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Wife To Bi Husband: \u2018What Are You Talking About? We Have A Mortgage And A Dog Together!\u2019<\/b><\/p>\n

\"woman-yells-at-man\"<\/p>\n

A woman<\/a> in her mid-30s says she was completely “devastated” when her husband recently told her he was bisexual<\/a>.<\/p>\n

“I stopped dead in my tracks and screamed: ‘What on Earth are you talking about? We have been married for 15 years<\/em>; we have a mortgage and a dog<\/em> together!’” the woman<\/a> recounts in a letter to advice columnist Just Jane<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

Related: Bisexual Man Seeks Help After Wife Forces Him Back Into The Closet, Denying Him The D<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Since the blow out, the woman<\/a> says her husband has been “hiding out in a boutique hotel and insisting that our marriage is dead because he’s been living a lie.”<\/p>\n

She continues, “He says he only married me because his family was putting pressure on him to settle down. He and I were working for the same firm when we met. And he knew that I was vulnerable, having just been jilted by my childhood sweetheart.”<\/p>\n

A “whirlwind romance” ensued, followed by a “quick wedding,” which the woman<\/a> now believes “wasn’t anything to do with passion on his part; it was in order to please his elderly parents–and inherit their house and wealth.”<\/p>\n

Related: Bisexuals Are On Track To Take Over The World, Study Suggests<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Oh, but it gets worse.<\/p>\n

Because when she started pressuring her husband for children, he refused, saying he was “desperate to keep me all to himself.” But now she knows otherwise: “It was because he is a bisexual<\/a> man<\/a> who prefers much younger male<\/a> and female<\/a> lovers!”<\/p>\n

“Now all of his relatives are dead and he’s living the life he always intended to live<\/a>,” she babbles on. “He’s getting off with all sorts of people and painting the whole capital red. He’s nothing but a big. Fat. TART!”<\/em><\/p>\n

And now, to add insult to injury, she says, “I’ve just had a letter from his solicitor pushing for a divorce.”<\/p>\n

“How am I ever going to be able to trust anyone again when I didn’t even see this coming?” she wonders.<\/p>\n

Gee, we can’t imagine why this man<\/a> wouldn’t want to be married to someone so charming and emotionally stable.<\/p>\n

Related: Wife Discovers Husband Sleeping With Guys; What Happens Next May Surprise You<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

In her response, Just Jane gets right down to business.<\/p>\n

“Stop beating yourself up about this,” she writes, which is really just a polite way of saying, “Get a fucking<\/a> hold of yourself!”<\/p>\n

Jane agrees that what the husband has done is “cold and calculating,” but encourages the wife let it go.<\/p>\n

“How could you possibly have known what was really in his head and his heart?” she asks. “You may have married him, but you’re not a mind reader. What you have to accept now is that you were duped by a very determined, single-minded individual.”<\/p>\n

“Use your anger in a good way,” she advises. “Turn your energy around and tell his solicitor that you’re more than happy to facilitate a quickie divorce. Then make a wish list of all the things that you’d<\/em> like to achieve and go for it.”<\/p>\n

“Be honest with family and friends,” she continues. “Tell them that he was not the man<\/a> you thought you married, [and] take that wisdom with you into your future relationships.”<\/p>\n

We’d like to add that she may want to take a chill pill into her future as well.<\/p>\n

Related: “Straight” Guys Are Having More Bisexual Sex Than Ever Before, Study Finds<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\n<\/a> <\/a>\n<\/div>\n

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