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Politics Trump Everything in Dating Right Now
OkCupid data reveals what’s trending in dating and relationships on Global Love Day 2025
Let’s be real — 2025 isn’t exactly giving “chill.” With political tensions, social reckonings, wars, and AI creeping into our DMs, it’s no surprise that dating has become less about “What’s your favorite pizza topping?” and more about “Do you support reproductive rights?”
On Global Love Day (May 1st), we’re taking a moment to unpack what really matters to daters right now. Spoiler alert: it’s not just love languages and zodiac signs — it’s your politics, your values, your stance on AI, and how fairly you split a bill.
Politics: The New Dating Dealbreaker
We’ve entered the era of compatibility beyond chemistry. Forget red flags — if your politics don’t align, that’s the end of the thread.
According to OkCupid data, 6 in 10 women globally want their match to share their political views. In the United States, that number climbs to almost 70%. And it’s not just women — more than half of Gen Z (51%), Millennials (63%), and Gen X (64%) say they don’t want to date across party lines. Even Cupid is ghosting political mismatches.
And in the queer community? It’s even more pronounced: 8 in 10 LGBTQ+ daters say they’ll only date someone in their own party. Period.
Still, when we talk politics varies. Gen Z tends to hold off until date three (respect), while daters aged 36 to 45 are bringing it up within the first 10 minutes. Honestly, same.
Oh — and if you’re using your platform to speak up? That’s hot. 74% of queer daters find it attractive when a match advocates for political and social issues on social media.
AI: Proceed with Personality
Artificial intelligence is doing a lot these days — writing poems, coding apps, maybe even helping you choose the perfect opening line. But when it comes to dating, singles are still craving something real.
While AI-edited profile pics might look cool, 6 in 10 singles say they’re not into it — and that includes 55% of 18 to 25-year-olds and 56% of 26 to 35-year-olds who find them a bit of a turn-off. It’s not about rejecting tech entirely — it’s about keeping things authentic.
And that sentiment goes deeper: nearly 90% of younger daters say AI could never replace real human interaction. The message? Use the tools, but don’t lose the real you. Because in the end, it’s the messy, beautiful, complicated realness that people are here for.
Intentional Dating Is In
In a world that feels increasingly unpredictable, daters aren’t here to waste time: 82% of women, 73% of men, and 60% of non-binary daters on OkCupid are looking for their forever person. Not a fling, not a situationship — the person. And this isn’t a boomer mindset creeping in. More than 70% of Gen Z, Millennial, and Gen X daters are looking to settle down.
Even within the queer community, where traditional relationship models are often questioned, 65% say they’re ready for a forever love. Maybe it’s not about matching endlessly anymore — it’s about matching on what matters.
Let’s Talk Money, Honey
Gone are the days of gendered expectations around who pays. In 2025, it’s all about fairness from the first date to moving in together.
Before the appetizers hit the table, 68% of men and 55% of women think the person who asked should cover the bill. But 37% of women and 27% of men are also down to split evenly. The vibes? Equal effort, equal investment.
And in long-term relationships, 86% of men and 74% of women believe in dividing both financial and household responsibilities fairly. Gen Z is leading this charge — pushing for balance, accountability, and an end to the “default domestic” partner.
TL;DR: Values Are the New Vibes
Love in 2025 isn’t just about who gives you butterflies — it’s about who matches your morals. Whether it’s how you vote, how you pay, or how you show up for the world, daters want to build something meaningful. Something that lasts.
So if you’re wondering what to put in your profile, maybe skip the beach pics and start with your stance on climate change.
Cupid’s watching. And they’re politically engaged.
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Now that you know what’s important to singles, it’s time to match on what matters to you! Download OkCupid to find a date today.
Politics Trump Everything in Dating Right Now was originally published in OkCupid Dating Blog on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.
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