s quickly submarined when the photographer calls Maura (Jeffrey Tambor) ‘sir.’”

Transparent returns online for your binging pleasure on December 11.

Watch the trailer, below:

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Sean Mandell

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Ellen DeGeneres Has The Best Response To Starbucks' Holiday Cup Controversy

Ellen DeGeneres Has The Best Response To Starbucks' Holiday Cup Controversy

Ellen DeGeneres just saved Christmas!

Starbucks’ new holiday cup, or as Ellen puts it, a “Satan Sipper,” doesn’t feature any wintry designs like it has in previous years, and it’s making a lot of Christians mad, apparently. Well, the talk show host now has the perfect solution.

Introducing Starbucks Holiday Vision Glasses!

For the low, low price of $99, which, according to Ellen, is less than a venti frappuccino, you can see Christmas everywhere you look.

There you have it! Ellen says we can now all enjoy the snowflakes and elves and all that other stuff in the Bible that Starbucks tried to deny us. The talk show host does give one disclaimer, though. “Remember: Don’t wear them when you’re driving. If you do, let Jesus take the wheel.”

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Ukraine blocks progress on EU membership over gay workers’ rights

Ukraine blocks progress on EU membership over gay workers’ rights

The Ukrainian parliament has blocked a bill to protect LGBTI workers – even though it will cost Ukrainians visa-free travel in the EU.

The idea had been to grant LGBTIs protection against being fired because of who they are or discriminated against at work.

That is one of the conditions the European Union is imposing before it will allow Ukrainians the right to travel around the continent without visas – a major right.

Passing the bill, which mirrors EU-wide law, would also have helped pave the way for Ukraine to join the union.

It’s the second time Parliament refused to pass the law, after a first vote held just a week ago also returned a negative verdict.

Right now, Ukraine doesn’t have a single law against hate crime or discrimination.

Even supporters of the bill seemed to portray LGBTI rights as a necessary compromise rather than a desirable outcome in the debate.

‘It’s better to have a gay parade on Khreshchatyk than Russian tanks in the center of the Ukrainian capital,’ said Yuriy Lutsenko, former leader of the Petro Poroshenko Bloc and member of the president’s faction in parliament.

‘I believe that if we go to Europe, we must recognize the rules adopted in the European Union. Unfortunately, in two or three parliamentary factions there are grave doubts.’

Yet despite this support, only 207 MPs voted in favor of the new law. To come into effect, 226 would have had to cast a positive vote.

Gay journalist and activist Maxim Eristavi said he didn’t think it was a matter of debate about LGBTI issues, but rather founded on homophobia deeply rooted in the political elites, but also in society and the public as a whole.

‘In the last year, or even in the last two years, the situation got so much worse in so many ways, especially when it comes to violence that is absolutely not controlled by law enforcement bodies,’ he told Gay Star News today.

‘There is a rising culture of absence of prosecution for those initiating violence against minorities, including but not limited to LGBTI.’

And despite big news channels airing interviews with top anti-gay vigilantes, who Eristavi said are proudly explaining their tactics without fear of punishment, this issue is something the country could easily fix even without outside intervention.

‘In case of Ukraine, where so many people really aspire to rejoin the European Family, it seems they can accept a lot of things they don’t understand for the sake of the greater good,’ he said.

But it seems politicians are the ones reluctant to let the discussion continue rather than resolve the matter.

Eristavi said they use LGBTI issues as a political tool and don’t want to let that go by granting rights.

‘It’s easier than just talking about the real issues.’

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Stefanie Gerdes

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New Video May Corroborate Story That Antigay Cruise Ship Staff Taunted Passenger Moments Before His Death

New Video May Corroborate Story That Antigay Cruise Ship Staff Taunted Passenger Moments Before His Death

Screen-shot-2015-11-09-at-12.51.50-PM-360x208New details have emerged surrounding the death of Bernardo Elbaz, the 35-year-old man who fell from the Royal Caribbean’s Oasis of the Seas cruise ship last Friday.

Lawyer Michael Winkleman, who represents Elbaz’s family, released a short clip from a video that may corroborate previous claims that his client was harassed by crew members for being gay.

Related: Lawyer Suggests Man Who Fell From Cruise Ship Was Taunted By Antigay Crew Members

In the video, Elbaz can be seen shouting at a two security guards who are blocking the door of in his cabin aboard the luxury liner.

“I have a husband,” Elbaz can be heard arguing. “I am not a pedophile!”

The video was shot just minutes before Elbaz plunged overboard to his death.

According to Winkleman, Elbaz and his husband, Erik, were repeatedly harassed by crew members on the ship, who referred to the men as “lipstick” and pedophiles.

“At the bar there were comments like, ‘Hey, Lipstick,’” Winkleman said. “Bernardo was sensitive about those issues.”

Did this ultimately drove the man to jump overboard? Winkleman claims it was not a suicide, calling it an “act of protest” fueled by anger and being over-served alcohol at the ship’s bar.

Related: EXCLUSIVE: Gay Couple Arrested On Atlantis Events Cruise Tell Their Side Of The Story

“What’s most important is this was not a domestic dispute, this was not a suicide,” Winkleman said. “This was an act of protest based on the way that this legally gay, legally married couple was mistreated.”

Winkleman says he plans to release more footage corroborating his clients’ story later today.

Meanwhile, Royal Caribbean says that staff members “did not have a physical altercation” with Elbaz and that they were “unable to prevent his jumping from the stateroom balcony.”

In a prepared statement, the company said: “Our ship’s security officers responded to reports of domestic dispute loud enough to be heard from several staterooms away. The officers were not in the room when the guest chose to jump off his balcony.”

The company has not responded to the allegations that crew members used antigay rhetoric towards Elbaz and his husband.

Related: A Straight Couple Accidentally Boarded a Gay Cruise. Should They Sue?

h/t: Daily Mail

Graham Gremore

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Trans Texas Boy Brilliantly Smacks Down Haters: ‘You’re Not The Person To Tell Me Who I Am’ – WATCH

Trans Texas Boy Brilliantly Smacks Down Haters: ‘You’re Not The Person To Tell Me Who I Am’ – WATCH

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Twelve-year-old Evan Singleton has a message for anyone who questions his transgender status.

Evan, who began living as a boy at 9, spoke with Al-Jazeera America recently for a segment about what it’s like being a bullied trans youth in Texas. Al-Jazeera recently reposted a version of the segment, which originally aired in September, in response to Houston voters’ decision to repeal an Equal Rights Ordinance based on the debunked transgender bathroom myth.

Al-Jazeera asked Evan (above), who’s currently taking hormone blockers, what he would say to anyone who believes he’s too young to decide he’s trans:

“I’d say, ‘Well, you’re not the person to tell me who I am,’” Evan responded. “Unless I’m bugging them, unless I’m going, ‘Haha, I’m trans,’ they have no right to come into my life and tell me what I need to do. That’s what my parents are for, and my parents are doing a great job raising me. I do my chores, I clean my room, and I help out. Not to gloat, but I’m a great kid, I’m getting A’s and B’s in school, and they have no right to come telling us, our family, what to do.”

Evan’s mom, Mela, said she realized he was trans after they got into an argument about a bicycle his parents got for him, which he said was “too girly” because it had pink flames on it.

“It was like, ‘Poof! I get it,’” Mela Singleton told Al-Jazeera, sobbing. “He’d been saying it for five years. … I kept trying to make him not be a boy.”

Evan says he was bullied mercilessly in school for being trans, prompting his parents to begin home-schooling him.

“I’d sit alone. I’d eat alone,” he said. “I had no one to talk to. It hurt very much. … [My classmates] hurt my feelings … they tried so hard to make me break down and do something and to make me lose control.”

Evan is now in a program for trans youth, the only one of its kind in the Southwest, at Children’s Medical Center in Dallas.

Screen Shot 2015-11-11 at 8.53.55 AM“If I went through puberty, I probably would have been one of those kids who just slice off their breasts. And then, my mom would come in and be like, ‘Oh my gosh!’ and then I’d probably go to a mental institution. It [would] probably be really awful.”

Al-Jazeera also spoke with Roxy Castro (right), a 12-year-old trans girl in the program at Children’s Medical Center. Roxy said she avoids drinking water at school because she has to use a separate bathroom on the other side of the building, which leads to questions from other students about why she can’t use the girl’s room.

Mela Singleton, Evan’s mom, addressed the bathroom panic that defeated HERO.

“How do you combat rhetoric?” she said. “How do you combat emotional panic? When my kid walks into a bathroom, I’m not worried they’re going to hurt your kid. I’m worried for his safety, period, because that’s more likely where the violence will show up.”

Watch Al-Jazeera’s report below.

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John Wright

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Veterans Call for Benefits for 'Other than Honorable' Discharges

Veterans Call for Benefits for 'Other than Honorable' Discharges

Three veterans groups are calling on the Obama administration this Veterans Day to extend benefits to all who serve their country and treat them fairly. 

According to a report in Windy City Times, tens of thousands of vets who receive a less than honorable discharge, because of their sexual orientation or for other reasons, are denied benefits they have earned.

Currently, only military veterans with “good” discharges receive full health, disability and educational benefits.  

This morning, veterans gathering at Chicago’s Vietnam Veterans Memorial are calling for benefits to be provided regardless of discharge status.

The vets and supporters are honoring those who have died in service of their country by throwing flowers into the Chicago River.

The event is sponsored by Vietnam Veterans Against the War, Iraq Veterans Against the War and Veterans for Peace.

Dawn Ennis

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