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\u201cDress well and raise gardenias\u201d \u2013 how gay<\/a> guys<\/a> got by in the early \u201960s<\/b><\/p>\n

\"ONE<\/p>\n

Magazine cover courtesy of ONE Archives Foundation<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

In honor of LGBTQ History Month, we\u2019re taking a deep dive look-back at the first gay<\/a> publication in America\u2014<\/em>ONE magazine. Launched in Los Angeles in 1953, ONE was published by One, Inc., which grew from The Mattachine Society, the seminal gay<\/a>-rights group founded by Harry Hay. Its editorial founders were Martin Block, Don Slater, and Dale Jennings. Produced on a shoestring and sold for 25 cents, ONE began to change the course of history with an unapologetic exploration of homosexuality and the largely unexamined societal taboo against it.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

This is the seventh in our series<\/a> of ONE magazine cover stories.<\/em><\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

Volume 12, Issue 4: On Life and Art and the Homosexual<\/strong><\/p>\n

In this lyrical and culturally scorching essay, Bob Waltrip muses on the gay<\/a> man<\/a>\u2019s existential condition \u2014 which in some ways echoes the general human condition:<\/p>\n

\n

I have often heard the cry, \u201cBut nobody understands.\u201d Unfortunately, this is entirely true. Dear reader, nobody \u2014 absolutely nobody \u2014 understands you, and nobody ever will. You can live<\/a> with another person all your life and he still won\u2019t completely understand you. You can talk to a psychiatrist for twenty years and even he will not entirely understand you. Your parents never understood you, your friends have never understood you, and God himself probably never fathomed your mind. In order for another person to understand you, he has to shuck off his own problems and live<\/a> your life for you inside your body. This is impossible, so it is impossible for anyone else to really understand. The best thing you can do is try to understand yourself.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Waltrip is also realistic about what a gay<\/a> man<\/a> could expect from the majority of his neighbors and acquaintances:<\/p>\n

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After you understand yourself, accept yourself for what you are and love yourself. But never, never make the horrible mistake of trying to make the heterosexual world accept you as well. It is not yet possible to ask Mrs. Bluelip down the street to accept you as a homosexual. She will accept you on a thousand other terms \u2014 if you\u2019re that nice Mr. Jones who raises gardenias and dresses so well. This is what you must work with \u2014 dress well, raise gardenias, and be friends with her. After you are very good friends she might come to a realization of your sexual proclivities. But I would never recommend that you come right out and tell her.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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\u2026 The homosexual wages a continual battle, and wears a disguise that is only discarded during those rare moments when he is alone with another man<\/a>, making love to him. Only then can he be himself. He is not a fictional character. He is not a strong character. He is an extremely frail and complicated thing called a human being. And he is also my brother. And I love him.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

We wish we could show Mr. Waltrip an episode of Queer Eye<\/em>, in which even the most prim neighbors understand and accept, or take him to a Pride parade where hundreds of thousands of allies march in the streets.<\/p>\n

<\/div>\n

We think he\u2019d be glad to see how much love there is to go around these days.<\/p>\n

Thanks to ONE Archives Foundation<\/a> for making this series possible. ONE Archives Foundation provides access to original source material at the ONE National Gay & Lesbian Archives at the University of Southern California Libraries\u2014the largest such collection in the world.<\/em><\/p>\n

\n<\/a> <\/a>\n<\/div>\n

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