We're Here, We're Queer, We're Covered!

We're Here, We're Queer, We're Covered!
The first thing doctors always asks me after I tell them I’m gay: “When was the last time you had any blood work done?”

I’m not sure if this is standard protocol, ignorance or just hyper-sensitivity on my part, but I always expect it; it always happens, and I’m always a little peeved by it. But I’m one of the lucky ones. At least I get to see a doctor.

Before the Affordable Care Act (ACA), health care was out of reach for tens of thousands of lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans and queer (LGBTQ) young adults. Despite what many Americans see on TV, young LGBTQ adults often face higher rates of poverty than their heterosexual counterparts. It’s not all Will and Grace for many of us, who face the hard decision of choosing between housing and food — or our health.

December 15 marks the deadline to get health coverage that starts on January 1 in the federal and state marketplaces, and I urge everyone lacking insurance to get covered.

I moved back home to San Francisco in 2011 and — like lots of Millennials after the Great Recession — I had a hard time finding a job. Working at a restaurant and paying my ridiculous San Francisco-priced rent, I couldn’t afford health care after I turned 26 and aged off of my mom’s insurance policy.

It wasn’t until the first Open Enrollment period in October 2013, when Americans could go online and shop for health care plans, that I could finally afford health care for myself. Eighty-five percent of Americans who selected health plans received discounts on coverage. The majority of young adults were eligible to pay less than $100 per month, or less than the cost of a phone bill.

This year, young LGBTQ adults who still lack health insurance have another chance to sign up and reap the benefits of coverage. Some of those benefits include free HIV screenings, depression screenings, well-woman visits and preventive services such as pap tests and mammograms.

Health care providers cannot discriminate against patients based on sexual orientation and gender identity, thanks to the Affordable Care Act, which is a huge victory for the LGBTQ community.

If you haven’t already, start shopping at Healthcare.gov or your state health insurance marketplace. And then be sure to see a doctor when you need it, even it means answering questions that seem redundant. Our generation ends up in the emergency room more than any other age group except the elderly, and we can’t afford to risk our health — or our finances.

Want more information how the ACA helps the LGBTQ community? Visit YoungInvincibles.org/hcadvocates!

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Ben Affleck’s & Neil Patrick Harris’ Penises Go Online While Ricky Martin Inspires Plastic Surgery

Ben Affleck’s & Neil Patrick Harris’ Penises Go Online While Ricky Martin Inspires Plastic Surgery

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A guy in Argentina is so enamored with Ricky Martin that he’s had numerous surgeries to look more like him. We completely understand.

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If you blinked and missed Ben Affleck‘s impressive penis in the hit drama Gone Girl, here it is in all its NSFW gif-ic glory.  And while we’re at it why not take a look at what Neil Patrick Harris is packing here.

Steve Carrell and Jimmy Fallon are just a couple of ragtime gals who want some “Sexual Healing.”

Alaska Thunderfuck proves once again that she’s tough as nails.

Stephen Sondheim is probably the only person alive with the balls to tell Meryl Streep not to fuck something up, which he did with her recording of “She’ll Be Back” for Into the Woods. We think she followed his advice just fine.

Sorry J.Lo, you’ve officially been out-twerked by Julian Serrano. Boom!

We haven’t checked in with James Franco for what seems like hours days weeks, so here’s the multi-hyphenate entertainer lip-synching to “Like a Virgin.” What can’t he do? (h/t: Boy Culture)

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American Horror Story: Freak Show‘s Finn Wittrock is the scariest/hottest guy on TV and he’s not afraid of nude scenes.

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Having trouble shopping for that maudlin gay on your list? How about a hand-knitted Morrissey doll?

Jeremy Kinser

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Model Featured on 'Ex Gay' Virginia Billboard Is Neither 'Ex-Gay' Nor a Twin: VIDEO

Model Featured on 'Ex Gay' Virginia Billboard Is Neither 'Ex-Gay' Nor a Twin: VIDEO

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Richmond, Virginia’s new “Nobody Is Born Gay’ sign from ‘ex-gay’ activist group Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays (PFOX) has drawn the ire of the model featured on the billboard, who says he’s quite happy being gay and not actually a twin like the sign would have people believe. 

Richmond’s WWBT reports:

RouxSpeaking via Skype, Kyle Roux said he was shocked his image was used. Especially since he calls himself an “out and proud” gay man. 

“I was obviously quite shocked, so that why I decided to send you guys an email saying hey, I’m that guy in that billboard,” Roux said.

Roux hasn’t thought about that photo shoot in nearly a decade. He says the pictures used on the billboard were part of a stock photo shoot he did. Roux signed away the rights and was told the pictures would be used in commercial and corporate ads and brochures. […]

“It’s actually quite a big thing that there is this kind of discrimination and borderline hate speech going on, you know,” he said.

Roux says he’s worried about teens struggling with their sexuality, and he hopes to empower others. 

DoyleChristian Doyle, a self-professed ‘ex-gay’ and former board member of PFOX also chimed in on the story, saying Roux is irrelevant to what the billboard is trying to accomplish.

“The issue isn’t the photo on a the billboard, but the actual science.” 

And by “actual science” Doyle presumably means “thoroughly discredited, pseudo-scientific soul poison

Watch a segment of Roux’s interview with WWBT, AFTER THE JUMP

 

NBC12 – Richmond, VA News


Kyler Geoffroy

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Raven-Symone Gives Heartfelt Surprise, Honors Mentor Debbie Allen (VIDEO)

Raven-Symone Gives Heartfelt Surprise, Honors Mentor Debbie Allen (VIDEO)
Since the tender age of 4, Raven-Symone has captivated television audiences across the globe with her role as Olivia Kendall during the final three seasons of “The Cosby Show.” And in addition to the iconic show, which served as a launching pad for Raven’s career, she credits Golden Globe Award-winning actress Debbie Allen as a mentor who helped define her success.

In the latest installment of AOL’s 10-episode Original web-series titled, “My Hero,” Raven professed her admiration for Allen’s contribution as an entrepreneur, television director-producer, mother, and choreographer.

“Ms. Debbie is my hero, because she always gives,” she said in the video clip. “And to be able to express to Ms. Debbie what she does for me and my life, and what she does for me mentally when I go into the warzone that is Hollywood is really special…If I didn’t have Ms. Debbie in my life, I’d probably be trying to figure out, like, what could I do next.”

Allen underscored Symone’s sentiments and compared their relationship to that of a mother and daughter.

“Raven, she is like one of my kids,” the “Grey’s Anatomy” director gushed. “I’m somewhere between her other mom and her aunt…because there is a trust there and you can’t manufacture that, you can’t make that.”

Check out Raven-Symone’s heartwarming tribute to Debbie Allen in the clip above.

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One Direction Responds To Those Totally Believable Harry Styles/Barack Obama Sex Rumors

One Direction Responds To Those Totally Believable Harry Styles/Barack Obama Sex Rumors

6a00d8341c730253ef01bb07c2b635970d-500wiBy now, Harry Styles is as good at deflecting (or creating) cheeky gay rumors as he is at causing 13-year-old girls’ (or boys’) hearts to melt into hormonal sludge at the mere flip of his hair.

But even Harry wasn’t prepared for the recent National Examiner cover story alleging a hush-hush sexual relationship with none other than President Obama.

Are you listening, Aaron Sorkin? This has the makings of the best follow-up episode of The West Wing we’ve ever seen.

The gang was asked about the affair backstage at the Billboard Music Awards. Via the Gay UK:

When Harry, 20, was quizzed about the affair at last night’s BBC Music Awards he seemed unaware of the rumour replying, “I honestly have no idea what you’re talking about” before he then added, after a quick explanation: “I’ve heard some good ones in my time, but that’s interesting.”

Liam added: “Wow, it’s all getting a bit political!” Louis then joked: “So, does that give you some power in the White House then?” as Harry said: “Yeah, maybe.”

Here’s video of the bandmembers’ reactions:

Another day in the life of Harry Styles.

h/t Towleroad

Dan Tracer

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And Now for the Reception

And Now for the Reception
I can honestly say that I wasn’t sure I’d live to see the day when the freedom to marry was something enjoyed by same-sex couples in every state of the union. In fact 20 years ago, when I committed the Los Angeles LGBT Center to fighting for marriage equality, a number of activists warned that our movement would be set back by this battle.

Now, with marriage legal in 36 states (and counting), it’s likely we’ll soon have a Supreme Court ruling that makes it legal for us to marry our loved ones in any state. It’s been so much faster than most of us expected that it’s the closest thing to an LGBT civil rights honeymoon I’ve ever experienced.

But before we think we’re done, let’s remember: just like in real life, after the wedding comes the reception.

What will happen now in states where marriage is legal but public support remains low?

We’ve already seen how politicians like the governor of my birth state of Idaho, Butch Otter, will use our victory to burnish their tea party credentials, continuing their attacks on our families. As we inch toward November 2016, don’t expect to see many politicians from deep red states tout their support for marriage equality. But among folks who aren’t running for office in those states, I think we can expect a continuing shift of opinion.

People who don’t support marriage equality but are otherwise reasonable will begin to change. Just as President Obama purported to “evolve,” they’ll soon realize the future of civilization isn’t at risk simply because their LGBT colleagues and neighbors are getting married.

It would be very wrong, however, to mistake this for the end of LGBT discrimination. Though a majority of Americans now support our freedom to marry, bigotry continues, and it’s often expressed in very harsh ways. For example, the Los Angeles LGBT Center is caring for more homeless LGBT youth — abandoned and shunned by their parents — than ever before. In a majority of states, it’s still legal to fire LGBT people just for being who we are. LGBT seniors continue to face rampant discrimination in retirement and assisted living facilities, and the latest research shows that LGBT people earn less money than our counterparts.

The truth is, even the most historic court victories only start the process. Social change isn’t won top-down, it’s an ongoing effort — often a hard one — to bring discrimination and prejudice to an end. That’s why, by itself, Brown v. Board of Education didn’t solve the problem of race-based prejudice, and Roe v. Wade didn’t end the debate on reproductive justice.

And that’s why the Center’s committed to the work of our Vote for Equality Project, which was featured this week in the highly respected journal Science. We know there’s nothing automatic about reducing and eliminating prejudice, yet it can be done. Our voter persuasion and prejudice reduction work — subjected to the most rigorous scientific measurement — made conservative voters markedly less prejudiced against gay and lesbian people. No other initiative subjected to such rigorous measurement has ever achieved these kinds of lasting results.

It took five years, 1,000+ volunteers and 12,000+ conversations in neighborhoods of Los Angeles where voters crushed us on Prop 8, but what we learned — and what we have now proven in a scientific study — is that we can change the hearts and minds of voters who are against us, or who are conflicted, by coming out to them and discussing their real, lived experience with LGBT people. That’s what enabled voters to not only support our freedom to marry, but to lastingly shed their prejudice against us.

Of course, coming out doesn’t always — and immediately — end LGBT discrimination. Sometimes coming out causes discrimination, even (and especially) by family members. But since the earliest days of the LGBT rights movement, leaders have understood the necessity to change public opinion by being out, and now — for the first time — we’ve proven how right they were.

Now the Los Angeles LGBT Center is applying what we’ve learned in an attempt to reduce other forms of discrimination, including the prejudice against our transgender brothers and sisters and — with funding from Planned Parenthood — the stigma against women who have had an abortion.

So as we celebrate this incredible year, let’s be grateful for the organizations, lawyers, plaintiffs and activists around the country who have moved us so far forward on marriage. They’ve walked us down the aisle.

But we’re not done. Instead, we’re about to experience the broader public reception.

Yes, it’s tempting to think that the courts can do all the work for us. Yes, it’s hard work and can be uncomfortable to talk with voters who disagree with us. But let’s vow to continue the work that has proven to make voters less prejudiced, because marriage is only the beginning of what we need while we work to eliminate LGBT discrimination altogether.

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