Student Who Stood Up To Don Young Says He Was Shocked By Homophobic Remark

Student Who Stood Up To Don Young Says He Was Shocked By Homophobic Remark
WASHINGTON — An Alaska high school student said he and his classmates were stunned by Rep. Don Young’s (R-Alaska) insensitive comments during a school assembly Tuesday and thinks the congressman’s apology was insincere.

Zachary Grier, 17, a senior at Wasilla High School, asked Young during the assembly why he still opposed same-sex marriage, even after a court struck down Alaska’s ban on same-sex unions. Young responded by asking Grier, “What do you get when you have two bulls having sex?” When Grier answered that he didn’t know, Young told him: “A whole lot of bull.”

Grier said his principal cut the assembly short after his question. Many teachers later thanked him for pressing Young.

“I was pretty upset,” Grier told The Huffington Post. “I can understand having your own opinion, and that’s fine. But having your own opinion and coming into a room filled with high schoolers and telling them that same-sex marriage is the same as two bulls having sex — in my opinion, that’s wrong.”

Even more shocking, Grier said, was the way Young talked about suicide less than a week after a high school classmate took his own life. Young told the assembly of about 130 students that suicide was caused by a lack of community support, which angered a close friend of the deceased student. When the student interrupted Young to say that wasn’t true, the congressman called him a “smartass,” Grier said.

“To hear that it was because you weren’t a good friend, I mean that makes someone hurt more than just having that happen,” Grier said. “To hear that it’s your fault after the fact is definitely a heavier blow.”

The leader of the nation’s largest suicide prevention organization expressed dismay at Young’s comments.

“Alaska has one of the highest rates of suicide in the United States and it is disappointing that Representative Young would say such ill-informed remarks about something that is taking the lives of his constituents, young and old, across the Frontier State,” said Robert Gebbia, CEO of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.

Gebbia said it’s imperative for people to be sensitive when talking about suicide, and responsibility is greater for those who hold public office. “Members of Congress, and elected officials across the country, should lead by example on this important health concern,” Gebbia said.

Grier said he had not heard from Young personally, but the school received an apologetic letter from Young’s campaign. Grier said the letter was meaningless because Young on Wednesday said he stuck by his comments.

“In my opinion, a written apology doesn’t mean crap because it’s not from him,” Grier said. The teen also dismissed a statement released by Young’s office on Tuesday that said Young “did not mean to upset anyone with his well-intentioned message.”

“I don’t know how anything was well-intentioned there,” Grier said. “Whatever was intended well was not taken well, I’ll put it like that. Because of the way he made it come across and because of the views that he’s sticking to, a day after he heard how badly it affected our school.”

Grier added that he thought his school would appreciate a genuine apology from the congressman.

Young, who has served in Congress since 1973, exposed viewpoints that Alaska voters may not have known he held, Grier said.

“Why would people from Alaska have voted this guy in so many times if these are his views and he’s not afraid to stick by them whether it hurts high schoolers or not?,” Grier said. “I still don’t understand how people could have voted him in as much as they have.”

Jennifer Bendery contributed reporting.

Need help? In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.

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Anne Rice’s Former New Orleans Mansion Is Everything You Want It To Be

Anne Rice’s Former New Orleans Mansion Is Everything You Want It To Be

Sure, there’s limitless pleasure to be found on Bourbon Street and in the French Quarter, but no visit to New Orleans is complete without a tour of the lush Garden District and a photo op in front of the magnificent antebellum home in which Anne Rice lived for many years. The author, beloved by countless fans for her series of homoerotic Vampire novels, posted a message on her Facebook page that read:

When I wrote “The Witching Hour,” I made the house I was living in, in the Garden District of New Orleans, on the corner of Chestnut and First Street, into the home of the Mayfair family of witches. I lived in this spectacular house for 15 years, and it figured in a total of five novels. Today I found this lovely website devoted to it, filled with pictures of the rooms in which I lived, and the rooms I described in my writing. I no longer live there, but will always walk those rooms in my dreams, and the house shall live in my heart forever. The house is a private home, and not open to the public, but any trip to New Orleans is enhanced by a walking tour of the great houses of the Garden District. (Don’t do this alone. Go in groups and during daylight hours.)

Enjoy a video tour of the home below.

H/t Come To My Parlor

Jeremy Kinser

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