{"id":9389,"date":"2014-10-23T16:20:27","date_gmt":"2014-10-23T20:20:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/gay-man-details-the-physical-and-mental-anguish-of-his-abusive-relationship\/"},"modified":"2014-10-23T16:20:27","modified_gmt":"2014-10-23T20:20:27","slug":"gay-man-details-the-physical-and-mental-anguish-of-his-abusive-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/gay-man-details-the-physical-and-mental-anguish-of-his-abusive-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Gay Man Details The Physical And Mental Anguish Of His Abusive Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Gay Man Details The Physical And Mental Anguish Of His Abusive Relationship<\/b><br \/>\nConversations about abusive relationships among same-<a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">sex<\/a> <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">couples<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/health\/archive\/2013\/11\/a-same-sex-domestic-violence-epidemic-is-silent\/281131\/\" target=\"_hplink\">often go untold<\/a>, but one survivor opened up to HuffPost Live to share his harrowing experience with an abusive boyfriend. <\/p>\n<p>John Mio, a domestic violence survivor and advocate, found himself in an abusive relationship two years ago, unsure of how to escape. Like many similar stories, his relationship didn&#8217;t start off that way. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was love at first sight, how it usually is,&#8221; Mio explained to host <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/CaroMt\" target=\"_hplink\">Caroline Modarressy-Tehrani.<\/a> &#8220;We got engaged, moved in together and [then] everything started going downhill from there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The abuse Mio endured is hard to imagine. It started as verbal and then got brutally physical.  <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Things kept getting worse and worse, to the point where I had to eat my dinner off the floor,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I couldn&rsquo;t speak because I&rsquo;d get punched in the face.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The violence didn&#8217;t stop there. The breaking point for Mio, he described, was when he was locked in a garage for nearly two weeks.<\/p>\n<p>While he said he knew the abuse was &#8220;very wrong,&#8221; he &#8220;didn&#8217;t know how to get out&#8221; because he&#8217;d left his family and friends behind to pursue the relationship. <\/p>\n<p>But Mio is now free from the abuse and is sharing his story in the hopes of helping others.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&rsquo;m not saying I regret everything that happened because it&rsquo;s made me a stronger person that I am today. It just shows that if I share my story, it&#8217;ll get out to people and maybe they can see whatever happens to you, you can make a difference,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/live.huffingtonpost.com\/r\/segment\/lgbt-domestic-violence-\/5435903878c90a2f33000a43\" target=\"_hplink\">Watch the full segment on same-sex domestic violence here.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/newsletter\/huffpost-live\" target=\"_hplink\">Sign up here<\/a> for Live Today, HuffPost Live&#8217;s new morning email that will let you know the newsmakers, celebrities and politicians joining us that day and give you the best clips from the day before!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2014\/10\/23\/gay-abusive-relationship_n_6036284.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&#038;ir=Gay+Voices\" class=\"autohyperlink\">www.huffingtonpost.com\/2014\/10\/23\/gay-abusive-relationship_n_6036284.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&#038;ir=Gay+Voices<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gay Man Details The Physical And Mental Anguish Of His Abusive Relationship Conversations about abusive relationships among same-<a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">sex<\/a> <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/www.flirt4free.com\/live\/girls\/couples\/?mp_code=akftr\">couples<\/a> often go untold, but one survivor opened up to HuffPost Live to share his harrowing experience with an abusive boyfriend. 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