Azealia Banks: 'A faggot is anybody that hates women'
Bisexual rapper has no regrets calling gay celebrity blogger ‘messy faggot’
joem
www.gaystarnews.com/article/azealia-banks-faggot-anybody-hates-women141114
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'I'm Not Gay No More' Man Responds to Viral Video of His Megachurch Conversion
'I'm Not Gay No More' Man Responds to Viral Video of His Megachurch Conversion
The International Business Times reports that Andrew Caldwell, the “not gay no more” young man from the viral megachurch video, has written a response via Facebook.
Ha addresses his criticism — the widespread doubt that Caldwell had actually been “turned straight,” but also the suggestion that Caldwell staged the moment for publicity.
Here’s an excerpt of the statement:
As a child, I was raped by a member of my own family. At that time I did not think of it as abuse. I kind of enjoyed it. I kept it to myself, not realizing how it had changed me. Growing up wasn’t a pleasant experience. I was harassed, heckled, and ridiculed by classmates…After joining my present church, it came to me that this lifestyle was not right. It seemed that the more I tried to quit on my own, the more intense was the temptation. All last week I fasted and prayed. On this past Saturday at the Convocation, there was an alter call. I came forward and offered my testimony. It was unscripted.
If you are quick to mock Caldwell, or if the story is leaving a bad taste in your mouth, be sure to check out BET Entertainment Editor Clay Cane’s take, over at HuffPo. It’s an empathetic and sensitive reminder that in discussing this issue, we should use care. Says Cane:
I hope this boy is on suicide watch. The way he is being shamed in the public [and] in that church is heartbreaking to see…The bishop said he chose to do this. No he didn’t. When you’re brainwashed you’re not choosing anything…He’s doing what he thinks will make him feel loved and accepted in his community. The funny thing is, people are mocking it… but if he were ‘more masculine,’ people would take it seriously.
Caldwell’s “conversion” took place at the Church of God in Christ’s 107th’s Holy Convocation in St. Louis, Missouri. In a statement posted online, COGIC responded to the viral video:
We believe that we should reflect the love and compassion of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ in all that we do. We do not in any way compromise our biblical position against same sex unions or in favor of biblical teaching on matters of sexual conduct. At the same time we expect that our clergy and laity will be civil and considerate as they speak to men and women regarding issues related to our Christian faith. We love all people, regardless of their faith or moral standards. When we fail to express ourselves with love and humility we contradict our witness
to the world.
Furthermore, the Church of God in Christ wholly condemns acts of violence against and the subjugation of any person to verbal or physical harassment on the basis of their sexual stance. Such actions violate entirely the Christian’s obligation to love our neighbor as we love ourselves.
The Church of God in Christ will have no further comment on this matter.
Video from HuffPo, including Cane’s take is AFTER THE JUMP…
Caldwell also briefly spoke to Atlanta’s CBS 46 News about the video and his “conversion,” which you can check out after the jump as well.
Cane’s segment starts at 29:00. The video also includes an interview with the bishop, near the beginning.
Jake Folsom
www.towleroad.com/2014/11/im-not-gay-no-more-man-responds-to-viral-video-via-facebook-video.html
In the Galleries: A.B. Miner
In the Galleries: A.B. Miner
Miner, a gay trans man, deals with diverse masculinities in his art. Topics range from bodily shame to back hair portraits to a comparative study of animal penises.
Christopher Harrity
www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/art/2014/11/14/galleries-ab-miner
Do you follow the 10 rules of being a good LGBTI?
Do you follow the 10 rules of being a good LGBTI?
Take Romas Zabarauskas’ test and see how you score
trisrs
www.gaystarnews.com/article/do-you-follow-10-rules-being-good-lgbti141114
Russia lawmaker moves to close gay marriage loophole
Russia lawmaker moves to close gay marriage loophole
Transgender woman married her girlfriend last week
darrenw
www.gaystarnews.com/article/russia-lawmaker-moves-close-gay-marriage-loophole141114
Malaysia bank denies promoting gay practices
Malaysia bank denies promoting gay practices
Muslim group calls for a boycott of AmBank over its ties with a gay-friendly US bank
darrenw
www.gaystarnews.com/article/malaysia-bank-denies-promoting-gay-practices141114
The Power of a Complex Heritage
The Power of a Complex Heritage
Diriye Osman is photographed by Bahareh Hosseini
When I first moved to London in my teens, people often asked me where I was from. For some reason this seemingly innocuous question yielded up some unwieldy responses on my part. I would reply that I was born in Somalia, grew up in Kenya and now called London home. It felt like a tediously lengthy statement every time the words tumbled out of my mouth.
One of the great markers of maturity is an appreciation for complexity. Although I’m of Somali descent, I did most of my growing up in Nairobi and London. As the years zipped by, the lens of my identity also zoomed out to encompass my sexuality as an out and proud gay man.
As a young gay African, I have been conditioned from an early age to consider my sexuality a dangerous deviation from my true heritage as a Somali by close kin and friends. As a young gay African coming of age in London, there was another whiplash of cultural confusion that one had to recover from again and again: that accepting your sexual identity doesn’t necessarily mean that the wider LGBT community, with its own preconceived notions of what constitutes a “valid” queer identity, will embrace you any more welcomingly than your own prejudiced kinsfolk do.
So what to do? There are only two options when one is barricaded in by banal yet dangerous stereotypes: Either shed some of the complex layers that have made you who you are or cling to those complexities and appreciate the value of the long game, the fact that there is power and strength in multiplicity, the fact that there is power and strength in a beautifully unwieldy heritage.
This is what I learned when I started writing Fairytales for Lost Children. The book, which focuses on the lives of young LGBT Somalis, made me realize that it was possible not only to respect cultural complexity but to revel in it. Ultimately, we are the only people who can give ourselves permission to live.
This message of hope is the connective thread between me and my readers. We may come from different parts of the world and have contradistinctive histories, but we all yearn for love, a modicum of peace, understanding and acceptance. Whether we voice it as such, we’re all looking for mirrors that reflect our realities back at us. We are all in pursuit of freedom regardless of where we are coming from. There is something deeply moving about this idea of interconnectedness, the notion that our individual complexities endow us with a sense of shared humanity.
When I first started writing, my younger brother, who was then in his pre-teens, complained to me that my characters all had Somali names, unlike the English characters he was so accustomed to reading about. I told him that it was important for me to write about Somali characters, that it was important that we all told our own stories and shared our heritage with the wider world. Initially he seemed unconvinced, but before long he too started writing stories that featured Somali characters.
That memory alone makes me happy to this day.
Diriye Osman is the Polari Prize-winning author of Fairytales for Lost Children (Team Angelica), a collection of acclaimed short stories about the LGBT Somali experience. You can purchase Fairytales for Lost Children here. You can connect with Diriye Osman via Tumblr.
Robbie Rogers gets multi-year contact extension with Los Angeles Galaxy
Robbie Rogers gets multi-year contact extension with Los Angeles Galaxy
He remains the first and only openly gay player in Major League Soccer league
gregh
www.gaystarnews.com/article/robbie-rogers-gets-multi-year-contact-extension-los-angeles-galaxy141114
Ark. Church Gets Threatening Note in Response to Marriage Equality Support
Ark. Church Gets Threatening Note in Response to Marriage Equality Support
After a Unitarian Universalist minister wrote a pro-LGBT letter to the editor of an area newspaper, her church got an anonymous homophobic note.
Stevie St. John
Stop Picking On Zachary Quinto
Stop Picking On Zachary Quinto
You can count on one hand the number of times a young, openly gay Hollywood actor has talked about HIV/AIDS in the last decade. In fact, you’d probably only need a couple of fingers. Zachary Quinto just boldly went where few gay thirty-somethings have gone before, talking passionately about how HIV is affecting his community, and he’s getting dumped on for straying from the HIV/AIDS party line. I want to thank him for being one of the few that gives a shit, and for speaking out about gay men and HIV.
For the record, I’m a fan. Heck, I’m practically a Quinto stalker. Being a dedicated Trekker since the series started reruns in 1969, I’ve been under his sway since his first uttered “live long, and prosper.” I admired his acting chops on stage in The Glass Menagerie, and froze up when he walked right past me at Anderson Cooper’s 46th birthday party. So yeah, stop picking on my Zachary!
But seriously, here’s what Mr. Quinto said to OUT Magazine that’s raised hackles:
“I think there’s a tremendous sense of complacency in the LGBT community,” Quinto says, citing the rising number of HIV infections in adolescents. “AIDS has lost the edge of horror it possessed when it swept through the world in the ’80s. Today’s generation sees it more as something to live with and something to be much less fearful of. And that comes with a sense of, dare I say, laziness.”
Quinto is similarly candid on prophylactic drugs, like PrEP, which many gay people have embraced as a long-awaited panacea. “We need to be really vigilant and open about the fact that these drugs are not to be taken to increase our ability to have recreational sex,” he says. “There’s an incredible underlying irresponsibility to that way of thinking…and we don’t yet know enough about this vein of medication to see where it’ll take us down the line.”
Sure, there’s some unhelpful finger-wagging here that won’t win Quinto any brownie points with many young gay men, but can anyone deny that complacency is now a major driver of new HIV infections in this group? Most of us have learned the hard way that using the plague years to browbeat younger generations doesn’t work, but hearing a 37-year-old reference those times should count for something. Quinto has learned his history, with evident respect, which puts him light-years ahead of most gay men his age.
His PrEP comments created the most stink. One wishes he hadn’t ditched Spock’s logic and love of science when discussing one of the most promising advances in the fight against HIV in years. But again, I’m amazed he mentioned it at all. According to a recent Kaiser Family Foundation survey, only 26 percent of gay or bisexual men have even heard that there’s a drug that prevents HIV infections.
Let’s use this as a teachable moment. I’d love to introduce Quinto to many of the early adopters of PrEP. Most of them are wise beyond their years, and have spent more time than most thinking about their own health and the health of their community. They are the epitome of gay male responsibility.
What do you say, Zack? Let’s talk.
