Gay Mormon Man Married To A Woman Compares Gay Sex To Donuts

Gay Mormon Man Married To A Woman Compares Gay Sex To Donuts

Oh, brother. One of the nutjobs husbands from TLC’s controversial new show My Husband’s Not Gay sat down with ABC’s Nightline to talk about his attraction to men, and it’s just as awkward and uncomfortable as you might expect.

“When I’m having sex with [my wife], I don’t wish she were a man,” he said. “I don’t fantasize about her being a man. I am with her. And I am having sex with her. And it’s her I love and want to be with.”

To help better explain himself, he offered up the following analogy:

“I love donuts! I would eat donuts three times a day. But I desire to be able to fit in my pants in the morning, too. SO you could say I’m oriented towards donuts. And if I were being true to myself, I would eat donuts a lot more than I eat donuts. But am I miserable? Am I lonely? Am I denying myself because I don’t eat donuts as much as I’d like to eat donuts? I’m not.”

All the while, his doting Mormon wife sits glossy-eyed and smiling by his side.

My Husband’s Not Gay chronicles the lives of four gay men, many of whom are married to women, living in Salt Lake City. The show has received harsh criticism by gay rights activists who feel it delivers a damaging message about gay people. Earlier this month, a Change.org petition calling for the show to be cancelled garnered 100,000 signatures, TLC, however, was unpersuaded and has refused to take the show off the air. 

See the awkward interview below. And excuse us while we go indulge ourselves in a donut.

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Graham Gremore

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Ellen Celebrates Her Lesbianism And Pushes Her 'Gay Agenda' In Response To Anti-Gay Pastor: VIDEO

Ellen Celebrates Her Lesbianism And Pushes Her 'Gay Agenda' In Response To Anti-Gay Pastor: VIDEO

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Funny lady Ellen DeGeneres took pause yesterday to address an anti-gay pastor who has accused her of pushing a gay agenda on the world. The pastor in question is Larry Tomczak, who previously claimed that gays and lesbians were being punished by God by being made effeminate and mannish. Tomczak this time time has written an article in The Christian Post where he blasts Ellen saying, “Ellen Degeneres celebrates her lesbianism and ‘marriage’ in between appearances of guests like Taylor Swift to attract young girls,” as Raw Story reports. Ellen couldn’t let such nonsense stand: 

“Larry I don’t even know what it means to celebrate my lesbianism,” DeGeneres responded.

“Well,” she said, then shot streamers out of a party favor she produced from her jacket pocket. “I guess it’s that.”

“Larry,” she said, “The only way I’m trying to influence people is to be more kind and compassionate with one another. That is the message I’m sending out. I don’t have an agenda. I’m not here to brainwash anybody.”

Watch the video of Ellen’s hilarious and spot-on response, AFTER THE JUMP…


Sean Mandell

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Jon Stewart Skewers Florida For Fighting Same-Sex Marriage: VIDEO

Jon Stewart Skewers Florida For Fighting Same-Sex Marriage: VIDEO

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On last night’s The Daily Show, host Jon Stewart took the state of Florida to task for the extreme measures it took this month to avoid granting same-sex couples the right to marry. Among the many absurdities involved in the larger unfolding of events pertaining to the arrival of marriage equality in Florida, Stewart highlighted the decision by some counties not to allow any couples to get married at courthouses, a move aimed at blocking same-sex couples from saying “I do” and upholding the so-called “religious liberty” of clerks who personally oppose marriage equality. The fodder is too perfect for Stewart to resist:

“Yes we don’t want to cause ‘discriminations’ against county court employees who don’t feel like following the law. These people didn’t choose to be county clerks. They were born that way.”

Florida claiming to have the moral high-ground on any subject is a bit of joke. Stewart sums it up nicely: “Florida, you don’t get to judge others when your state motto is, ‘If Darwin was right we wouldn’t be here.’”

Watch Stewart lampoon the “giant cockroach-choking, hazard-infested, Hooters-dining, reptile-abusing, Everglades-draining, election-ruining, stripper-motorboating, ball-sweat-scented, genitalia-shaped, 24-hour mugshot factory,” AFTER THE JUMP…

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Sean Mandell

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7 Oscar Nominations That Need To Happen On Thursday

7 Oscar Nominations That Need To Happen On Thursday
Michael Keaton, Julianne Moore, Richard Linklater, Alejandro Gonzalez Iñárritu, J.K. Simmons, Emmanuel Lubezki, Patricia Arquette and Eddie Redmayne are among the many people who should expect to hear their names called when nominations for the 87th annual Academy Awards are announced on Thursday. But there are still a surfeit of contenders on the bubble at the moment. Here are seven who should be anything but underdogs — aka if the Oscars don’t nominate this group, something went terribly wrong.

Ava DuVernay, Best Director for “Selma”

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To consider Ava DuVernay a fringe candidate in this category is an outrage, but after the brouhaha over the historical precision of “Selma” and several snubs from prominent guild groups, that’s what this Oscar race has become. When the movie screened for press around Thanksgiving, the critical conclave sent up white smoke that pointed to “Selma” having locked up one of the haziest Best Picture races in recent memory. I still think it’ll make that shortlist, but it seems like Ava DuVernay, who would become the first black woman nominated for Best Director, will not. To encapsulate the contemporary cultural milieu and make the year’s most expertly crafted film, yet still walk away empty-handed, is the year’s biggest awards transgression. — Matthew Jacobs

Damien Chazelle, Best Director for “Whiplash”

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For months, a great many awards pundits have put Damien Chazelle inside the box Benh Zeitlin created two years ago. It’s a pretty enticing narrative: Both men are young, white and debuted what would become a major awards contender at the Sundance Film Festival (Chazelle with “Whiplash,” Zeitlin with “Beasts of the Southern Wild”). Zeitlin ended his magic run with a Best Director nomination; Chazelle should follow suit, but only if he can nudge out someone like Clint Eastwood or Morten Tyldum (both of whom appeared on the Directors Guild shortlist this week). On merit, he should: we’ll be talking about “Whiplash” long after the really good “The Imitation Game” and the pretty bad “American Sniper” fade from memory. — Christopher Rosen

Laura Dern, Best Supporting Actress for “Wild”

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Patricia Arquette has been such a shoo-in for “Boyhood” that it seems like we stopped weighing the other four Best Supporting Actress slots long ago. That comes at the expense of Tilda Swinton, Carrie Coon, Melissa McCarthy, Rene Russo and Laura Dern, who, with “Wild,” gave one of the year’s most accomplished performances. Her screen time is relatively brief, but she has the lofty task of capturing years of backstory using only flashback scenes. She’s radiant. If nothing else, the Academy owes Dern a “Wild” nomination to atone for no awards groups paying any attention to her equally moving part in “The Fault in Our Stars.” — MJ

Bradford Young, Best Cinematography for “Selma”

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Much like how a nomination for Ava DuVernay should absolutely be a thing that happens on Thursday, so too should some serious recognition for Bradford Young. The year’s most discussed cinematographer worked on both “A Most Violent Year” and “Selma,” but it’s the latter film that should land Young among the five Best Cinematography nominees on Thursday. As with DuVernay, Young was ignored by his relevant guild — the American Society of Cinematographers — but it would be an egregious mistake for the Academy of Motion Picture Arts & Sciences to follow suit. Young’s work on “Selma” is wildly original and gorgeous without being showy. He stood out as the year’s best image maker, and should be rewarded as such. — CR

Ira Sachs and Mauricio Zacharias, Best Original Screenplay for “Love is Strange”

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“Love Is Strange” should have factored into the entire race, but it looks like the Independent Spirit Awards may be the only prize to pile on the praise this movie deserves. Its screenplay is probably the sole opportunity for any Oscar attention, and even that seems like a long shot. Ira Sachs and Mauricio Zacharias managed to write a movie that’s at once heartwarming and heartbreaking, simple and relentlessly layered. Those same adjectives might apply to, say, “Interstellar,” yet look how bloated Jonathan and Christopher Nolan’s script was. Sachs and Zacharias wrote a sweet, no-frills movie about growing old, living in New York, being gay, navigating family dynamics, maintaining romance and finding comfort. “Love is Strange” proves it doesn’t even take 100 minutes to make the year’s most thoughtful movie (see also: “Nightcrawler”). — MJ

Alexandre Desplat, Best Original Score for “The Grand Budapest Hotel”

Alexandre Desplat produced five scores this year, including one for “The Imitation Game” that might land him a seventh Oscar nomination. It would be well deserved — his score for Morten Tyldum’s movie is quite good! — but nothing on Desplat’s 2014 CV compares to “The Grand Budapest Hotel.” Desplat’s latest collaboration with Wes Anderson, following “Moonrise Kingdom,” is a throwback of Eastern European influences that fits the waltz-loving composer like the glove of a dowager. It’s an oxymoron of delicate bombast that provides Anderson’s most emotional movie to date with a lot of its emotion. For the love of antique tuba parts, please don’t leave this one off the nominees list. — CR

“Selma” for Best Picture

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Critics don’t matter when it comes to Oscars, but “Selma” has a better Metacritic rating than “Birdman,” “The Grand Budapest Hotel,” “The Imitation Game,” “The Theory of Everything,” “Whiplash” and “American Sniper.” (Of the major Best Picture contenders, only “Boyhood” rates higher.) At Oscar prognostication site Gold Derby, all 27 experts have “Selma” listed among their Best Picture predictions. Yet after being blanked by the major guilds — Producers, Screen Actors, Directors — “Selma” has the look and feel of an outsider. A long shot. A snub. That would be an unforgivable mistake. — CR

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