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</html><description>Gay Men Should Understand Bathroom Terror James Howe, like many boys who grew up to be gay or bi, remembers bathrooms and locker rooms as places of fear. The one positive from those experiences &mdash; more empathy for the trans plight. www.advocate.com/commentary/2016/5/13/gay-men-should-understand-bathroom-terror</description><thumbnail_url>http://www.advocate.com/sites/advocate.com/files/2016/05/12/bathroom_terrorx750.jpg</thumbnail_url></oembed>
