Same-Sex Marriage Begins in Scotland: VIDEO

Same-Sex Marriage Begins in Scotland: VIDEO

SCOTLAND

Same-sex marriage is officially underway in Scotland. The nation’s first same-sex wedding happened just moments ago, uniting Joe Schofield and Malcolm Brown at a humanist ceremony at the Trades Hall in Glasgow. Susan and Gerrie Douglas-Scott are also to be among the nation’s first same-sex couples to tie the knot. Scotland’s new marriage law went into effect earlier this month but couples had to wait the 15 days required by Scottish law before saying “I do.” The BBC reports:

[First minister] Nicola Sturgeon and Scottish Green Party co-convener Patrick Harvie MSP will act as witnesses at the marriage of Susan and Gerrie, while Scotland’s national poet Liz Lochhead and Scottish government minister Marco Biagi MSP are expected to attend the ceremony for Mr Schofield and Mr Brown.

A total of 250 couples have converted their civil partnerships to marriage since the new law – the Marriage and Civil Partnership (Scotland) Bill – came into effect on 16 December.

Scotland’s first minister said: “This a momentous day for equality in Scotland, one where same sex couples have the right to marry the person that they love.

“I am personally proud that as Health Secretary, I led the consultation which started this journey. I said then that it was the right thing to do, and I believe that today.

“This will send a powerful message to people about the kind of country we are.”

According to the Scottish government, 17 same-sex couples are expected to marry on Hogmanay.

UK BuzzFeed reporter Jamie Ross has been live tweeting the wedding of Schofield and Brown. Check out video and photo highlights of the couple’s happy day, AFTER THE JUMP…

The two men sign their vows. #equalmarriage t.co/DoG88hUTTK

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 31, 2014

A small hiccup as the official documents say “bride and groom” instead of “groom and groom”. It’s quickly scribbled out by the celebrant.

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 31, 2014

History is made. Joe and Malx share their first kiss as husband and husband. t.co/XcHhi10PPT

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 31, 2014

Here’s the happy couple. #equalmarriage pic.twitter.com/X6huqrMBV3

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 30, 2014

The pair have matching tattoos. One is on their hands and”we’re not going to disclose where the other one is”. #equalmarriage

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 30, 2014

We’re told the couple met on a punk rock forum and “warm and fuzzy feelings” developed between them. #equalmarriage

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 30, 2014

Ross Wright: “Joe has never come out, because quite simply he was never in.” #equalmarriage

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 30, 2014

Celebrant Ross Wright: “Tonight we will witness the culmination of Scotland’s journey to accept all its citizens as equal.”

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 30, 2014

The groom and groom are led in by a piper. #equalmarriage t.co/y3X84kuFzq

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 30, 2014

So this Spirit of Freedom whisky to toast the vows is a blend of 45 whiskies and is 45% alcohol. #The45 pic.twitter.com/oOysh4EWj0

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 30, 2014

Here is the sensational #equalmarriage cake. pic.twitter.com/vv8NCZicJc

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 30, 2014

They’ve got a selfie stick. It’s all gone too far. pic.twitter.com/r4buHmkOcm

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 31, 2014

 

#equalmarriageselfie pic.twitter.com/nDNL0t2IPi

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 31, 2014

Liz Lochhead and @MarcoBiagiMSP sign the documents as witnesses. #equalmarriage pic.twitter.com/Lk9TPfgovD

— Jamie Ross (@JamieRoss7) December 31, 2014


Sean Mandell

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A New Priority: Looking Ahead to College with My Transgender Daughter

A New Priority: Looking Ahead to College with My Transgender Daughter
The tree was up, packed full with presents. Granny was sleeping on the couch and at that moment life is good and the future is bright. It is a perfect night; the end to a great year. A year that has shown my children that good things happen if you work hard and you have a community and talented people that support you.

I turned off the lights, leaving only the Christmas tree to provide one last glimpse of a special moment in time. I was at peace, something that has seldom been present during the past ten years. There have been some wonderful moments that will always be cherished, but in the background loomed uncertainty. Uncertainty because I had and still have few points of reference to guide me. Few families and fewer men have been on this journey. My father, my uncles, my coaches and male mentors can only provide moral support. I can see in their eyes, the worry and the fear that they might say something wrong. I tell them there are no wrong responses or questions, I just need your ear.

It would have been of great value to hear from others that have been down the same path. Maybe I would have not made some of the early mistakes. Maybe I would have not been so afraid. The transgender child fathers’ club is pretty small and seldom do I have the opportunity to talk to Petri, Greg, David or Chuck. All who live many miles away.

I was at peace when my head hit my pillow, thinking what a great Christmas present it would be to have a fathers’ golf weekend, filled with evening poker games, great food and sharing. Sharing conversations that few dads have ever had. Then the sense of peacefulness started to fade. Raising my children has brought about many unique needs and challenging decisions that creep to the top of my to-do list. It is a list that most men could never imagine, and last tonight as I tried to sleep my focus was on priority number two: college.

Priority number one is always safety. Priority number two changes often, but it is always related to priority number one. Soon the kids will send out their college applications. I am hopeful that the kids will attend an excellent school near home — schools that will provide opportunities for a great education, diverse experiences in a safe environment that will instill values and that will help them grow. It sounds simple enough, but for transgender families the challenges are often daunting. Challenges that campuses might not really understand and struggle with finding successful solutions. Solutions that demonstrates that our children will be safe and supported in the same manner as their classmates.

In January of this year we won an amazing victory for transgender rights. We are so thankful for all of the support we have received from GLAD and our friends and supporters from across the nation. We are thankful for our state leaders that had the courage to make the right decisions to protect all Mainers. We are proud that the Department of Education is stepping forward to enforce Title IX. All are great steps forward, but there is still a great deal of work to do.

Not long ago I read When Women Become Men at Wellesley, one quote jumped out at me, “I just wish the administration would at least acknowledge our existence.” That student’s statement reminded me that transgender students are still “separate but equal” at colleges and universities across the nation.

Tossing in bed, I thought about Nicole’s recent visits to Mt. Holyoke and Smith College. Both campuses provide different approaches to supporting transgender students. Like Wellesley, they are trying to do the right things but seem to be struggling with how to balance tradition and procedure. I often worry about the decisions their leadership teams will make and how they will impact Nicole and her friends.

Nicole toured their campuses in stealth mode, to not raise her head too high, to just have a chance to visit without fanfare. She had a great time, both are campuses of interest. I still wonder if they are really ready for her. I wonder what campuses across the nation are ready to support her in every way.

Colleges and universities are changing. I am hopeful that highly regarded institutions like Wellesley and Smith will continue the trend and lead the way for others. I know the change does not come easy. I learned that saying the right words is not enough to implement change. It requires adjusting your core values. Core values that have been instilled since birth by family, coaches, teachers and commanders.

Core values are not that different from institutional values. Both are designed to help keep us on the right path. Institutional values provide campus presidents with a map to develop mission statements, policies and procedures. Campus leaders must go beyond written policy and rhetoric. They must demonstrate that equality is core on a daily basis.

Nicole’s college visits reminded me that real change requires more than courage, it requires strong leadership and commitment.

While we have welcomed trans students in the past and for several years have been in conversation with campus constituencies about how best to foster a respectful environment for all students, we needed a formal policy: one that would articulate our commitment to core values of individual freedom, social justice, and diversity and inclusion.

The Mt. Holyoke president read that statement not long ago. I wish we could have been there to share the moment, so I might have had an opportunity to shake her hand for her courage and commitment.

We have ruled out remarkable schools because they still struggle with policy and procedure. We ruled out others because we cannot afford them. We are not alone; families with transgender children are living in hiding, they are constantly on the move, struggling to stay safe, unable to provide the medical care required to help their children. All of these challenges are emotionally and financially draining. Seldom is there much left to prepare for college.

How can we send Nicole to an institution where equality is not practiced in everyway. How will we know? Some of the campuses we are considering still struggle with housing, bathrooms, medical coverage and much more. Only 153 colleges and universities have gender-inclusive housing policies in the United States. Suggesting that transgender students are only welcome to live on campus as their true selves at five percent of our nation’s colleges and universities. Our children are welcome, but in an extremely limited way.

It is the responsibility of each campus president to provide a safe and supportive community for the entire campus community. I hopeful that Wellesley, Smith and others will soon join Mt. Holyoke, Simmons, Mill’s and Scripps to demonstrate that they want to be on the right side of history, leading the way to total equality.

I remind Nicole and Jonas how proud I am of them everyday. I remind anyone that will listen that transgender children and adults are not people to be feared, to be debated or categorized. They are the bravest people I know, revealing truths that will provide opportunities for institutions of higher education to learn in new ways. They are heroes to be embraced and introduced to every aspect of each institutions family and traditions.

My family gave up a number of traditions during our fight for equality. Every step of the way we reminded the kids that fighting for what you believe in, working hard and trusting that others will help you are the right path to success. We are hopeful that the institutions our children attend will continue to instill these same values. That is all we can ask for, it is up to them to take it from there.

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NEWS: #StandUp4Leelah, Play-Doh, Tom Hardy, Gay Panic

NEWS: #StandUp4Leelah, Play-Doh, Tom Hardy, Gay Panic

Hsotddildohplaydoh1 RoadHashtag #StandUp4Leelah trends in the wake of transgender teen Leelah Alcorn’s suicide.

RoadJeremy Renner is getting divorced.

RoadApparently, Play-Doh gave some kids a little more than they bargained for this Christmas. Outrage ensues.

RoadChanning Tatum’s behind makes an appearance in Foxcatcher (work unfriendly).

RoadMeanwhile, Gaspard Ulliel goes full frontal in Yves Saint Laurent bio-pic (also work unfriendly).

RoadDavid Burtka and Neil Patrick Harris continue to look adorable.

Hardy RoadTom Hardy looks mad (but sexy) as Mad Max.

RoadLuise Rainer, first actress to ever win back-to-back Oscars, has died

RoadGOP House Majority Whip admits to speaking at a White Supremacist event.

RoadStudent at Bowie State in Maryland sues fraternity on allegations of hazing.

RoadThe Underwear Expert wants to curate your underwear drawer. Join the project on Kickstarter.

RoadFirst look at Kathy Griffin and Brad Goreski on E!’s Fashion Police.

RoadFlorida grocery retailer Publix will start offering health benefits to spouses of gay and lesbian employees starting Thursday.

RoadJoe Manganiello and Sofia Vergara are engaged.

RoadVin Diesel may be one of the Inhumans.

RoadWas the Sony hack an inside job?

NJ RoadOut New Jersey Assemblyman Tim Eustace introduces bill to prohibit gay panic defense: “New Jersey Law states that a charge of murder can be reduced to manslaughter if the crime “is committed in the heat of passion resulting from a reasonable provocation.” Assemblyman Eustace’s bill states “reasonable provocation” could not include “discovery of, knowledge about, or potential disclosure of the homicide victim’s actual or perceived gender identity or expression.” This ban would include the claim a defendant was frightened by “unwanted, non-forcible romantic or sexual advances.” 

RoadGay, Asian, and Christian: actor and vlogger Hank Chen shares his struggles with family and the holidays.

Road2014: a year in review as told with graphics.

RoadFlorida State University welcomes gay student athletes.


Sean Mandell

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Gayer Times With the In-Laws… Next Year!

Gayer Times With the In-Laws… Next Year!
How did the holidays work out for you and your gay/lesbian lover, partner, spouse? How stressful was the time spent with the in-laws or with your own family? If you are among those who right now are busily trying to bury their holiday grudges, I have a question for you: WHY?

Why is it so tricky to be with your lover and her family? Why is it so hard to bring her home to yours? And why does this happen every single year sans fail?

Here are the main reasons:

1. In with the old, out with the new?
When we go home, we return to an old way– our family-way — of being. We slip back into the habits of communicating with our folks that we have known from childhood onward. Family awakens early memories and childhood patterns of talking, acting and feeling. We slip into the familiar glove of being a child in our family, automatically taking on its demands, entitlements, language and rules. Think of it as comfort food, making you feel warm and nostalgic– but it’s not really you.

2. Who is this stranger?
Our lover looks at us in this frame, this family setting, and doesn’t quite recognize us. Who is this person who suddenly behaves like an infant? Has tantrums? Suddenly can’t peep a word or utter an opinion? Who watches my every move with the suspicion that her mother won’t approve? Who suddenly forgets that I am there while she is the center of attention and the great entertainer for everyone? Who looks up to her dad who is a woman-hater and agrees with everything he says? Who is this person who allows my parenting skills to be called into question- aren’t we a team?
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3. It really IS a two-way street.
This often goes both ways: both lovers don’t recognize the particular stress they are under – holiday performance stress – and resent that their performance isn’t up to snuff. We don’t easily acknowledge that most families don’t allow us to be “normal” the way we are in our private couples life. So we suddenly feel like strangers who stare at each other in dismay, wondering: Why can’t she be normal? Shouldn’t she have outgrown this by now? The truth of the matter is: we may never outgrow our family patterns and family stress. But we can help ourselves and each other to avoid the alienation, the grudges and fights that are so often the outcome of holiday visits.

4. Implement the 5 P’s: Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance
Here’s a trick that helped my with my lovers that you’re welcome to put into practice:
Before a family visit, we would agree to play out a “worst case scenario,” a fantasy game that would call up all the monsters we dreaded. One of us or both would narrate how the visit would go down as a nightmare. “They’ll once again serve the turkey I can’t eat even though they know damn well I am a vegetarian. I’ll be mad at you for not stepping up for me and just sitting there, looking sheepish. Your grandmother will insist I take at least 3 servings of her horrid Christmas pudding and I’ll be sick the rest of the day. Your sister, the high and mighty lawyer, will again needle me about the thesis I never manage to finish and you won’t defend me because you agree with her, in fact. Worst of all, they’ll have us sleep in the kid bedrooms, two separate rooms for God’s sake. Everyone will drink and I’ll have to pretend this is fun! But you’ll find it fun, no matter what, and that’ll get to me, so I won’t be able to stop myself from starting an argument because that’s at least honest.”
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5. Strategize: Two heads are better than one.
There’s a good chance that the reality will seem less monstrous than the fantasy yarn we had spun beforehand. Everything may seem more bearable, even funny when our predictions came true by the letter. We’ve already established that we were together in this, confessing some of our true fears. We’ve worked out some understanding and next, some strategies to prevent the worst. Strategizing in a playful manner makes it much easier to maintain our sense of humor in the situation and provide support for each other.

In short, it’s a strategy game. With all the resolutions you’ll add to the list–how about placing a priority on easing holiday grudges and looking forward to more family cheer in the new year?

To learn more about being emotionally well-equipped for family visits year-round, check out Lesbian Marriage: A Love & Sex Forever Kit

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Defense Secretary Includes Gay Sailor’s Proposal In Holiday Video For The Troops

Defense Secretary Includes Gay Sailor’s Proposal In Holiday Video For The Troops

bildeDefense Secretary Chuck Hagel and his wife Lilibet released a fairly ordinary holiday video message last week, except that amid the expected conventional nationalism was an image of MM2 2nd Class Jerrel Revels’ proposal to his boyfriend Dylan Kirchner.

This is the first time a gay couple has been included in the Defense Secretary’s holiday message for the troops.

Revels proposed back in August of 2013 in front of some 200 people, two years after the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.

“It kind of tickled my mind every now and then that (he would propose) but I never expected this,” Kirchner said at the time. “I didn’t really care everybody was around. It felt just like the two of us.”

Here’s the video:

h/t Towleroad

Dan Tracer

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This Was TV's Most Diverse Year, But There's Still Progress To Be Made

This Was TV's Most Diverse Year, But There's Still Progress To Be Made
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When television historians (and future listicle makers) look back on 2014, one thing will seem crystal clear: this past year was one of the most diverse in the history of the small screen, a transformative revolution that showcased a wide array of identities, bodies and sexualities. For the first time ever, more audiences could look at their favorite shows and see characters, actors and lifestyles that more closely reflected themselves.

Just look at the new shows. ABC’s “Black-ish” is not only the first all-black comedy on a major network in five years — the last was Fox’s “Brothers,” which ran for one season in 2009 — but also a smart and funny sitcom that addresses race in modern suburban America. Willa Paskin of Slate called it the “best new sitcom of the fall,” while our TV critic Maureen Ryan reminded us why a show like “Black-ish” is necessary now more than ever.

Mexican-American stand-up comedian Cristela Alonzo also made history this year, becoming the first Latina to create, produce, write and star in her own sitcom. The CW’s “Jane the Virgin,” an hour-long comedy that pays humorous tribute to telenovelas, introduced audiences to star Gina Rodriguez.

“The fact we got recognized and that I’m the first person to get recognized from The CW and I’m a Latina, I would be empowered by that … I am empowered by that,” Rodriguez told BuzzFeed after her recent Golden Globe nomination. “Because if I can do it, that means there are so many other people who are going to be able to do it. It’s that idea that when you make your dreams come true you allow other people to dream and try to make their dreams come true. That’s all I did, I opened the floodgates. Now everybody can see that if I can do it, what makes you any different? This little lady from Chicago in the little-engine-that-could show on the smaller network? It’s not where you’re from, it’s where you’re going, and we’re trying to go where everybody else is at and it feels like we just arrived there.”

Old shows sparkled too. Netflix’s “Orange Is the New Black” continued to lead a progressive movement on television and even found time to celebrate women of different body types.

And a conversation about the growing diversification of the television industry wouldn’t be complete without praise of Shonda Rhimes, queen of Thursday night. Rhimes is not only a powerhouse figure on her own, being one of the few women, and women of color, behind the camera, but she’s also brought us two hit shows led by black actresses. With “Scandal,” Kerry Washington became the second African-American female to lead a network drama since Diahann Carroll starred in 1968’s “Julia,” and “How To Get Away With Murder” not only stars Viola Davis, but also features a racially diverse cast of young actors.

Said Rhimes during a speech earlier this month: “This moment right here, me standing up here all brown with my boobs and my Thursday night of network television full of women of color, competitive women, strong women, women who own their bodies and whose lives revolve around their work instead of their men, women who are big dogs, that could only be happening right now.”

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But adding people of color to television was just one layer exhibited, explored and celebrated this year. Both new and returning shows have featured main characters and actors of a variety of sexual orientations, gender identities and bodies. Amazon’s “Transparent” gave us a show about a transgender matriarch of a Jewish family, which included two daughters confronting with issues of gender identity and sexuality. The series also features a handful of transgender actors and crew members, and writer-creator Jill Soloway recently hired the show’s first trans writer. MTV’s “Faking It” proved groundbreaking when it introduced an Intersex character to television along with an illuminating video about what it means to be born Intersex, while the network also aired Laverne Cox’s “The T Word” documentary about trans youth. Both HBO’s “Looking” and Ryan Murphy’s “The Normal Heart” told stories about relationships and real-life hardships within the gay community. “Modern Family” ended its latest season with a gay wedding while real-life same-sex marriages were officiated live during the Grammy Awards. Cox, who first became a household name thanks to “OITNB,” was the first openly transgender person to appear on the cover of Time magazine and to be nominated for an Emmy. And Murphy pushed things even further with his “American Horror Story: Freak Show,” which features a cast of actors with disabilities, or as FX has called their “extra-ordinary artists,” in a way no show has done before.

And yet while a quick scan across television networks (and on Internet streaming platforms) proves that American television has made profound progress over the past 12 months, it’s also important to recognize that no peak has been reached. One important conversation about the representation of marginalized communities on television is not just about what types of diverse stories are being told, but who is being cast in those roles. Two specific communities that are on the cusp of this change are the transgender and queer communities and actors with disabilities. People who identify with these groups have been a part of a giant cultural shift this year thanks to “Transparent” and “AHS: Freak Show,” but we’re still only in the preliminary stages of allowing television to mirror the audiences who watch it.

“I wish we didn’t have to think it was radical to cast disabled actors in a drama. Casting directors should stop being so scared and bite the bullet.”

Alexandra Billings, who plays Maura’s transgender friend Davina on “Transparent,” spoke to HuffPost Entertainment about the increased visibility of her transgender community on television this year and how the show has helped initiate it. “The fact that a transgender [woman] is the center of a family comedy-drama is groundbreaking,” Billings told us. She agreed that Jill Soloway’s series was a part of a major movement away from negative and superficial portrayals of trans characters that have previously been seen on television. When reflecting on her career, Billings said how tired she was of playing the same trans character, which for some reason always revolved around hospitals. Considering the history of transgender characters on TV, Billings said that one significant step forward that’s been made is having more authentic portrayals of trans people. “You can’t put a man in a dress and call them transgender in television anymore,” Billings said. “I remember a time when you had to do that and we were the butt of the joke.”

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Another transgender actress further diversifying TV this year is Erika Ervin of “AHS: Freak Show.” Ervin is one of the first trans actresses to play a cisgender character on a show (she stars as Amazon Eve, a seven-foot-tall woman who is part of Elsa Mars’ “freak show”).

“It feels validating,” Ervin told HuffPost Entertainment about Amazon Eve, a character that she developed years before and brought to “AHS” once cast. “Not only from a political standpoint. Transgender people are out there, we’re making our way.” Yet while Murphy’s anthology series and “Transparent” are helping move TV forward in terms of LGBT characters, there is still a long way to go. Ervin noted that while things are definitely changing, we still must ask, “Is it really progress?”

“You can’t put a man in a dress and call them transgender in TV anymore. I remember a time when you had to do that and we were the butt of the joke.”

One heavily debated topic about LGBT representation is the casting of cisgender actors, or people who identify with the gender they were assigned at birth, in transgender roles. While an on-going argument, it became most relevant this year when Jared Leto won the Oscar for portraying a trans woman in “Dallas Buyers Club.” “Transparent” also received criticism for casting Tambor as Maura, with some even calling the show “transphobic” for the decision. Trans writer Kat Hache recently wrote about the controversy surrounding Arcade Fire’s “We Exist” music video, which stars Andrew Garfield as a character who appeared to be trans — though it should be noted that Our Lady J, who worked with Garfield on the video, has said he was playing a “young man exploring his gender.” Hache wrote, “There seems to be a prevalent idea in Hollywood that viable transgender actors and actresses simply do not exist.” Besides a prolonged invisibility of real-life trans people on screen, another major issue this highlights is the growing unemployment for trans actors, which Laverne Cox has said is “twice the national average” and “four times” for trans actors of color.

Yet Billings had a bit of a different perspective on the contentious debate. “The only reason the argument is futile right now is because we need help in order to get through the door,” she told us. Billings urges cis actors to be “mindful” and “aware” of their portrayals of trans people’s journeys, while also grateful for them. Ideally though, she believes that the only way to fully represent the stories and lives of her community is through casting those who identify with it. “This word authenticity is thrown around a lot. We need to really understand what this thing means. I think instead of having authentic representations what we need to have are true representations. And really, the only way to do that is to hire us.”

While this year has given way to an increased visibility of people with disabilities on TV as well, it’s only the first waves of change. HuffPost caught up with Mat Fraser, who plays Paul the Illustrated Seal on “AHS: Freak Show” on his last day filming the series. The British actor has been performing on the stage and screen for 20 years and acknowledges that small advancements have been made in regard to casting actors with disabilities. Fraser cited the BBC’s recent initiatives to cast more actors with disabilities in TV series. But even though Fraser recognizes how groundbreaking “AHS” is this season in casting him, along with Rose Siggins, Jyoti Amge and Ben Woolf, among others, he knows it’s only the beginning.

“I wish we didn’t have to think it was radical to cast disabled actors in a drama,” Fraser said after mentioning how progressive Murphy’s casting decisions have been. “The irony’s not lost on me that the first time I’ve given an opportunity to show my universal humanity as an actor is by playing a freak in a freak show. I wonder if casting directors and producers will be able to see that I’m, and as are all competent disabled actors, capable of showing that universal humanity that is the stuff of drama.”

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While Fraser didn’t hesitate to share how much he appreciates and loves playing Paul in “AHS,” he also hopes for a future where he won’t just be playing a disabled character. “The actors should be allowed to just act,” Fraser said. “Casting directors should stop being so scared and bite the bullet and cast us. I just want to do normal, well-written drama like everybody else.”

Fraser brought up that the huge fan attention he’s received from the show — besides an increase in Twitter followers, Fraser says he has also gotten “romantic texts” from teenage “emo girls” — evinces just how much viewers are ready to embrace him as a talented actor outside of his physical condition. “I got portrayed as a lover by Ryan, so people now relate to my character as a lover character and imprint that romance interest on to [him],” Fraser said. “All you have to do is tell people this is the guy [who’s] the romantic one and four thousand people relate to you in that way. That’s the power of television and drama. That should be proof that you can cast us anywhere.”

While 2014 has been a monumental year for more accurate representation of diversity, it has also been a year for igniting significant discussions. But television networks and producers are just barely scratching the surface off our beautifully diverse world. And with the very first leaps of change will come the deepening cracks of true progression.

Billings said that from her experience in the trans community, once someone begins their transition or a “transition into any kind of newness, the circle of people around you are forced to go with you.” Now that the beginning molds of diverse storytelling and casting have been broken on television, we can hope that a larger movement will follow, with the rippling effects of 2014 finally becoming actualized in years to come.

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