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Bowen Yang opens up about undergoing conversion therapy as a teen<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n

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Bowen Yang (Photo: Alex Schaefer\/NBC)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

In a profile in the New York Times<\/a>, SNL’s Bowen Yang, 29, has opened up about his parents’ intial reaction to him being gay<\/a>.<\/p>\n

His mom and dad found out about his sexuality when they read an AIM conversation between him and another guy<\/a>. He was 17 at the time.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, they did not react well, with his father paying for him to undergo so-called “conversion therapy.”<\/p>\n

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“They just sat me down and yelled at me and said, ‘We don’t understand this. Where we come from, this doesn’t happen’,” he recalls.<\/p>\n

His parents grew up in rural China but emigrated first to Australia, where Yang was born, and then to Canada and the US.<\/p>\n

“I’d only seen my father cry when my grandpa died and now he’s sobbing in front of me every day at dinner… And I’m thinking: ‘How do I make this right?’<\/p>\n

“This is the worst thing you can do as a child of immigrants. It’s just like you don’t want your parents to suffer this much over you.”<\/p>\n

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Related: Gay comic Bowen Yang joins SNL, becomes its first Asian cast member<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

He agreed to see a therapist to appease his parents, despite thinking it “completely crackers” at first.<\/p>\n

He says, “I allowed myself the thought experiment of: ‘What if this could work?’”<\/p>\n

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“The first few sessions were talk therapy, which I liked, and then it veers off into this place of: ‘Let’s go through a sensory description of how you were feeling when you’ve been attracted to men<\/a>’.<\/p>\n

“And then the counselor would go through the circular reasoning thing of: ‘Well, weren’t you feeling uncomfortable a little bit when saw that boy<\/a> you liked?’<\/p>\n

“And I was like: ‘Not really’.<\/p>\n

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“He goes: ‘How did your chest feel?’<\/p>\n

“And I was like, ‘Maybe I was slouching a little bit’.<\/p>\n

“And he goes:‘See? That all stems from shame’.<\/p>\n

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“It was just crazy. Explain the gay<\/a> away with pseudoscience.”<\/p>\n

Conversion therapy is the discredited practice of attempting to change someone’s sexual orientation or gender identity through psychotherapeutic means. It doesn’t work and usually does far more harm than good.<\/p>\n

It has now been banned on minors in 19 US states, most recently Utah<\/a>, as well as D.C. and Puerto Rico.<\/p>\n

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Yang says he soon realized the sessions would do nothing to change his sexuality. He went to study at NYU and came to fully accept his sexuality.<\/p>\n

He began to make a name for himself posting lip-syncing videos<\/a> to Twitter and hosting the queer-flavored comedy podcast, Las Culturistas<\/em>.<\/p>\n

He began writing for Saturday Night Live in 2018 and became a regular cast member in 2019. In doing so, he became the show’s first resident Chinese-American cast member.<\/p>\n

Although Yang’s now one of the most high-profile gay<\/a> Asians in the US, he says his father still doesn’t fully accept his sexuality.<\/p>\n

“Like my dad every now and then will be like, ‘So, when are you going to meet a girl<\/a>?’ And I’ll just calmly be like, ‘Dad, it’s not going to happen.’”<\/p>\n

“I mean, it’s OK. Both my parents are doing a lot of work to just try to understand and I can’t rush them. I can’t resent them for not arriving at any place sooner than they’re able to get there.”<\/p>\n

Related: Bowen Yang’s Chinese “trade daddy” a home run on SNL<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

After the story appeared in the New York Times, several other media outlets reported on it, with some painting a picture of Yang having a “strained” relationship with his folks. He took to social media yesterday to reassure people this was not the case.<\/p>\n

In an Instagram story he said that while being interviewed, he’d thrown in “about a dozen lil addenda about my relationship with my parents being loving and beautiful and nuanced that didn’t make the cut.”<\/p>\n

In a separate posting, he said, “There is a mildly cloying Western fascination with Asian family dynamics (which I get!) and modulating gayness onto that always lurches things into pure melodrama.<\/p>\n

“I promise it’s not as sad as I made it sound and things are chill and great and good. I’m sure that mirrors other people’s situations too.”<\/p>\n

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