{"id":40242,"date":"2016-06-27T18:25:32","date_gmt":"2016-06-27T22:25:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/this-dudes-year-long-celibacy-vow-just-hit-the-halfway-point\/"},"modified":"2016-06-27T18:25:32","modified_gmt":"2016-06-27T22:25:32","slug":"this-dudes-year-long-celibacy-vow-just-hit-the-halfway-point","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayfriendschat.com\/socialblog\/this-dudes-year-long-celibacy-vow-just-hit-the-halfway-point\/","title":{"rendered":"This Dude\u2019s Year-Long Celibacy Vow Just Hit The Halfway Point"},"content":{"rendered":"

This Dude\u2019s Year-Long Celibacy Vow Just Hit The Halfway Point<\/b><\/p>\n

\"man-in-desert\"<\/p>\n

Tom Young writes for The Washington Post.<\/em> Tom Young decided to go without sex<\/a> for an entire year<\/em> and write all about<\/a> it.\n<\/p>\n

We all know this is going to lead to some amazingly perceptive thoughts on life\/gay<\/a> sex<\/a>\/etc., but generally people give up around the 40 day mark<\/a>, so good on him for going the full monty. <\/p>\n

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Related: Man Vows One Year Of Celibacy In Effort To “Reevaluate” His Life And “Renew” His Sense Of Well-Being<\/a><\/strong>\n<\/p>\n

Of course, no piece like this is complete without mentioning the apps<\/a>:\n<\/p>\n

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Every buzz represented a feeling of hope that I could be forming a real connection with someone in my community, both gay<\/a> and geographic. Although I’m able to handle certain elements of my libido on my own, porn and hand lotion don’t make you feel happy or connected — or make you breakfast in the morning.\n<\/p>\n

Recently, I rejoined Tinder and started going out to the gay<\/a> bars again. On one of these raucous nights, while watching my friends scour the room and sift through Grindr on their phones, I quietly realized I had reached my six-month mark of abstinence. And I began to wonder — not for the first time — if celibacy was worth it. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

People are also hooking up and making each other feel awful via Snapchat now:\n<\/p>\n

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…my friend and I were looking through his Snapchats: I glimpsed about 10 seconds of a guy<\/a> laying seductively on a bed, a caption beckoning my friend to join him for another roll in the hay. He typed a quick, emotionless response before moving on to the next snap, appearing to forget all about the guy<\/a> in his phone.\n<\/p>\n

Seeing his reaction to that Snapchat, I recognized a piece of me that I didn’t like. I remembered when I used to throw myself at guys<\/a> who were only interested in me as a passing thrill. And I remembered how I hate that feeling, how it keeps me up at night. I’ve come to learn that I am attracted to guys<\/a> who are emotionally unavailable or simply seeking a quick bang. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

If this is somehow revelatory for you, there’s a lot more to get into<\/a>. He even manages to weave Orlando and the ban on gay<\/a> blood donors in for good measure… so there’s that.\n<\/p>\n

We’ll see you in six months, Tom!\n<\/p>\n

Related: Male Chastity Devices Now Available In Three Great Finishes<\/a><\/strong>\n<\/p>\n

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