{"id":48867,"date":"2017-01-03T10:25:55","date_gmt":"2017-01-03T15:25:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/help-im-a-kind-gentle-open-minded-straight-guy-but-my-girlfriends-a-total-homophobe\/"},"modified":"2017-01-03T10:25:55","modified_gmt":"2017-01-03T15:25:55","slug":"help-im-a-kind-gentle-open-minded-straight-guy-but-my-girlfriends-a-total-homophobe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/help-im-a-kind-gentle-open-minded-straight-guy-but-my-girlfriends-a-total-homophobe\/","title":{"rendered":"Help! I\u2019m a kind, gentle, open-minded straight guy, but my girlfriend\u2019s a total homophobe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Help! I\u2019m a kind, gentle, open-minded straight guy<\/a>, but my girlfriend<\/a>\u2019s a total homophobe<\/b><\/p>\n

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Here’s a narrative you don’t hear every day. A straight man<\/a> is struggling with how to handle his girlfriend<\/a>’s homophobia, so he’s asking Dear Abby<\/a> for help.<\/p>\n

“I have been dating a wonderful girl<\/a> for about seven months,” his letter begins. “She’s sweet, kind, extraordinarily talented, and we treat each other wonderfully. Everything has been great, with the occasional disagreement.”<\/p>\n

Related: Double Ouch: His Girlfriend Cheated On Him — Because She Thinks He’s Gay.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

There’s just one problem.<\/p>\n

“I’m starting to notice that she seems to be homophobic,” the man<\/a> says. He explains that he was raised in a “liberal, open-minded home” but his girlfriend<\/a>’s was “much more conservative.”<\/p>\n

“She never met a homosexual until college,” he writes. “She has talked about feeling uncomfortable with two men<\/a> kissing or talking about being intimate. … When I tell her that I support marriage equality and the LGBTQ community, she gets very quiet and uneasy.”<\/p>\n

“I don’t know if I can be with someone who’s this uncomfortable about homosexuality,” he says. “What do you think I should do?”<\/p>\n

Related: Help! My Girlfriend Is Convinced I’m Gay After I Made This Request In Bed<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, Abby isn’t having any of this girlfriend<\/a>’s homophobic foolishness.<\/p>\n

“She may be a wonderful girl<\/a>,” she responds, “but whether you are wonderful for each other is open to question.”<\/p>\n

“Try to project ahead,” she continues. “If the two of you were to marry and she was unable to overcome her aversion to gay<\/a> people, to what extent would it limit your ability to interact with them? Or their ability to have a relationship with you?”<\/p>\n

Ultimately, Abby says, “if she’s able to evolve with more exposure. If she’s not, then she may not be the one for you.”<\/p>\n

Related: Straight Man Upset His Girlfriend Won’t Explore His Back Door, Seeks Help From Others<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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