Billy Crystal: Gay Scenes On TV Sometimes 'Too Much For Me'

Billy Crystal: Gay Scenes On TV Sometimes 'Too Much For Me'
Billy Crystal was one of the first actors to play a gay character on television, but that doesn’t mean he isn’t wary of some of the gay content that ends up on the small screen.

The beloved comedian opened up about his feelings regarding the nature of gay scenes on television while speaking at a panel for the Television Critics Association on Sunday in Pasadena, California, the Independent reports.

“Sometimes I think, ‘Ah that’s too much for me,'” Crystal said. “Sometimes, it’s just pushing it a little too far for my taste and I’m not going to reveal to you which ones they are.”

As Deadline reports, Crystal also spoke about his groundbreaking gay character, Jodie Dallas, which he played on ABC’s “Soap” from 1977 to 1981.

Crystal spoke about the role on Sunday, ET Canada reports:

There were times where I would say to [the actor who played his boyfriend], ‘Bob, “I love you,’ and the audience would laugh nervously, because, you know, it’s a long time ago, that I’d feel this anger. I wanted to stop the tape and go, ‘What is your problem?’ Because it made you sort of very self-conscious about what we were trying to do then. And now it’s just, I see it and I just hope people don’t abuse it and shove it in our face — well, that sounds terrible — to the point of it just feels like an everyday kind of thing.

Crystal is currently promoting his upcoming new FX series “The Comedians,” which is his first television series since “Soap.”

In recent years, more and more queer content is making its way onto the airwaves. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender characters and storylines can be seen in popular shows like “Looking,” “Modern Family,” “Empire,” “Transparent,” “Orange is the New Black,” “American Horror Story” and “Glee.”

Earlier this month, comedian Kevin Hart also sounded off on gay roles in Hollywood. “I can’t [play a gay character] because I don’t think I’m really going to dive into that role 100 percent, because of the insecurities about myself trying to play that part,” he told hosts of the Breakfast Club on New York’s Power 105.1. “What I think people are going to think while I’m trying to do this is going to stop me from playing that part the way I’m supposed to.”

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Gay Dad Teaches His Sons About The Importance Of Celebrating Martin Luther King, Jr.

Gay Dad Teaches His Sons About The Importance Of Celebrating Martin Luther King, Jr.

img_4756On this Martin Luther King, Jr. weekend, and after my 1960s-era interaction over the holidays with dated, narrow-minded views, I’ve thought more about a few simple concepts I hope my toddler boys can internalize as young as possible (though they’re concepts some — or many — adults are incapable of understanding.)

So a few concepts to share with my two kids:

Boys: you are white. By the luck of your skin color, you’re pre-set for success.

You will not know what it means to grow up “of color” in your country.

I need you to try to understand four things:

1. You will not be racially profiled over and over and over again. You will never know the frustration of being eyed suspiciously in a store, in a restaurant or on the street. “Stop and Frisk”, no matter how effective it might have deterred crime, will only ever be an inconvenience for you, not harassment.These elements of harassment are very, very, very frustrating for Black people and anyone who might be a regular subject. But you will never know what it feels like. Count yourself lucky.So you must have empathy for those who are the targets. You don’t walk in their shoes. You can’t tell them how to react or how to feel.

Dr.-Martin-Luther-King-Jr-0052. When forming your opinions about people, you can’t prosecute an entire population due to the behavior of one. Comments like “they’re lazy, they’re dangerous, they’re disrespectful” will have no place in our household about any group of people. Plenty of people of all colors are lazy, dangerous or disrespectful. But most people aren’t. You can’t even say “those people”. Would you want your entire preschool to be judged by the actions of one little jerk who steals the blue paint?

3. It’s not about skin color, because racial issues are scapegoats for socio-economic issues. What on earth do I mean by that? Poor people are often driven to do bad things to survive in our country. It’s not because they’re Black, or Asian, Latino or White. It’s because they want to have what you have: food, warmth, a few toys. It’s not because of their skin color. It’s because of money. But because of the actions of a few desperate people, an entire population is found guilty. And that’s wrong.

4. The system is stacked against poor people. Some kids don’t do well in school, but it’s not because of their skin color. It’s because of a whole host of reasons: they have underfunded schools, they didn’t eat breakfast, no one ever read to them like I read to you. Some teens drop out of school not because of their skin color. It’s because they don’t have the educational background or support at their house to strive for greater academic achievement. Some parents can’t give successful tools to their kids, but that’s unrelated to their skin color. They never had those tools in the first place, because they weren’t born into a lucky position with support and resources. It’s a repeating cycle throughout generations. But it’s about economics, not race.

Boys: you can strive to empathize, listen and study. But it’s not easy to judge the behavior of other people, because you don’t know what it’s like to walk in their shoes on a tired, hungry, harassed, beaten-down day.

So give credit, treat with respect, and listen to understand, not just to respond.

And try to see the world from others’ perspectives. You’ll understand a lot more about people and about yourself.

 

Gavin Lodge is a Broadway performer, father and blogger. This essay was first published on Daddy Coping In Style.

 

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The British Muslim Who Founded A Controversial Gay-Friendly Mosque

The British Muslim Who Founded A Controversial Gay-Friendly Mosque
Dr. Taj Hargey says he became radicalized after 9/11.

“I went to mosque in Oxford that week, after the largest political event of the age concerning Muslims, and did anyone mention it? No. Not at all,” he says. “I mean, it wasn’t entirely clear to what extent this concerned Islam just then, but where was the basic human compassion? I thought, Something’s wrong here.'”

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Alejandro González Is A Dream Boat

Alejandro González Is A Dream Boat

alejandropump4Continuing his endless sexy streak of photo shoots, photographer Adrian C. Martin turns his eyes toward model Alejandro González and bright pairs of PUMP! underwear. It’s a fantastic photo shoot. Not in the usual sense — we’re feeling touches of fantasy from these dreamy pics. As dreamy as they are though, they’re hot enough to leave you wide-eyed. Like a shot of caffeine, but stronger with muscles.

Alejandro González is from Spain, a young model and TV personality. He wears the PUMP! Microshock Boxer and Spring Fling Jogger for most of the photo shoot. The underwear’s mesh legs wrap around Alejandro’s muscles, showing just how flattering a little elasticity can be. He also slips into the PUMP! Spring Break Brief. The more revealing style of the brief accentuates Alejandro’s sculpted waist as well as those built legs of his.

This is one of Adrian C. Martin’s more sensual shoots. The lighting helps each still look like a freeze frame daydream. But what makes them so dreamy, of course, is how Alejandro pulls off his PUMP! underwear. He’s worth of that exclamation point.

See the rest on The Underwear Expert.

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'Looking' Back: Episode 10, 'Looking For Results'

'Looking' Back: Episode 10, 'Looking For Results'

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I’m still sort of baffled by folks who are continuing to be let down by the show’s pace. I actually thought last week’s episode was uncharacteristically dynamic. But for those who are still somehow inexplicably waiting for Looking to pump some adrenaline into its soft, cinematic rhythm, I hate to break it to you, but tonight’s installment feels like much more of a return to season one form.

It was a return in a much more literal sense as well. Episode two of Looking‘s sophomore season saw the boys back to San Francisco, and back to the complexities of their current situations. 

See more thoughts from tonight’s episode, AFTER THE JUMP

  • It didn’t take long for Patrick (Jonathan Groff)’s guilty conscience to catch up with him, did it? After last week’s threshold crossing, where Patty went from a young man unable to hook-up in the woods in the show’s pilot to getting it on with Kevin (Russell Tovey) against a tree, he’s pushing himself even further out of his comfort zone. His admission that he had unprotected sex seemed very un-Patrick (even if he admitted it in a very awkward, very Patrick way). He’s certainly not comfortable with the concept of having an affair (something he’s convinced himself Kevin is guilty of, not him). But, it takes two to tango, and it’s no surprise that Pat’s anxiety over the ordeal starts to manifest itself in his rash. 
  • The title of tonight’s episode, “Looking For Results,” speaks to the HIV/AIDs narrative thread woven through all our stories. Whether it was Patrick’s psychosomatic panic, Agustin (Frankie J. Alvarez) chasing after his HIV-positive bear, Eddie (Daniel Franzese), or Dom (Murray Bartlett) digging a little deeper into the history between Lynn (Scott Bakula) and his late boyfriend, HIV and AIDS permeated the actions of all three primary characters. Could a “gay show” exist without addressing HIV/AIDS? Should it?
  • Speaking of Dom, we’re still talking about peri-peri chicken, but the dream of a full-fledged restaurant has been deferred. For now, he’s exploring just starting by opening a window. The window, the open relationship, the specter of Lynn’s ex hanging around — it’s beginning to look like Dom’s doing a lot of settling. If last season was about him deciding that he wanted more from life, this season’s journey seems focused on exactly how much more he thinks he deserves.

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  • We got our first glimpse of a new character tonight, Malik (Bashir Salahuddin), when he hit on Doris (Lauren Weedman) over margaritas. Let’s hope he helps flesh out her story. It’s going to be interesting to see how she grows beyond comic relief.
  • Funny seeing Agustin run into the guy from the pilot he had a threesome with. Not so funny seeing how GHB left him in a heap outside a pupusa cart. Surely this must be rock bottom for Agustin. And who better to discover him than Richie (Raul Castillo)? Agustin was such a jerk to Richie when they met last season, and still Richie does the right thing and gets him home safe.
  • Compare that to Patrick’s other object of desire. Oh, Kevin, how I love and loathe you. On the one hand, he and Patrick obviously have a very sincere connection. It’s adorable to hear them talk about their childhoods and games. Of course, when Patrick suggests they start working on a gay game, Kevin tells him they need to keep it secret. Yet another secret. Kevin’s paranoia about Patrick telling his co-worker about their affair and his reaction upon learning Patrick has told his buddies both start to reveal his less attractive side. (His backside, however, remains incredibly attractive.) Kevin’s preoccupation with Patrick’s friends thinking he’s a prick has more to do with Kevin’s ego than any of his guilt. 

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