{"id":49259,"date":"2017-01-16T14:25:31","date_gmt":"2017-01-16T19:25:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/bi-guys-in-opposite-sex-relationships-talk-about-desire-for-men\/"},"modified":"2017-01-16T14:25:31","modified_gmt":"2017-01-16T19:25:31","slug":"bi-guys-in-opposite-sex-relationships-talk-about-desire-for-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/bi-guys-in-opposite-sex-relationships-talk-about-desire-for-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Bi guys in opposite-sex relationships talk about desire for men"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bi guys<\/a> in opposite-sex<\/a> relationships talk about desire for men<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n

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In a new Reddit thread, a bi<\/a> guy<\/a> who is married to a woman<\/a> asks his fellow bisexual<\/a> brethren how they get cope with their homosexual urges.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m a hetero-leaning bisexual<\/a> man<\/a> in an opposite-sex<\/a> relationship,\u201d the post begins. \u201cMost of my sexual urges are currently for women<\/a>, but I\u2019m aware of some desires for men<\/a>. They\u2019re not strong enough for me to want an open relationship, and my main sexual priority is my love life with my wife. But my fantasies and porn consumption cover the full Kinsey scale. That\u2019s about all I need to scratch my \u2018homo itch.’\u201d<\/p>\n

Related:\u00a0Amber Rose thinks bi guys are \u201camazing\u201d but she wouldn\u2019t be \u201ccomfortable\u201d dating one, so don\u2019t ask<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

The man<\/a> continues: \u201cI know that most bi<\/a> guys<\/a> are in opposite-sex<\/a> relationships. But I\u2019m curious about those who are in same-sex<\/a> relationships \u2014 how do they scratch their \u201chetero itch?\u201d Watch straight porn (there are a surprising number of gay<\/a>-identified men<\/a> who do)? Arrange for the occasional threesome? Get a Fleshlight? Just ogle women<\/a>?\u201d<\/p>\n

Now, let\u2019s dig into some of the responses.<\/p>\n

For one guy<\/a>, it\u2019s all about porn consumption:<\/p>\n

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I\u2019m a bi<\/a> guy<\/a> married to a man<\/a>. There are definitely times when I want nothing more than to fuck<\/a> a girl<\/a>, but we are monogamous and that\u2019s what works for us. But to help me \u2018scratch the itch\u2019 as you put it, I watch straight porn and solo girl<\/a> porn. Also I have a fleshlight. \u2026 I admit it\u2019s tough, and it can be a little frustrating sometimes, but I love my husband and we just don\u2019t think poly would work for us. We have been together for 12 years now and I had girlfriends<\/a> and boyfriends before him on and off.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

For another, it\u2019s about not indulging in fantasies:<\/p>\n

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If I tell my husband that I had a straight sex<\/a> dream, or that I feel like having sex<\/a> with a woman<\/a> today, he\u2019s like \u201cchallenge accepted!\u201d Seriously though, fluidity has been a serious problem in all my relationships except this one, and I attribute this, in part, to my not looking at any straight porn. Sometimes I see a pretty lady<\/a> or start looking at bi<\/a> porn and think \u201cNope! Avert your eyes!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Related:\u00a0Boy George keeps Tweeting bisexual jokes, and people are calling him \u201cbiphobic\u201d<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

One guy<\/a> uses dating apps:<\/p>\n

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Ugh, it\u2019s not easy, compared to men<\/a> hahahah. I\u2019ve had great luck with the website fetlife.com<\/a>. Lots of women<\/a>, the site is specificity about sex<\/a> and the kink community, so open relationships, bisexuality and such is \u201csmall potatoes\u201d to these people. I also say it right out on my tinder \u201cin an open relationship, looking for good meaningful hookups with people whom I connect with.\u201d Be upfront, have it advertised, let them make their own choices, you\u2019ll be surprised how many match with you.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

And for another, it\u2019s all about creating a open relationship that works for everyone:<\/p>\n

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I\u2019m in a polyamorous relationship with strict boundaries. We all have to agree before someone decides to date someone else. They have to be known clean for STI\u2019s and have known them long enough to be trustworthy. Our gf has a bf and a gf. My bf has a gf. And we are always upfront about how we feel.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Related:\u00a01 in 5 straight men watch man-on-man adult videos, riveting new study confirms<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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