{"id":98692,"date":"2019-09-27T12:25:50","date_gmt":"2019-09-27T16:25:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/writer-erik-patterson-and-actors-stephen-guarino-michael-rishwan-on-giving-an-audience-a-handjob\/"},"modified":"2019-09-27T12:25:50","modified_gmt":"2019-09-27T16:25:50","slug":"writer-erik-patterson-and-actors-stephen-guarino-michael-rishwan-on-giving-an-audience-a-handjob","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/writer-erik-patterson-and-actors-stephen-guarino-michael-rishwan-on-giving-an-audience-a-handjob\/","title":{"rendered":"Writer Erik Patterson and actors Stephen Guarino &amp; Michael Rishwan on giving an audience a \u2018Handjob\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Writer Erik Patterson and actors Stephen Guarino &#038; Michael Rishwan on giving an audience a \u2018Handjob\u2019<\/b><\/p>\n<figure aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-538982\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Michael-Rishwan-Stephen-Clup-2-670x401.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"670\" height=\"401\" srcset=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Michael-Rishwan-Stephen-Clup-2-670x401.jpg 670w, https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Michael-Rishwan-Stephen-Clup-2-400x240.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\"><figcaption><em>Michael Rishwan and Stephen Culp<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Artistic power can hide in unlikely places.<\/p>\n<p>Thus is the case with <em>Handjob<\/em>, a new play which had its world premiere at the Atwater Village Theatre in Los Angeles. Written by Erik Patterson, and as directed by Chris Fields for the Echo Theater Company,\u00a0<em>Handjob<\/em> opens with a titillating situation.\u00a0 A frustrated writer named Keith (played by Stephen Culp of <em>Gray\u2019s Anatomy<\/em>) has hired a hot younger <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">man<\/a> named Eddie (Michael Rishwan, a student of New York\u2019s The New School) to clean his house. The scene plays until two new characters emerge, Kevin (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.queerty.com\/eastsiders-creator-kit-williamson-teases-sexy-season-4-just-20180922\">Stephen Guarino of\u00a0<em>EastSiders<\/em><\/a>) and Bradley (Ryan Nealy of the film <em>Singularities<\/em>) and act out almost the exact same setup on the exact same set\u2026with no explanation.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s\u00a0<em>really\u00a0<\/em>going on here? We\u2019ll not say, other than to mention that\u00a0<em>Handjob<\/em> does indeed deal with a handjob (which is presented <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=grq0&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">live<\/a> on stage), and the blurred lines where reality can intrude on fantasy, and vice versa. Running 90 minutes with no intermission, what begins as a silly, sexy romp evolves into a morally ambiguous, provocative and graphic meditation on gender, race, sexuality and violation.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><em>Handjob<\/em> opened September 7 and runs through October 28 at the Atwater Village Theatre in Los Angeles. Queerty snagged some time with playwright Patterson and actors Rishwan and Guarino to <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=grq0&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">chat<\/a> about the power of the piece, subverting an audience\u2019s expectations, and what happens when fights break out in the audience.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Congratulations to you all. This is a far more challenging piece than I expected. It doesn\u2019t have clear or easy answers about who\u2019s right or wrong. So Erik, where did you conceive this?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Erik Patterson: I\u2019ve been working on this play about two years. The Echo read a draft of it a year ago, and we probably did about six readings of it before we had a cast and went into rehearsal. So I\u2019ve been doing a lot of refining and revising over the course of the past year. Before that, I think I started writing about two years ago. It went through various incarnations. The original impulse was I had hired a shirtless cleaner, and was having dinner with a friend of mine. Nothing untoward happened, it was just a <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">man<\/a> to clean my apartment with his shirt off, which was lovely.<\/p>\n<p><i>[Laughter]<\/i><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>I was telling the story to my friend, and she said \u201cThere\u2019s a play there.\u201d So I wrote. There\u2019s a lot in the play, a lot of current, hot-button issues. All of the things people were talking about like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.queerty.com\/people-use-metoo-weapon-homophobia-20190602\">#MeToo<\/a>\u2014all of that was going on while I was writing. So a lot of that bled into the play and it became this ball of ideas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I don\u2019t get to talk to many actors who create a role in theatre. How did the part come to each of you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Stephen Guarino: We had met socially through an actor named Matt McGrath, whom I idolize.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><i>[He turns to Erik]<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Maybe you thought I was interesting, but that was the only time we really hung out. Then he sent me a script while I was in New York. I was just reading it frantically, and had to read it a second time. Then I got so excited I called him and said \u201cI\u2019m going to play this. Nobody will do it better than me.\u201d To be fair, some other people had read it, but I was just so excited for the flip that happens [a major plot twist]. To play both sides of that: I feel like that is a fair assessment of how I feel in my own life.<\/p>\n<p><b>And what about for you, Michael?<\/b><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>Michael Rishwan: I did audition. It came to me through a friend who\u2019s in <i>Gloria<\/i>, from last season. I\u2019m in film school right now. So I went in to work my chops and my training, and I ended up getting it. It\u2019s been really beautiful. I\u2019m so appreciative to be part of this process and working with these people in the play.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And it\u2019s not easy material.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>MR: The writing itself, the mental dexterity you have to have\u2014he\u2019s written such a play that, as an actor, I get so excited to eat his words. But there are so many different ways you can deliver his language You have to be so focused. There\u2019s a speed about it. You have to be intentional with the language. It\u2019s almost like I\u2019m playing on a playground in a way.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>SG: It\u2019s a mouthful.<\/p>\n<figure aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-538986\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-670x442.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"670\" height=\"442\" srcset=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-670x442.jpg 670w, https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-400x264.jpg 400w, https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-105x68.jpg 105w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\"><figcaption><em>Tamarra Graham, Stephen Guarino, Gloria Ines and Ryan Nealy<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>That monologue you\u2019re given, yes. But more than that, the nervousness of the character. I\u2019m curious as to your process: how do you get at that every night?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>SG: It\u2019s difficult for me because physically. I\u2019m a lounger. So I literally just caffeinate myself for that first scene. I do ecstatic breathing, and I start doing all the ticks so that I\u2019m in a frenzy by the time I enter the scene. I\u2019m also thinking about everyone that\u2019s seeing it, all the people I know, and I get myself to a full nervous state. I say all their names over and over in my head. I feel like a deer in the headlights when I start. I just think <i>you\u2019re going to fail, you\u2019re going to fail\u2026<\/i><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s a hell of a method.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>SG: It\u2019s great. The more nervous the funnier the situation. Usually you have to be relaxed and grounded to start a play. This is the opposite.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you watch the show every night Erik?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>EP: We\u2019re in our third weekend. I haven\u2019t seen every show, but it\u2019s my baby. I like to watch it a lot to see how it grows and changes. So I won\u2019t be watching it quite as much as we go on. But I feel very lucky that the entire cast is brilliant. To see them all bring this play to life is really fun. Every audience too\u2014it\u2019s interesting to hear how the audience will respond from night to night. There are many arguments made in the play, and on some nights I feel like some people are more with one argument and other nights they\u2019re with another. Audiences can be very vocal.<\/p>\n<p>MR:\u00a0It\u2019s different every single night.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Really?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>EP: There was one night where this person in the audience kept sighing very loudly.<\/p>\n<p><i>[Laughter]<\/i><\/p>\n<p>He was very upset about certain things. I was like <i>oh wow, they\u2019re feeling things<\/i>. So that\u2019s fun to see: the work provoking.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How does it evolve from night to night?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>SG: We all keep finding something new in the script every night. Honestly, it\u2019s so verbose that I will hear something new I really need to digest. It\u2019s like I really hear it for the first time. Maybe that actor really leaned into that argument. Like tonight, I really heard a lot of Tamara\u2019s stuff, and I really leaned into it, so then it was easier for me to get excited about what she was saying. I\u2019m not an enthusiastic person\u2013<\/p>\n<p><i>[Laughter]<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I have to fabricate, to a certain degree.<\/p>\n<figure aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-538984\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Stephen-Gurriano-670x468.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"670\" height=\"468\" srcset=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Stephen-Gurriano-670x468.jpg 670w, https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Stephen-Gurriano-400x279.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\"><figcaption><em>Ryan Nealy and Stephen Guarino<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>I want to talk about the <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">sex<\/a> scenes. Obviously, doing <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">sex<\/a> or nudity on <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=grq0&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">camera<\/a> is very different from doing it on stage, particularly in an intimate venue. There are all kinds of different laws about what you can show. <\/strong><strong>Michael, you\u2019re not in any dildo scenes.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>MR: No!<\/p>\n<p><strong> So Stephen, when you have to do a scene where you <i>actually have to touch <\/i>a fellow actor\u2019s <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">penis<\/a>\u2014or a facsimile of it\u2014how do you get to a comfort level where you\u2019re able to do that <i>and<\/i> do it with people watching?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>SG: I probably don\u2019t hold those things too precious in the first place. In fact, I find it sort of titillating. But I will literally just think of things that turn me on in my own experience to try and recreate the shortness of breath, or the blushing, or the embarrassment of a sexual situation. I concentrate on sexual situations that were uneven.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you get comfortable with your fellow actors?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>SG: I don\u2019t really think about it, which is interesting. I just think they\u2019re doing their thing, I\u2019m doing mine. At no point would I think I have crossed over into their space.<\/p>\n<p>EP: I do feel like, maybe, some of the things that happen in the play, we have a very safe space.<\/p>\n<p>SG: On the spectrum of people who thought intimacy coaching was necessary, I fall on the end of <i>you gotta be f*cking kidding me<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>EP: But, at the same time, just from an insider-outsider\u2014I don\u2019t act the scene. I just analyze it. I feel like you two are respectful of one another\u2019s spaces. They worked together. You would touch his knee.<\/p>\n<p>SG: Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>EP: I felt like there was a period of time where they were learning how to touch each other but it\u2019s not crossing lines. You would hold a hand or touch a knee.<\/p>\n<p>SG: I wonder if I would have I would have been less deliberate about that if I knew the other actor was <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">gay<\/a>. Knowing the other actor and knowing him to be heterosexual, I was very clear. I\u2019d say \u201cI\u2019m going to touch your knee now to block this.\u201d That was until we got the prosthetics.<\/p>\n<figure aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-538985\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-Ryan-Nealy-670x476.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"670\" height=\"476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-Ryan-Nealy-670x476.jpg 670w, https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-Ryan-Nealy-400x284.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\"><figcaption><em>Tamarra Graham, Stephen Guarino, and Ryan Nealy<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s smart.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>SG: But I wonder if I knew he was <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">gay<\/a>, I would have been like, <i>I\u2019m just going to touch this\u2026<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>[Laughter]<\/i><\/p>\n<p><strong>But that\u2019s also so meta with the content of the play itself. I was left wondering about the rehearsal period, if any of it was added in.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>EP: It was all scripted.<\/p>\n<p>MR: I think Mr. Patterson has written a really beautiful play about the power of connection and the power of disconnection and how necessary it is for people right now. No matter what you look like, no matter how you identify, it\u2019s connection vs. disconnection.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sure, which can stir up an audience.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>EP: There was a moment where we had a talkback after the show. Someone in the audience said something, and Stephen was talking, and there was a little bit of back and forth. Suddenly I felt like the play was happening again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wow.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>SG: It was a <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/?mp_code=akftr\">woman<\/a>. I said something sort of in my bombastic way. And she said \u201cI don\u2019t know if that\u2019s you or the character talking.\u201d And I said \u201cM\u2019am, I\u2019m not a sociopath.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><i>[Laughter]<\/i><\/p>\n<p>EP: That\u2019s a good line!<\/p>\n<p>SG: It was just me. I wasn\u2019t offended, but I was aghast that someone would think I wouldn\u2019t know the difference.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s so funny about that is that <i>is<\/i> what the play is about: the nebulousness of boundaries particularly in a situation where you indulge a fantasy, be it the shirtless <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">guy<\/a> cleaning house or working on a set. I read a story from an actress recently who described an instance on a set where she played a scene with another actor. She was supposed to have a shocked reaction, so her fellow actor took a water bottle and sprayed water up her skirt into her snatch. So she screamed and reacted, and it might even be the take in the film.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.queerty.com\/mj-rodriguez-kicks-new-door-new-role-little-shop-horrors-20190925\">MJ Rodriguez kicks down a new door with her new role in \u2018Little Shop of Horrors\u2019<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I mention this because she felt really violated. At the same time, you hear about other actors who will come out <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">naked<\/a> to shock a fellow actor. Or <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">guys<\/a> actually hit each other. Or actors really French kiss. So my question is when you\u2019re in a creative space like this, how do you still respect one another\u2019s boundaries?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>EP: You talk. There has to be a lot of dialogue. We knew going into this rehearsal process that we were making a play called <i>Handjob<\/i> with an actual handjob in it. So we didn\u2019t ignore the fact that there\u2019s a handjob in it.<\/p>\n<p>SG: It\u2019s so hilarious. We get audiences <i>because<\/i> of that. They think it\u2019s going to be a <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">sex<\/a> show.<\/p>\n<p>EP: Absolutely. I think that the handjob is the Trojan horse to get those people into the theatre, but there\u2019s a whole lot more going on in the play than that. The handjob is a big shiny object. I once saw this <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">gay<\/a> play\u2014a \u201csexy\u201d <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">gay<\/a> play\u2014before I wrote this. It made me so mad because the play wasn\u2019t about anything. I think it thought it was, but it really wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<figure aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-538988\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-Ryan-Nealy-Gloria-Inez-670x350.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"670\" height=\"350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-Ryan-Nealy-Gloria-Inez-670x350.jpg 670w, https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Handjob-Tamarra-Graham-Stephen-Guarino-Ryan-Nealy-Gloria-Inez-400x209.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\"><figcaption><em>Tamarra Graham, Stephen Guarino, Ryan Nealy, Gloria Inez<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>But tickets sold?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>EP: Out the wazoo. But I went to this play, and people were running to go see it, because it was so sexy. Which is great, but I wanted something to go deeper.<\/p>\n<p>SG: I will also say this: I have never been in a situation where I felt anything uncomfortable on that level. I\u2019ve had race issues come up, where certain conversations I had to be taught a different language, and I was embarrassed. But that all happened within a conversation. I have kissed, I have had <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">sex<\/a> with <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/?mp_code=akftr\">women<\/a>\u2014nobody has ever come up to me as a <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">gay<\/a> <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">man<\/a> and said \u201cOk, now you\u2019re going to touch her. Now you\u2019re going to kiss her.\u201d Nobody has <i>ever <\/i>asked me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s interesting. I talked to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.queerty.com\/rupert-everett-gay-actors-dont-get-straight-roles-cant-imagine-us-fing-women-20181011\">Rupert Everett last year<\/a>, and he <i>has<\/i> had directors tell him how to touch a <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/?mp_code=akftr\">woman<\/a>. And he would say \u201cYou know I\u2019m <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">bi<\/a>, right?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><i>[Laughter]<\/i><\/p>\n<p>SG: I just think nobody has ever been concerned about me as a <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">gay<\/a> <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">man<\/a> touching a <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/?mp_code=akftr\">woman<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Are you ever concerned for your own safety?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>SG: I\u2019m trying to think of any time. I remember once I was in character and a person said \u201cDon\u2019t touch me. I\u2019ll get AIDS.\u201d But that person was trying to be funny, and they\u2019re an idiot. I was caught off guard, but not offended. I just thought <i>what a poor choice of words<\/i>. That\u2019s the only time I can really think of.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s probably a good thing for you. The most provocative line in the whole text is in the final scene where one character says \u201cI don\u2019t want to teach you.\u201d What interesting about that is that so much of the plot and meta-plot are about teachable moments and misunderstandings. The laziness isn\u2019t just someone not wanting to listen, it\u2019s someone not wanting to explain their feelings. That just fuels frustration. So, how do we get around that?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>EP: One of the things I really want to leave audiences with is that there\u2019s a lot of talking in this play, and not a lot of listening. At the end of the day, we all need to listen more especially to people who represent groups we are not part of. Straight people need to listen to <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">gay<\/a> people more. White people need to listen to people of color more. There\u2019s a lot of not listening happening.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So what happens the next day?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>EP: That\u2019s another play. I don\u2019t have an answer for that.<\/p>\n<figure aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-538989\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Stephen-Culp-Michael-Rishwan-670x448.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"670\" height=\"448\" srcset=\"https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Stephen-Culp-Michael-Rishwan-670x448.jpg 670w, https:\/\/queerty-prodweb.s3.amazonaws.com\/2019\/09\/Stephen-Culp-Michael-Rishwan-400x268.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\"><figcaption><em>Stephen Culp and Michael Rishwan<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Michael, what do you think? Your character closes out the play with his exit.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>MR: I don\u2019t even know the answer to that question. It\u2019s the notion of connection vs. disconnection. I don\u2019t know if Eddie is going to write stuff, or have second thoughts. 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