{"id":58479,"date":"2017-12-01T16:20:25","date_gmt":"2017-12-01T21:20:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/whys-it-so-hard-to-find-good-gay-friends\/"},"modified":"2017-12-01T16:20:25","modified_gmt":"2017-12-01T21:20:25","slug":"whys-it-so-hard-to-find-good-gay-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/whys-it-so-hard-to-find-good-gay-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Why\u2019s It So Hard to Find Good Gay Friends?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Why\u2019s It So Hard to Find Good Gay Friends?<\/b><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"195\" height=\"195\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?resize=195%2C195\" alt=\"Matthew Dempsey\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?resize=195%2C195 195w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?zoom=2&#038;resize=195%2C195 390w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?zoom=3&#038;resize=195%2C195 585w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 195px) 100vw, 195px\"><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?resize=740%2C388\" alt=\"Matthew Dempsey\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?w=1376 1376w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?resize=300%2C157 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?resize=768%2C403 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.towleroad.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/dempsey.jpg?resize=1024%2C537 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 740px) 100vw, 740px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"><\/p>\n<p>Psychotherapist Matthew Dempsey is back with a new <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=grq0&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">video<\/a> on the art of <a title=\"\" class=\"aalmanual\" target=\"_blank\"   href=\"https:\/\/chaturbate.com\/in\/?tour=R2Xc&#38;campaign=hl4zp&#38;track=gfcsb\">gay<\/a> friending. 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