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Man Seeks Advice: Why Is Being Asian, Gay, And Effeminate Frowned Upon?<\/b><\/p>\n

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He describes himself as “Asian,” “gay<\/a>,” and “slightly effeminate.” And he wants to know why that’s so frowned upon.<\/p>\n

Writing into Reddit, a man<\/a> with the moniker silverkoss<\/a> asks the community why he senses so much judgement and negativity simply on account of his personality and countenance.<\/p>\n

Related: Is This Gay Asian Guy “Aesthetically Marginalized” Or Just Complaining?<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Asian cultures have a lot of emphasis on conformity and introversion,” he writes, “a contrast to Western cultures which are derived from Greek philosophy where extroversion and individualism are highly prized.”<\/p>\n

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Isn’t it reasonable to accept the fact that we Asians in general tend to be more demure? Why is this looked down upon? I find it beautiful. It’s a question I ask because recently someone close to me suggested that I should be “less Asian” if I wanted to be more accepted into the gay<\/a> community…<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Related: Bottom Shame With A Side Of “No Asian”: A Message For All You Racist Grindr Users Out There<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Other Redditors were quick to offer their two cents.<\/p>\n

“Asian men<\/a> are slowly breaking barriers to finally get a seat at the ‘real men<\/a>’s’ table,” writes theminja<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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An example in popular cinema: the Asian character has always been relegated to tropes such as the innocent best friend, side kick, or bonafide martial arts expert….<\/p>\n

That’s why it was a huge deal when John Cho (pictured)<\/em> led the romantic comedy series Selfie<\/em> on ABC: because he was playing the lead in a series in which he was the desired leading character.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

He later suggests that “when there is a gay<\/a>, Asian, effeminate male<\/a> thrown into that mix, it makes the outward progress in society for the Asian male<\/a> a little harder.”<\/p>\n

“I wish it weren’t true,” writes koiboyy<\/a>, “but sadly ideals of femininity (and therefore lack of masculinity) deal with two large Asian-dominated stereotypes: introversion and physical stature.”<\/p>\n

Related: Bottom Shame With A Side Of “No Asian”: A Message For All You Racist Grindr Users Out There<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

“I don’t believe in them,” he continues, “but I’ll write down how traditional society, or at least mass media, portrays these ideals.”<\/p>\n

“As an Asian-American that’s lived in Asia, I don’t think these issues of self-worth will be resolved by moving to an Asian country,”qtUnicorn<\/a> advises.<\/p>\n

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Westernization is rather global. Regardless of that, matters of self-worth can only [be] internally resolved… Once you’re more okay with your ‘feminine’ characteristics (which is, indeed, harder to do), you would probably care less if society said otherwise.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

“I am Asian, I’m gay<\/a>, and I’m slightly effeminate,” writes bluesnofu<\/a>. “This can be looked down upon in our masculine society because typically the man<\/a> of the house is depicted as a tough, muscular individual.”<\/p>\n

Related: Are Asian Men “Desexualized And Emasculated” By The Media? This Guy Thinks So.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

“Physical stature is another thing,” suggests koiboyy<\/a>. “Asians are stereotypically smaller in height and stature, and lighter in weight.”<\/p>\n

“People categorize size with femininity, as history, time after time, shows us how women<\/a> are represented as the lesser of a couple<\/a>.”<\/p>\n

Anything you’d like to add? Sound off in the comments below.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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